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writes:I love her a lot.But she's not trying to understand me. I was the one who proposed to her first. But she told me that, she can't see me like that. She was in love with a another guy. But it broke up due to some reasons.I can't forget her. Her presence kills me. I can't do any work. I felt that I've lost all my energy.I need to do some thing....otherwise I may end up this life.
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reader, krit +, writes (29 March 2011):
 Hey brother I feel for you. I known how bad it feels when you fell for Someone but they have there minds occupied with someone else.The only cure to this is get busy with your work and friends. Just let the girl free. I know it's easier said than done but you have to do it if not 4 you then for her as she now doesn't have any feelings. Give her some time n space to reconsider and if she doesn't respond then leave her. I dunno how people fall in love with someone who had NO FEELINGS for them.Love is an emotional bond but it will break very easily if either party is More or less interested . Probably you are just in love with the thought of being in love. It will fade with time. Trust me It would be much Much easier to find a new girl than to convince her as attraction isn't a choice, if she is now not attracted to you then probably it would be never .
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (29 March 2011):
 If she is not into you and she has told you maybe it will be best to not see her again. She knows how you feel about her and even thought she is not with her ex she is still not with you. Don't sit around and see her with next boyfriend just go out have fun, meet other girls and date. The worst thing you can do is sit around and wait.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011): Stay away from her, problem solved.
If you keep seeing the woman you love all the time then the feelings will never go away. It doesn't matter what you do you can't make someone see you that way and it really is a waste of time staying around and trying.
Just move on and stay away from this girl, it's just not meant to happen with her.
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