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No one knows what is going to happen in the
next seconds of our life.
We either make ourselves miserable or
we make ourselves strong or happy"
The amount of work is just the same.
- Sometimes no matter how hard we try, things happen that are
`beyond our control.
-`Dont let this make you doubt yourself of your capabilities.
- Youre still the same wonderful person you always were.
I have a hard life in my youth, i grow up with the hate of my Mother. I work hard to let my self done in the School and support parents, brothers and sisters that in the end im still the best bad of all. I use the crying to heal the pain inside of me. I become strong because of all this experience and learn a lot about what life is. Im married and a mother of two. My life is not perfect like what i dream of, but having a roof, bed, food to live, a husband who i can really rely on emotionally and physically, a children who is very understanding and a good health thats the reason for me to thanks the higher power above that even i have a mother who hate me to death im still ok, and i will be ok. Life is not always perfect but 60% is already paradise.
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15 and pregnant, please help!
Q. im 15 and pregnant. im 5 weeks in and when i told my mum and dad they were furious. and they said they wouldn't support me. my boyfriend dumped me and said he wouldn't help either. so im thriving on my own and i am deciding whether to keep or not ...
A. 25 January 2010: I will take the advice from Petra at home, Theres a long way for you to go, everybody made a mistake. some people do things without straight thinking. The reaction of your parents is normal. Its not easy to have a responsability specially at this ... (read in full...)
My son's 18 year old friend wants to have sex with me - I'm 45! What do I do?
Q. I'm a 45 year old woman and I have a eighteen year old son. My son has a friend who is also eighteen. Yesterday I found out he is possibly going to Iraq within a month. He told me he's had a huge crush on me and that he wanted to have sex with me ...
A. 25 January 2010: Yeah after that, this friend of your son will do a big joke to your son. think this is 18 years old and a friend of your son dont you think one day they dont go together for a drink and talk about it. its a big shame for your son. i would suggest to ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with another man to make my husband happy?
Q. We are a happily married couple with a healthy sex life. My husband has mentioned during almost every love making session that he would want me to have sex with another man. He expresses an interest in threesomes (DP), watching me have sex with ...
A. 22 January 2010: i dont understand that!... (read in full...)
Should I end my marriage to find real love, or just be happy that I have someone who loves me?
Q. Ok i get married to a wonderful lady to help her out of a bad situation. we have been married almost two years. i love her but am not in love. I am 54 years young. i think everyday about how to get out, but don't want to hurt her and dont want to be ...
A. 22 January 2010: It is really hard to find someone who is good now, do you think that if you end up this marriage, and look for another women, do you think that the other women you will find new will be much better? every one has a drama in their life, maybe she ... (read in full...)
Help, I'm in love with a married man (my son's father), what should I do??
Q. Hey Cupid my name is vanessa. im new to the site but i have an issue and i would love some advice. In 2005 i fell in love with a guy. In 2006 i got pregnant and i had his baby. He had another child and he said he had no dealings with his other ...
A. 21 January 2010: Why ignoring the inner thought going in our head. Did u ever think sometimes that maybe you deserve a better one than he is? think, think and think...... (read in full...)
Love stories...
Q. I just wanted to say that I'm love, and it feels great. It's unrequited, but it really makes my life better. This isn't exactly an advice question, I just wanted to hear anyone else's love stories because this site always seems so depressing, why ...
A. 21 January 2010: Love is a many splendered thing...... (read in full...)
I am 14 and really ready for a baby... got money and stuff, what do you think?
Q. hi, i am 14 and want a baby..ive cared for babys all of mii life n have the money for it...i kno a baby is alot of work and its all about the baby and u come last..but i dont care.. i wanna have a baby to love me and share their feelings wit me n ...
A. 19 January 2010: Yes you are perfectly right. all of us here are just cared about you. but if you think we are wrong, and you are very very rich and able to have child then, im not sure that you need to write here and ask an advice. people here are just worried and ... (read in full...)
I am 14 and really ready for a baby... got money and stuff, what do you think?
Q. hi, i am 14 and want a baby..ive cared for babys all of mii life n have the money for it...i kno a baby is alot of work and its all about the baby and u come last..but i dont care.. i wanna have a baby to love me and share their feelings wit me n ...
A. 16 January 2010: therapist, yes.. thats the right word i need to say first. thanks Lonely two. i got it from you. Yes baby., You need to talk first to some therapist. 2nd grab a very lovely, sweet cute puppy for you. I think this is the best time for you to have ... (read in full...)
What the hell am I doing???
Q. This guy has been trying to get my attention for the past 5 years. he finally saw me in the store and approached me. I gave him my number because I thought he was attractive. He called me that same night and we began talking. It was an instant ...
A. 16 January 2010: Get out on that situation. as you said its already getting deep. but still you can still talk about it. so i think you still have a chance to carry your self out of the situation. get out there. its now or never..... Good luck anyway..... (read in full...)
15 and pregnant. HELP!
Q. Im 15 And Pregnant, i really need help. So please tell me what you think i should do....
A. 3 January 2010: You are not the only one who get pregnant at this age, some get pregnant at 14.., I would say, talk to your mother she will get mad maybe but its 100% sure that she will help you in any cases.. good luck... (read in full...)
Divorce my wife to date or marry her sister?
Q. have any men divorced their wives to start a relationship with their wifes sister. is it ok to divorce and begin a relationship with her sister, perhaps even marry her. ...
A. 2 January 2010: This is special situation which hard to understand.....
Why with the sister? and is the sister also not thinking?
Whats going on the world??????????... (read in full...)
We never have sex unless my husband is drunk!
Q. happey new year i;m married to my husband 7 yeras we have 3 kidds i work he work too my husband is a quit person te last 3 yras our relationship was rocky my husbandn is never home and if he is he is his room waching tv or online he dnt lough at me ...
A. 2 January 2010: Oh im sorry for what happen. But for me a Husband saying this kind of word to the wife drunk or not drunk i think its not a good sign. The respect is going down. If im on the situation, i will go, i will take a break, give a little space in between... (read in full...)
How to lose weight fast without hurting yourself?
Q. how to loss weight with out hurting your self to any pills an you are only 16 years old and want to loss it fast and keep it off for life can yall help me i mean its a new year i want to start off right but i need help because i know for sure i ...
A. 2 January 2010: If the wish is from the bottom of your heart, then it will be easy for you to do it. 16 is a good time for a change.
all my life i never gain weight, know why" i was very carefull to my self getting too much weight. when i was in your age i was 43 k... (read in full...)
I'm depressed about what I've done!
Q. My husband and I have been together since I was 14. I'm now 21. Please don't judge and call me a horrible person. I know the mistakes I've made. I've been paying for them everyday. Anyway, back to the problem. When I was 17 I told my husband I ...
A. 2 January 2010: Well i would say you have to made a desicion, You have to make a choices between the dark and the bright side. If you wanna stay on the guilt feeling because of what happen BEFORE" hopefully it will not happen anymore" well you can stay there an... (read in full...)
I'm 16, and my 20 year old boyfriend has 3 kids, am I in over my head?
Q. I am sixteen and seventeen in under a month. I am with a guy who i've been with now over a month he is 20. And even though it's only been a month i am really falling for him, he is amazing when i'm with him he makes me feel happy. The only problem ...
A. 1 January 2010: sweety, its not that im giving you a negative thought about this situation. But sweety You are young and fresh. Theres a lot more beautiful things are waiting for you,
Im not saying that you are going to waste your time and life to this man, but ... (read in full...)
Is it alright for a 16 year old to live with a 20 year old??
Q. Is it ok for a 16 year old to live with a 20 year old? ...
A. 31 December 2009: NO" if you can not still afford the paying of all the bills, house rent, baby's needs.,electric etc. etc....
Yes" If your parents agree to that and this young Man is already job stable.......
16 must think to go to school now.. Not thinking of ... (read in full...)
I use masturbation to relieve stress...but I feel guilty afterwards. Any advice?
Q. Hi, i'm 15 years old and i've been masterbating since I was 2...Literally. I tried to stop last year but I still do it up to this day, although I feel guilty, dirty, and ashamed after. I heard it's a stress reliever , it does take away all my other ...
A. 30 December 2009: I think at this age, its more practical and more reasonable than getting pregnant at the very early age.
No you should not feel guilty at all., theres nothing wrong with that. Just do it in a proper way and enjoy it.. happy new year dear... (read in full...)
How do I forgive the person who raped me when I was a child?
Q. For years a family member molested me from the age of 4 till I was 12. When I was 9 he started to rape me, I use to be very sore for days and I bled alot and I got infections and couldn't walk properly. I never told anyone as he always threatened ...
A. 27 December 2009: I just dont understand why youre still dreaming of forgiving him! who is this man in your life? what kind of membership of the family he is standing? You should do something about it. at least a revenge. if you made your revenge make it sure that he ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend didn't give me a Christmas present!
Q. My boyfriend didn't get me a Christmas present. I wrapped all his kids gifts and put mine under the tree. We ad a talk prior to Christmas about exchanging gifts. I didn't was there to be any financial burdon on either of us, so I suggested that we ...
A. 27 December 2009: I thought love is not expecting something! i thought love is letting go. Christmas come, my husband didnt give me any single or even a little present. although i do give him present. he say sorry that he dont have any present for me and i just ... (read in full...)
How can I make him hate her and love me instead???
Q. i am sleeping with a guy who has a girlfriend that he cannot sleep with because of her religion. Anyways i am confused. people have told me that he is playing me and i think he is. he has said some really hurtful things to me like he loves her but ...
A. 12 December 2009: Why people sometimes never learn? Why dont you try to let him go instead? NO BODY" as in no body can control anybody's feeling. You know the situation that he had a girlfriend then and he is not lying to you about that. Youre just hurting yourse... (read in full...)
I'm a bit ashamed that I cant afford to buy her expensive gifts, should I tell her I don't have much money?
Q. Hi,i'm 22 and my girlfriend is 21 well we are dating together already 5 months, i'm 2 year university but shes already 4 year and working. We really like and even love each other. Recently she wrote me several letters that she's completly in love ...
A. 30 November 2009: What you feel right now is normal for a man. dont you worry so much. She might understand that youre still in university. theres no problem to sit and talk to her and tell her the truth about this matter. being honest in the relationship is always ... (read in full...)
I had an affair with a womanizer then gave his wife my email and password to show her the proof
Q. Hello, This is just a follow up of what I have written earlier. I got involved with a 68 yrs old man thru internet online and he is married. He is a womanizer, but still I loved him and even learned to love his imperfections. Up front I told him...
A. 28 November 2009: What you exactly you are doing right now is a revenge.
If you think this make your feeling ok and a bit better then its ok. You have the right to look and find the way to your peace of mind & soul. for your side its ok. for him maybe its ok cos ... (read in full...)
I was so angry with my married lover that I sent a letter to his son revealing all about our relationship!
Q. Dear Cupid, Can love be so true when he is with other women at the same time he is with me? I am 38 yrs old and separated. I met a 68 yrs old married man through internet chatting. I fell intensely in love with him and we shared feelings onlin...
A. 27 November 2009: Hello sister, there is a saying, think anything U want but dont say all of it. sending a letter to the son i think is a bit out of the border,But" i think your reaction is just normal. of course you are hurt and when somebody get hurt, instantly we ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said it's too expensive to get a divorce, that's it's only a piece of paper but it's tearing me apart...
Q. I have been in a relationship with a guy for almost 4 years now. Living together for most of it. I love him more than anything, and we have been through a lot together. We both have 2 children from previous relationships and all 4 children are ...
A. 27 November 2009: oh my god, believe me i know exactly whats goin on in your mind. cos id been in that place like you too before. until i give up and say ok, anyway i love him and we have one son together. so its ok if he really can not devorce his wife and can not ... (read in full...)
My wife wants me back but I've booked a holiday with my internet lover!
Q. I develop an embarasing problem where i lost all of my head hair. resently my wife and i have drifted away and i was planning to leave her for another beautiful woman that i met online. she is dazling. since my head hair loss things have turned rite ...
A. 24 November 2009: hehehe what was that?... you know what, its better be honest to our self and to someone that sometimes become part of our life. tell the truth. dont hide to this hair story this is just funny excuse. just tell your wife, something new is coming and ... (read in full...)
My cheating man says he will change his ways!
Q. I got my man in our house with a lady in our room,they admitted they had sex without condom?it was not for the first he cheated on me.he started cheating on me previously with his ex-girl friends.i do nt find a place in my heart this time to ...
A. 24 November 2009: I just dont understand why you are still with him! is that love? maybe he is thinkin that you love him so much that what ever he do you can always forgive him. well thats enough now. he is taking for granted on you now. i think its a little too much ... (read in full...)
Why is my wife not as tight as she was?
Q. I went away for couple of weeks to work, and when i came back, my wife was sort of lose, and before i went out, she was nice and tight. When i asked her why she got loose, she jumped and and chaged the topic and she did not want to talk about it...
A. 24 November 2009: its only in your mind i think.. lol...... (read in full...)
The love in our marriage has been replaced with hate
Q. My life is a mess - I have decided to leave my wife as I can no longer tolerate her constant nagging, neagitivity and derision.The problem is we have a 15 month old daughter and she is 4 months pregnant. I am torn because I love my daughter to ...
A. 24 November 2009: Pleaseeee.. please, dont do that now.. i have a feeling that your wife now is in need, physically and emotionally. she need now more your understanding..,she just dont realise that by her self thats why instead of talking about it she put it in ... (read in full...)
Why is he unhappy?
Q. My fiance and I would have been celebrating our 5th year together in December but in October he tells me that he feels like something is wrong with him, he thinks its an early mid-life crisis (he's 33), something is missing in his life, he feels ...
A. 24 November 2009: He seems depress, i think yes', yes you are not the reason that he is now unhappy, somethings really happen there but i think he do love you. its just that he is now in position that he is not stable emotionally. either you can stay communicating to ... (read in full...)
I am having an affair and want to end it!
Q. I am 41 years old and married. i am having an afair with a 25 year old person. he is of lower financial class than I . i have a child that i adore. i want to stop this afair and i can not sometimes i dream of being with this guy for ever but i ...
A. 24 November 2009: God this is really hard situation. hmmm.. i think this is about getting exciting to side kick relationship, plus emotion plus he is young plus sex plus diffirent kind of fun. partly maybe there is love too. you love him because he is the exciting to ... (read in full...)
Problems in the family...
Q. I am turning 22 this January. I have a problem with my dad. He has a mistress. My mother is always upset with him. My father left our house and went to live with this new mistress. I am really bothered, because I don't want my family to come to ...
A. 21 November 2009: baby, im so sorry about whats happening there in your family. you are too young to face this problem. but it seems you are pretty smart. see' things happen in our life most of the time are not expected. this is really hard in your situation because ... (read in full...)
HOw can I control my urge to have a baby?
Q. Im 16 years old and i want a baby! i have previously been pregnant two times and miscarried both, which left me very emotional. i have always wanted to have kids but over the past 6months i have wanted one more and more and it can get emotiona...
A. 21 November 2009: hi sweetheart, believe me, i do understand what you feel right this moment. and yes its hard to fight against our emotional wishes. i will suggest to you now, to get a little cute puppy or dog to take care. this will help you emotionally. take care ... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend and can't live without him...
Q. I've been in love with my best friend for 4 years now. He's only 19 and I am 35. I love him so much and I think I can't live without him. Please advise me on what to do....
A. 21 November 2009: I believe in the line " age does not matter at all "
16 years diff. between you and your best friend.
i see nothing wrong with that. why not? you have the right to fall in love just like everybody else.
the question is" do you think he feel the ... (read in full...)
We fight everyday and she annoys me. Should I break up with the girl I love?
Q. ok i just want to say thanks all of you that have read my past questions and here is a question i have now.. i broke up with my 20 year old fiance and now i have an 18 year old girlfriend that goes to the u of a. i love her but shes starting to ...
A. 7 November 2009: if we do love someone, and if that someone love us too, theres nothing wrong if you ask her to seat down and talk about something in your relationship. if the love is in the air, love will bring you to the situation that you two will understand each ... (read in full...)
At 24 am I too old to be happy again?
Q. i'm 24 and at the moment i'm not in such a good place in my life. 4 months ago my ex broke up with me - i adored him and it left me reeling. I'm getting over it now - and i feel ready to move on, but my confidence is pretty low. I feel like no ...
A. 6 November 2009: Of course not honey, to be honest youre just growing right now. the real exciting in the woman's life is just starting to you now, U must enjoy it every seconds. dont worry about the guys, they are just around you waiting for the right moment that ... (read in full...)
My first cousin got me pregnant!
Q. I need advice... I did something extremely stupid one night after one too many and it resulted in my pregnancy. The complicated issue here is that the father is also my first cousin he is my fathers nephew (hes my aunts son). After more...
A. 3 November 2009: I think, its only the matter of choice and the choices is in you. i think if you dont abort the baby, i think theres no problem or any side effect just because this is the baby of your cousin. i think no problem with that. But" if you continue that" ... (read in full...)
Alcohol takes over me and I attack my husband... do I have a drink problem?
Q. Please help guys...? I'm not sure what to do anymore. When I have far too much alcohol (which isn't often) I have attacked my husband (scratch and bite)(I'm sounding like a wild dog which I'm so ashamed of)...it's as if I have a blind rage and t...
A. 3 November 2009: Honey, yes" you have a drinking problem and sure you can not handle or control your self when you are under alcohol.
Believe me or not there is only 2 way that you can change it. Its you by your self to decide not to drink anymore OR if you can not ... (read in full...)
Soon 16 and never been kissed
Q. I am 16 in two months - I have never been asked out or kissed by a guy. Does this mean that I am turn off to guys ?...
A. 30 October 2009: God no" absulutetly not. when you reach 16 or 17 or 18 or more it doesnt mean that guys got turn off to you, No'
its just that guys really adore you and respect you and they need a lot of preparation to get nearer to you. You are special you have... (read in full...)
She says she can't stand me asking if she's seeing someone else, but she never wants to have sex! So she must be cheating, right?
Q. My girlfriend and I are having a problem seeing things from the same point of view. We've been together for almost two years and I have told her from the start that as long as we have sex and I am sexually satisfied, that we'll be happy and I w...
A. 28 October 2009: for a woman who spend a lot of her time and show her love to her real love one., and the change from the past and even maybe now is shouting, agression makes the feeling of the woman down. I understand her feeling. so either you start to learn how ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I are 14, we want to have a baby, any opinions?
Q. Me and my girlfriend are deeply in love and want to have a baby. Were 14...
A. 27 October 2009: Oh god, Oh god, Oh god...... wakeeeeeee upppp..BIG "NO" Do you have already enough things to start life? Do you have already a stable income? Does she know already anything about being a mother..? Think... Think... Having a baby is not rea... (read in full...)
Should I have an affair on my husband?
Q. Soon after getting married, my husband had an unfortunate incident where he became paralysed, resulting in us not being able to have a sex life. I love my husband dearly and I did not leave him. I look after him and attend to him the best way I ...
A. 27 October 2009: This is an true story and advice it maybe long but think of it. I have my cousin, her Father got accident and got disabled after the 2nd daughter came thats my cousin and the father was 24 years old that time her mother was about 23 years old. Her ... (read in full...)
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