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How do I tell my boyfriend there's a possibility I might be pregnant?

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Question - (18 June 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *elusion writes:

Hi. A few days ago I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend. I know i haven't caught any STI's off him...but i think im pregnant.

Im not stupid and on normal circumstances i would never have had unprotected sex but i was drunk and as a result had no inhibitions.

The day after i felt more tired than usual, i had a headache, i was bleeding (my periods not for another two weeks!!!!) i had light abdonimal pain and felt kind of dizzy all day.

i am still feeling tired etc, but i stopped bleeding the day after. I thought i should have taken an emergency pill but i had second thoughts and something has possessed me to sit out and wait for 2 weeks.

i guess i kind of hope i am pregnant. But i definitely am not ready for kids! personally.

does anyone have any similar things, such as bleeding the day after? What does it mean?

what do i do if im pregnant?

How Do i tell my boyfriend its a possibility?

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntI don't think you should tell him just yet. Could you go to see a doctor or your local family planning clinic for a test to find out for sure. Once you have found out the results you can go from there.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007):

Hi love,

The tiredness, headache, dizzyness could be down to a hangover the day after. The bleeding may have been down to the intercourse you havent got an infection i.e water infection or just a few days of early bleeding before your period, id see a doctor just incase love as sometimes you may not have symptoms... cystitis can sometimes cause blood when you pass water and can give you abdonimal pains.. get checked out for your own peace of mind and have a chat with your boyfriend BE SAFE TAKE CARE LOTS OF LOVE XXXXXX

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A female reader, i might be a girl but i can help United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2007):

i might be a girl but i can help agony auntwell first of all don't worry. u should have the test to make sure that u r and it can be normal to bleed after sex but have the test and im sorry i don't think there is noover way of telling ur boyfriend that u might be pregent u could just tell him i think i might be pregent how r we going to cope and have him with u when u take the test, but than go to u doctor to double check if it comes up postive. good luck xxx

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A female reader, so_in_love United Kingdom +, writes (18 June 2007):

I think that you shouldn't mention it to him until you are sure if you are or not. It could cause unneccessary tension or hope.

Leave it a few days, take a pregnancy test and be sure on what you're thinking.

Good luck.

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