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No one knows what is going to happen in the
next seconds of our life.
We either make ourselves miserable or
we make ourselves strong or happy"
The amount of work is just the same.
- Sometimes no matter how hard we try, things happen that are
`beyond our control.
-`Dont let this make you doubt yourself of your capabilities.
- Youre still the same wonderful person you always were.
I have a hard life in my youth, i grow up with the hate of my Mother. I work hard to let my self done in the School and support parents, brothers and sisters that in the end im still the best bad of all. I use the crying to heal the pain inside of me. I become strong because of all this experience and learn a lot about what life is. Im married and a mother of two. My life is not perfect like what i dream of, but having a roof, bed, food to live, a husband who i can really rely on emotionally and physically, a children who is very understanding and a good health thats the reason for me to thanks the higher power above that even i have a mother who hate me to death im still ok, and i will be ok. Life is not always perfect but 60% is already paradise.
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Should I have an affair on my husband?
Q. Soon after getting married, my husband had an unfortunate incident where he became paralysed, resulting in us not being able to have a sex life. I love my husband dearly and I did not leave him. I look after him and attend to him the best way I ...
A. 27 October 2009: This is an true story and advice it maybe long but think of it. I have my cousin, her Father got accident and got disabled after the 2nd daughter came thats my cousin and the father was 24 years old that time her mother was about 23 years old. Her ... (read in full...)
Pregnant, and one side of my belly is bigger than the other
Q. hey there, I'm 6 weeks pregnant. and my left side of my belly is harder and is bigger than the right side. I got an ultrasound already so I know its not an ectopic pregnancy. has any of you had this problem?...
A. 25 October 2009: Dont worry its ok, that is normal.. No problem at all... (read in full...)
Desperate to start a family! Am I rushing things?
Q. Hey im 20 years old and im desperate to start a familly i am in a serious relationship and living with my partner we get on amazingly and have been together for 2 years the only problem is i told him how i felt and all he said is hes not re...
A. 25 October 2009: At 20 i also thought im ready to have a family, but i was wrong, now im in 30's i just realise god" why i did rush thing?.. please dont panic and dont worry. everything will be fine. He is not yet ready for a baby and that is ok. I would say do it ... (read in full...)
How can I unborn a baby?
Q. how can i unborn a baby i am 2 month of pregnat and if i tellmy dad he willkilll me and send him to jell i dient know i was pregnat me and him was pretecting are self but i dont know what happing and when plz help me dont tell me to go to a clinic ...
A. 25 October 2009: pinktopaz was right i guess, how can we give you some advice here if you already block some idea which is maybe better for you! Ok if you dont wanna tell to your Father and also to the clinic that is understandable in this age im sure you are ... (read in full...)
I can't shake these feelings!
Q. I have been in a relationship for two and a half years. My BF has a kid. I don't want to be around her nor do I want him to bring her to my house. It really hurts him and I know it. I know what I'm saying is wrong but I can't shake my feelings about ...
A. 20 October 2009: Take it or leave it, so easy is it!!!!... (read in full...)
Pregnant and dreaming about sex. I woke up having an orgasm!
Q. Hi my problem is a weird one............Im 10 weeks pregnant and in the last week, on two seperate occasions, I have experienced an orgasm during my sleep. I am having sexy dreams when this happens and I wake up to find myself in the middle of ...
A. 20 October 2009: I guess this is normal to all woman... so relax and just enjoy it.. thats what they called wet dreams hehehehe....... (read in full...)
Should I leave a marriage after 30 years over my recent discoveries?
Q. History: Married 30+ yrs. Just found out he's emailing old school friends (women), adding girls (20 yr. olds!) on facebook, porn addicted, and hiding large sums of money. I got nothing for our anniversary. He gave his gift back and told me to re...
A. 20 October 2009: It happen twice already, I will get out there. Just get out and never look back. easy to say but hard to do maybe. but" do it, you will see the result, its nice to live with peace in mind and soul.. Good luck... (read in full...)
Why marriage?...in fact...why love?
Q. Reading through pages and pages of questions on dating, love and marriage i just see the huge amount relating to affairs (both mentally and physically), being in love with someone whilst married (perhaps even with children), obsessing over a married ...
A. 20 October 2009: I tell you what is in my head bout this.
I believe of Love. True love is real.
If you love someone and that someone love you too
the way you love him, everything is all behind.
When im in love i dont even think further, i just enjoy the every ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend carries around naked pictures of his exes!
Q. My bf of 10 months, but we worked together for a year n a half prior ... Has a lunchbox full of nude pics of himself w/ him, exes end , exwife. They are all very tiny and apparently very comfortable w/ themselves. I believe that he loves me and may ...
A. 20 October 2009: Do you realy think he love you? or at least is this what he called love? what about some respect? is that already forgotten? if im the woman, i will not accept that.
Man come to me and say he love me and i accept that love and now he still carr... (read in full...)
How do I find a quality partner even though I am bound in marriage?
Q. I am 44, and I have spent the past 3 years working through Immigration to bring my Filipina wife to America. She was an excellent actress and never let on, but now she is here she has left and revealed it was a sham marriage (marriage fraud) just ...
A. 18 October 2009: I will not keep my mouth shut just like that. I personally dont know really the reason why she do that, everybody has their reason, so if she only do that marriage just to have a foot there in America then i will do my best to bring her back to ... (read in full...)
Is it crazy for me to get involved with a younger man?
Q. I'm a 45 year old divorced mother of two and find myself being courted by a 32 year old man. Is it crazy for me to get involved in a relationship with him? He is the nicest person I've ever known and I am attracted to him. My concern is that aft...
A. 18 October 2009: Love is very special, i believe love is real, you are in love with this man, if you think and feel that he is also in love with you then why stop it! go for it, go for your happiness, dont think of tommorow, think now that you are happy, of course ... (read in full...)
He's turned cold in the marriage and I'm considering divorce...
Q. I have been married to my husband for 4 years. When we met he was seperated from his wife and living with his parents and I was recently divorced from a marriage of 17 years. After getting involved with him I discover that he has some serious debt ...
A. 17 October 2009: Do it, you dont deserve to be always taken for granted... sometimes we need to step forward for our life.. everybody needs to survive, life is short we deserve to be happy at least we should try. goodluck... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant? What will my mom think?
Q. okay i am 14, my mam knows i might be pregnant i told her this morning now she has gone to work so i am very scared for when she comes home okay i came on my period last month a week after i had sex and now i am 19 days late on this months period i...
A. 15 October 2009: You are pregnant! thats what i can read. 14 years old my god! if im the mother i will be very angry and tell to make an abortion because you are still minor. but you as the one whos pregnant you are the one who will really decide because as a mother ... (read in full...)
I think I'm depressed, and my doctor won't help me. Help!
Q. Hi, I'm a 20 year old female and I believe I'm suffering from depression. I'm constantly tired and just don't want to get out of bed. I have no energy to do anything anymore and I'm beginnin to really hate my job (think this is making matters ...
A. 7 October 2009: Better take a chance to get another doctor. and yes it is sound depression in my opinion. its ok" you are not alone. lots of people having the same experience, its only up to us if we want to stay depress or move on to our life. its the same ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't LIKE me - What to do?
Q. History: Married 4 years, 2 children ages 2 and 6 months, own house, I'm a stay at home mom, he has a good job with promising promotion capabilities, we are financially stable but not rich :) Problem: He is a very loyal person who believes tha...
A. 24 September 2009: Oh my, this is really hard situation dear. what about stay as you are, but more pay attention to your kids do your job as a mother to the kids and as a wife to him., Because" you know" no body can read really what is in other person head. maybe your ... (read in full...)
I fell in love in Thailand and desperately want to keep in touch with him, but he hasn't replied to my text!
Q. This is a long story but I'll try to be as succinct as possible. I hope you can bear with me. I recently went on a 2 month trip to Thailand, my main purpose being to teach English to the local schoolchildren there. I was staying at a resort for ...
A. 24 September 2009: Hello Gina,
Dont get me wrong, Im here in Thailand for the last 16 years untill now and for that long time i already know how some thai. people react. I would suggest for you to let go.. unless you really insist to find him then you better c... (read in full...)
My partner doesn't want our baby.
Q. Hi, I am 30yrs old and I just found out that I am pregnant 3 days ago. Me and my partner have been together for 2 years he already has 3 children and his reaction when I told him I was pregnant was like I ruined his life. We did use birth control ...
A. 24 September 2009: If you are happy to have this baby, if you think you are capable to raise this baby alone, then you better learn and start how to work on this responsibilities all alone by your self, dont wait for your partner decision, its only the time wil say if ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend about the rape? I'm scared I will lose him
Q. Last year i was raped at a city bus stop. My mother and father both know about it, but my new boyfriend dosent. We just started going out 3 weeks ago and i dont no if i should tell him or not. "Rob" tells me everything and i want to to, but i just ...
A. 22 September 2009: Well, only if im on your situation. i will be honest from the start. if i think i will love this man really then id rather be honest from the start. at least if he say he dont care then at least i dont worry so much anymore that i can think" if i ... (read in full...)
I'm cheating on my wife while she is trying to make it work... how can I stop?
Q. Hello, I am a 41 years old and have been married for 25 years. My wife and I were High Schools sweethearts. We have two children on in college and one in high school. I love my wife but really haven't told her that enough over the years. Sex for m...
A. 22 September 2009: Maybe you two are now in the crisis situation which every couple experience., you must be more strong in your emotion.. what about going somewhere, taking relax, have time together, quiete mood, sitting together near by the sea just relax and try to ... (read in full...)
Now that his wife knows he doesn't get in touch with me!
Q. I have been seeing a married man for over a year now and it has been very painful. He tells me that he loves me and hasn't met anyone like me. The reason for him not leaving his wife is because of his children. They mean the world to him and I ...
A. 22 September 2009: What about thinking of starting your own lovelife but not with him.He is a married man, dear i tell you what" it is very hard to be in this situation. I know its hard to read what you really dont wanna read, but we are here to share what we think. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend of 3 years about my one-night-stand?
Q. I've just started university and last week was my freshers week. One night I really had too much to drink and ended up leaving the place I was in to go to a guys house and had unprotected sex. Only thing is, I'm in a relationship. I've been with my ...
A. 22 September 2009: No smoke can hide when there is a fire.., If im on that situation" I will sit and talk to my Boy friend and admit what happen, ask for forgiveness. If he can forgive me that is relief for my guilt.But if i dont be honest to him
then i will alwa... (read in full...)
How am I going to tell my family I'm pregnant at 14???
Q. I'm 14, I'll be 15 in 3 days and i believe i am 4 or 5 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend is 16 he will be 17 in about a month.HE is completly happy about the pregnancy. he wants a kid.He has a job.I am Scared! I will NOT give up my kid. Will NOT have a ...
A. 2 July 2009: Renee okc, I like that what you write there" Congratulation too" thats it.. sure you will be happy.
The father of baby is 17" and you will be 15 in 3 days.
thats fine. The father of the baby had a job "very great"
so what you scared for? youre s... (read in full...)
This feeling of being "left behind" is getting me down
Q. I feel like I have no life. Sure, I have my family, I have friends, I have a boyfriend.. but it seems that everybody's got their own thing going already and I'm left feeling lifeless. I don't know why I feel this way.. I don't want to feel this ...
A. 22 June 2009: Dont you have any job to do? of course if you only stay at home and waiting and waiting, seating and seating around of course you will feel depress. what about trying to do something. go out, walking at the park, cooking, dancing, listen to the ... (read in full...)
Why can I have great sex in the affair but not my marriage?
Q. I started an affair 8 months ago with a woman not to much younger than me. From the beginning our sex has been the best I have ever experienced. I actually am able to have a great erection with her and actually every time we make love I last quite ...
A. 22 June 2009: In some saying, " Religion " The sin and the lie is more feel delicious than the real and good... Karma is always behind.. Look back........... (read in full...)
I don't know how to control my anger!
Q. I have been getting really angry lately, and sometimes i just cry for no obvious reason. I have cried often before and i thought that i may be suffering from depression or that i was bipolar, but when i told my mum she just brushed it off and said ...
A. 21 June 2009: Hello dear friend,
I have also 16 year old girl just the same like you. maybe she's more worst. She even fighting back at me which makes me sometimes get crazy too. But im trying to understand her, yes your mom is right" its part of your hor... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to leave my husband because I cant live without love and affection?
Q. Can you survive in a loveless marriage,just because you have a history together,and raised children together? Am I wrong to wish to leave my security for total insecurity,because I can't live without love and affection? Well,my situation is,tha...
A. 21 June 2009: Dearest, always remember, life is short. nobody knows tommorow. if you cant find love and hapinness anymore why suffer? if you two are not happy anymore being together well its either you both need a little space for a while OR you both really need ... (read in full...)
Who comes first in a marriage, the spouse or the adult children?
Q. Who comes first in a marriage, the spouse or the adult children? I've heard this debated so many times and no one seems to have a clear answer. Being a Christian, I believe the marriage comes first. My husband thinks the children do. I am my h...
A. 21 June 2009: Hi,i absulutelty understand what you are feeling right now. this is really a hard thing youre dealing right now.
if im on the position im gonna get crazy i guess. of course he will always love his children and the grand children. but as what you ... (read in full...)
My sister wins contests all the time, broke up with my boyfriend, how do I feel better about things?
Q. I'm feeling very low. I broke up with my boyfriend last night. I feel very insecure about myself, especially since I've always been told I'm ugly. And now I feel stupid. My sister and I both participated in an essay contest. And she won! She always ...
A. 19 June 2009: You are good as you are... say it always to your self.. Im good as I am... The greatest love of all" by whitney houston' try to listen to this song...... (read in full...)
I work at night, need my sleep, husband loud while I'm trying to sleep, what do I do?
Q. I have to work really at night so I sleep during the day. Well my husband (of 6 months) has horrible habit of being very loud and getting drunk with his annoying friends at our house. When I tell him to keep it down (nicely), he tells me I'm being a ...
A. 19 June 2009: Well honey you better think it hard. You are just married in 6 months, sooner or later you gonna have a child. Do you think its going to work if its always like this? You need a respect' ask it from him. if he cant give it to you what is the reason ... (read in full...)
Is this a case of emotional abuse?
Q. Ok I'm gonna try to make this brief. Ive been with a man since I was 16, married at 19 now 31. We have kids together. I have always been a stay at home mom for the past 10 years. Ive had some part time jobs on and off but nothing serious. Over the ...
A. 17 June 2009: Oh my God honey, Yes it is.. It is emotional abuse. I been in the same position like you too. Untill now im still working on this emotional matters, and yes i do take some medication already for this anxiety and some pills to make me calm down, I ... (read in full...)
He promised to quit smoking but its been 9 months..how can I not hate it!
Q. well here's the story.. i met him as a smoker.. i did not want to date him because of that but he insisted and insisted and insisted promising that he will quit if i gave him a chance..but he have been together now for 9 months now and he still ...
A. 31 May 2009: Well, I have to accept sometimes that I can not let other human being to do what i wanna do, If i dont want to smoke I cant rule other's to do the same what i dont wanna do, I have only to think, ok, this is it, either i accept it or not. leave it ... (read in full...)
He broke my heart, but I'm still in love with him, what can I do to move on with my life?
Q. ok im 14 years old and madly in love with my ex bf whos 15. but again hes my EX BOYFRIEND.....and its got me really depressed why: -hes got alot to handel all the time because hes got a hard life and hes not as strong as he comes across (but i...
A. 22 May 2009: Hey sweety, Trust me its just your emotion, dont let your emotion win you, to fall in love by this stage is just normal, but dont let your self down by this, you will be happy again thats for sure" put this thing in your experience, you will be ... (read in full...)
My son is breaking my heart!
Q. My son just turned 21, and simply has no time for me. Or should I say it is a real effort for him to go anywhere with me. This saddens me so deeply. I did the stupid thing and gave him everything not only money but so much love. His friends ...
A. 23 April 2009: Hello Dear,
I am also a mother of 16 years old girl. I know somehow, someday she will left me too for her own life.
Dont we think that sometimes we have to start to learn how to let go? That one day or time will come that our Children wil... (read in full...)
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