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No one knows what is going to happen in the
next seconds of our life.
We either make ourselves miserable or
we make ourselves strong or happy"
The amount of work is just the same.
- Sometimes no matter how hard we try, things happen that are
`beyond our control.
-`Dont let this make you doubt yourself of your capabilities.
- Youre still the same wonderful person you always were.
I have a hard life in my youth, i grow up with the hate of my Mother. I work hard to let my self done in the School and support parents, brothers and sisters that in the end im still the best bad of all. I use the crying to heal the pain inside of me. I become strong because of all this experience and learn a lot about what life is. Im married and a mother of two. My life is not perfect like what i dream of, but having a roof, bed, food to live, a husband who i can really rely on emotionally and physically, a children who is very understanding and a good health thats the reason for me to thanks the higher power above that even i have a mother who hate me to death im still ok, and i will be ok. Life is not always perfect but 60% is already paradise.
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I am worried about the shape and size of my penis, and whether it will cause problems in my marriage
Q. i am 21 year old and due to muslim cast my mom and dad forcing me to get marry and i am also agree but problem is that i have curved shape penis and it is too small and too weak and thin. i am afraid of breaking relation about this topic ...
A. 15 May 2010: Everything is fine, no worries, only fun, fun, fun........ (read in full...)
Wife doesn't satisfy me sexually like past loves...
Q. my former girlfriend was raw with me in bed,she made me feel that no other woman can give me hot sex,now am married and cant find such satisfaction in my wife,yet i love her,what do i do?...
A. 15 May 2010: Im also really curious". Why you did not marry your former girlfriend???... (read in full...)
Should I tell my partner I was abused when I was younger... by my brother?
Q. When I was a child I was abused (sexually) by my older brother. I've had no contact with him for years except for the past year when my father got sick and he was there. Aside from my mom, the rest of my family does not know about it. Being in my ...
A. 15 May 2010: To find the peace of mind i think you can talk about this to your partner. I think it is more positive if you are the one who will tell this to your partner, he loves you and he will understand and giving you more comfort. Hopefully not but i think ... (read in full...)
Am I too skinny to have boyfriends?
Q. Hi! I am a 15 years old girl and i have shame of my body because i am so skinny/thin and i think i am ugly (some guys say that i am beautiful but i dont believe i dont know if they are telling the truth) and i think that guys will not like me becau...
A. 13 May 2010: hey honey" cheer up" you have the dream body of all fashion women on earth. Dont believe that you are not going to be hot girl" yes the guys are telling you the truth. you are beautiful and sexy. you should be proud and happy to your body. lots of ... (read in full...)
Did I get her pregnant? How do I deal with this?
Q. I'm a male 20 yrs and I think I may have ejaculated inside this woman, I'm positive that I ejaculated outside as I saw with own eyes. But my lack of self confidence makes me doubt myself. I'm totally freaking out and I'm constantly cursi...
A. 13 May 2010: I understand the words " im not ready to take the resposibility yet".. that is really understandable. But if she really get pregnant that means you gonna be a father soon. and weather you like it or not you are going to be responsible to this. Dont ... (read in full...)
He's let me down after this unintended pregnancy, and he's making me feel very low!
Q. Hi...im in a bit of a mess and dont usually do this sort of thing but my family are bias (obviously) and i feel i need some impartial and objective feedback and advice. I am 35 and have been in a relationship with my partner for 16 years. We ha...
A. 12 May 2010: Pleaseeeeeeee....... If you want the baby the keep it. You are now 35 years old and maybe this is you last chance to have a baby again so please if you love to have this baby then keep it. You should not be affected so much to what he is doing. I ... (read in full...)
My parents limit the time that my b/f and I can talk on the phone together
Q. Dear Aunties, My parents limit the hours I may text/talk to my boyfriend. my mom won't let me have my phone past 10 on weekdays and 11 on weekends. My boyfriend and I have been together over a year, and I love him. I know I'm only 16 and I know no...
A. 9 May 2010: Honey i feel for you, but i tell you what" you are so lucky to have this kind of mother. Some mother dont even allow their daughter to have a bf. she is not controling you she just loving you. believe me all of us go through this procedure in life ... (read in full...)
How do I get this depressed feeling out of my chest?
Q. Hello I'm soo depressed and I feel is killing me inside. Sometimes I wake up feeling ok and others days feeling down and I throw up and I dnt even eat. How can I make or what do I do so I won't think negative. When I think negative is when I get ...
A. 9 May 2010: This feeling depress is the hardest time we can have.
Think that you are not alone who experience that and suffering depression. At this moment of time no body can really help but only you. Look around you, how small or big the place is you will... (read in full...)
How do I stop family members from talking over me?
Q. I have problems with family members because they don't listen to a word I say. I might say something really important, and they just talk over me or change the subject. They treat me with no respect. I'm starting to feel like they're taking m...
A. 9 May 2010: Leave" if they can not respect you then find somebody else who will respect you. and live your life with peace of mind. You deserve that. good luck... (read in full...)
I need help with losing weight!
Q. I am 14 years old and am kinda overweight. I really want to lose weight and gain some muscle what is the best way to go about doing this without starving myself?...
A. 7 May 2010: 30 minutes regular exercise everyday, minus ice cream minus chocolates minus fat food plus healthy steam vegetables plus fish not fried plus lots of water minus soft drinks minus junk food minus pop corn plus lots of fruits minus cakes plus ripe ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to make rules to my boyfriend
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years, but have recently decided to take a break, because I have been unhappy with some of his behaviour. We both want to get back together, and make things work, but I am wondering what steps I ...
A. 2 May 2010: NO" its not ok.., im sorry to say this. first we have to accept that we are powerless over EVERY other single person. We can not rule anybody. We can not change anybody, we can not say, if you love me you will do this. No" We can not do that.. The ... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend tell his parents I am pregnant?
Q. I'm 37 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend has not told his parents that I'm pregnant, whenever I ask him when he is going to tell his parents he always tells me that he will do it soon and its now 3 weeks left until our son comes... Please help don't ...
A. 2 May 2010: If the parents or the mother of the boyfriend will find out that you are pregnant, do you think that the mother will take care of the baby or at least help you in any cases? of course it is important that the part of the boyfriend family will know ... (read in full...)
Pregnant and hated, but my ex wants to take the baby
Q. so me and my ex dated for 2 years... it wasnt the best relationship, i loved him but he wasnt too affectionate and we had fights because i was jelous of his ex who was always in the way. he recently moved to another country and after 2 weeks of ...
A. 24 April 2010: What ever happens happen., for now you have to think of your self and the baby. leave him, forget him he is not the right man for you and he is not the right father for your baby. go away and start thinking for your self and the baby, you are a ... (read in full...)
Will I look back and regret sleeping with a 46 year old man?
Q. Hi, thanks for your time, I'm 17 and the guy I'm having casual sex with is man who is 46, with the benifit of hindsight will I look back and think what he is doing is wrong? It's just a pattern I've noticed throught life, as I get older I look bac...
A. 23 April 2010: Oh my", i just hope that you didnt get pregnant. i think you will regret it someday. honey you are 17 and you are in stage of puvirty and you thought this is love. but no" this is not at least i can call love., i really hope that im wrong. but ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend REALLY want to marry me?
Q. My boyfriend's family don't really like me but I want to get married to him. They would be totally against it. He says if I can get a million fans on my Facebook page he'll marry me anyway. So far I've only managed to get 137. Surely if he re...
A. 20 April 2010: The question is are you really prepare to please him to the rest of your life?... I dont understand you! its already clear. If you get a million fans on your face book he will marry you. what is the connection of face book to love? is that sound not ... (read in full...)
Why do I stay with this man who drinks every day?
Q. my man drinks each day and sayes hes not got aproblem its been 3 years now why do i stay whith him help ...
A. 19 April 2010: Im not sure how my idea will help, but in AA group ( alcoholic anonynous ) they have also what they called alanon. this alanon live with their partners who drinks. I also think that hpoco comment would be a great help. i think its ok to check it ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend told me he'd leave if I got pregnant, and I tested positive.
Q. I am 15 and i done a pregnancy test this morning it was positive.My boyfriend said he would leave me if i ever was what should i do?...
A. 18 April 2010: Forget him, and decide, talk to your parents, this is not a joke situation, getting pregnant is a big huge responsabilities coming ahead. so better talk to your parents as early as you can, at this age no body can really help you seriously but only ... (read in full...)
In My New School Should I Tell People I'm Gay or Not? and Advice
Q. Hi I am 13 and Im gay. Recently I've been getting more and more attracted to men and not at all women and I have been looking at gay sex and straight sex and I've always been atrackted to the penis never the woman and although many people say that ...
A. 18 April 2010: First of all i believe that you are not the only gay in this earth. 2nd its not a crime to be a gay. 3rd this is your personal life, theres no body allowed to tell you who you should be. If im you" if you think and you feel you are a gay, then be ... (read in full...)
Why are we arguing more than ever? I don't understand why this is happening
Q. I am 57 years old divorced after 30 years. I now have a new partner who is 33 years old. We have been together for 3 years She is German I am English. We moved from the UK to jobs together in France. We have a 5 month old baby that we love a g...
A. 13 April 2010: I would say, sit down and talk together in good mood. speak about whats going on now, and try to tell her. sorry that you can not easily get what she really want you to do, what she really want you to say or speak and how she want you to act. but at ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to try and see him even though he has said he is very happy with his girlfriend?
Q. I met this guy from germany through an internet and now he's here in the same country as mine.However, he will only stay here for like 12 months for a community service. Months after, he arrived in my country and we've been texting each oth...
A. 12 April 2010: Im sorry about this my dear co' filipina. but NO".. stop hoping that one day he will like you because he already said he is happy with his filipina girlfriend. YES" you can continue communicating with him just for FRIEND. my dear co' filipina, i ... (read in full...)
Why are we arguing more than ever? I don't understand why this is happening
Q. I am 57 years old divorced after 30 years. I now have a new partner who is 33 years old. We have been together for 3 years She is German I am English. We moved from the UK to jobs together in France. We have a 5 month old baby that we love a g...
A. 12 April 2010: think that she just have a 5 months old baby.. when the woman just got a new born baby, the hormones changed. i dont exactly know how to explain it, but im sure mostly that the woman just have a baby is happening like that. they become moody, easy ... (read in full...)
Is this a big age difference?
Q. there is a man who is 11 yrs older whants to marry me ,,iam 22 and he is 33,,is it a big age diffrence??...
A. 12 April 2010: Nope" theres no big difference on your age.. i think its more good combination... good luck... (read in full...)
How can I show him I'm not still cheating?
Q. hi there, i cheated on my partner earlier this year. I feel like a slut for doing it. He is always saying to me that im still cheating. But im not. I made a massive mistake once. Im not gonna do it again. Im scared that he'll leave me. i wanna try ...
A. 12 April 2010: by the way, i forget to say.. forgive your self. thats the first thing you must do, you did not do a crime! so theres no reason for you to suffer all your life. theres husband and wife out there and cheating to each other, so that means, you are ... (read in full...)
How can I show him I'm not still cheating?
Q. hi there, i cheated on my partner earlier this year. I feel like a slut for doing it. He is always saying to me that im still cheating. But im not. I made a massive mistake once. Im not gonna do it again. Im scared that he'll leave me. i wanna try ...
A. 12 April 2010: once the glass has already a crack its already hard to put a super glue on it. the only way you can do is to have patience, understanding and time. patience for him and to understand his normal reaction. time will never change the past but it will ... (read in full...)
I lied about my age, should I tell him the truth?
Q. I am a 42 year old woman who often gets mistaken for being much younger. My problem is that I met a guy who is 37 and I lied (as i don't like to devulge my age) and said I was 38. I didn't think we would continue but it seems we have a spark ...
A. 12 April 2010: First of all i would like you to know that you are not alone.
you are not the only person who keep a secret. but yes the saying that no body can hide the smoke when there is a fire.
Its not late yet. you can only choose. face it or run away fro... (read in full...)
How do I bring up having a baby with him?
Q. okay so this is basically a lot of questions about my relationship... one- last year my boyfriend asked me to marry him (without a ring), it was amazing, i thought we were close before but that has made us 'one'. we looked at rings and i pick...
A. 12 April 2010: just wait a minute, please dont find it in a wrong way, just wanna ask how old are you? 16 or 17? and what job do you do?
because in your post you are in 16/17 years old so is this 16/17 are already able to find a good and descent job?
maybe... (read in full...)
Nearly 15 and never had a period
Q. Hi im nearly 15 and I haven't had my period what should I do?...
A. 12 April 2010: Dont worry sweety, if you dont have your period when you are already in 20 above then i think you can start worrying, but for now, you can only enjoy your self and relax.. ... (read in full...)
I don't feel like I can tell my mum I have got my first period.
Q. hi, im 13 and yesturday morning, i had blood in my knickers, which im sure was my first period. at first i panicked, but then i calmed my self down and used tissue. i dont feel i can talk to my mum about it just yet, but im worried that it will get ...
A. 10 April 2010: Congratulation honey... I tell you what! your Mom also got her first period. So im hundred percent sure that she will understand it if you tell it to her. I think you better start to be open now to your mother about every important things whats ... (read in full...)
How do I get my dad to realize that my stepmother is the problem too?
Q. hiya, two years ago my dad got re-married and i HATE her. i've written about her before but then it wasn't so bad. she doesn't do anything to me but her even BEING there is awful. i have told my dad this many times but he always takes HER side. sa...
A. 10 April 2010: I think i will agree to the comment of cnith.,
and for now i think try to be patient, focus on your school, finish it and be stable on your own in the future. 18 years old can already be on their own here in germany at least i thought you are from... (read in full...)
I know he is not good for me, but ....
Q. Hi, I have been going out with a guy fot the last year. When we first got together it was brill oh godhe rocked my world, he was sweet but now getting to know him its alot diff.... He doesn work so i pay everything (Which doesn bother m...
A. 10 April 2010: You already answer you self, you know he is nit good for you. then run.. run as fast and as far as you can... Just simply Run..... (read in full...)
Should I let him finger me?
Q. hi umm i need help this boy wants to finger mii weve recently dated nd recently brokeup...now he wants to finger mii but im reallly scared can u guys/girls help mii...
A. 10 April 2010: why you wanna let him do that anyway? and why you are worrying much about what he wanna do to you? why you dont wanna worry what is going to happen to you? first of all think of your self. respect your self so in the future man wil respect you too.... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and pregnant
Q. I am 15 and pregnant with my boyfriend of 3 years. Yes I know I'm silly please don't bring that up, all I'm asking is for help. Anyway, I have been to the clinic as it is half term, I am getting an abortion, both me and my boyfriend are 50/50 about ...
A. 7 April 2010: If you cant tell it to your mom, how about some other relatives like auntie or older sister? school nurse is not bad if you feel you can trust her emotionaly. I think your dicision is ok. youre just thinking of your future. hopefully after this you ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, he's 15, LDR and he proposed to me but I know my parents won't like it!
Q. Well ummm, my internet boyfriend and me have been going out for two years now, we met on imvu, he lives in south grafton, nsw, and i live in adelaide, sa. While we were on facebook one day, he proposed to me (he's 15 turning 16 and i'm 14 by the w...
A. 6 April 2010: Meet him in person, stayed just friends, dont go deeper than that, theres no rush on 14, 15 years old.. better concentrate in school. if you two love each other, made plan TOGETHER, enjoy the teenage time, finish the school, get educated, get a good ... (read in full...)
How do I get a good guy?
Q. Hi, I'm a 14 year old girl, just started high school and turning 15 in 2 months. So I've been thinking lately that i would like to have a boyfriend. Ive had many relationships before but obviously they didn't. my longest was 3 years , 9 months, ...
A. 5 April 2010: getting a good man is not easy. first you have to love your self, respect your self, school, be responsible to your self. if you have a good education, you will have a good place in job and society' there you will find a lots of good person, well ... (read in full...)
Does true love exist?
Q. how do you know when true love is true love? or does it even exist? please comment...
A. 4 April 2010: Yes.. True love exist....
Love is giving, understanding, respect, honesty, forgiving, helping and letting go. Love is very powerful in our life. Think that, love is the reason why we wanna live.
Love is not only a romance, its a relation of two p... (read in full...)
I want to have sex but it is against my religion.
Q. Please help me. I come from a very religious country, and aside from that, I'm a Christian. I am 26, female and a virgin. Now I think my body wants to have sex so bad. I want to have sex, but my faith advises me to be celibate before marriage. Now I ...
A. 4 April 2010: Hello my dear co" Filipina.. first of all i want to tell you i am pure Christian Catholic just like you. I was in the church for 6 years as a Choir. My parents are extreme Catholic. And yes i was able to keep my virginity till i finish my college. ... (read in full...)
Choosing between guys AND whether to abort or not!
Q. Well guys I'm stilled confused. My husband left me about eight mths ago and now I"m pregnant with another guy's baby. My husband recently contacted me with the hopes of us getting back together. When i went to see him he ask if I was pregnant and I ...
A. 4 April 2010: I have a good feeling about the comment of Natasia..
I think this a bit difficult situation, i just want to add a bit to natasia"s comment, Do you love the guy No.2?
because if you do i think its ok to choose No.2. but the guy No.1, he said he ... (read in full...)
Can anyone explain why I feel guilty?
Q. Right i wrote here before regarding my alcoholic ex boyfriend who smashed my windows and how he was awful to me. well idiot me got back with him and he got worse and worse he has smashed every window in my house cut the sky cable and just been ...
A. 1 April 2010: You already have said, your family is making it more worst to your feelings. the question is, Why are you still there? Look" theres only one thing more i can tell you. GO AWAY" GO leave the people who always hurting your feeling and always putting ... (read in full...)
How long do you wait until you simply agree to divorce this person and move on with your life?
Q. If your spouse came to you and said they did not want to be married any longer, moved their stuff out of the house and began separation procedings. Months after the initial discussion, this same spouse tells you their feelings have grown platonic, ...
A. 30 March 2010: Im sorry about this.,if im on the situation i will give my self another half year to see the situation if there is still a positive chance to this relationship. but if i see that its just getting worst i think i have to learn how to let go with ... (read in full...)
My mum has threatened to kick me out of the house if I don't do what she wants!
Q. im 16, pretty independent, mature an very respectful. but lately ive been stressed out an realy upset cause of my mum. she is extremely controlling, in fact she grounded me until i am mature! my mum knows my dream is to be a great chef, and she ...
A. 30 March 2010: Parents, Mother... why is it always like that! when their child was born, they are so happy that they have very beautiful baby to play with and a baby to make them happy. When the child starting to grow up. they are not learning how to let go, they ... (read in full...)
If you really loved me, you would do this ...
Q. I met my boyfriend about 10 months ago and he lives about and hour and a half away. I spend all my free time with him..which is every saturday and days during the week... and love him very much. he asked me to move six months after dateing and I ...
A. 29 March 2010: Again.. having power over other person... If you love me you will do this" such a crazy mentality, can you believe that. so funny".. couple comes together to love to respect each other NOT to RULE the partner. He is starting to see how far his power ... (read in full...)
Can anyone explain why I feel guilty?
Q. Right i wrote here before regarding my alcoholic ex boyfriend who smashed my windows and how he was awful to me. well idiot me got back with him and he got worse and worse he has smashed every window in my house cut the sky cable and just been ...
A. 29 March 2010: Your own emotion fail you. counsiling is not bad to visit sometimes, you have to learn how to trust your self, i have a feeling you are suffering with what they called low self esteem. You dont need that. put in your head, YOU ARE GOOD AS YOU ARE. ... (read in full...)
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