Is this older man playing me?
Q. I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...
A. 6 November 2009: Sounds to me that you are just his bit on the side. If he doesnt let you meet his family soon then i would end it. ... (read in full...)
My b/f makes me feel complexed about my body, I used to be happy about it!
Q. When I'm watching movies with my boyfriend he is always pointing out which girls have better breasts or stomachs than me. If there is a topless scene he will immediately turn to me and tell me things like, "her's are much bigger than yours, they're ...
A. 6 November 2009: If i was you i would start watching the guy on guy porn again and dont stop unless he stops watching porn himself. Dont take any notice if he crys about it he is probly scared you will think they look better than him. Which he deserves because he ... (read in full...)
I'm in love or infactuated with my female gym teacher, what do I do to get over her?
Q. ok so im fifteen years old im a lesbian and is greatly attracted to my ex gym teacher,i had her in 2008-2009 and whenthe school year was over i worked in the school. during my work hours i desided to tell her how i felt she told me that she was a ...
A. 6 November 2009: Its normal for a student to have feelings for there teacher but she doesnt feel the same. She is probly just being nice to you so she doesnt hurt your feelings and is trying not to treat you differently after your confession to her about your ... (read in full...)
Should I get a part time lover to avoid demanding sex and attention from boyfriend all the time?
Q. I have been dating a guy for about six months now. He is everything i have ever dreamt of, loving, caring romantic, sensitive, except: 1. He rarely has time for me. We live 5 minutes drive apart, we are always free after 4pm but only meet about on...
A. 6 November 2009: It sounds like YOUR his part time lover. I deffinately think hes got another woman taking up the rest of his attention. If i was you i would end it.... (read in full...)
How can I stop my addiction and stop these fantasies running through my mind?
Q. Hi everybody. I'm 16 year old and I have a pretty big problem. I never thought that I'd go through this but it has gone to this extent that I have to get external help. I am and have been addicted to pornography for about 5 months now. Ever since I ...
A. 6 November 2009: Calm down. I think your at the age where you will feel like this and loads of other girls do aswell. Try not to view this so much as an ''addiction'' or a ''condition'' because i dont think its that serious. Its not like you are watching porn all ... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill but had sex briefly without a condom, is it still possible to get pregnant?
Q. Recently I had sex without a condom...well, started sex.It was only for 2 min (prob less) and we stopped but it still freaked me out.Im on the pill but im wondering if its still possible to get pregnant.I've never done that before and I guess we ...
A. 6 November 2009: If you are on the pill and are taking it properly and havnt missed any then you shouldnt get preganunt. Try not to worry. ... (read in full...)
I'm running out of reasons not to start a sexual relationship with my cousin!
Q. My cousin wants to restart our sexual relationship, should I give in? My cousin and i have always been very close. He is my best friend and has been all my life. But we are more than that. It started when we were teens and we realized that we liked ...
A. 6 November 2009: I think you should leave this whole thing in the past. Consider it as a mistake that wont happen again. I will admit that i dont agree with cousins or any relations having sex with each other. The last time you had sex it ended in you not talking to ... (read in full...)
Please help me get over this, we're so alike and they're just not suited its killing me.
Q. Hey some help here would be appreciated please. Could you just please explain to me why this lad that i was good friends with is behaving this way. We were good friends and stuff and i've always liked him think he liked me too because of how he ...
A. 4 July 2009: He and his girlfriend maybe completely diffrent but sometimes that works. Me and my boyfriend are two completely diffrent people, we have different views on a lot of things and we have been together for 4 years so far. I think if this guy wanted you ... (read in full...)
Was this really nothing, or is she the most ridiculous person ever? Why is she like this?
Q. I don't know if this is a bigger deal that it should be? My girlfriend is kind of shy, but also kind of picky. People tease her about both these things sometimes, even I do. I think she might have a complex, but I honestly don't understand why s...
A. 4 July 2009: I think YOU have the problem, if she is picky you have a problem with if she trys not to be picky you are annoyed about that aswell. I think your attitude probly makes her feel bad about herself. If you have got so so many problems with the way she ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I am ready...
Q. I just started dating this guy i have liked for 3 years and he lives 30 min. away fro me and so we can't see eachothe as often as we like and we are going to hange out on mon. and i am 13 and all my friends are having sex but not me and he asked if ...
A. 4 July 2009: If your not sure if your ready, then it means you really arnt ready because you will know when you are. I bet some of your friends are making it up so they dont feel left out. Tell him your not ready and if he threatens to end the relationship then ... (read in full...)
I feel so ashamed of what I did...what is wrong with me?
Q. While I was broken up with my current boyfriend, I panicked and called one of my ex boyfriends to see if he can take me back. At that time, I was not sure whether I really love my current boyfriend and thought that my attraction to him was immat...
A. 4 July 2009: Perhaps you panicked because your afraid of being alone.... (read in full...)
Peer pressure and being the odd one out
Q. I hate peer pressure - it sucks. I've seen friends of mine who have been sucked into that vicious circle and have never been able to get out of it, even if it meant loosing me, their closet friend and ally during really tough times for her. She ...
A. 3 June 2009: I think people give in to peer pressure because they want to be liked and feel accepted and one of the group. Be yourself and if people dont like it then its there loss. I agree with rcn who replied to your question above...once you give in you ... (read in full...)
How can I make sense of this so that I can move on with my current boyfriend?
Q. I met my ex boyfriend a few years ago and fell deeply in love with him, I never knew love like this before, he was everything to me. He told me he loved me too, we started to look for a house together, talked about kids and everything was great ...
A. 3 February 2009: If you went back to him he would probly make you even more unhappy and neglected. Maybe you still think about him because you loved him and it ending quite badly and maybe even unexspected. Tell him you dont want him back and stop contact with him. ... (read in full...)
Does it matter that I'm single? Or is he only interested in sex?
Q. Hello everyone... I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year. We had a fairly deep connection, but things did not work out well between us, and I decided to finally break it off a few days ago. During the last week before we broke up,...
A. 3 February 2009: He might think that you would cheat on him aswell and it might put him off having a relatonship with you. But if he likes you then he might not look at it that way. Also, perhaps he thought that because you were in a relationship he could have no ... (read in full...)
Should I tell his new girl that I had sex with him?
Q. Me and my ex bf broke up about a year ago, we were on and off for 5 years. He chased me for years and i knocked him back, until finaly i thought i'd just give him a go, and lived together for 7 months, i thought i wasnt happy so i walked out. He ...
A. 3 February 2009: Perhaps he has always been a cheat, perhaps he cant resist you. Whichever it is he is stupid, he should have stayed away from you for good after he finished with you. Maybe his new girlfriend is boreing, i think your cruel for what you have done. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slapped me
Q. Ok, so I was walking in the mall with my boyfriend and suddenly a girl (stranger) came to me and whispered in my ears, "Check your pants zip". Obviously, I was so embarrassed and so when my boyfriend asked me what she said, I just lied to him that ...
A. 3 February 2009: To the anonymous male reader who thinks slapping a woman in public is not a serious issue. YOU shouldnt have chosen to stay anonymous, you obviously know your wrong. Men like you should be shot. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slapped me
Q. Ok, so I was walking in the mall with my boyfriend and suddenly a girl (stranger) came to me and whispered in my ears, "Check your pants zip". Obviously, I was so embarrassed and so when my boyfriend asked me what she said, I just lied to him that ...
A. 18 January 2009: its him thats in the wrong. break up with him and just ignore him. dont speak to him, if anyone asks why you ignore him and broke up then tell them the truth. You should have hit him back.... (read in full...)
How can I give this girl a Christmas card without seeming creepy?
Q. There's this extremely shy, beautiful and smart girl (we'll call her Pamela) that I've adored for some time now. Since it's almost Christmas time, I have thought of giving her a simple card, but I get a bad feeling that she may not like me back, and ...
A. 9 January 2009: Well done.... (read in full...)
What can I do to stop blushing every time I'm with him???
Q. I'm 13 and I really really like this guy, we get on realy well, except every time I go near him or he smiles at me I go bright red! As in tomato red! It is realy embarrassing, but I can't stop it. help!...
A. 9 January 2009: I have always had this problem and as your young i would not worry about it. You may think you look bad but that might not be what he thinks. He might think its sexy. You might not have this problem when you feel more comfortable around him.... (read in full...)
Ahhh! I accidently gave my teacher a sex symbol!
Q. For the holidays, I gave this male teacher a little stonehenge thing. He seemed happy, but after break seems to be acting odd around me. Friendly but not as friendly. I looked online; as it turns out, stonehenge is an ancient sex symbol of the ...
A. 9 January 2009: I LIVE near stonehenge and i have never heard anything to do with vaginas. I doubt your teacher has either. Every year people gather to celebrate the sun shineing between two of the stones. Research shows Stonehenge was used for sacrifices. Dont ... (read in full...)
Am I in love with my best friend?
Q. This a bit long and I really hope I don't come off as a b**ch or clueless or a sl*t or anything like that, but here's the story: I moved to this area when I was ten (I'm now twenty-one) and I met my best friend (whom is a guy) at the community pool ...
A. 10 December 2008: It seems like he was sad when you got with other guys so perhaps he does like you. Just kiss him, im sure he will kiss you back and if he doesnt im sure he will understand. ... (read in full...)
He lead me on, and now 1 year later, is doing it to my innocent friend.....
Q. Ok well, 2 years ago, i met this boy (lets call him bill) at a rockclimbng camping trip and as soon as i saw him, i fell in love with him! i would always look at him and think of him allday, for the whole 4 days we were on the trip. i thought he ...
A. 10 December 2008: What an asshole, he obviously just likes knowing that girls like him and is leading you on to make himself feel better. He seems to enjoy hurting people. You and your friend just need to blank him out, he wont like it but he deserves it.... (read in full...)
Why do people moan during sex?
Q. Hi...just a question about sex. Do people involuntary moan during sex? Is the thought of being turned on so much that it's completely impossible to resist doing so? And when do people usually moan during it?...
A. 10 December 2008: You moan if it feels good. You dont do it on purpose, it just comes out.... (read in full...)
How can I give this girl a Christmas card without seeming creepy?
Q. There's this extremely shy, beautiful and smart girl (we'll call her Pamela) that I've adored for some time now. Since it's almost Christmas time, I have thought of giving her a simple card, but I get a bad feeling that she may not like me back, and ...
A. 10 December 2008: Write out cards to a few other people and make sure she sees you giving them out. She wont think its weird if shes not the only one that gets one and it will let her know that that you thought of her. When i get christmas cards i always think how ... (read in full...)
I do wanna so believe him but not too sure if I can??
Q. I've been with my partner for 4 years now and I love him dearly he says he does to but a couple of months ago he began 2 stay up late real late 3 in the morning.. I then found out an read some emails off my next door neiqours daughter. I ask him ...
A. 19 November 2008: I cant help thinking that his constant lies are just him covering something up. I cant see why the girl would say ''everything i did and said came from the bottom of my heart'' if nothing happened. It sounds like hes guilty to me but only you know ... (read in full...)
Does anybody know how to make a home made sex toy?
Q. Does anyone know if it is possible to make a home-made sex toy? Because of my age I'm unable to buy my own and I definitely don't want to ask my mom or dad to get me one. Does anybody know how to make a male home-made sex toy?...
A. 15 November 2008: How about having a look on the internet ? ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to cum on me?
Q. Is it wierd for a girl my age (18) to be thinking about her bf "finishing on her"?.... lately I've been thinking about this A LOT after I gave him head, the first time he wanted to cum in privacy and I didn't think of it much but now I really want ...
A. 15 November 2008: Just ask him. Tell him when he cums you want him to cum on you. Im sure he wouldnt mind. Im sure most men would love it if you asked them to cum on them. ... (read in full...)
I still feel uncomfortable accepting myself as gay!
Q. Hey there guys and guyesses! Well I am openly and surely gay, I have a boyfriend who i think the world of, but the thing is i still feel really uncomfortable with accepting myself as being gay. I mean when you get some friends who you haven't seen ...
A. 15 November 2008: I dont think its possible, alot of people with they could change things about themselfs but they just cant. Perhaps you will grow into your skin eventually and feel more comfortable. I can understand why you feel embarrest, but you dont have to be. ... (read in full...)
I can no longer stand my girlfriend's dad!
Q. I can no longer stand my girlfriend's dad! He is a great guy but he stresses me out so much and the last 2 days i have had this bad stomach ache because i have been so stressed!..He no longer wants me to put my arm around her and hold her unless she ...
A. 15 November 2008: Get some time together out of his house, if your under his roof he will keep butting in. Spend some more time at yours or go out together a bit more. Go for walks and diffrent things. Its up to you and her to decide if you are ready not him. message ... (read in full...)
How do I see if she likes me without losing a friend and upsetting her friend!?
Q. Im a guy and have had a couple of girlfriends and quite a few girls crushing on me. But there is this girl, a few years back we used to hate each others guts. But for about a year now we have been really good friends. I feel like i can trust her ...
A. 15 November 2008: Perhaps you need to tell her you like her first. Tell her if she liked you then you would ask her out, if she doesnt give you a proper answer after that then i would move on. If you like her friend then you could ask her out. If you dont like her ... (read in full...)
I hung out with her a few times, but now I'm seeing her friend. Should I bring up my concerns?
Q. Alright, let me start with a little back story here. I met a girl (A) through a few friends of mine, we hung out a few times, I never really felt "it" with her, so we just became friends. A few weeks back, a friend of hers (B) from home came t...
A. 14 November 2008: Obviously A may be upset but if you dont like her then you dont like her and theres nothing you can do about it. You will have to explain you like B and B likes you. Its sad that she may get hurt but you like B and thats the end of it. ... (read in full...)
I have fallen for this total stranger so much that I think about him daily.
Q. I was working the other day and this guy and his mom came through my lane. I do the usual "did you find everything ok?" thing, but the I noticed how cute the guy was, so I was a bit extra chatty. They wanted to purchase some hunting gear for the ...
A. 14 November 2008: If its meant to be then you will come across him again. ... (read in full...)
So easily aroused, is it because of my inexperience?
Q. Hi, I'll first place a background about myself, I'm 21 years old, man, I have never engaged a realtionship because I'm way too shy. When people come to talk to me I am receptive enough not to be rude, but I'm very quiet in this too. My problem, be...
A. 14 November 2008: This sounds normal to me. Try not to worry about it, as long as the woman doesnt notice then it doesnt matter. If i was in a situation and a guy got an erection just because i touched him then i would be really flattered. Try not to worry, worrying ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him how I really feel? Or should I keep it to myself?
Q. I need some help on how i can get over my ex boyfriend. Arhhh i love him so much, but i have to get over him, i dont think there is any way that me and him could get back together and make it work, because no matter what we try it just will not work...
A. 14 November 2008: I remember feeling this way when i was at school and it really hurts. Theres two ways of looking at it, if you REALLY dont think it will work and you dont want to get hurt tell him that. Make some space between you as you can never get over someone ... (read in full...)
I have a liking for female feet and female shoes.
Q. Hi, I am sort of new to this whole thing so bear with me. Okay so I have this problem and I think I need help with it. I have a liking for female feet and female shoes. It started when I was around 9 and then it went from bad to worse. I began t...
A. 14 November 2008: Perhaps you will find that when you are with a girl and you are together sexually you may get turned on by breasts and ass.... (read in full...)
I feel sorry about my ex's troubled relationship, how can I help him?
Q. The guy i've been out with for nearly 10 months called it off with me last month, he has since gone back to one of his ex's(why do they all go back to their ex's) Anyway we've always keept in contact throught the phone, basically the girl he has gone...
A. 9 November 2008: Are you mad ? Why are you there for him after he left you for he ex who sounds like a bitch. Think about...he left you...for a nasty bitch. Does this not make you angry ?.Just leave him to it, hes treating you like an idiot and your letting him. ... (read in full...)
I have a liking for female feet and female shoes.
Q. Hi, I am sort of new to this whole thing so bear with me. Okay so I have this problem and I think I need help with it. I have a liking for female feet and female shoes. It started when I was around 9 and then it went from bad to worse. I began t...
A. 9 November 2008: So many people are turned on by feet. I dont think its weird because i have heard and read about SO many people who feel this way. Dont worry about, its not hurting anyone. You dont have to tell anyone, one day when you are in a proper relationship ... (read in full...)
Do you think my ex thinks of me as "Plan B"?
Q. When talking on the phone today my ex was going on about his brother in law saying he thinks that my ex should stay single and enjoy himself, my ex is really in love with one of his old relationships and says that he knows what he wants and wishes ...
A. 9 November 2008: I completely agree with the reader called ''the one doesnt know''. This guy does not want you, he knows you will go back to him...but he has not asked you has he. Because he does not want you. You need to cut him off so he can stop treating you ... (read in full...)
"Things would be different if you weren't my mate's girlfriend..."
Q. Hey real quick, I was at my friend's house last night and my other friends boyfriend turned up a bit later with his mate.. we were messing about and they were taking the piss coz I'm blonde and his mate said to me "I like you, what's your name?" ...
A. 9 November 2008: I dont see why he would not ask you out as you are only a friend of a friend. Next time ask him why it even matters. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated and had a one night stand!
Q. I need some helps. Me and my boyfriend have recently been back in a relationship together. First time we were together for about a year and a half (first 3 months he cheated on me). We broke up for 5 months and in that time he had sex with a girl ...
A. 9 November 2008: This guy just is not worth it. Do yourself a favour and finish it. You are not showing yourself any respect by letting this guy treat you like shit. Say goodbye and find someone better. ... (read in full...)
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