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No one knows what is going to happen in the
next seconds of our life.
We either make ourselves miserable or
we make ourselves strong or happy"
The amount of work is just the same.
- Sometimes no matter how hard we try, things happen that are
`beyond our control.
-`Dont let this make you doubt yourself of your capabilities.
- Youre still the same wonderful person you always were.
I have a hard life in my youth, i grow up with the hate of my Mother. I work hard to let my self done in the School and support parents, brothers and sisters that in the end im still the best bad of all. I use the crying to heal the pain inside of me. I become strong because of all this experience and learn a lot about what life is. Im married and a mother of two. My life is not perfect like what i dream of, but having a roof, bed, food to live, a husband who i can really rely on emotionally and physically, a children who is very understanding and a good health thats the reason for me to thanks the higher power above that even i have a mother who hate me to death im still ok, and i will be ok. Life is not always perfect but 60% is already paradise.
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Can anyone explain why I feel guilty?
Q. Right i wrote here before regarding my alcoholic ex boyfriend who smashed my windows and how he was awful to me. well idiot me got back with him and he got worse and worse he has smashed every window in my house cut the sky cable and just been ...
A. 1 April 2010: You already have said, your family is making it more worst to your feelings. the question is, Why are you still there? Look" theres only one thing more i can tell you. GO AWAY" GO leave the people who always hurting your feeling and always putting ... (read in full...)
If you really loved me, you would do this ...
Q. I met my boyfriend about 10 months ago and he lives about and hour and a half away. I spend all my free time with him..which is every saturday and days during the week... and love him very much. he asked me to move six months after dateing and I ...
A. 29 March 2010: Again.. having power over other person... If you love me you will do this" such a crazy mentality, can you believe that. so funny".. couple comes together to love to respect each other NOT to RULE the partner. He is starting to see how far his power ... (read in full...)
Can anyone explain why I feel guilty?
Q. Right i wrote here before regarding my alcoholic ex boyfriend who smashed my windows and how he was awful to me. well idiot me got back with him and he got worse and worse he has smashed every window in my house cut the sky cable and just been ...
A. 29 March 2010: Your own emotion fail you. counsiling is not bad to visit sometimes, you have to learn how to trust your self, i have a feeling you are suffering with what they called low self esteem. You dont need that. put in your head, YOU ARE GOOD AS YOU ARE. ... (read in full...)
Am I being old fashioned? Is sex is necessary when it comes to relationship?
Q. i had a bf,a very first bf. he asked for sex.when i refused immediately he cursed me and said i'm boring and old fashion. i talked to my friend.they said it's my fault for reject his offer. she said it's normal to have sex when they're in relat...
A. 28 March 2010: No" you are not old fashion, you only made a little rule in your self and you just want to respect your own rule. And if this bf step away just because he did not get what he want, at least you find out very early what is his only motive in this ... (read in full...)
Do you think going to the bar would help me find 'Mr. Right'?
Q. i've been a single for 4yrs.. hate being a single for long time while my friends got themselves their mr.right. i've been to youth club a yr ago but none of guys doesn't seems attracted to me. i thought about dating site,my cousin warned abo...
A. 23 March 2010: Dont think too much, Let the right guy find you, you'll never know maybe he is just around you. Mr right can find anywhere. One time you find him in a shooping mall, church or maybe as like what you said bar. But for sure he will come to you very ... (read in full...)
I'm not over him and Facebook isn't helping. Should I delete him as a friend?
Q. there is this boy i like and we went out for a week and then he ignored me for a whole month, and then he came back and was like i'm sorry. he wants to get back together. I really like him ALOT. however, he's like you know what type of relationship ...
A. 22 March 2010: Yes' delete him, delete everything that reminds him to you.
If you really wanna move on, you have to take out all his shadow's in your site. Do it at least till the time that your emotion is already strong and not anymore affected to his pres... (read in full...)
She has "long" nipples!
Q. Hey, my girlfriend has long nipples and only a size A breast she's a tiny girl and don't get me wrong I love it. She's probably the sexiest woman I have ever seen or been with. I am just wondering why does she have these long nipples? They're ...
A. 19 March 2010: Well maybe she has it since birth, i am not sure if having a child will make the nips longer. because i have already two children but my nips. never change. its still the same..... (read in full...)
Husband cheated and got girl pregnant!
Q. what to do? i'm a christian, but am so confused. married 12 years and he cheated on me and got this young girl pregnant. he wants to stay with me, but how am i supposed to deal with him being involved in another child's life that isn't mine!!? we ...
A. 19 March 2010: God is there yes' but in reality he is not the one who will deal with this relationship. This situation is not a joke. You two are married and have 3 children, this is actually a great family. But He'' your husband made a mistake. He didnt even ... (read in full...)
I need some help with how to get pregnant!
Q. I'm 36 and I'm trying to get pregnant for 4 years. I've tried IUI who came negative and my fertility doc say that I need IVF, whitch I couldn't afford at this time. I don't want to adopt and I want to have a child on my own. Can any one help ?????...
A. 15 March 2010: Try this thought, an advice i share to my friend who is now 8 months pregnant. So' take out all stress, dont think and dont wish to have a baby,keep your brain and spirit free thinking, think happy, eat good food, lots of vegetables, fish any good ... (read in full...)
I hate the naked girly pics on his computer! What should I do?
Q. All the time I find pics of half naked girls on my boyfriends computer, and I tell him I don't like it and it just keeps making me feel sad and bad about myself, what else should I do to make myself feel better?...
A. 13 March 2010: First you talk to him and let him umderstand that you are not comportable seeing this half naked pictures in HIS computer. See what is he going to do. If he dont do anything about it, if he just ignore what you said. Then there is another option. I ... (read in full...)
Help!!! How do I make a good impression on his parents? Meeting them for the first time!
Q. Tomorrow my boyfriend is taking me to meet his parents and I am soooo nervous! I want to make a good first impression because me and him are really in love. Any advice (:...
A. 13 March 2010: If you and your boyfriend are really in love, theres nothing for you to worry all about when meeting his parents. Of course its normal you got nervous., but dont you worry. You dont need to act special way just to please them. Just be who you are, ... (read in full...)
Should I take my teenage daughter to a clinic to get birth control? There are no close females in her life and I am worried about her
Q. I am a single father of 3 teen age children, 1 daughter (16) and 2 sons (17) and (19). My daughter has been dating a boy from her school since late january. He seems like a nice enough of a guy but my sons call him a "player". A few nigths ago I ...
A. 10 March 2010: oh im sorry, i did not read it right, pardon me sir. Yes i would say, i think you can not talk to her about this matters easily. its gonna be a bit complicated then,but i think if you do it in a right time and in a friendly gesture maybe you can ... (read in full...)
Should I take my teenage daughter to a clinic to get birth control? There are no close females in her life and I am worried about her
Q. I am a single father of 3 teen age children, 1 daughter (16) and 2 sons (17) and (19). My daughter has been dating a boy from her school since late january. He seems like a nice enough of a guy but my sons call him a "player". A few nigths ago I ...
A. 9 March 2010: Yes' it is the good thing that you the mother is the one who will talk to her in the first place. this is the part between the mother and daughter must talk about. in this case you must be open to her, she is going to need your support in this ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I do not want my mother to run my life?
Q. I am a 19 year old female who works a full time job and in college in business management. I have a boyfriend who is 24 whom i have known for five years. I currently live with my mother who had kicked me out at 17 because of an abusive relationship ...
A. 8 March 2010: NO'' its not wrong.. for heaven sake i dont understand sometimes some Mother's, why they cant leave their Child alone, if their child is only 10 years old i think its ok to drive the system. But hey' you are a grown up person. Stop it' Dont let her ... (read in full...)
Been with him for 10 years and want to get married...
Q. I need Help, I have been with My Boyfriend Almost Ten years, and I have hinted to Him For awhile that I want to Get married. He has a son that I just adore and He is know asking his dad why we are not married. I feel that it is Time for us to Get ...
A. 8 March 2010: I think its already a little too long. 10 years is not anymore a joke. I think U deserve to get what you want now. Every woman dreaming of marriage and you are not diffirent with US. You can talk direct to your live in partner. I think you're both ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and now really sick. I can't work, but my finacee says he no longer wants to support or marry me.
Q. I am 3 months pregnant. Since I have been pregnant I have been very ill and unable to work as much as usual. I have found this very frustrating as I like to be financially independent. I have been with my faience for 6 years, and since I have been ...
A. 7 March 2010: For now that you cant work by your self and the fiancee doesnt wanna do anything about this baby i would suggest, get out there, Go to your parents and try to start all over again. dont depend on this man again. leave him, you and your baby dont ... (read in full...)
15 with a 10 month old baby. I feel so lonely.
Q. I have a 10 month old baby and im 15. When i was about 8 months pregnant i left my high school. Im in indepenent studies though, im so depressed I have no friends at all I only talk to my boyfriend, I do everything with him. I just feel so trapped ...
A. 7 March 2010: I wish a lots of 15 years old girl will read this message of you. So they will see how you are suffering now. Please dont take it as a negative comment on you. Partly its a lesson to all teenage at 14 / 15 want to have already a baby. I dont blame ... (read in full...)
I told him I like him, so why wont he say it back?
Q. I have this guy friend who never tells me how he feels and I always tell him. I've been really sick lately. So I don't feel like talking to him? But he never seems to talk to me anymore. I tackled him oneday to give him a back hug and he smiled big. ...
A. 6 March 2010: Maybe he dont really like you in a 2nd level of relationship. Maybe he is only content being good friend to you. Why put your stress and time with this? he can be a good friend to you always, but you can find another man who can really show you what ... (read in full...)
I can't believe that no one remembers my birthday
Q. So I'll be 45 in two days. My kids are grown, and I've been dating this guy for 2 years. He has 3 kids; 13, 15, 21. I am currently staying with him until I close on my house (he wanted me to live with him, but the house is too small and I just ...
A. 6 March 2010: If you cant stand the feeling like they are just using you to celebrate other's b.day and they dont even remember your b.day. the best thing to do is leave them alone. Dont joint to their party and make party on your own. I normally feel good when ... (read in full...)
I can't believe that no one remembers my birthday
Q. So I'll be 45 in two days. My kids are grown, and I've been dating this guy for 2 years. He has 3 kids; 13, 15, 21. I am currently staying with him until I close on my house (he wanted me to live with him, but the house is too small and I just ...
A. 5 March 2010: marieclaire has a point i think i like her comment. by the way if the family really forget your birthday, dont you worry you are not alone having that experience. My mother never remember my birthday too even im the one who call her. my mother's ... (read in full...)
Help!!! How can I move on with my life???
Q. So I have recently gone through a very traumatic breakup. I was with this guy for 2 years. We planned on getting married and had our kids names picked out. We were so much in love or so I thought. He left me on January 15th because he liked another ...
A. 5 March 2010: Did you ever think that he dont deserve this precious brilliant diamond heart of YOURS? Simply forget him and move on. The reason he is not with you now is because YOU deserve a better one than he is. Its only our emotion makes us weak, think that ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on the girl from work. Should I approach her?
Q. I have a crush on a girl from work, we've hardly spoken but I think about her all the time. I found her on facebook but not sure if i should approach her for fear of looking scary. what do you think?...
A. 4 March 2010: YOu know what its only the feeling what you have now, take the first step and you will see its not that really hard. If you have a good entention to the woman, theres nothing for you to worry about. woman can feel it if the guy is ok. Go for it, its ... (read in full...)
Can I be friends with a girl who is older than I am?
Q. He cupid, i want to ask some question here. i met a girl on the internet. we shares pictures to each other and also share mobile number. she have a good work and i have a good work too. she was born in 1985 and i was born in 1987. now we are ...
A. 4 March 2010: What is the problem if the woman is a bit or a lots older than the man?
What is the diffirence between Man is the older than the Woman?
I dont see the diffirence with this. As long both of you understand each other, can get along with each other th... (read in full...)
I have a feeling she cheated on me but no evidence, and she really wants our relationship to work. What should I do?
Q. I have been dating the same woman for 3 years now. An incredible relationship. I truly love her inside and out she is my best friend and I truly trusted her with everything until a week ago. She feels the same way about me, I am certain. We had a ...
A. 3 March 2010: Love is a many splendered thing, according to one song i just heard., If you really love her from the bottom of your heart. Theres always a room for forgiveness. Either its true or not, forgive and forget and move on.. Yesterday is a History, today ... (read in full...)
I like a guy 2 years younger than I. What should I do?
Q. dear cupid, this guy is almost two years younger than me. evryone who knows us says he likes me, i know i like him, what should i do?...
A. 3 March 2010: nothing wrong in the age i think. i mean its ok who ever the young one or older one. but if you are 16 then he is 14 am i right? well if its so, then its ok to have crush, inspiration thats normal really., but pls. take it only as experience ok. ... (read in full...)
She says the baby is not mine, but I am worried she is lying
Q. on Dec 02, 2009 I ejaculated on a females stomach. I went into the bathroom to get a towel and left the room for a few minutes. I received a call today 03/02/10 from this girl stating she is pregnant and is due on july 9,2010. my question is--is it ...
A. 3 March 2010: Im sorry but i dont get it much. you said it happen December 2, 2009 and now she is pregnant and the due date of this pregnancy is July 9, 2010. and you are thinking that this baby is yours? is my understanding correct or?? because i understand the ... (read in full...)
Is it possible I am pregnant? We were very cautious so I don't see how this could happen!
Q. I had sex on the 20th of Feb, and we used protection of course, and i even checked if there were any holes in it by filling it with water. my period is due real soon and yesterday i felt like i had it all day but i didnt, and today ive been getting ...
A. 2 March 2010: Nope, your not. this what youre having now is a sign of your coming days. dont worry, panic is not what you really need now, what you need is to relax and have a good time.. Have a great day dear....... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I can go through with this pregnancy because I don't want to be a single mum with 2 kids to 2 different fathers
Q. I find myself in a tricky situation. Im 7 wks pregnant to a guy ive been with for 5 months hes loves me totally but im not sure i feel the same.i feel something but not sure what. Getting pregnant has been a shock an accident. Ive been single for 3 ...
A. 2 March 2010: Oh my" this is really tough'" first of all you must not think that being a single mum wid 2 kids and 2 father's is shame. No its not" i actually admire a women who can do and handle that situation. But yes, i really do understand what you mean and ... (read in full...)
After 20 years of marriage I just don't love him the way I did before...
Q. I know this is easy for some, but really am serious when I say that I just don't think I can stay married to a man that I promised to spend the rest of my life too. We've been married 20 years now. Things have always had there ups and down. That's ...
A. 2 March 2010: The best thing you already did is to give your self a time to speak about your feelings to a close friends, because it really helps a lot inside. it can let you breath at least for a time. Im not really sure if i am right here, but i have a feeling ... (read in full...)
I am 13 and confused about love and relationships
Q. Im sorry that it's long but my life is confusing.. So i like this guy in my school and he likes me back. I've known him from 4th grade and he's liked me since 6th. A while back in January while i dated my current ex-Boyfriend for the 7th...
A. 28 February 2010: It means, at 13, you must not think too much about this problem. its ok to get confused but dont take it too serious, it will come clear to you later. if you are happy in one thing then just go for it. dont bother the thoughts of others,its not ... (read in full...)
I am 13 and confused about love and relationships
Q. Im sorry that it's long but my life is confusing.. So i like this guy in my school and he likes me back. I've known him from 4th grade and he's liked me since 6th. A while back in January while i dated my current ex-Boyfriend for the 7th...
A. 28 February 2010: When i was in this age my problem is how to pass my test, how to clean and make my room look nice, how to cook and how to help my parents in everyday routine.... (read in full...)
My mother says I am sending the wrong message by giving a gift
Q. ok, my mom said it means u like a guy when you give him a birthday present and he's not your boy-friend?? is that true? im 15 he's turning 17 and she wont let me give my guy friend a birthday present. i dont think it is true neither do other people ...
A. 28 February 2010: Part of it yes. maybe a little crush for you but its normal. its depend on your gift. and your mother" she is normal too, she is not over protected, she just want you to remain a good person. your mother love you and so you do. take care there..... (read in full...)
Our friend is depressed because she can't pass her drivers licence
Q. Morning, I desperatly need some advice. My friend who is 28 is trying to get her drivers licence, she has failed a few timesand after each test she is becoming more withdrawn. She hardly comes out with us anymore-infact my birthday is coming up and ...
A. 28 February 2010: Tell her she is not alone, she must only know that she is not the only one who failed the driving test. so she must not feel down. tell her, not having or not passing the driving test is not the reason to get depress, theres a lot of bad things ... (read in full...)
My friend is pregnant again, and I don't want to have to help financially again
Q. I'm probably going to get alot of backlash with what i'm about to write so I want you to read this post properly. I have been mates with this girl for about 10 years. In that time she has has 2 children that were accidents 1 of which I'm god...
A. 28 February 2010: God did you ever think that this is already part of manipulation? and why you're letting her to do that to you? look" there is a lot of way to scape. You must let her know that everything has a limit.and you must put also a bounderies in YOU,if y... (read in full...)
My older friends are pregnant and it makes me want to have a baby
Q. Im 15 and i have older friends that is like 17, 18, and 19 and they are all pregnant and that makes me kinda want to have a baby because it seems like there life is good with the baby and the father. is that good for me to feel this way? should i ...
A. 28 February 2010: No sweety its not a good idea. I would say you better adopt a little cute puppy ( dog ) and treat it like your baby,make a dress for your puppy and just watch your 3 friends who is now pregnant. Just watch them till they have their babies. you will ... (read in full...)
How can I make my mother understand she's being unfair?
Q. Okay, so this isn't really a relationship question, but here goes: I'm 14, nearly 15. I have a little sister, who's 10, nearly 11. My little sister is, essentially, I spoiled brat. She gets WHATEVER she wants, and gets away with EVERYTHING. I L...
A. 28 February 2010: hey sweety, i dont understand why sometimes mother has a favoritism in her childrens. but i will give you a little Story that maybe could give some guide. I WAS A SINGER. I am a singer. i started when i was 9 years old. i join singing contest and ... (read in full...)
I want to travel the world but my parents won't let me.
Q. This is not really a question about relationships or anything but I am only 13 and I want to travel the world and be on my own but my parents won't even let me walk around by myself! What should I do?...
A. 27 February 2010: First you have to put a little bit more of your age, because 13 is just starting to get into the door of puberty. dont hurry sweety you will get there in next 10 years. 2nd you have to prove and show to your parents that you are responsible person ... (read in full...)
My abusive boyfriend is attempting to emotionally blackmail me into staying with him. Should I believe it?
Q. My boyfriend of two years has physically, emotionally, and mentally abused me for two years. I finally found the strength to try and leave him and he is throwing countless excuses in my face that make me reconsider... he was extremely depres...
A. 26 February 2010:
Be strong, dont let him manipulate you more and more. If you cant handle to see him suffering, go far.., very far that you can start again your own life, Go where you can find your peace of mind. What ever happen, what ever he do to his life is n... (read in full...)
I am financially supporting my ex. Should I stop now before I get hurt again?
Q. I need help on this!i was in a relationship with someone whom i loved..we are both born again bt he break up with me after he told me he never loved me he loves other girls and infact GOD didnt tell him to marry me..even though it was hard for me 2 ...
A. 26 February 2010: If you can not handle your emotion then better stay away from this guy. Why you need to support him? and why you are letting him to that to you? Hey" you are still young and sound's pretty and nice person. Why you need to put your energy and money ... (read in full...)
I am afraid of the consequences for my family if I leave my husband
Q. my husband and i fought 2 days ago because i let my maid wash clothes...my bad relationship started 10 years ago when he started womanizing with about 5 different women....i was submitted to slaps,kicks,gunpointing,shouting,black and blues,all kins ...
A. 25 February 2010: Hello my dear co" filipina" oh' im so sorry for this situation. God" this is really hard situation. Why he had a gun? Report it to the police so they can check if he is really capable to have this gun, additional to that, tell to the police how he ... (read in full...)
I have discovered my mother has left my sister everything in her will, this is the final straw after the years of abuse my mother gave me as a child
Q. I have just discovered a will my mother has made 2 years ago. she has left my sister everything, lot of land, large house, money and everything that she owns. she has left me her share in a piece of land that there is a legal battle to ownership ...
A. 24 February 2010: I feel for you. Im really so sorry for what is happening now. I also dont understand why some mother is like that. Why they dont treat Children equal. I understand what you feel. Im not the perfect person who can give you advice here but i think ... (read in full...)
I don't get on with my mum, how do I tell my parents I am pregnant?
Q. I'm 15 years old. Yesterday i found out im pregnant. The father is not my boyfriend and never was. I have never been more scared in my life. My parents are divorced and I live with my dad because me and my mom don't get along. My mom is re-married ...
A. 24 February 2010: You did not mention how many months you are already pregnant!
1 month baby in our belly is already a new life. But" If its in max.1 month you still have a chance without a guilt to take it out or abort. But if you are willing to go on with this baby... (read in full...)
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