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writes:I broke-up with my boyfriend 6 months back...Its not break-up he started ignoring me and it was online....so I decided to move on....I'm 15 and he is 26.... After few months I met one guy online... He is 24....he is nice guy...He helped me to forget him..but I'm not completely over him...He started chatting about sex with me online...(sex chat) I did it because I thought I will forget my boyfriend....That guy asked me to show my boobs online... I was really feeling that its not right and sad...I told him that I can't do....And he want to meet me and do it in real... should I meet him? He love some other girl....I told him that its not right and I m getting sad...he said that it's ok we will not talk about sex if its hurting my feelings....And he don't want to meet me now.....What should I do? I need advice....I didn't showed him my any private part online... We just chatted for 15 days..... And now I'm depressed because I feel its wrong....He will now not come online to chat daily because he said he want to control...He is really my good friend... Do you think what we did was wrong? What should I do? Should I stop talking to him? Or Should I say yes to him to do it on cam? Do you think I did right by telling him that I m feeling bad by doing it.... Im just confused.... Please help me...What do you think? Is it right to talk about sex and do sex with your friend?
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reader, krit +, writes (19 April 2011):
 Teenage is most confusing part of life in which you are confused just about everthing ,ie the clothes to wear, which hairstyle to get ,which movie to watch , which subject to take, which grl/guy to date, etc. So you hav a right to confused but not stupid. Break all contacts with your online friend and ignore him if calls or msg you. Consult your elder sister or any cousins, before taking any step. My younger sister is also 16 , so I known what you might be going through.!!! Take care and be confused not STUPID.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ Krit... Thanks for replying... He is not my boyfriend..He is my online friend....I told him that we will be just friends and I can't talk about sex or do with him in real...after that he said its ok but now he is not answering my call....1 day passed... I'm really confused..and I guess yes its because of hormones that i agreed to him and we chatted about sex....should I forget about him and our friendship?
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reader, krit +, writes (17 April 2011):
you are very young to do such intimate things with your bf. you are in puberty stage so your hormones are getting all over you that's why you are feeling like this and its completely normal. But sharing intimate things with guys online is big NO-NO.
They are manipulating you with their talks and using you for their own fun. DON'T believe on them. stop contacting them from right now.
you don't have to feel sad about it as those guys were not WORTH keeping. move on and spend your time with your FRIENDS instead of searching for guys online. INTERNET dating is completely useless and waste of time,it would get you nowhere.
when the right time would come you would definitely meet some genuine caring and sweet guys in real.HAVE some patience you still have lots of time.
i had my first gf when i was 19.
reject those guys and ENJOY life.
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