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writes:Hi, I need your advice. I am a 31 yr old guy. I am a virgin and about about to get engaged to a girl. She is 24. Before getting engaged to her, I want to know if she is a virgin or not. She told me she does not have any boyfriends but the way she talks to her friends make me think otherwise. How can I ask her if she is a virgin and also how can I know if she is lying or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2011): Yeh! i agree with Krit be a man,live in the future or past.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2011): If you are in doubt then leave her along because if she was a virgin she would be glad to talk to you about that, she is not a virgin because she would want to make sure that you are a virgin also, she would have just as many questions as you, if she is a virgin you wouldn't have to wonder if she's telling the truth. I say find yourself a true virgin.
Good Luck
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (20 April 2011):
In the first place I'd like to make it clear: you are in your own right to want a virgin girlfriend. No one can tell you otherwise.
As for this girl you are dating, there is no way you can be 100% sure she is telling the truth. Even if you take her to a doctor.
In the other hand, relationships are build on trust. If you can't trust her, it doesn't matter whether she's virgin or not. There's no point in staying with her.
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reader, krit +, writes (20 April 2011):
 This question very common on dear-cupid from male posters from India. just because you didn t had any taste of sex or complete relation before ,you want to put her under scanner too.LEARN it man NO women reveals her sexual past. Because if she reveals the truth to you than you or most other people would illogically label her as SLUT which would be the most hurtful thing that she ever had heard. so she would only tell the truth if you make her sure it really doesn't bothers you much but you are asking it out just due to curiosity....BUT why does it matters to you that much??????SEX is bonding factor between a couple but it is also very instinct need of human race. Just because you waited soo LONG doesn't means that every person should wait for the most basic requirement. she has chosen you instead of any other guy.ACT like a true MAN and be her FUTURE instead of searching some stupid kid or guy in her life or digging deep into her PAST.
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