I like this boy, he's just split from his girlfriend but I just can't tell him I like him!
Q. Ok so theres this guy I really really like. we are in the same year and I think I'm in love with him. I am only young but I'd honestly take a bullet for him! but heres the thing - we are from completely different worlds. He is mister popular, and ...
A. 25 July 2007: You may regret it if you dont tell him. x... (read in full...)
How can you stop loving someone!!?
Q. How do you stop liking/loving someone? Thanks to people who reply to this question....
A. 29 March 2007: I think it happens gradually. ... (read in full...)
Is this "breakthrough bleeding" due to the pill or the sex ?
Q. Hi, I just went on a birth control pill last week. My boyfriend and I were having sex last night, and I started to bleed. Is this a common side effect of the pill? He was not exactly thrilled when he saw the blood - it was kind of gross......
A. 28 March 2007: Some girls bleed after there first time, but i am on the pill and this has never happended, although all out bodys are diffrent. I would still get a doctors or nurses appointment. See if it happens again next time you have sex, but i still wouldnt ... (read in full...)
Why cant I have 2 wives if both women love me!?
Q. why i cant have 2 wifes if both woman loves me and i love them , and who made that law for us and what is the sense of it? as we all know that woman get another kind of feelings and therefor man and woman fall in love and make a new life and they ...
A. 27 March 2007: You are just GREEDY. If you cant be satisfied with just ONE wife, there something WRONG WITH YOU. Plus, TWO wives means you have to remember and buy for TWO birthdays and TWO anniversarys. It would cost alot more. Your stupid.... (read in full...)
Am I being selfish? Sometimes I think yes but then if they are unhappily married maybe they shouldn't be together anyway???
Q. im having an affair with a married man from work (my boss) we have fallen in love and he say's he will leave his wife for me but i've told him not to as he should leave because he wants to, not for me as i cant promise that we will be together ...
A. 27 March 2007: Are you so bad that the only man you can get is someone who is already married and looking for some bit on the side. Dont you have enough respect to just find your OWN man. Well, if his marriage is REALLY unhappy and he isnt just saying that. Then ... (read in full...)
My ex was mean to me after I cheated on him - how do I get over him??
Q. omg i need help!! i cheated on my ex while i was a camp....oh i don't know a long time ago! and after that he hated me for a really long time (like 5 months) but then we went out again, and things didn't work out for either of us. things were kinda ...
A. 26 March 2007: You hurt him, so hes hurting you. If you think you cant get over him, then you need to ask him for another chance. How do you exspect your ex or anyone else to respect you if you dont respect yourself. You even younger than me, stop making out with ... (read in full...)
My bf moans that we're together too much, hates going out with me and treats me like dirt! How do I get him to stop this?
Q. please help me!!!! i've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. we recently moved in together but he treats me like dirt. everytime we are out together he either tells me he wants me to go home or moans that we spend too much time ...
A. 26 March 2007: Tell him you have had enough of it. If he is not careing when you tell hi and he gets annoyed, you should dump him. He is a sad act and not worth it. Dont let yourself be treated like this, you deserve better and you know you do.... (read in full...)
My bf said we're finished if my kids visit me! I met someone else who i occasionally sleep with. What should I do?
Q. I met my b/f 3 months after my husband left me. My 21 and 23yr old who live away from home, cant stand him, won't speak to him and cut him dead if they meet. He says that if they come to my house and he finds out we are finished. He has a temper ...
A. 26 March 2007: Tell him they are your kids and they will always be welcome to visit you. If doesnt like it, tell him to get lost. ... (read in full...)
Should I chase him??
Q. Im in such a mess I don't even know where to start. I've been going out with this guy for about a year and a half. its been pretty turbulant, weve had a few rows. but last week we had a huge row and he finished it with me. I called to him th...
A. 23 March 2007: All you can do is tell him you still want to be together and you never meant any horrible things you said. Just ask him to reconsider getting back together, then just leave him with it.... (read in full...)
I'm travelling and can't find anyone who speaks english! Any advice from other people who travel?
Q. I'm from England. I'm 5 weeks into my travels and I'm depressed. The reason is that i have been in Paris for 4 days now and have not met anyone who speaks english. And since travelling I haven't met anyone who is british (Ive met some Irish and ...
A. 23 March 2007: Get a phase book and keep an eye out for english bars (they are around). You cant go to forign countrys hopeing to meet brittish people lol, learn some of the language and make friends with the forign. Your bound to have an even better time if you ... (read in full...)
He says shes just a friend and people hang out there to chill ? But shes says different!! Who should I believe ?
Q. so my guy and i have been togather for going on four years and we have a 2 month old son.i cooked, cleaned, and took care of his children in which by the way arent mine for a year or so. i had grown attached to them too.the kids recently went to ...
A. 23 March 2007: Well, this woman could have said all this as she is good friends with the childrens mum. Her and the childrens mum could have wound you up together. Or he could really have been sleeping with her and he is trying to wriggle his way out. His storey ... (read in full...)
We had problems in the past--so can the old hurt and resentment ever really be overcome?
Q. My bf and me have been together for a few years now, but it's been sorta chaotic. We broke up a few months ago for the last time, but then got back together a couple of days later, with the understanding that things were going to be different this ...
A. 23 March 2007: I think you both need to take some time together. A holiday, or a weekend camping. Or a day at the zoo, ANYTHING. Just to break this block between you. A picnic is always good. Or a walk in the countryside, or along the beach. You need to be out in ... (read in full...)
When he fingers me it hurts real bad! Is this normal?
Q. Hi, well me and my b/f have been dating for 2 years, and we foreplay but we are BOTH virgins...and when i give him a hand job, blow job etc. everything is fine, but when he fingers me i get tight all of a sudden after the first minute and it really ...
A. 23 March 2007: I ment to say that nothing is wrong with YOU, not me. lol, typo.... (read in full...)
She assures me she loves me, but Im not sure how to act as she keeps feeling suffocated!
Q. Hmmm. I'm a little confused here. So around January, the most amazing 6 or 7 months that I've had w/ anyone. My girlfriend broke up w/ me almost w/o a warning. No fight, no bad feelings, nothing. She freaked out on the phone and after crying hys...
A. 23 March 2007: I agree with elecra, if you suggest a bit of space between you, like month or so, she should start to miss you. Because you never know what you have got untill its gone, or you risk losing it. I think she just doesnt know what she has with you or ... (read in full...)
Does it matter that he never tells me he loves me on his own anymore?
Q. my boyfriend has told me he loves me in the past. he said it first, in fact, partly because i expressly didn't want to be the first, in case it might make him feel pressured to say it. that was almost a year ago. now, i pretty much feel ...
A. 23 March 2007: Some men think that they dont have to tell you because you already know. I dont think its such a big deal to just ask if hes happy in your relationship. Its not about putting him on the spot, just approach him at a time when you are both relaxed ... (read in full...)
He says he cant give me another shot as his friends dont like me!!!
Q. Ok so basically, I met this guy in September of 2006. I fell for him straight away, maybe it's not love but i know he's all i care about. We started going out in December 2006 and it was perfect. I'd never felt like this before. But a couple of ...
A. 22 March 2007: He could be using this as an excuse. But he sounds like a bit of a loser if he wont go out with you cause his friends dont like you. If i was you i would find someone who isnt ruled by there idiot friends. If you go back out with this guy, and his ... (read in full...)
Ive never iniated sex with anyone before, now my new bf thinks I dont want him, when really its I have no confidence to seduce him!
Q. I've never initiated sex with any of my boyfriends because I've never needed too. But now I'm with a great man who's a little older than me and it's ruining our relationship, he's losing confidence thinking I don't want him. I want to seduce him and ...
A. 22 March 2007: Well, when your both in bed, or sat on the sofa , or wherever you do it, just lean over and kiss him. It should go from there, if it doesnt, undo his trousers, or rub his leg, or take off his shirt. Why dont you try it when the lights are off.... (read in full...)
I want to watch porn with him, but feel like hes oggling them not me!
Q. Recently i watched lesbian porn with my boyfriend of 4 years whilst having sex. I felt uncomfortable, jealous and that he was busy watching the girls. I so want to be able to watch it with him, what can i do? I have tried 'normal' porn but hes not ...
A. 22 March 2007: You are really giving him alot here, so you need to tell him you want some normal porn on sometimes aswell. And, if you can watch lesbian porn with him, why not bring up the supject of porn with LOADS of sexy me in it. Make him watch it, and see how ... (read in full...)
When he fingers me it hurts real bad! Is this normal?
Q. Hi, well me and my b/f have been dating for 2 years, and we foreplay but we are BOTH virgins...and when i give him a hand job, blow job etc. everything is fine, but when he fingers me i get tight all of a sudden after the first minute and it really ...
A. 22 March 2007: Nothings wrong with me, all thats really needed here is lubrication and relaxation. You just need to not worry, and you need to experiment so you can find out what feels good for you.... (read in full...)
First time we made out--he couldn't get it up! Is this normal?
Q. This guy and I... well, we were making out for the first time (we kissed a couple of time before).. and... erm.. he couldn't do it... as in get it up, if you know what I mean. Is that supposed to mean anything? ...
A. 22 March 2007: And yes it is 100 percent normal, this kind of thing happens ALOT.... (read in full...)
First time we made out--he couldn't get it up! Is this normal?
Q. This guy and I... well, we were making out for the first time (we kissed a couple of time before).. and... erm.. he couldn't do it... as in get it up, if you know what I mean. Is that supposed to mean anything? ...
A. 22 March 2007: It doesnt mean anything bad towards you, and it isnt really a full reflection on him. It was most likely stress and worry. He needs to relax. He was probly worrying so much about giving you a good time that it got the better of him. Whatever you do, ... (read in full...)
How do I explain to my wife (whom I love dearly) that I want to go to a dominatrix?
Q. For some time now I have been very interested in visiting a Dominatrix. However, before i can even seriously consider this, there are a number of issues to consider first, the one most importantly being having a discussion with my wife and getting...
A. 22 March 2007: You said it was a long time ago when you mentioned this fantasy to her. Before asking if you can see a dominatrix, i really think you should have a little talk with her about it again. You need to tell her edzactly what you want done to you.You dont ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about being pregnant! Can sperm live in a body for up to five days?
Q. i'm on the pill and have never, ever, ever missed one. i take it every night at 11pm, although sometimes i'm an hour early or an hour or two late if i'm out and about. but i never miss it. i take it continuously, meaning 12 solid weeks w/o a ...
A. 22 March 2007: Well, you said there hasnt been a rips or tears for several months, and you said you used a condom when you had sex 2 days before this. I dont see how there could be any sperm inside you if you used a condom. You sound like you get a bit paranoid ... (read in full...)
Its really getting to my that My friend really dislikes my boyfriend!!!
Q. Lately I have been feeling kind of confused because I recently found out that my best friend does not like my boyfriend at all. She has seen me get verbally and physically abused in my last relationship and knows I deserve better. My boyfriend is ...
A. 21 March 2007: Are you sure that your best friend doesnt have secret feelings for your boyfriend and is making out she doesnt like him to cover them. Also, she could be worried he is going to come between your friendship with her. Tell her she doesnt need to have ... (read in full...)
He wont let me finish with him, would he really end his life, or is this emotional blackmail ?
Q. I tried to break up with my fiance on Friday, and like always he tried to talk me out of it. He said he would call me later in the night and told me to answer my phone. I wanted to end it, so I didn't answer. He called and texted me so many times, ...
A. 20 March 2007: You dont know what he will do, as he sounds a bit phycho. But you cant go on like this, if your unhappy you just need to end it. Tell him you gave him another chance, and he wrecked it. Everyone gets dumped, but they get over it. He knows he can ... (read in full...)
I feel so guilty and confused about my ex girlfriend, shes constantly in my thoughts, I have a new girlfriend but really feel that true happiness is in the past...
Q. Dear Cupid, About six years ago I broke up with my girlfriend of five years. Since then I have had 3 girlfriends of various seriousness. I have recently purchased a house with my current girlfriend of two years. However, since Christm...
A. 20 March 2007: Perhaps you should leave your girlfriend, you dont love her like your ex and she obviously isnt enough for you. Why did you get with this current girlfriend is you wanted your ex. You should have gone and found her. Whats stopping you...... (read in full...)
Im planning on having sex with him, hes my first, Is it possible for a woman to enjoy sex within a week?
Q. My LDR bf will visit me for his week long spring break in about ten days. I feel I am ready to have sex with him (he would be my first) but he is hesitant because he's worried it will be painful for me and I won't be able to enjoy it within the six ...
A. 20 March 2007: You just need to be RELAXED, being tense and nervous will make the whole situation worse. Also, get some lubrication to make it even easier. It really depends on you, everyone is diffrent when it comes to these things.... (read in full...)
Can levonelle effect fertility, if so how long for ?
Q. i am tryijg for a baby with my husband but studiply had a drunken one night stand which menat I had to take the morning after pill. Now i'm worried that taking this will effect me trying to concieve with the man I love, my husband? Does anyone kn...
A. 20 March 2007: It CAN effect fertility if you use it as a contraception. But you have only used it once, and it should not have a lasting effect upon your fetility. Didnt you read the booklet ? Also, if you had unprotected sex you should get tested or you could ... (read in full...)
He never defended me, he has used things I told him in confidence, against me! What should I do about this guy?
Q. i have noticed a question on this site that i believe relates to me,well for everyone whom has judged me how about the truth. My xpartner allowed his xwife to call me the most disgusting words and never did he defend me,everything i have told him ...
A. 20 March 2007: You dont make any sense laburnum. And why are you sending me messages saying i am immature for a 42 year old and calling me enid. My names jennifer and im 17. Bit of an odd one you.... (read in full...)
My best friend keeps flirting with My bf!! How can I make her stop!?
Q. well ive been going out with my boyfriend for nearly two months. My so called best friend keeps flirting with him and its getting on my nerves to say the least!! i comfronted her about it and she said i like flirting with him and im not gonna sto...
A. 19 March 2007: Get your boyfriend to tell her to F***K OFF. Its the only way to sort it out. She isnt a very good friend if she is doing this to you. Tell your boyfriend not to text her back EVER, and tell him not to laugh at her jokes or talk to her.... (read in full...)
How do I forgive the fact that he lied for so long to me and will still see this girl ??
Q. I'm a sophmore in college, my boyfriend is a freshman, we go to different schools. We've been dating for 2.5 years, on sunday, he called me and said he's been cheating on me since january. he was sober, he had made-out/cuddled 5+ times, and he was ...
A. 19 March 2007: I would not bother. Find someone your own age (he is younger right?) and he sounds like a complete idiot.... (read in full...)
My dad says hes too old for and that I need to break up with him! Im 16 hes 19!
Q. Me and my 19 year old boyfriend grew up together. we just started talking in November Im 16 i will be 17 next month. my dad wants us to brake up because he thinks that he is too old. Do you think i am too young for him my mom and his family thinks ...
A. 19 March 2007: No i dont think he is to old for you. Tell your dad he should be grateful you didnt find someone even older, alot of girls go out with way older men. You are both still teenagers and i think your dad is over reacting. ... (read in full...)
I like this boy, he's just split from his girlfriend but I just can't tell him I like him!
Q. Ok so theres this guy I really really like. we are in the same year and I think I'm in love with him. I am only young but I'd honestly take a bullet for him! but heres the thing - we are from completely different worlds. He is mister popular, and ...
A. 19 March 2007: You could wait to prom night, but what if he comes with another girl ? Tell him before prom and maybe you will end up going with him. You just need to tell him, and if he doesnt like you back, you will GET OVER IT. You seriously need to tell this ... (read in full...)
Please help me how do I keep my friends when he's turning them against me and how do I stop him controlling my life??
Q. Please help me how do I keep my friends when he's turning them against me and how do I stop him controlling my life?? Can any one shine some light my way? I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago because iwas unhappy with the way the rela...
A. 19 March 2007: NO you are NOT the bad one. ... (read in full...)
I like this boy, he's just split from his girlfriend but I just can't tell him I like him!
Q. Ok so theres this guy I really really like. we are in the same year and I think I'm in love with him. I am only young but I'd honestly take a bullet for him! but heres the thing - we are from completely different worlds. He is mister popular, and ...
A. 18 March 2007: You need to think of it this way, if you dont say anything...he will meet another girl and you will have to put up with seeing them together, and KISSING. And that will hurt alot more than just telling him. If you can just tell him, or hint, you may ... (read in full...)
He has had a will written up and won't let me see it! Surely this should be done between man and wife? Don't I have rights too?
Q. One day my husband mentioned to me he was going to get a will. Sometime later a lady called and mentioned that she was my husband attorney for writing of a will she said has he beeen discussing everything with me about the will and us coming ...
A. 18 March 2007: Well your right, for all you know, hes giving away things that you both own. This does sound really sinister. Perhaps he is planning to leave you with nothing, If the will was split equally to the kids or everything was left to you, then he wouldnt ... (read in full...)
I am scared I will never be number one in his life...
Q. Me and my boyfriend fight all the time we can't agree on any thing. But I love him so much. When I am around him I feel something I have never felt before and when he looks in to my eyes i know he is true but I am scared I will never be never be ...
A. 18 March 2007: Well, it looks like i have found a match. I know 100% how you feel. I have ALWAYS felt secound best in everything. Im the least favourite child in the family. Ive usually always fell secound to another girl when ive been with a guy. Any job ive ever ... (read in full...)
Please help me how do I keep my friends when he's turning them against me and how do I stop him controlling my life??
Q. Please help me how do I keep my friends when he's turning them against me and how do I stop him controlling my life?? Can any one shine some light my way? I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago because iwas unhappy with the way the rela...
A. 18 March 2007: You have taken a real battering from this guy, and its time for you to stand up to him. Confide in the friend you trust most, tell them what he is like. When you see your friends and you speak to them, dont tell him. When do you see him if youve ... (read in full...)
If there really IS a God, why does he allow so much suffering?
Q. Do you believe in God? And if so why does he allow all the pain in the world. I’ve been brought up to believe in God and never doubt my belief. My family are not religious in the sense of going to church, my mother has always believed in God ...
A. 16 March 2007: I once heard someone say, if there was no suffering, there would be no appreciation. If we never had bad things happen to us, we would not enjoy the good. Have you ever wondered that in the beginning, bad things didnt happen. And people didnt ... (read in full...)
If there really IS a God, why does he allow so much suffering?
Q. Do you believe in God? And if so why does he allow all the pain in the world. I’ve been brought up to believe in God and never doubt my belief. My family are not religious in the sense of going to church, my mother has always believed in God ...
A. 16 March 2007: Well then...perhaps there isnt a god. ... (read in full...)
How do I keep myself under control without jeopardising our friendship?
Q. hi all, need your advice my husband and I have the same group of friends as we have been together for 12 years, we either all go out as a group or depending on events/shows etc, sometimes a couple of us go out on our own. The thing is though, ...
A. 15 March 2007: Spend time with him, but not on your own. If your husband or other friends arnt going, then dont go. Your wanting to kiss him for goodness sake, something is bound to happen eventually. Avoid it being just you and this man, if you want something to ... (read in full...)
How the heck do I forgive him and get past all this? Please help?
Q. Hello, everyone. I have asked for advice before regarding this but I think it all read wrong, I’m terrible sorry. When I met my boyfriend, he was kind, smart and sweet. He had just come out of a long relationship, but assured me, that he want...
A. 15 March 2007: I think you need to just leave him. How long before he breaks up with you again. You need to demand answers from him, WHY did he ask her to get back with him. Does he still love her or something. I think you need time to heal fully, and being with ... (read in full...)
He never defended me, he has used things I told him in confidence, against me! What should I do about this guy?
Q. i have noticed a question on this site that i believe relates to me,well for everyone whom has judged me how about the truth. My xpartner allowed his xwife to call me the most disgusting words and never did he defend me,everything i have told him ...
A. 31 January 2007: This mans obviously just said that you were caught cheating so he can make himself look better. The fact is that hes a coward and cant stand to his ex wifey. Who wants to be with a man thats scared of his ex. Dont bother with him. We all know he ... (read in full...)
He never defended me, he has used things I told him in confidence, against me! What should I do about this guy?
Q. i have noticed a question on this site that i believe relates to me,well for everyone whom has judged me how about the truth. My xpartner allowed his xwife to call me the most disgusting words and never did he defend me,everything i have told him ...
A. 30 January 2007: Dont give him any warnings. Just dump him. How DARE he accuse you of all the things he has. And how DARE he let his xqife speak to you in the manner that she did.If im honest i think hes still shagging her.... (read in full...)
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