I like a guy and he likes me too, only problem is he friend also likes me so he won't act!
Q. I like a guy who likes me too, the only problem is that his best friend likes me too, so he won't act on his feelings. I feel like I'm backed into a corner, what should I do?...
A. 13 February 2007: KISS HIM. His friend has to get over the fact that you like him not the friend. Just go for it. He WILL act if you act first.... (read in full...)
My best mate took the guy I wanted! I am so hurt,,,how do I get over this?
Q. this guy i liked kept askin me out in the end i gave in we went out. a lot of stuff happened and we finished he wouldnt get over it, he kept sayin he still loved me and i did rethink about gettin back with him. i told my best mate all this she ...
A. 13 February 2007: Have you thought that hes only going out with her to make you jealous. Tell him you were about to ask him back out, and your sorry if he ever felt like you were messing him around. You just wanted to be sorted out so you could put more into the ... (read in full...)
Want to tell her, how I feel but I'm afraid if the answer is negative it will affect our friendship ...advice?
Q. Hi, I have been at uni for two and a half years now and i have been living with this girl ever since the first year. We get on very well and are best friends however recently i have really wanted to get with her and have had very strong feelings...
A. 13 February 2007: Well, if you tell her and she does not feel the same. It may make things awkward or the rest of uni But it may not make a diffrence at all once youve talked about it. If she likes you and get with her, and it turns out you are not right for each ... (read in full...)
I would love to know more about her culture but I don't want to offend her in asking
Q. I am in a relationship with a girl who was born in China. We live in a rural area of England where nearly everyone is white (including me). I often have questions or discussions I want to start that involve her race but I feel like she may be ...
A. 13 February 2007: Baby blue fairy is right, she would be appreciative that you are sensitive to her feelings. But i really wouldnt be worried about offending her. Just ask her nicely about whatever it is you want to know. She will probly be happy that you are ... (read in full...)
I just gave my bf my first blowjob and it was horrible! Now he wants me to do it again-what should I do?
Q. I just had oral sex for the 1st time it was horrid and my boyfriend wants me to do it again...should i or not..im scerd if i say no he will dump me...but im in love with him and i dont want to lose him over not sucking his dick..what should i ...
A. 13 February 2007: Also, i tried to send you a message but it wouldnt work. I was going to say that you dont have to put him entirely in your mouth if it makes you want to throw up (lol). Apparently most of the sensations in the tip of the penis anyway. So just focus ... (read in full...)
I just gave my bf my first blowjob and it was horrible! Now he wants me to do it again-what should I do?
Q. I just had oral sex for the 1st time it was horrid and my boyfriend wants me to do it again...should i or not..im scerd if i say no he will dump me...but im in love with him and i dont want to lose him over not sucking his dick..what should i ...
A. 13 February 2007: First off, if you DEFFINATELY dont want to do it again. Then DONT. But, practise makes it easier and although i dont like it much i enjoy it sometimes. I just make sure everything is on MY terms. Also, dont do it if he doesnt offer it in return. If ... (read in full...)
What is the secret in attracting and nice guy and having a long term relationship with him?
Q. Help! iam 19 but have never had a boyfriend. I don't think I am unattractive but I never get any guys interested in me. This is really getting me down as I feel like I want to be in a long-term relationship. How can I attract men and get a ...
A. 13 February 2007: To know if your with a nice guy, i guess you would have to trust him first, and WAIT before you sleep with him. ... (read in full...)
I'm having erotic dreams about my girlfriends teenage sister!!
Q. For that past few months, I've had a few erotic dreams about my girlfriend's younger sister. My girlfriend is 21 and her sister is 19. We chat alot online and I sometimes go crash at her place out of town when we go skiing together. I just wa...
A. 13 February 2007: Well, they could mean nothing, or something. You could secretly like her but have been ignoreing and burying your feelings. Think about it, do you like her ? Is she better looking or more fun than your girlfriend ? . If you think you like her, then ... (read in full...)
Do you think he's checked his email yet or has he freaked out that I asked him to the prom?
Q. Ok, in my last question, I asked about a guy from camp. The problem with this situation is that the only contact I have with him now is over the email. I actually invited him to prom a few weeks ago over the email, cleverly(or so I thought) phrasing ...
A. 13 February 2007: Well, the thing is he might not have checked his email. But if he didnt want to go, the easiest thing would to be to just ignore the email. Which he might have done. Just message him saying sorry but you asked someone else and its ok he doesnt have ... (read in full...)
I am bi sexual and want to get to know this guy better but I don't know if he is.
Q. Hi kaleb here i am really cofused cus' i am a bisexual and i like this really cute guy at school but i don't know if he is a bisexual or not. I am confused cus' he always looks at me and sometimes we make eye contact. Also i wrote a note to him but ...
A. 13 February 2007: Well, cant you make some sort of hint about it. Little hints about gay men and see what his reactions are. If you mention something about men together, and he acts disgusted, then you know that you should be causious. Also though, he could just act ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend talks to his ex but she doesn't know about me. Why won't he tell her?
Q. I know my bf talks with his ex gf sometimes, and he doesn't want her to know that he has a gf, he told me that the reason is because he doesn't want her to ask him so many questions, should i believe him, is this just a lie? Is he not telling her ...
A. 13 February 2007: He obviously doesnt want to her to know because he doesnt want to hurt her/upset her. This is absolutely rediculas. If he was serious about your relationship he wouldnt hide it from anyone. Yeah he might not want to answer questions. But what ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is mentoring this other woman, should I be concerned?
Q. How do you know when to be worried? My boyfriend of 2 years recently started "mentoring" a young, single college woman. At first I wasn't too concerned. He said he met her a conference he spoke at a few months ago, in a neighboring city...
A. 13 February 2007: Ask him if you can both meet for lunch one day. Ask to meet her and say it would be nice to meet his ''apprentice'' , or however you want to put it. Ask him if you can go with him on the business trips. Just keep asking, if he doesnt let you then ... (read in full...)
I am obsessed by this guy, what am I gonna do???
Q. I'm so unlucky with guys.its really getting me down..iv liked this guy for ages, we fell out a few weeks ago, and then he rang me at 5 in the morning the other day to make friends..i thought i had another chance. I emailed one of his mates to try ...
A. 11 February 2007: Right, what your going to do is just spill. Spill it all to him. Tell him you were never interested in his mate and that you only emailed his mate to get close to him. Just tell him how you feel. But bear in mind, do you even know if he likes you. ... (read in full...)
I just finished with my ex and cried to my best friend about it, now she's going out with him!!!
Q. my best friend and me are having a rocky relationship i just finished with my ex who i really loved i moan constantly to her about him, i went in2 school the next day and shes goin out with him i feel awful im gettin really depressed i went mad i ...
A. 11 February 2007: If you loved him, why did you leave him. Im sure you can get him back with a bit of charm. He is probly only going out with her to make you jealous and sorry for beaking up with him. Message me if you want. ... (read in full...)
My best mate stole my boyfriend!
Q. well i flirted with this boy we went out 4 ages i realised it didnt work so i ended it even though we stayed m8s i still loved him and told my best m8 all the time i even thought of gettin back with him we wer flirtin like mad i told my best m8 i ...
A. 11 February 2007: Well, shes a bitch. So get your own back. Show her its you he really wants. He is probly only with her to make you jealous. Dont sleep with him or anything, but if hes flirty with you, you can probly still get him back. Then make him tell her, he ... (read in full...)
Does she really fancy me or is she just being desperate?
Q. hi guys i met this girl at a party and she obviously fancies me but I don't fancy her. she kept looking at me at the party and smiling and whispering to her friend and pulling me up to dance! she has now tried calling me and asks me to go...
A. 11 February 2007: Why would she be desperate ? Se obviously fancys you and wants to get you into bed. If you dont fancy her, then tell her your not interested.... (read in full...)
I am 13 and my girlfriend is a bit shy to go any further, what can I do?
Q. hi i am 13 and i think my girlfriend is a bit shy about doing anything physical she is ok with hugging and kissing at school discos but she wont go any further what can i do ??????...
A. 11 February 2007: Your only 13, and if shes the same age then she probly is not ready. Just dont try anything with her untill she is ready, or you may end up with no girlfriend at all. ... (read in full...)
I think I'm ready to lose my virginity but I'm scared...
Q. i think im ready to lose my virginity with my bf but im scared that it wont fit in beacuse i mite get stressed or something, is there anything i could do to help?...
A. 11 February 2007: Well, first off. If your relaxed and ready at the time you shouldnt have any problem. RELAXED and READY. Dont do it before. Are you sure your boyfriend is the one you want to do it with. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend fingered me and I didn't get any pleasure from it...
Q. Hi, i'll just get straight to the point, my boyffriend fingered me and i didnt get any pleasure at all from it, im a virgin too, also i started to bleed a little. Is this normal? ...
A. 11 February 2007: It wasnt pleasureable for me at first either. You have just got to find what is good for you. If he fingers you and gives you oral sex at the same time, you might enjoy it more. Message me if you want to.... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as loving one another too much?
Q. Okay, this is probably going to sound like a ridiculous question but I just wanted to know what you think. Is loving somebody too much bad for a relationship? Me and my gorgeous guy are so in love it's unbelievable I know in myself th...
A. 11 February 2007: Are you both young teenagers. It sounds like you are so im going to assume you are. Its just teenage ifatuation. It wears off, then its harder and you need to actually work to keep yourselves together. See if you can be botherd then. ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend and mate seeing one another behind my back?
Q. Hi, i was dating a a girl last year for a few months and she lived up in the lake district and myself in Manchester. i went up for a weekend to see her so we could have time together, anyway wen it came to the sunday night and me going home b...
A. 11 February 2007: Just ditch them both, you sound like you deserve better. They are so stupid to go off together for half an hour at the bus stop when you were around. They obviously have no intelligence what so ever. Tell them that, and ditch them both.... (read in full...)
Here is my list of the "perfect" boyfriend! What do you think?
Q. Here is my list of the perfect boyfriend. Are there any men like this? 1. Shares all email and IM passwords 2. Has none, or only one, female friend 3. Tell's me when his only female friend calls 4. Tell's me when he goes basically anywher...
A. 11 February 2007: Ok first off, you want a guy that doesnt go anywhere without you. And doesnt do anything without you or telling you before he does it. Are you a complete control freak. I understand you dont want him seeing other woman, and i dont want my boyfriend ... (read in full...)
He wants some guy time but I don't want him to leave me. Am I being unreasonable?
Q. My boyfriend has many friends out of state and he wants to go travel and see them. He only wants to bring me on some of the trips. He says because it would be an imposition on some of his friends since their places are small and that he just wants ...
A. 11 February 2007: Well, hes aloud to see his friends, as you wouldnt like it if he moaned about you seeing your friends. But, the way he does not want you to go to certain places would make me suspicious. Perhaps the cetain places he doesnt want you to go is because ... (read in full...)
What excuse can I use to ask her out? I don't know HOW TO?
Q. how do i ask this girl to meet me? were 16. i really like this girl. we go different colleges so never see each other much. she asked me out on date to eat out. it went well and after she text me thanking me. now it's been 2weeks and we talk on msn ...
A. 11 February 2007: Well you have been out with her already so you shouldnt feel so nervous because you know she will come out with you and she likes you. Ask her to meet you where you want to meet, and dont tell her why. Or tell her you dont want to be a lonely saddo ... (read in full...)
Am I in an unhealthy relationship?
Q. Hi, I am 21 years old and think I may be in an unhealthy relationship. I have been with my partner for five years and love him to bits, in the time I have been with him both my parents have passed away and so as you can imagine I am very attached...
A. 11 February 2007: Well, if he loved you. He wouldnt belittle you in such a way. He sees really nasty. Yes this is unhealthy. He has no respect for you. You need to stand up to him. ... (read in full...)
Send a guy-friend a "f***-me-now" text when I was drunk... now I'm worried he'll take it literally!
Q. I'm in need of advice... I got really drunk the other night and i sent this guy a text saying i want to f**k him and the next morning he texts me saying "i can help you with that" and i read it haveing know clue what he is talking about so i look ...
A. 11 February 2007: Is he older than you ? Basically, just tell him, or text him. You were way to drunk to know what you were talking about and you DID NOT mean it. Tell him you send stupid texts to a couple of people. Dont get drunk with him, he would obviously try it ... (read in full...)
At the moment it's "tops only" but worried he'll want to venture further!
Q. dear cupid i am 16 and have a 17 year old bf. my problem is that he is asking for sex should i give in. i let him touch my breats but thats it. what should i do??????...
A. 11 February 2007: Just because your the legal age doesnt mean you have to do anything furthur. Dont do anything you dont want to. If he trys it, just say NO. Firmly. Practise saying no really firmly. It might help lol. I had loads of chances when i was younger, but i ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has had such a wayward past! I can't get it out of my head, do I break up with her? I'm so confused.
Q. I met this girl in the summer, and there was an instant connection. I am a mechanic and she needed her car to be fixed, so I offered to help her out just so I'd have an excuse to see her again. Things were going well, and one night she spilled to me ...
A. 9 February 2007: I dont know how to explain fully what i mean. So that its understandable. But i do know how you feel. I wouldnt be able to be with a guy who had done all that. If i was you, i would probly just want to get out of the relationship to find someone ... (read in full...)
My teacher is getting too close for comfort! I think he fancies me and it's freaking me out!
Q. Ok well... I am 16, and I am in my last year at school. I will be leaving school this summer. Basically my problem is that I think my teacher and I have some kind of weird relationship that neither of us really understand but it's kind of just ...
A. 9 February 2007: You dont sound like you want anything to happen. You wouldnt be abnormal if you did but he would loose his job. Hes married, your a 16 year old student of his. How many other girls has this happend with. DONT beleive him when he says your the only ... (read in full...)
Sent him some messages I regret. Will he be really angry with me?
Q. This week a guy i fancy'd , found out ! =S ... he was all off with me for the rest of the week . Last night i was drunk and went on msn , and sent him some messages saying , i dont even fancy you anymore ... ect . He didnt reply because it was ...
A. 3 February 2007: What does it matter. He was being off with you so he deserves it. Just dont worry about it. We all do silly things, espescially when were drunk. When you see him next, if he seems funny with you then just pretend you got so drunk you dont remember ... (read in full...)
My ex's roomate is overly possessive of her. Should I tell her what I think or leave it alone?
Q. i married a woman 23 younger than me and our relationship lasted 7 yrs during which we had a child.when we divorced i raised my son alone with little attention from his mother for 10 years. he is now 14 and my present job makes it very difficult to ...
A. 3 February 2007: Well, first off...if you really wanted to annoy him. You could take your ex and your son somewhere to eat if you have disgussions. Thats if you want to annoy him. But in general, you should just say, do you mind leaving the room its private. If he ... (read in full...)
She lied to me about her past, seems to be living a double life, and ended up giving me an STD! What do I do?
Q. I've been dating a girl for 4 years. the first year was great but then i started noticing she would avoid and hide issues of her past relationships. Anyway to make a long story short, (after 3 years of me drilling her with questions and gettin ...
A. 3 February 2007: Well, you can either forgive her for the lies (which could have been alot worse). Or accept that after 4 years its just run its course and its time to let go. Although i dont quite understand if your saying she cheated on you with the married man or ... (read in full...)
Some other guy is with the girl I like. I want to put on a mask and beat him up! What should I do?
Q. Hi i really really really like this girl and she said she liked me but now shes goin out wif this other guy and i actually hate him. i want to beat him up and im on the verge of putting on a mask and absolutly kicking his face in. but i know i s...
A. 2 February 2007: Its not his fault SHE agreed to go out with him. She didnt have to if she didnt want to.Dont beat him up, ask the girl that if she likes you why doesnt she want to go out with you instead. It sounds like you didnt actually ask her out proply, so ... (read in full...)
My best friend does everything I do and then some - then acts as if she's better than me! What gives and how do I cope??
Q. Can someone help me cope with my copycat better than you attitude best friend? I love her and yes at times to death, but why does she ALWAYS compete with me??? I thought it was flattering in school, then I got married, she got married. I had ...
A. 2 February 2007: Because shes jealous of you. In her mind, she has to do all she can to try and make herself feel and look better than you. Because deep down she feels like she just isnt as good as you are. She needs to find her own peice of identity and self ... (read in full...)
The guy I'm seeing is a jerk and turns things around like I'm to blame for everything! I'm so confused.
Q. i don't even know where to begin with my problem. I've been seening this guy for a year and a half now. I really love him but he has serious mood swings. For example I was supposed to meet him monday nite, i phoned him when he didn't come at the ...
A. 1 February 2007: Ok. This is me and my boyfriends relationship. Except I am the nasty one lol. So i guess i can understand your boyfriends anger and moods because im also a very...short temperd person. I dont know how to describe it. The best thing to do, to stop ... (read in full...)
I know he still loves me, but he writes inappropriate texts, emails and poems. Should I just turn a blind eye?
Q. My husband had an affair two years ago. I took him back. He was accused of sexual harassment at work 3 months ago and it turned out it was a relaitionship although they never slept together. I find love poems he writes, trying to figure out who he ...
A. 1 February 2007: First off, theres nothing wrong with anyone writing poems. Its nothing to be ashamed of. If on the other hand he is writing poems and givng them to other woman and emailing and texting other woman then its a completely diffrent matter. Hes giving ... (read in full...)
If she loves me, she should desire me as a man.... right?
Q. Okay, I need some advice please. I'm a male, 39 who is in a relationship with my girl, who is 26. We have been together 4 years, and while we've had some rough patches, it is still special and we do love each other, and are committed to one another. ...
A. 1 February 2007: If she hasnt got time to cheat on you then shes obviously a busy person. Which means she might not be in the mood because she tired. And yeah, guys like to be grabbed in all places.But when your are girl being touched up all the time makes you feel ... (read in full...)
I want the older, married guy out of my life as I feel guilty for cheating on my bf. What should I do?
Q. I am a 22 year old girl in a relationship with a boy for last 2 years with whom i wish to settle down. I recently fell for a married man of double my age and working in my office. Under strong emotions i slept with him twice and really enjoyed ...
A. 31 January 2007: YOU ARE ABLE TO TELL HIM. If your able to risk everything with your boyfriend and risk breaking his heart you can tell a man who was just useing you for sex to sling his hook elewhere. He wont give a dam, he will just find some other idiot to ... (read in full...)
He has a gf but I like him a lot. What can I do to stop thinking about him?
Q. i dont no where to start , well this boy has fancied me for ages but i didnt really like him in that way until this party we went to but he was with his girlfriend but he was dancing with me and kisses me we were drunk but we both didnt regret it , ...
A. 31 January 2007: You only want him because you have seen that he must be alright if another girls with him. Like me, you want what you cant have. But, think about the other girl here. Dont you care about her feelings. If you were with a guy, how would YOU feel if ... (read in full...)
He is never the one to initiate sex, so I stopped doing it for two weeks - he still hasn't made an effort! I feel totally unattractive.
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years, things are good although he is stressed at work. My problem is that he hardly ever initiates sex, I've been happy to initiate in the past but its starting to annoy me. I tried to ignore a...
A. 31 January 2007: Tell him he doesnt make you feel wanted or sexy. Walk around the place in your best underwear and if he doesnt try it on, its best to tell him he doesnt quite do it for you. But dont forget that he could have something wrong hes not telling you. ... (read in full...)
My friend's bf will go up to three weeks w/out calling her! Does he really want to be w/ her?
Q. Something is not quite right about a friend's new boyfriend - should I say something? My friend met a guy on the Internet who then became girlfriend and boyfriend. They have been together for 5months. The problem is it can be up to three weeks ...
A. 31 January 2007: He could generally not want to scare her away with his problems. But it seems more like hes just useing her. If she met him on the internet, hes probly got loads of internet girlfriends. I wouldnt trust him myself. But its up to your friend to find ... (read in full...)
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