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Husband says my body isn't tidy, won't have sex

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Question - (25 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 October 2010)
A female Nigeria age 41-50, *chechi Uko writes:

pls I have two children and my husband said that my body is not tidy as is use to be.pls help me and tell me what to do so that my husband will enjoy having sex with me. Pls is urget.thanks

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (25 October 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntYour body isn't tidy? Well do you bath daily?? Shave your legs, armpits, or trim/shave the hair on your vagina? I don't know your country's customs on shaving bodily hair...Or perhaps ask your husband what he means by tidy? Ask him what do you need to clean or shave/trim on your body for him to engage in sex.

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A female reader, Jendorset United Kingdom +, writes (25 October 2010):

Hes got to accept that you have had two children and its not your fault if your body may have changed a bit. Ask him exactly what the problem is.Perhaps he should spend some time making you feel more confident instead of saying things like this that will just make you feel worse. Tell him his comments hurt. At the end of the day you need to want to change for yourself not just for him.

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