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writes:My boyfriend's character towards me changed since two weeks, i find out that he is cheating on me. what do i do? i came to his house and saw a girl inside his car, i called him to let him know that am around he just shouted at me that i should have called him before coming which i dnt do before cos he told me i can come anytime i want, he loved me then but am confused i dnt know if he still loves me now or not, to my greatest surprise he didnt come back home that night only to call me and calls me all sorts of names, i love this guy but am not happy with the way he treats me and it makes me cry till midnight, i swear not to cheat on him yet he dnt value me. what do i do? he dont even have feelings for me again, the family likes me they always ask me to be patient with him yet he still have contact with his ex girl friends, every time i came to his house i must see used condoms, am confusedworried girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni really apppreciate ur kind advice .thanks u guys have save a soul.i will follow ur advices an get in touch if there is any development
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010): why does his family ask you to be patient? You are not put on this earth to 'fix' this guys social issues - i.e. the way he treats girls badly. A good relationship does not hurt in this way. It nourishes and nurtures you. He is abusing your trust and your sense of self and if you carry on making excuses / allowances for him you will become undermined completely. The people in your life that care about YOU would not want to see that happen. Let this guy go - life is worth more than being miserable like this.
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reader, laetitia +, writes (14 June 2010):
 End it!!! Immediately!!! You don't deserve such treatment. The worst is that the more you put up with it, the more you get of it! He will not for a minute think that you being "patient" is something he should be thankful or appreciate about you. Seriously, wake up and break up with the loser right the way and don't ever look back.
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reader, mint  +, writes (13 June 2010):
 You are worth so much more than that. You need to leave him and let him realize what he has lost. There are plenty more fish in the sea so go catch them and flush this one down the toilet. x
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reader, Accountable +, writes (13 June 2010):
 Leave him. He doesnt respect you, and as far as I can see, this relationship is giving you more hurt than it is happiness. He isn't worth your time - there are LOTS of decent guys who do respect women, and value their partners, and you deserve to have one of them!
Good luck :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 June 2010):
Just end it. Why bother with him. All he will do is hurt you.
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (13 June 2010):
Finish it. He doesnt respect you and you said hes cheating on you so get out of this relationship. I know its hard but you arnt going to be any worse off without him.
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reader, Blackfoot +, writes (13 June 2010):
 if i were you i would break up with him, but wait think this through long and hard,do you think he is cheating slap him the break up or just talk to him...or at least try
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