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writes:my boyfriends friend who is going out with my friend has cheated on her (kissed another girl which still counts as cheating at this age) while she was on holiday, it was only a few kisses but still it shouldnt have happened. he said it was a minute of weekness and that he forgot all about aileen but i call it recklessness and stupid. i dont know if it would be better to tell her and let her get hurt or not tell her and she wouldnt feel all the regret from having her first time (sex) with him, it was only a couple days before she went on holz and then he cheated on her. should i tell her or keeo it a secret so she doesnt get hurt?
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (19 July 2010):
You should probly tell her but on the other hand if he denies it she might not beleive you. It could all backfire if you tell her but if she finds out you didnt tell her she will be annoyed. If i was you i would just tell her and if she doesnt beleive you then its her own fault.
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reader, johannabanana  +, writes (19 July 2010):
 If you keep his lie and she finds out some other way she is going to be extremely mad at you. Also her bf was dishonest and what if there are other things he lies about? You should give your friend the decency of letting her know. But first tell the boyfriend if he doesn't tell her you will. Tell him she will be a lot more angry if it comes from anyone other than him. If you tell him that it will force him to step up to the plate and be honest instead of making you keep a hurtful secret.
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