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writes: happey new year i;m married to my husband 7 yeras we have 3 kidds i work he work too my husband is a quit person te last 3 yras our relationship was rocky my husbandn is never home and if he is he is his room waching tv or online he dnt lough at me he dont spend timewith me or the kidds dont know if he loves me or not i do cook and clean i puy most ofthe pills i know it sound wird but many night i talk to him itold him need his time and his attentoin all he say is he happey with me and loves me he spends more time his freinds then me i realy dont know wat is wrong with him we never have sexy unless he is drunk one night he was drunk and we had fight he said he hates me and my vigina is too big and he dont enjo my sex i was so shock and i was crying all night long next day he apologize me if he dont love me why is he around?we dont do nothing together we dont share nothing eventough e ignores me and neclect me istilll love imwith is wrong with me i hate my self to do this shall i wakl i.m hurt and sad iknow i;m strong woman he is lucky to have me 'm sceard out side world i realy dont know wat to do any advise i bleave for better and worse wat shal i do thnx
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 January 2010):
Drag him to counselling. He's taking you for granted and is clearly not happy. So you both need to get talking. This problem can be worked through if you both want it to. You need to tell him how you feel, and he needs to open up. Clearly if he doesn't and things don't change, you'll need to leave for your own happiness. But seriously get talking to him and tell him how low you feel.
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reader, Ich_liebe_dich  +, writes (2 January 2010):
 Oh im sorry for what happen. But for me a Husband saying this kind of word to the wife drunk or not drunk i think its not a good sign. The respect is going down.If im on the situation, i will go, i will take a break,give a little space in between. take a time to think.Dont be scared facing the reality, i know its easy to say but its hard to do. but believe me its only our fear.Remember that you grow up in this world without him. You said you are a strong person and i think i will believe that. So theres nothing for you to worry about. Only the love or the emotion you have to your Husband. but sometimes we need to take a little pause and listen to our feelings. Every one needs that. So give your self also a time to think it over.Happy new year too and i wish you all good luck...
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