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No one knows what is going to happen in the
next seconds of our life.
We either make ourselves miserable or
we make ourselves strong or happy"
The amount of work is just the same.
- Sometimes no matter how hard we try, things happen that are
`beyond our control.
-`Dont let this make you doubt yourself of your capabilities.
- Youre still the same wonderful person you always were.
I have a hard life in my youth, i grow up with the hate of my Mother. I work hard to let my self done in the School and support parents, brothers and sisters that in the end im still the best bad of all. I use the crying to heal the pain inside of me. I become strong because of all this experience and learn a lot about what life is. Im married and a mother of two. My life is not perfect like what i dream of, but having a roof, bed, food to live, a husband who i can really rely on emotionally and physically, a children who is very understanding and a good health thats the reason for me to thanks the higher power above that even i have a mother who hate me to death im still ok, and i will be ok. Life is not always perfect but 60% is already paradise.
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I don't get on with my mum, how do I tell my parents I am pregnant?
Q. I'm 15 years old. Yesterday i found out im pregnant. The father is not my boyfriend and never was. I have never been more scared in my life. My parents are divorced and I live with my dad because me and my mom don't get along. My mom is re-married ...
A. 24 February 2010: You did not mention how many months you are already pregnant!
1 month baby in our belly is already a new life. But" If its in max.1 month you still have a chance without a guilt to take it out or abort. But if you are willing to go on with this baby... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and want to know what will happen now...if I do happen to be pregnant?
Q. i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 21, we have been good mates for about ten years. we have now been going out for 3 months, and i think i am pregnant. what will happen if i keep the baby? please help me ...
A. 24 February 2010: What will happen? is that really the question here? well if you are pregnant, in 4 months your belly will start become big and more bigger when its 9 months. In 9 months you will have a baby, you will become a mother. 2 months before the baby come ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being a jealous girlfriend so I don't lose my boyfriend?
Q. I have low self esteem and feel extremely inadequate to be with my extremely accomplished boyfriend. Because of that, I am a very negative person and it is draining him, literally. He is positive and loves me very much but me being so negative and ...
A. 22 February 2010: you have to choose if you wanna lose him you can continue being always jealous but if you really love him then you have to start" to love your self, trust your self, believe in your self. thats the key so you will not feel this jealousy.. i know its ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, my 46 yo relative has admitted he is in love with me
Q. im inlove with my second cousin his 46 and lives in scotland and im 16 i want my feeling to stop but recently he told me he feels the same i live in the uk he doesnt know how i feel i just want to get over him but his texts are just solidifying my ...
A. 22 February 2010: RUNNNN, Run as fast and as far as you can... Save your self, save your future, SAVE YOU... Be strong.. dont let the emotion win you... Save your life.. May god guide you...... (read in full...)
My husband is unhappy because people now know about our marriage
Q. I left the military to be with husband. We kept our relationship on a down low because he is an officer and I was enlisted. But, I got out so that I could be with him and marry him with no problems. I had envited three of my closes friends from ...
A. 21 February 2010: did you ever talk to him about this? Did your husband ever think that getting married is not only buying a beautiful Television in your new room that you can easily hide it to people? What is he thinking? and you are accepting that? did you ... (read in full...)
I am so sick of my girlfriends lazyness.
Q. Me and my girlfriend been together for around 4 years.we moved in and have lived together for 2.as of late she's been a bitch,anything and everything I do goes un noticed. She doesn't cook,clean,or help with bills.she likes to snap over the dumbest ...
A. 21 February 2010: I feel for you and understand you. Luckyly its not a real baby, its only a dog. what then if you two got a baby, oh my god. sit down and talk to her about this matters. you must let her know what your problem is or else she is going to think that ... (read in full...)
Doesn't he love me anymore?
Q. My husband of 5 yrs (been together for 11 yrs) has become increasingly uninterested in me and our marriage over the last 7 yrs. I'm not really sure if he is having an affair, although a lot of the circumstances surrounding us appear that he could ...
A. 20 February 2010: Im really sorry for this situation you have. I know its easy for us here to give some comment or suggestions, but for you its not easy to make a decision. I have a feeling this relationship is not anymore active and mentally healthy. I think its ... (read in full...)
Don't want to lose her because of guilt!
Q. Hi. I am 18 and my girlfriend is 17. We already had sex, but it's been a year since we started and now we only done it like 8 times. But we do things like oral sex and other pleasurable things. I know it's wrong, but we can't stop ourselves from ...
A. 20 February 2010: By the way i forgot to say, having a baby is not the super glue of the relationship, sometimes it is the reason why relationship broke up because of too much strees and responsabilities., so better keep an eye on that. DONT GET PREGNANT. you two ... (read in full...)
Don't want to lose her because of guilt!
Q. Hi. I am 18 and my girlfriend is 17. We already had sex, but it's been a year since we started and now we only done it like 8 times. But we do things like oral sex and other pleasurable things. I know it's wrong, but we can't stop ourselves from ...
A. 20 February 2010: Juts let her use birth control or anything that avoid pregnancy everything will be ok. This is normal at this age, its the first step to grow up. As long you two thinking of the future everything will be ok. Let your two feelings go dont control it, ... (read in full...)
Wife no longer interested in sex; is it OK to look elsewhere?
Q. Hi there everyone, Mike here, new to the site but isn't it good? I have a problem, we've been married over 35 years and we hav'nt had sex for the last 22 of them, we've not fallen out in fact we're far better together than when we had sex, but just...
A. 20 February 2010: Yes its wrong." why dont you sit and have a serious talk to your wife! Tell her what you need.. please dont go now to this thought about looking to another, it will break the marriage, its not a joke its a promise" it will really break if you only ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about my period sickness?
Q. Hello, I take to my periods very badly.. Every time I get my periods I experience Dizzyness, Feel very sick, Sore Heads, Bad moods, very sore stomach, and loose my appetite .. Should I be concerned? Thanks...
A. 20 February 2010: You are not alone dear, i have the same feeling too. Its terrible, sometimes i feel like its killing me. I try to not to" but i have no choice but to take some medication. Take care ok..... (read in full...)
I want to move in with my boyfriend, how to bring it up in a subtle way?
Q. Basicaly I've been with my boyfriend just over a year and I want to take the next step - moving in together, how can I bring this subject up in a subtle way so it doesnt seem as if I'm pushing. It's not like I'm ready to marry and have kids, I'...
A. 20 February 2010: Yes you can have an amazing future ahead with him IF" you prepare everything first. You said you are not yet ready for kids or thing like having family. If you move in together do you think its not going to affect things! Its the start".., i dont ... (read in full...)
My penis is growing, what should I do?
Q. Hello ladies and gentlemen, I'm kinda emberassed to ask this but my penis is getting large day by day and certainly i haven't take any pills to get it enlarged but i wonder if this is a deases or is it something that has to do with me? It's really ...
A. 18 February 2010: hehehe faraday, thats nice... (read in full...)
Just some advice on pregnancy for school project.
Q. now i have a question, its not for my self, it not real, its honestly 4 a project. but im afraid to ask my mom for help cuz she tends to period about these kinds of things so i thought id try hear first. is it true that women can bleed 6 days after ...
A. 18 February 2010: Google has a lot of answer dear... Goodluck... (read in full...)
My life is miserable now. Will I ever be happy again?
Q. Will ever be happy? 18 just finished school all my 'friends' are in college and having fun my parents cant afford to put me through school. soon i'm not doing anything with my life and on top of that i'm i'm ugly,fat and have a small penis and i've ...
A. 18 February 2010: you said" soon i'm not doing anything with my life and on top of that i'm ugly,fat and have a small penis and i've never had a girlfriend."THEN" DO something. find a job, work with courage to save money.., save save save money untill you can afford ... (read in full...)
Is there any reason why I shouldn't bail on our marriage?
Q. I'M trying to save our marriage at the last 10 years,it is 25 year long now... Well, there is no luck. After years of counseling,self -improvement on my part... He did not change a bit. Now, he is sexually unavailable,not just emotionally.. Long ...
A. 18 February 2010: Sometimes life is not really easy at all. Sometimes its hard to us. Im sorry for the situation you have. I wish i can heal the pain you have now. but not" all i can do is to tell some thoughts that maybe could help. You said the Children are already ... (read in full...)
I feel like he raped me... he was so aggressive!
Q. hi so im turning 16 in april and my bf turned 19 a week ago. we have been together 3 months but ive known him since i was very young, about 4. we had sex for the first time the other night, not my first time ever. i had sex with my ex bf 3 times. so ...
A. 16 February 2010: Save your self honey before its too late... your young, this love what you feel right now, you can still manage to hold it back, you seems pretty smart person. you will find better than he is and you deserve somebody who is not aggressive. dump him ... (read in full...)
What are my next steps with this?
Q. I am in the middle of a divorce and have met a married man who has the same values and needs. My marriage will be over for reasons that have nothing to do with him;however we have connected both mentally and sexually. I was asked where I was 10 ...
A. 16 February 2010: You just said that you are in the middle of devorce, you are just now on your way out from the trouble you have had. next thing to do now is to be nice to your self now. Dont rush on thing now. After you get out from trouble take time for your self. ... (read in full...)
I really want a baby, but I am confused at the whole situation.
Q. Hi I'm 19, I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now never been happier and I know he's the one he is a few more years older then me. I've always wanted a baby. Last week I had a scare, told my boyfriend and he said if you are it's good news ...
A. 15 February 2010: What about plan A. getting married, plan B. the place were U two are going to live then plan C. future finace. if its on rush make plan D. for a baby... I wish you all luck..... (read in full...)
He's married, but I love him!!!
Q. He's married, but I love him.... I don't really know what to expect back from everyone but I just need an impersonal sounding board. My frinds all say the same thing, he's married, he cheated on his wife so you can't trust him. But here's the deal...
A. 15 February 2010: You love him, that is normal but he is a married man. I dont wanna say anything negative about him cos i dont really know him personally. But i just wanna say to you. Dont".. dont do this. what ever you feel, try to hold it. No matter what happen he ... (read in full...)
He used me as a substitute girl! How do I teach him a lesson?
Q. we've been relationship for 6months.before relationship he told me he has a gf 3yrs ago,she cheated him and went to overseas with her new bf. i comforted him and later we're in love. then later i found out that he still keep in touch with his e...
A. 13 February 2010: What about if we use this as a lesson to our self? Look, you will try the best you can do to do a revenge. ok lets think you do it. what about if he just reject what ever revenge you will do, you will just end up hurt and crying. Forget him, move ... (read in full...)
I get jealous of the special way he treats his wife but I am very dependent on him! What should I do?
Q. i have a lover who is married for over 20 years. We've been together for almost 3 yrs now. I am 32, he is 50 now. i love him so much and he loves me also but he loves his wife and children. most of the time, i get jealous and hurt because of the ...
A. 13 February 2010: Youre still young, you still have a chance to build a new life for you. No matter what you do, its not going to work. He is a married man, U have to think about it. forget the dream that one day maybe he will leave his wife. he is not going to that. ... (read in full...)
I want these feelings for my teacher to go away! Please help me!
Q. i'am in love with my teacher, he is 26 and i'm 14 i know this is wrong, and i dont want to feel this way. but when i see him my heart beats really fast and my face gets really hot, and i feel conscious! i have tried to tell myself that i just admire ...
A. 12 February 2010: No.... No sweety, this is not bad. What you feel is exactly normal in this age. I was there too before but not with the teacher, only on our validictorian because he is really smart. But i did not think it negative for my self. Instead i use it as a ... (read in full...)
My sisters breasts are bigger than mine, will he choose her over me?
Q. Hi, I am with a man, and I love him and he loves me deeply. But he is very, very sexual. He watches porn all the time and he basically has one of the highest sex drives knows to man. Well, I have this insecurity. I have really small brea...
A. 11 February 2010: Its maybe only your fear that he maybe turn to your sister because you think she is better in everything than you are aside of bigger breast. But hey" if you say he loves you and he wanna marry you, what do you scared for? you said its obvious that ... (read in full...)
I'm sick of my wife being lazy and doing nothing! I deserve better, don't I?
Q. Right, I'll try to keep this short and to the point. I have been married for 10 years (together with my wife for 13 years), all in all we've had a pretty good marriage so far and I was pretty content. Until our new neighbours moved in. Now...
A. 11 February 2010: Im happy to read what is your feed back.. You are not only saving your relationship to your wife here but also your children and the Good Family you have.. I wish you a good start of the new year.. ... (read in full...)
I'm sick of my wife being lazy and doing nothing! I deserve better, don't I?
Q. Right, I'll try to keep this short and to the point. I have been married for 10 years (together with my wife for 13 years), all in all we've had a pretty good marriage so far and I was pretty content. Until our new neighbours moved in. Now...
A. 10 February 2010: I think comparing the wife or the partners to the others wife or partners is not a very good feeling or thoughts to every part of a couple. It will damage the relationship. its like a virus coming in. So please dont start to this thinking. This is ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 10 February 2010: You know what, we have a saying how you fixed your bed thats how you sleep in your bed, so if you fixed your bed like a scramble paper that not matter what you do even you iron it'll still scramble. Then be it. Dont expect that people here will ... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and my bf has a 16 year old daughter who is doing everything in her power to split us up.
Q. my boyfriend has a 16 year old daughter. i'm 19 and he's 50 - she's had a problem with us being together for the whole year and a half we've been together. at first i tried to get on with her but she started being devious and trying to get him back...
A. 9 February 2010: you are 19 and he is 50 with a 16 years old daughter! Are you really willing to fight for your right as a girl friend of her father? Im not sure if this is for good. well if he is very, very RICH maybe you have a reason to fight for this. But if you ... (read in full...)
What do you think of my Valentine's Day gift idea?
Q. I have only been with my boyfriend for 2 months so for valentines day we both decided not to do anything over the top. So for him I fought that I could get him a teddy with a rose and then get him a necklace and put it around the teddies neck. What ...
A. 9 February 2010: hehehe celtic tiger, i like your comments..... hello girl, its teenage love, id been there before. really i didnt give much, just a simple card made from my own hand. A piece of paper with my hand written say's Happy Valentines.. and thats it... I ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with an older married man, and he's a friend of the family!
Q. I cannot beleive I am doing this...but i feel i have no other choice but to ask for help from those not attached in any way to the situation. I am a girl who feel in love with some one i cant have for so many reasons. I am a military dependa...
A. 9 February 2010: Run.... Run as fast and as far as you can....
This will lead to nothing but worst relationship.....
Seems you are a very pretty nice and strong person. I knew you can still handle your emotion. Dont go down there... Dont step more forward to it.. ... (read in full...)
17 and pregnant???
Q. Hello, I'm seventeen and i posted a concern on here a couple of days ago. Like i said before i had unprotected sex sometime around the 15 or 16th day january and my period was due on the 26th of january. It is now almost two weeks late and im ...
A. 8 February 2010: Hopefully you knew exactly the possible result of having sex.
Get Preganancy test, why dont you do it now! what makes you stop or wait or scared? you did it right so you better stand to it. Hopefully youre not pregnant. and if you are not preg... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has an anger problem and I'm worried about my unborn child
Q. im pregnant and worried about by boyfriends anger. been to the doctor as he has hit me in the stomach and i am worried bout hurting my baby. my friends say i should leave him! i don't know what to do. please help ...
A. 8 February 2010: God" Dear we are just trying to give our best advice to you here. And i have a feeling everybody has a diffirent writing but in the end i see that we are in the same thoughts. So its up to you now if you will take the advice or not. Everbody here ... (read in full...)
I know the chances are slim but I worry I am pregnant
Q. Im 15 in 8 days and i think i might be pregnant... I have been seeing the father for 5 months, i wasnt drunk and we didnt offically have sex, he went up me a tiny bit without a condom, i know there isnt much of a chance but im still worried. What ...
A. 6 February 2010: Just correcting my self...
Get a pregnancy test, if you are negative, Thanks God"
If you are.., Talk to your Mother, ask advice and if its possible" Take it out... You are young" This is the time for your Schooling, Learning, Have fun beeing ... (read in full...)
I know the chances are slim but I worry I am pregnant
Q. Im 15 in 8 days and i think i might be pregnant... I have been seeing the father for 5 months, i wasnt drunk and we didnt offically have sex, he went up me a tiny bit without a condom, i know there isnt much of a chance but im still worried. What ...
A. 6 February 2010: Get a pregnancy test, if you are not negative, Thanks God" If you are.., Talk to your Mother, ask advice and if its possible" Take it out... You are young" This is the time for your Schooling, Learning, Have fun beeing teenage. God" Knock the head... (read in full...)
15 with a planned pregnancy!
Q. Im 15 and Pregent , Me and my boyfriend started haveing sex unprotected for about 2 month but i never i got pregent , Until One day we Both decided to Plan on haveing a Baby. Three weeks ago after he cummed inside of me . I took Three pregencey test ...
A. 6 February 2010: Just following up, Just realise" you are dreaming of getting pregnant, you dont even know how to write it correctly.. Im sorry little girl but this is not the right time for you to have a baby., Try to go to School first and learn some good things ... (read in full...)
15 with a planned pregnancy!
Q. Im 15 and Pregent , Me and my boyfriend started haveing sex unprotected for about 2 month but i never i got pregent , Until One day we Both decided to Plan on haveing a Baby. Three weeks ago after he cummed inside of me . I took Three pregencey test ...
A. 5 February 2010: Whats goin on? I read a lot here, 15 years old either pregnant or wanting to have a baby! What about the School?
What about the freedom being teenage! Better get a cute baby dog and put your attention to it. Thats what i do to my 16 years old girl... (read in full...)
Am I just their cook and cleaner?
Q. I have been with this man for three years taking care of his teenage son, cooking, cleaning, helping feed and so on, with the understanding when he turned eighteen this man and i would be alone. now i find he's going to be underfoot till who knows ...
A. 2 February 2010: Its not your responsabilities to do all this mess. At this age you deserve to be relax and happy living. If this is what this Man can offer for you for a living, better leave them alone with their mess and live your life happy with peace. Good ... (read in full...)
Mom is disappointed I went to a club instead of the movies. Am I a bad person for telling the truth?
Q. Hey you guys,i kno it has been a while and I have missed you all.Ok,last weekend was my cousins birthday and she decided to go to a club afterwards.I had an eerie feeling about it but mi cousins convinced me not to be scared(being that i'm only 16 ...
A. 31 January 2010: No, absulutely not. you are not bad,You are a normal teenager and a nice girl who just trying to have a little fun and experience. But the Mom will be abnormal if she dont worried about her daughter. She love's you like hell and worrying to the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has an anger problem and I'm worried about my unborn child
Q. im pregnant and worried about by boyfriends anger. been to the doctor as he has hit me in the stomach and i am worried bout hurting my baby. my friends say i should leave him! i don't know what to do. please help ...
A. 31 January 2010: Run.... run as fast as you can.... Leave him........
You have a better life in the future together with your baby..... Angers problem is not an excuse for any matters.. if he cant stand the coming responsabilities infront of him. he must be hone... (read in full...)
Do I stay and work in UAE to support my children's basic needs and education, or do I go back to Philippines and work again as a teacher to guide my children?
Q. Hello Aunts and Uncles, I am a 38 yr old mother, self-supporting my 3 children, ages 15, 9, and 5. My husband is not helping me out financially for the children reasons I left my work as a public teacher back in the Philippines and work abroad....
A. 30 January 2010: Hi,i am in the same position like you before. and i have a lots of friends suffering like you. The good thing with you is,when you go back to our country you still can work as a school teacher. for me is impossible because i work in hotel. and you ... (read in full...)
15 and pregnant, please help!
Q. im 15 and pregnant. im 5 weeks in and when i told my mum and dad they were furious. and they said they wouldn't support me. my boyfriend dumped me and said he wouldn't help either. so im thriving on my own and i am deciding whether to keep or not ...
A. 25 January 2010: I will take the advice from Petra at home, Theres a long way for you to go, everybody made a mistake. some people do things without straight thinking. The reaction of your parents is normal. Its not easy to have a responsability specially at this ... (read in full...)
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