It's all so childish!!!
Q. Hey all im really annoyed and i need some calming down/advice. Me and my ex boyfriend were with each other for just over a year and split over a year ago. I got with my new partner 5 months ago after speaking with him for 2 months before that...
A. 13 June 2010: Tell you ex to put them straight. If i was you i would walk straight up to the bitchy girls and give them a peice of your mind. If they keep it up go to the landlord and tell him/her that in this recession they really should have staff that dont ... (read in full...)
How do I attract his attention?
Q. Hey! I have this boy on facebook and he lives round the corner from me i see him at least every other day.I often get told that i am funny,bubbly,outgoing,pretty and that i have a beautiful figure (i dont really belive it though) Anyway i want ...
A. 13 June 2010: Stay as you are because you dont have to change for anyone, the right boy for you will want you as you are. Try talking to him and see if he seems interested, get to know him as a friend and see if anything comes of it. try to get to know him and ... (read in full...)
Mum racist towards my boyfriend! What can I do?
Q. Some of you may know some of my posts, i am a white girl, and my boyfriend is british-pakistani. and my mum hates it. I recently told her about the relationship and that was bad enough. She said how "disappointed" she was in me, and sad that i w...
A. 13 June 2010: At 16 you can make your own choices. You should tell her, she is suppose to be your mother not your boss. It sounds like she just wants to control you.... (read in full...)
My feelings have changed, but I'm afraid of scaring a friend away
Q. Hi, Have been talking with this guy over the internet for over 2 years. We have become very good friends in that time. We e-mail each other daily just with updates on what is happening, or going on in our day. We talk every night via messenger (w...
A. 13 June 2010: If i was you i would arrange to meet him face to face. Your only friends at the moment so suggest meeting up and going for a drink or something. Nothing big just something simple. See how you like him face to face because if you tell him you have ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he's 18 and we want to "explore"
Q. Heei, im sophie and im 15 i have a bf thats 18 weve been going out for a year now, we are very much in love. But we have a problem he really wants to explore with me, but we are both very worried about the age difference, could someone please give ...
A. 13 June 2010: Wait untill your 16 and then think about it more. If you feel ready at 16 then i cant see any reason not to if your sure you want to. If he loves you then he will wait.... (read in full...)
Mum racist towards my boyfriend! What can I do?
Q. Some of you may know some of my posts, i am a white girl, and my boyfriend is british-pakistani. and my mum hates it. I recently told her about the relationship and that was bad enough. She said how "disappointed" she was in me, and sad that i w...
A. 12 June 2010: Obviously your mums being completely unfair and nasty about the whole situation but im sure you love her all the same. But you cannot give in to her because its your life. You are still under 16 so this relationship may not even last. But if it does ... (read in full...)
I am stuggling to cope with my wife's close friendship with another man, what is going on between them?
Q. Help, For the last 3 years, my wife has had a male friend, and I just don't trust his intentions are just friends with my spouse. I have discussed this with my wife repeated times, to no resolution. She promises me that there relationship is just ...
A. 12 June 2010: I could understand her friendship with this man if she was good friends with him before she met you. But as you were already together for a long time i dont see her need to have a male friend in which she has so much communication. It may just be my ... (read in full...)
What can be done to make it seem like I am not so needy?
Q. Ok! So here is the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months. He was the one pursuing in the beginning. Months went by and we had fun. There were a couple of incidences where I got drunk and caused a fuss and he forgave me. ...
A. 12 June 2010: Well good luck and i hope everything works out for you.... (read in full...)
She's pressuring me to move in together
Q. Hello All, I have been dating this girl for nearly 6 months. Since the very first week or so, we have spent our weekends together. Few months back, we discussed the idea of living together, to which I made clear that I was not ready, however, ...
A. 8 June 2010: Its obvious that you care for her and if she cared for you she would consider your feelings and respect them. You have told her that not being ready doesnt mean you dont love her but it sounds to me that she is trying to manipulate you. I know how ... (read in full...)
Why has he changed so much?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were going out for over 4.5 years. Over easter weekend we were going out clubbing together since first time before christmas. We have pretty busy lives he works 5 days a week and works in a bar at the weekends so every friday ...
A. 7 June 2010: You do need to cut all contact with him but i do understand that it is hard. People say you should just forget him but its not easy. I know edzactly how you feel. Five years of being there for someone and then they change into someone completely ... (read in full...)
What can be done to make it seem like I am not so needy?
Q. Ok! So here is the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months. He was the one pursuing in the beginning. Months went by and we had fun. There were a couple of incidences where I got drunk and caused a fuss and he forgave me. ...
A. 7 June 2010: Well youve been together for seven months so he knows your not going anywhere and therefore you dont need to be in constant communication. Yeah he might say he is going to call but things dont always go to plan. Just because he does not call i dont ... (read in full...)
What's the point to keep me around if he doesn't want me?
Q. My ex and I dated for about 2 years and a half years. We were so in love and planned on getting married. We have been broken up for about 5 months now. We broke up for problems on both of our parts. Not long after we broke up he started dating ...
A. 4 January 2010: He can only keep you on a leash if you let him. Just like he can only use you if you let him. He doesnt need to be in a relationship with you because you sleep with him whenever he likes and he doesnt have to commit to you. Leaving him free to be ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend semi cheated!
Q. well to start of my boyfriend over the summer was in basic training and then work training. we wrote to each other everyday..and i trusted him with all my heart till this, i was in his laptop and i was looking thru is mobile uploads to find he had a ...
A. 4 January 2010: Only you know if you want to stay with him or not but he has obviously been talking to her enless he just found the picture on the internet. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he's tired of me
Q. I don't know what to do. My boyfriend says he's tired of me. He says he doesn't know if he wants to break up or not. Our latest fight was about my insecurity... I have terrible insecurities about my body, and he knows, and he added some "hot" girls ...
A. 12 December 2009: He is being completely unreasonable. Your past cannot be changed and its your past that makes you the person you are. It doesnt even sound like you did anything bad. He is fed up with arguements but it seems like he causes alot of them.I know it may ... (read in full...)
I can't be happy without a man in my life!
Q. I can't stand being single anymore! I was involved with a guy for 9 months, not seriously but then he moved and our romantic relationship ended. It's been 3 months since he left and I'm still having trouble moving on. I know he wasn't that great, ...
A. 12 December 2009: Some people put a smile on and seem fun and happy when secretly deep down they are miserable. I think that happens with alot of people. Like lazyguy said below try not to over do it. You will just seem desperate and i dont think desperate is ... (read in full...)
He cheated with his ex, now we are FWB
Q. i was with this guy for 8 yrs and then a year and a half ago I caught him cheating with his ex wife. he left and i moved out,and since then we have became friends with benefits. what i would like to ask is, i want to end it but i do not know how , ...
A. 12 December 2009: I think if i was you i would say to him that he has treated you like crap and you dont want to see him anymore. Tell him not to visit and not to call. Tell him to leave you alone completely and you dont want to see him again. Tell him he is a waste ... (read in full...)
We broke up and he has a new girl, but he knows I am still in love with him
Q. me and my ex broke up almost a year ago, and since then have remained really good friends, he told me that if i changed my attitude and was the girl he fell in love with again i would be hard to resist, we talk all the time (i live with him, for ...
A. 12 December 2009: I agree with angzw comments below. I think he knows that you are available so he thinks he can have a new girlfriend and if it doesnt work out your always there waiting around for him. Stop waiting and get on with your life if he loved you he would ... (read in full...)
I'm nearly sweet sixteen and he is twenty ...
Q. So I just met this guy about a month ago through a couple of my good girl-friends. He is really nice and is so sweet to me, which some guys aren't because Im kinda overweight. I really like him and I don't know how to show that I do without being ...
A. 12 December 2009: I would not worry about the age gap it is not that bad. You said he is nice to you but some people are generally nice to everyone.Just be friends and get to know each other and see what happens. If he tells you he likes you then go for it.... (read in full...)
A guy I like wants to get to know me before he decides if he wants to go out with me
Q. this guy i like and he likes me says: he likes me and does as far as it goes.. he wants to get to know me and decide.. he doesn't wanna lie to me.. wtf? is he talking about?/ what does he really mean?? should i forget about him?? t...
A. 12 December 2009: I think he means that he wants to get to know you before he commits to being your boyfriend. I would be the same if i was single i would want to spend some time being friends before i decided i wanted to actually be with them in a relationship. ... (read in full...)
I know a relationship with him cant be good, but my feelings are still strong
Q. I know I really should have learned my lesson by now, but I've been involved in a really strange off and on relationship for almost two years now. I want this to end badly. I'm a really laid back girl. I don't like to argue, no trust issues, I'm ...
A. 12 December 2009: Hes obviously still got a weakness for his ex girlfriend and it sounds he might always choose her over you. You told him you were done with him and he started insulting you when he sound have been trying to get you back with romantic gestures i ... (read in full...)
My ex hacks into my computer and has sent nude pics of me to my dad
Q. Disaster. My ex will hack this and read this as usual but still want advice. He went mental because I got a new boyfriend so he hacked my email and sent a naked picture of me to my dad. What do I do? He said he deleted the pictures but he's ju...
A. 12 December 2009: Well i feel sorry for you that your boyfriend has turned into a complete asshole. Althogh i can imagine myself doing something similar if my partner left me for someone else :-/ . But anyway theres not alot you can do enless you can get to your ... (read in full...)
I had never found my wife physically attractive so I left her for a woman I am attracted to
Q. This is something I am really struggling with at the moment and am in desperate need of some advice. A couple of months ago, I announced to my wife of 2 years (been together seven years in total) that I didn't want to be with her anymore. The re...
A. 12 December 2009: From my point of view there is two ways to look at it, yes it is sad that you have left your wife but it also not fair that you have to spend you life not quite as happy as you could be. I feel compelled to say that maybe you made a mistake marrying ... (read in full...)
I am again pregnant with my nephew's child and don't know if I can keep this a secret this time!
Q. My shameful secret had eaten away at me for years. But I always knew the truth had to come out eventually. Everyone knows secrets have a horrible way of coming back to haunt you. Usually, when you least expect it. Certainly, the sordid secret in my ...
A. 5 December 2009: You made the mistake of sleeping with him, and then you were careless enough to get pregnant by him. And instead of learning from your mistake, fiffteen years later you get pregnant by him again. Well im not going to be sympathic so all i can say ... (read in full...)
Mole on face pretty or ugly?
Q. well, i have a mole on my top left forehead and i feel so insecure about it. but my mum tells me it makes me look 'pretty' and il never be allowed to remove it. Are moles ugly? please help!...
A. 5 December 2009: I would try not to worry about the mole, people may not even notice it as much as you. It is bound to bother you because you are so aware of it. Also it is possible to have it removed as my sister had a couple of moles removed one on her face and ... (read in full...)
How do you know when your hymen is gone?
Q. How do you know when your hymen is gone? I've managed to stick 2 fingers in there and a 6 inch dildo. Is it still gonna hurt my first time??...
A. 5 December 2009: Im not sure if you can find out, not enless you went to see a doctor but i wouldnt worry about it because its not that important. I think its possible to break your hymen doing general things, for example doing sport and alot of activity. Also when ... (read in full...)
Every time I have sex, it always hurts.
Q. well im a teen and been having sex for a while and it seem like every time i have sex it always hurts. like it's the first time .And i dont know what to do ...
A. 5 December 2009: I agree with christinas comment below, try a lubricant or make sure you are relaxed and ready. Spending a bit of time getting in the mood (foreplay) should help. If this doesnt help then maybe he is being a bit rough. Also, never feel embarrest to ... (read in full...)
Is this older man playing me?
Q. I have been dating my bf for almost 8 months now. He is super sweet and tells me he loves me yet I haven't met his family or vise versa. I am 21 he is 34, he keeps saying that our families wouldn't accpet our relationship. In the begining I...
A. 6 November 2009: Sounds to me that you are just his bit on the side. If he doesnt let you meet his family soon then i would end it. ... (read in full...)
My b/f makes me feel complexed about my body, I used to be happy about it!
Q. When I'm watching movies with my boyfriend he is always pointing out which girls have better breasts or stomachs than me. If there is a topless scene he will immediately turn to me and tell me things like, "her's are much bigger than yours, they're ...
A. 6 November 2009: If i was you i would start watching the guy on guy porn again and dont stop unless he stops watching porn himself. Dont take any notice if he crys about it he is probly scared you will think they look better than him. Which he deserves because he ... (read in full...)
I'm in love or infactuated with my female gym teacher, what do I do to get over her?
Q. ok so im fifteen years old im a lesbian and is greatly attracted to my ex gym teacher,i had her in 2008-2009 and whenthe school year was over i worked in the school. during my work hours i desided to tell her how i felt she told me that she was a ...
A. 6 November 2009: Its normal for a student to have feelings for there teacher but she doesnt feel the same. She is probly just being nice to you so she doesnt hurt your feelings and is trying not to treat you differently after your confession to her about your ... (read in full...)
Should I get a part time lover to avoid demanding sex and attention from boyfriend all the time?
Q. I have been dating a guy for about six months now. He is everything i have ever dreamt of, loving, caring romantic, sensitive, except: 1. He rarely has time for me. We live 5 minutes drive apart, we are always free after 4pm but only meet about on...
A. 6 November 2009: It sounds like YOUR his part time lover. I deffinately think hes got another woman taking up the rest of his attention. If i was you i would end it.... (read in full...)
How can I stop my addiction and stop these fantasies running through my mind?
Q. Hi everybody. I'm 16 year old and I have a pretty big problem. I never thought that I'd go through this but it has gone to this extent that I have to get external help. I am and have been addicted to pornography for about 5 months now. Ever since I ...
A. 6 November 2009: Calm down. I think your at the age where you will feel like this and loads of other girls do aswell. Try not to view this so much as an ''addiction'' or a ''condition'' because i dont think its that serious. Its not like you are watching porn all ... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill but had sex briefly without a condom, is it still possible to get pregnant?
Q. Recently I had sex without a condom...well, started sex.It was only for 2 min (prob less) and we stopped but it still freaked me out.Im on the pill but im wondering if its still possible to get pregnant.I've never done that before and I guess we ...
A. 6 November 2009: If you are on the pill and are taking it properly and havnt missed any then you shouldnt get preganunt. Try not to worry. ... (read in full...)
I'm running out of reasons not to start a sexual relationship with my cousin!
Q. My cousin wants to restart our sexual relationship, should I give in? My cousin and i have always been very close. He is my best friend and has been all my life. But we are more than that. It started when we were teens and we realized that we liked ...
A. 6 November 2009: I think you should leave this whole thing in the past. Consider it as a mistake that wont happen again. I will admit that i dont agree with cousins or any relations having sex with each other. The last time you had sex it ended in you not talking to ... (read in full...)
Please help me get over this, we're so alike and they're just not suited its killing me.
Q. Hey some help here would be appreciated please. Could you just please explain to me why this lad that i was good friends with is behaving this way. We were good friends and stuff and i've always liked him think he liked me too because of how he ...
A. 4 July 2009: He and his girlfriend maybe completely diffrent but sometimes that works. Me and my boyfriend are two completely diffrent people, we have different views on a lot of things and we have been together for 4 years so far. I think if this guy wanted you ... (read in full...)
Was this really nothing, or is she the most ridiculous person ever? Why is she like this?
Q. I don't know if this is a bigger deal that it should be? My girlfriend is kind of shy, but also kind of picky. People tease her about both these things sometimes, even I do. I think she might have a complex, but I honestly don't understand why s...
A. 4 July 2009: I think YOU have the problem, if she is picky you have a problem with if she trys not to be picky you are annoyed about that aswell. I think your attitude probly makes her feel bad about herself. If you have got so so many problems with the way she ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I am ready...
Q. I just started dating this guy i have liked for 3 years and he lives 30 min. away fro me and so we can't see eachothe as often as we like and we are going to hange out on mon. and i am 13 and all my friends are having sex but not me and he asked if ...
A. 4 July 2009: If your not sure if your ready, then it means you really arnt ready because you will know when you are. I bet some of your friends are making it up so they dont feel left out. Tell him your not ready and if he threatens to end the relationship then ... (read in full...)
I feel so ashamed of what I did...what is wrong with me?
Q. While I was broken up with my current boyfriend, I panicked and called one of my ex boyfriends to see if he can take me back. At that time, I was not sure whether I really love my current boyfriend and thought that my attraction to him was immat...
A. 4 July 2009: Perhaps you panicked because your afraid of being alone.... (read in full...)
How can I make sense of this so that I can move on with my current boyfriend?
Q. I met my ex boyfriend a few years ago and fell deeply in love with him, I never knew love like this before, he was everything to me. He told me he loved me too, we started to look for a house together, talked about kids and everything was great ...
A. 3 February 2009: If you went back to him he would probly make you even more unhappy and neglected. Maybe you still think about him because you loved him and it ending quite badly and maybe even unexspected. Tell him you dont want him back and stop contact with him. ... (read in full...)
Does it matter that I'm single? Or is he only interested in sex?
Q. Hello everyone... I just recently broke up with my boyfriend of a year. We had a fairly deep connection, but things did not work out well between us, and I decided to finally break it off a few days ago. During the last week before we broke up,...
A. 3 February 2009: He might think that you would cheat on him aswell and it might put him off having a relatonship with you. But if he likes you then he might not look at it that way. Also, perhaps he thought that because you were in a relationship he could have no ... (read in full...)
Should I tell his new girl that I had sex with him?
Q. Me and my ex bf broke up about a year ago, we were on and off for 5 years. He chased me for years and i knocked him back, until finaly i thought i'd just give him a go, and lived together for 7 months, i thought i wasnt happy so i walked out. He ...
A. 3 February 2009: Perhaps he has always been a cheat, perhaps he cant resist you. Whichever it is he is stupid, he should have stayed away from you for good after he finished with you. Maybe his new girlfriend is boreing, i think your cruel for what you have done. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slapped me
Q. Ok, so I was walking in the mall with my boyfriend and suddenly a girl (stranger) came to me and whispered in my ears, "Check your pants zip". Obviously, I was so embarrassed and so when my boyfriend asked me what she said, I just lied to him that ...
A. 3 February 2009: To the anonymous male reader who thinks slapping a woman in public is not a serious issue. YOU shouldnt have chosen to stay anonymous, you obviously know your wrong. Men like you should be shot. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slapped me
Q. Ok, so I was walking in the mall with my boyfriend and suddenly a girl (stranger) came to me and whispered in my ears, "Check your pants zip". Obviously, I was so embarrassed and so when my boyfriend asked me what she said, I just lied to him that ...
A. 18 January 2009: its him thats in the wrong. break up with him and just ignore him. dont speak to him, if anyone asks why you ignore him and broke up then tell them the truth. You should have hit him back.... (read in full...)
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