My boyfriend slapped me
Q. Ok, so I was walking in the mall with my boyfriend and suddenly a girl (stranger) came to me and whispered in my ears, "Check your pants zip". Obviously, I was so embarrassed and so when my boyfriend asked me what she said, I just lied to him that ...
A. 3 February 2009: To the anonymous male reader who thinks slapping a woman in public is not a serious issue. YOU shouldnt have chosen to stay anonymous, you obviously know your wrong. Men like you should be shot. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slapped me
Q. Ok, so I was walking in the mall with my boyfriend and suddenly a girl (stranger) came to me and whispered in my ears, "Check your pants zip". Obviously, I was so embarrassed and so when my boyfriend asked me what she said, I just lied to him that ...
A. 18 January 2009: its him thats in the wrong. break up with him and just ignore him. dont speak to him, if anyone asks why you ignore him and broke up then tell them the truth. You should have hit him back.... (read in full...)
How can I give this girl a Christmas card without seeming creepy?
Q. There's this extremely shy, beautiful and smart girl (we'll call her Pamela) that I've adored for some time now. Since it's almost Christmas time, I have thought of giving her a simple card, but I get a bad feeling that she may not like me back, and ...
A. 9 January 2009: Well done.... (read in full...)
What can I do to stop blushing every time I'm with him???
Q. I'm 13 and I really really like this guy, we get on realy well, except every time I go near him or he smiles at me I go bright red! As in tomato red! It is realy embarrassing, but I can't stop it. help!...
A. 9 January 2009: I have always had this problem and as your young i would not worry about it. You may think you look bad but that might not be what he thinks. He might think its sexy. You might not have this problem when you feel more comfortable around him.... (read in full...)
Ahhh! I accidently gave my teacher a sex symbol!
Q. For the holidays, I gave this male teacher a little stonehenge thing. He seemed happy, but after break seems to be acting odd around me. Friendly but not as friendly. I looked online; as it turns out, stonehenge is an ancient sex symbol of the ...
A. 9 January 2009: I LIVE near stonehenge and i have never heard anything to do with vaginas. I doubt your teacher has either. Every year people gather to celebrate the sun shineing between two of the stones. Research shows Stonehenge was used for sacrifices. Dont ... (read in full...)
Am I in love with my best friend?
Q. This a bit long and I really hope I don't come off as a b**ch or clueless or a sl*t or anything like that, but here's the story: I moved to this area when I was ten (I'm now twenty-one) and I met my best friend (whom is a guy) at the community pool ...
A. 10 December 2008: It seems like he was sad when you got with other guys so perhaps he does like you. Just kiss him, im sure he will kiss you back and if he doesnt im sure he will understand. ... (read in full...)
He lead me on, and now 1 year later, is doing it to my innocent friend.....
Q. Ok well, 2 years ago, i met this boy (lets call him bill) at a rockclimbng camping trip and as soon as i saw him, i fell in love with him! i would always look at him and think of him allday, for the whole 4 days we were on the trip. i thought he ...
A. 10 December 2008: What an asshole, he obviously just likes knowing that girls like him and is leading you on to make himself feel better. He seems to enjoy hurting people. You and your friend just need to blank him out, he wont like it but he deserves it.... (read in full...)
Why do people moan during sex?
Q. Hi...just a question about sex. Do people involuntary moan during sex? Is the thought of being turned on so much that it's completely impossible to resist doing so? And when do people usually moan during it?...
A. 10 December 2008: You moan if it feels good. You dont do it on purpose, it just comes out.... (read in full...)
How can I give this girl a Christmas card without seeming creepy?
Q. There's this extremely shy, beautiful and smart girl (we'll call her Pamela) that I've adored for some time now. Since it's almost Christmas time, I have thought of giving her a simple card, but I get a bad feeling that she may not like me back, and ...
A. 10 December 2008: Write out cards to a few other people and make sure she sees you giving them out. She wont think its weird if shes not the only one that gets one and it will let her know that that you thought of her. When i get christmas cards i always think how ... (read in full...)
I do wanna so believe him but not too sure if I can??
Q. I've been with my partner for 4 years now and I love him dearly he says he does to but a couple of months ago he began 2 stay up late real late 3 in the morning.. I then found out an read some emails off my next door neiqours daughter. I ask him ...
A. 19 November 2008: I cant help thinking that his constant lies are just him covering something up. I cant see why the girl would say ''everything i did and said came from the bottom of my heart'' if nothing happened. It sounds like hes guilty to me but only you know ... (read in full...)
Does anybody know how to make a home made sex toy?
Q. Does anyone know if it is possible to make a home-made sex toy? Because of my age I'm unable to buy my own and I definitely don't want to ask my mom or dad to get me one. Does anybody know how to make a male home-made sex toy?...
A. 15 November 2008: How about having a look on the internet ? ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to cum on me?
Q. Is it wierd for a girl my age (18) to be thinking about her bf "finishing on her"?.... lately I've been thinking about this A LOT after I gave him head, the first time he wanted to cum in privacy and I didn't think of it much but now I really want ...
A. 15 November 2008: Just ask him. Tell him when he cums you want him to cum on you. Im sure he wouldnt mind. Im sure most men would love it if you asked them to cum on them. ... (read in full...)
I still feel uncomfortable accepting myself as gay!
Q. Hey there guys and guyesses! Well I am openly and surely gay, I have a boyfriend who i think the world of, but the thing is i still feel really uncomfortable with accepting myself as being gay. I mean when you get some friends who you haven't seen ...
A. 15 November 2008: I dont think its possible, alot of people with they could change things about themselfs but they just cant. Perhaps you will grow into your skin eventually and feel more comfortable. I can understand why you feel embarrest, but you dont have to be. ... (read in full...)
I can no longer stand my girlfriend's dad!
Q. I can no longer stand my girlfriend's dad! He is a great guy but he stresses me out so much and the last 2 days i have had this bad stomach ache because i have been so stressed!..He no longer wants me to put my arm around her and hold her unless she ...
A. 15 November 2008: Get some time together out of his house, if your under his roof he will keep butting in. Spend some more time at yours or go out together a bit more. Go for walks and diffrent things. Its up to you and her to decide if you are ready not him. message ... (read in full...)
How do I see if she likes me without losing a friend and upsetting her friend!?
Q. Im a guy and have had a couple of girlfriends and quite a few girls crushing on me. But there is this girl, a few years back we used to hate each others guts. But for about a year now we have been really good friends. I feel like i can trust her ...
A. 15 November 2008: Perhaps you need to tell her you like her first. Tell her if she liked you then you would ask her out, if she doesnt give you a proper answer after that then i would move on. If you like her friend then you could ask her out. If you dont like her ... (read in full...)
I hung out with her a few times, but now I'm seeing her friend. Should I bring up my concerns?
Q. Alright, let me start with a little back story here. I met a girl (A) through a few friends of mine, we hung out a few times, I never really felt "it" with her, so we just became friends. A few weeks back, a friend of hers (B) from home came t...
A. 14 November 2008: Obviously A may be upset but if you dont like her then you dont like her and theres nothing you can do about it. You will have to explain you like B and B likes you. Its sad that she may get hurt but you like B and thats the end of it. ... (read in full...)
I have fallen for this total stranger so much that I think about him daily.
Q. I was working the other day and this guy and his mom came through my lane. I do the usual "did you find everything ok?" thing, but the I noticed how cute the guy was, so I was a bit extra chatty. They wanted to purchase some hunting gear for the ...
A. 14 November 2008: If its meant to be then you will come across him again. ... (read in full...)
So easily aroused, is it because of my inexperience?
Q. Hi, I'll first place a background about myself, I'm 21 years old, man, I have never engaged a realtionship because I'm way too shy. When people come to talk to me I am receptive enough not to be rude, but I'm very quiet in this too. My problem, be...
A. 14 November 2008: This sounds normal to me. Try not to worry about it, as long as the woman doesnt notice then it doesnt matter. If i was in a situation and a guy got an erection just because i touched him then i would be really flattered. Try not to worry, worrying ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him how I really feel? Or should I keep it to myself?
Q. I need some help on how i can get over my ex boyfriend. Arhhh i love him so much, but i have to get over him, i dont think there is any way that me and him could get back together and make it work, because no matter what we try it just will not work...
A. 14 November 2008: I remember feeling this way when i was at school and it really hurts. Theres two ways of looking at it, if you REALLY dont think it will work and you dont want to get hurt tell him that. Make some space between you as you can never get over someone ... (read in full...)
I feel sorry about my ex's troubled relationship, how can I help him?
Q. The guy i've been out with for nearly 10 months called it off with me last month, he has since gone back to one of his ex's(why do they all go back to their ex's) Anyway we've always keept in contact throught the phone, basically the girl he has gone...
A. 9 November 2008: Are you mad ? Why are you there for him after he left you for he ex who sounds like a bitch. Think about...he left you...for a nasty bitch. Does this not make you angry ?.Just leave him to it, hes treating you like an idiot and your letting him. ... (read in full...)
Do you think my ex thinks of me as "Plan B"?
Q. When talking on the phone today my ex was going on about his brother in law saying he thinks that my ex should stay single and enjoy himself, my ex is really in love with one of his old relationships and says that he knows what he wants and wishes ...
A. 9 November 2008: I completely agree with the reader called ''the one doesnt know''. This guy does not want you, he knows you will go back to him...but he has not asked you has he. Because he does not want you. You need to cut him off so he can stop treating you ... (read in full...)
"Things would be different if you weren't my mate's girlfriend..."
Q. Hey real quick, I was at my friend's house last night and my other friends boyfriend turned up a bit later with his mate.. we were messing about and they were taking the piss coz I'm blonde and his mate said to me "I like you, what's your name?" ...
A. 9 November 2008: I dont see why he would not ask you out as you are only a friend of a friend. Next time ask him why it even matters. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated and had a one night stand!
Q. I need some helps. Me and my boyfriend have recently been back in a relationship together. First time we were together for about a year and a half (first 3 months he cheated on me). We broke up for 5 months and in that time he had sex with a girl ...
A. 9 November 2008: This guy just is not worth it. Do yourself a favour and finish it. You are not showing yourself any respect by letting this guy treat you like shit. Say goodbye and find someone better. ... (read in full...)
I'M SO CONFUSED!!!
Q. My question is, I don't understand whether I love him [still] OR/AND why I'm feeling this way? Here is my story: When I moved [Beginning of school] , I obviously didn't know anyone but i got close to this guy [ill call him batman] who sits beside ...
A. 6 November 2008: Now [10:35 november 6th 2008], i feel you might just be curious about this secound guy. Spend some quality time with batman and see how you feel. Batman does seem like a nice guy. Message me and let me know how everything goes.... (read in full...)
What can I do to make sure she is happy and comfortable?
Q. How do I get physical with a friend who is a girl? I think she doesn't mind. But when we are alone I would like to touch her more than usual. How can or what can I do to make sure she is happy and comfortable?...
A. 6 November 2008: Its great that you care but i think you need to talk to her about it first. You will know shes comfortable when she tells you.... (read in full...)
OH GOD! been worrying about things turning physical with my new girlfriend and tonight they did!
Q. OH GOD! been worrying about things turning physical with my new girlfriend and tonight they did... but I couldn't get 'aroused'. I got aroused a little then went down and she assumed that I had finished but I just couldn't keep it up! help! ...
A. 6 November 2008: CALM DOWN. Worrying will make the whole situation worse. Make sure your comfortable with her first and try and stay calm. Theres nothing wrong with you, its just nerves.... (read in full...)
What do I do to get over her? Any tips to getting somone out of your mind for good?
Q. I dated a girl for around a year and 2 months and we broke up in september. After the break up she tells me she fell in love with somone at her work, and for close to 3 months hadn't told me anything. At the begginning of the summer I started ...
A. 6 November 2008: Its hard and as you cant really cut all contact with her, which would have been helpful then perhaps you should find someone new. Get out there and find someone new. A holiday would help to. Remind yourself that breaking up with her opens alsorts of ... (read in full...)
Confused as to where I stand.
Q. Hello, I'm 21 this year and he's 22. We got to know each other through a particular class which required project work and we happened to be in the same group. Eventually, a month later or so, I started noticing him and liking him, which I have...
A. 6 November 2008: He isnt being clear with you, he hasnt told you how much he likes you, and if he has it doesnt sound like hes making a proper move on you. Sounds like he doesnt know what he wants himself, maybe theres someone else in the piture. I would stay clear ... (read in full...)
Is a younger man taboo?
Q. I met my son-in-laws brother a year ago, he is 16 years younger than me, he is the most intelligent, loving, amazing man I have ever met, he said age is nothing but a number, and just because my daughter and his brother are married does not make he ...
A. 14 March 2008: GO FOR IT. I know a couple and there is a 20 year difference between them. Yet they have had a long lasting marriage and everything you could want together. No matter what anyone says, its your choice and if anyone is mad about it, when they see you ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a man to fall in love with the woman he loses his virginity to?
Q. Can men fall in love with the woman they lose their vigrinity to? I've seen it happen with women at a young age, my boyfriend was a virgin and after we started having sex he completely changed and started saying i love you and buying me things. He's ...
A. 14 March 2008: Of course, i would say it is 100% possible for anyone to fall in love with anyone they are having sex with. Although it does not give him the right to possesion of you, tell him you not happy with him being mad for little things like this or he wont ... (read in full...)
Are boys more mature in their 20's and are they commited or are they just like boys of 17 and 18?
Q. I find myself attracted to men in their 20's mainly 21 and 22 year olds, I'm 18... do I stand a chance. I feel they are more mature than boys my age, boys my age are just interested in shagging the fittest girl in the year, are they more mature in ...
A. 14 March 2008: Men can be like that whatever age they are. They really can. Of course you have a change with a guy a few years older than you. Try and judge a guy by his individual personality not his age. Everyones diffrent. ... (read in full...)
Feeling broken... but I'm only 14.
Q. Hi, I am only 14, but I just got out of a "thing/relationship" that lasted nine months (that's a long time for a middle school relationship) on and off, and was very complicated. We got involved back in the summer (2007), and during the summer ...
A. 14 March 2008: When your 14 every emotion seems deeper, i remember it like it was yesterday lol. Beleive me, we have all been through it. Times a great a healer, without even noticeing you will think about him less and less and you will feel fine again. Message me ... (read in full...)
I found out about their relationship checking my boyfriends emails and I was devastated! Can I still trust him?
Q. I am 19 years old and I have been in a relationship with my first boyfriend for 15 months. My boyfriend and I broke up during the summer and at this time he started talking to one of their family friends and they set plans together for the future ...
A. 14 March 2008: Only you know if you can still trust him, but he does seem a bit changing doesnt he. I dont think i could trust him. You say you dont think you could live without him, me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up a week ago and im starting to beleive ... (read in full...)
The differences between males and females
Q. Why is it that men are nearly always responsible for crimes. Not just murders and roberies but also child abuse. Yet oddly the ones who can be the most vile are actually women (cat fights and veral abuse). Can anyone explain that?...
A. 24 October 2007: Surely cat fights and verbal abuse are not as vile as murder and child abuse ??????... (read in full...)
My mates been cheating on her guy and now I'm seeing the guy she's been sleeping with! What should i di??
Q. Hi my best friend lets call her suzie said to me about three months ago that she really likes this guy she has known for two years, lets call him jake, and its only this year that he can return her feelings but now she has a bf! she keeps doing stuf...
A. 30 August 2007: And dont feel bad about taking him away from her, she would do it to you...plus she messes people around enough. ... (read in full...)
My mates been cheating on her guy and now I'm seeing the guy she's been sleeping with! What should i di??
Q. Hi my best friend lets call her suzie said to me about three months ago that she really likes this guy she has known for two years, lets call him jake, and its only this year that he can return her feelings but now she has a bf! she keeps doing stuf...
A. 30 August 2007: I know your loyal to your friend but she doesnt would not be loyal to you. If jake is still seeing your mate surely you can tell that hes a waste of time and effort. Also, you might find that if you sleep with him all the nice things hes been saying ... (read in full...)
My husband senses the closeness I have with my cousin. We are both married, should we pursue a relationship together?
Q. I have been married twice. The first, was very short at a very young age. The second, is my current husband. We have been married and together between 5-10 years. We share several children. He has a child from a previous relationship and we ...
A. 30 August 2007: I think you should get a divorce if you dont love your husband. If you dont get a divorce then stay away from your damned cousin. Infact, dont have sexual relations with your cousin at all. How do you know he even feels the same. You could be ... (read in full...)
I have a girlfriend but have met someone I like more. But she is engaged. What should I do?
Q. I've been seeing a girl for about a month now and everything is going really well. We get on well and the attaction is there. I live with my house mate and have done for some time now. Recently a new girl started work at her business and they ...
A. 30 August 2007: First off you need to finish it with your girlfriend. Finish it before something more happens with this girl...or some other girl for that matter.... (read in full...)
I've had enough! My 2 children are confused, our bank is drained, and my brain is strained...
Q. My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We have 2 young children together, and he has a 12 year old from a previous relationship. The "Baby's Momma Drama" is an ongoing thing, IN and OUT of court for numerous FALSE allegations, a SEVERE ...
A. 30 August 2007: Your relationship needs to start focusing on YOUR two children for a while. Hes got to remember hes got three children...not one. You also need to find a way of him listening to you and respecting you. Perhaps if he knew that he was risking your ... (read in full...)
My friend is really bugging me about our size differance
Q. im 15 and lately my friend has been bugging me, she is kinda overweight and says its weird that im two sizes smaller in clothes than her because we look the same, and the other day i did a test to find my BMI (body mass index) which shows you if you ...
A. 30 August 2007: Shes just insecure and jealous. Just ignore her , you know shes only saying all this stuff because she knows shes obviously bigger. Next time she does it just remember shes doing because your thinner than her and she doesnt want to admit to it and ... (read in full...)
So close to my daughter feel like I'm losing her to her boyfriend... Anyone feel the same?
Q. Hello, I have a daughter who has recently fell in love with her long time boyfriend. I think that he is a great guy, with some flaws of his past, but who doesn't. Anyway, I like him, but do not like having to share my daughter's heart...
A. 30 August 2007: I love my boyfriend but i dont love my mum any less at all. I still need her and she will always be there for things my boyfriend wont be able to help with.... (read in full...)
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