He never defended me, he has used things I told him in confidence, against me! What should I do about this guy?
Q. i have noticed a question on this site that i believe relates to me,well for everyone whom has judged me how about the truth. My xpartner allowed his xwife to call me the most disgusting words and never did he defend me,everything i have told him ...
A. 20 March 2007: You dont make any sense laburnum. And why are you sending me messages saying i am immature for a 42 year old and calling me enid. My names jennifer and im 17. Bit of an odd one you.... (read in full...)
My friend's bf will go up to three weeks w/out calling her! Does he really want to be w/ her?
Q. Something is not quite right about a friend's new boyfriend - should I say something? My friend met a guy on the Internet who then became girlfriend and boyfriend. They have been together for 5months. The problem is it can be up to three weeks ...
A. 31 January 2007: He could generally not want to scare her away with his problems. But it seems more like hes just useing her. If she met him on the internet, hes probly got loads of internet girlfriends. I wouldnt trust him myself. But its up to your friend to find ... (read in full...)
We're good mates but she refuses lifts to work...and she accepts them from people she despises!! Do I ask her why?
Q. Why would this be happening.? I work in a factory that works very odd shift hours. There's this girl i work with who lives in the same town as me. We're good mates and get along great together. Really good friends. Because of the unsociab...
A. 31 January 2007: Well...she could either fancy you(and doesnt trust herself being alone in the car with you), or she doesnt want to be alone with you because you give her the creeps. Next time she refuses a lift say, you take lifts from everyone else. Do i freak you ... (read in full...)
We want to make our textual affair into a real one for just one night. But, the guilt is holding us back!
Q. Hi, Feeling a bit strainge writing on this website, but I need some help with out getting insults. I have been reading through some other problems to see what the replies are like and I know I am probably in for a telling off. Here's the pro...
A. 31 January 2007: I going to say this, im glad that you havnt taken this any furthur because of guilt. Some men dont seem to have any guilt, or a concious. I really dont think you should have pushed you way into this. How can she be everything you want sexually ? You ... (read in full...)
Got a girlfriend, now an old flame wants to come visit... scared of what might happen!
Q. i have hit a big decision! i am currently in a relationship and have been for the past 4 months. i love my girlfriend with all my heart and have never once in my life before been disloyal to a partner. recently, an old friend of mine got back in ...
A. 31 January 2007: YOU SHOULD HAVE TOLD HER YOU HAVE A GIRLFREIND. You know what the problem is, you would jump into bed with this woman and you know you would. Which means you DONT CARE about how much you would hurt your girlfiend. Doesnt the fact that you would ... (read in full...)
Is he truly genuine or am I just kidding myself?
Q. I've been in this kind of relationship for nearly a year now. Me and this guy started out as just friends who slept with eachother but in the last month- its got more different on his behalf because I tried to end it but, he managed to get back in. ...
A. 31 January 2007: He could be afraid of commitment. He need reasureance. Or he might just be saying anything to keep you in his bed. You need to tell him, you want a relationship (that he admits to being in) and he stops saying hes single. If he says no, then just ... (read in full...)
He told all our friends in front of me, that sex with me was not 'hot' at all. I'm so turned off him,as a result..what can I do?
Q. I have been with my partner for over two years. We don't live together. We were at a friend's house the other day and there was a bit of an argument between myself and my other half. He wasn't being particularly nice and even told me to p*** off...
A. 31 January 2007: You need to confront him. He has insulted in an extemely mean and hurtful way. This could really damage your confidence and it obviously has started to. If he doesnt give you a more than satisfying apology and doesnt tell you why he doesnt enjoy sex ... (read in full...)
I keep hoping she'll regret our breakup and come back to me! How do I deal with this heartache?
Q. hi, my girlfriend of 4 yrs broke up with me four months ago and i just cant stop thinking of her. i do feel better than i did at the beginning but im worried that im always gonna think that i would be happier with her than with any one i may meet in ...
A. 31 January 2007: Tell her one last time you miss her. If she doesnt want to get back with you, then ler her go. Shes obviously not the one your ment to be with, otherwise she wouldnt have left you. You seem like a nice guy, if you dont think you will love anyone new ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is trying to change who I am and control what I do!
Q. Hi to everyone out there reading this. My question has to do with being in love with my bf but not willing to change who I am.To make myself a little more clearly I will tell you a little more about my problem. I been living for almost 11 months ...
A. 31 January 2007: Be firm. You are who you are and he promised he wouldnt try to change you. He knew you wrote to friends when you got together, so he cant change that now. Dont let him change you, its not fair. If he wont listen to you when you tell him he knew who ... (read in full...)
Admitted to the sex... but there's more.. I'm so guilty - I can't hurt him more!
Q. i am 24 and been with my boyfriend for 7 years , we have a child together, 4 years ago i had an affair and i recently decided to tell him, we are working through it even though i hurt him alot, i have also done other things with 2 people not full ...
A. 31 January 2007: If you beleive your a diffrent person, then just let go of the past and who you were. Tell yourself that it was a mistake and telling him could ruin everything. Just leave the past where it is. As long as these things ment nothing to you. Just ... (read in full...)
How could I get him to go down on me?
Q. any ideas on how to get him to go down on me? He never has once in 3 years.......
A. 31 January 2007: Try giving him oral and see if he gives it to you in return. After a couple of weeks of him not returning the favour then talk about it with him. Why not raise the topic of oral sex just in general. And see what he has to say about it. Your missing ... (read in full...)
I'm the only vgirl he knows that is still a virgin and I think he wants it! What should I do?
Q. hello everyone am 15 years old and am talking to this guy who is 17 years old. he says that am the only virgin he knows. he always wants to talk about ''sex''. he always wants to know what i think or what i do since am still a virgin. he is very ...
A. 31 January 2007: He just wants to take your virginity. You are not the only virgin he knows, hes just saying that so you will feel like your not normal and give it up to him. Trust me when i say this, hes only after one thing. Hes trying to manipulate you. DO NOT ... (read in full...)
Will he go off me if I don't make him come?
Q. right im nearly 18 btw!..i have given head twice b4 in my life! but now i got a bf obviously im willing to give it to him however cause i like him so much i get shy and im scared to give him head incase im crap! first time i gave it he did cum but ...
A. 31 January 2007: My man never gets angry at me with anything to do with sex.He doesnt push me or expect me to do anything. Im absolutely rubbish at oral sex. Im rubbish at it, and like you said...it can take ages. But he never has a problem and he understands. ... (read in full...)
I'm having 'pre-threesome-nerves!' I'm scared he might enjoy it too much!
Q. hi there this may sound extreme to some of you but i want some practical advise. me and my partner are planning a threesome with another male and i want my partner who is also male to be fully envolved which he wants to be and this is his first time ...
A. 31 January 2007: Only do this, if you dont mind your relationship being ruined. Some people can happily have threesomes. But some people are not strong enough. If you do this, and it all goes ok...is going to want two females next time. But it would only be fair if ... (read in full...)
He never defended me, he has used things I told him in confidence, against me! What should I do about this guy?
Q. i have noticed a question on this site that i believe relates to me,well for everyone whom has judged me how about the truth. My xpartner allowed his xwife to call me the most disgusting words and never did he defend me,everything i have told him ...
A. 31 January 2007: This mans obviously just said that you were caught cheating so he can make himself look better. The fact is that hes a coward and cant stand to his ex wifey. Who wants to be with a man thats scared of his ex. Dont bother with him. We all know he ... (read in full...)
He never defended me, he has used things I told him in confidence, against me! What should I do about this guy?
Q. i have noticed a question on this site that i believe relates to me,well for everyone whom has judged me how about the truth. My xpartner allowed his xwife to call me the most disgusting words and never did he defend me,everything i have told him ...
A. 30 January 2007: Dont give him any warnings. Just dump him. How DARE he accuse you of all the things he has. And how DARE he let his xqife speak to you in the manner that she did.If im honest i think hes still shagging her.... (read in full...)
Would it be horrible to break up with him by text messaging while he is in Florida for a vacation?
Q. I had a hard time breaking up with my fiance last week, and felt guilty and gave in and stayed with him. Would it be horrible to break up with him by text messaging while he is in Florida for two months for vacation? I feel like that's the only way ...
A. 30 January 2007: Well i would say wait till he gets back. BUT as hes away for 2 months, break up with him as soon as you can. Hes more likely to get over it on holiday than stuck at home. Tell him now so he can have a holiday romance with some other girl and get ... (read in full...)
I don't think the bf wants back with me, because of what his freinds think. What should I do?
Q. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of one year. well.. he broke up with me. We have problems with jealousy and fighting. I think that we can get past the immature fighting and jealousy. We have had some pretty heated fights... but i think this ...
A. 30 January 2007: Men are lame. They cant be botherd to put in the effort.... (read in full...)
Scared to date because my penis is too small-what can I do?
Q. This is mainly aimed at the ladies. I'm 2 scared 2 get with girls b/c of the size of my penis. I know 2 some girls size dont matter but surely when its 3inches normal and only 5 when erected its an issue....
A. 30 January 2007: I promise you im being honest...its not what youve got its what you do with it. Being careing and considerate and respectful also makes it better for some girls.... (read in full...)
We want to have children together as friends - is this a good idea?
Q. So this is a wierd situation. I met my soul mate. We are completely in love. We have the same values and morals. The thing that keeps us from being together is our sex life. It is horrible!!! And when i say horrible i mean it. We do not mix at all. ...
A. 30 January 2007: Why dont you just be in a sex-less marriage or something. I think you should still get married. Just dont have sex with each other. Surely you dont want to have kids together and still see other people. You might get pregnaunt by the other person, ... (read in full...)
I'm so in love with my boyfriend. The only thing I want is a baby with him...Why?
Q. I love babies...Oh my Gosh, do I LOVE babies! I want one so bad, but I know I'm way too young to have one. I don't have a job, but my boyfriend does. It's not a very well-paying job, though. For this reason, I know having a baby wouldn't be the ...
A. 30 January 2007: i Used to want a baby, untill i had a pregnancy scare and i realised that wanting a baby at my age is IDIOTIC and STUPID. You just wouldnt be able to support it. So after the scare, like i said, i realised i didnt want a baby just something to love ... (read in full...)
She's engaged to another but I'm convinced she's not in love with him. I care deeply for her--what should I do?
Q. OK - here goes. I'm in a bit of dilemma over a girl. We met at university and, at the time, I knew she was going out with someone. However, we kept seeing a lot of each other as friends - drinks, dinner - to the extent that I began to think t...
A. 30 January 2007: Why are you worried about looking like a lemon in front of her. You dont ever have to speak to her again if it goes wrong when youve tried to tell her. If you want her then tell her. Shes probly hopeing you will take her away from her boreing ... (read in full...)
My husband tries to impress the new girl next door when she visits - and I caught him looking down her shirt!!
Q. I wonder if my cheating husband will cheat again??? He’s this alpha male and just draws girls to him with his sweet talking and charming ways. He’s cheated on me before and I made it clear that if he cheated on me again I would leave him. Howev...
A. 30 January 2007: Get over not wanting to nag. You are NOT imagineing things and you are NOT crazy. Your mans just saying that so he doesnt have to admit it. Sit him down, and tell him about it. If he tries to cut you off then hes obviously got a guilty conscious. ... (read in full...)
She treated me badly and we split...but I want her back-but know I should forget her! How do I do this?
Q. How can I move on with my life and forget her? She did everything opposite one knows as love, and what you expect from your lover. She treated me bad, swear at me, never showed she cared about me and my life, and never help me when I needed h...
A. 30 January 2007: She most likely had a fear of showing her feelings. She was probly scared of being hurt, so hurt you before you could hurt her. Im guessing that she did love you. But she needs a harsh man to show her that she cannot get away with her tantrums. This ... (read in full...)
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