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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Me again... Tortured, and very confused... Thanks for reading once more...I am trying to figure out a typical MAN behaviour when he wants OUT and has dumped the woman.He told me :1) I had screwed him up big time2) It took him a lot of effort but he is 'out' and 'never going back to that ERA again'3) My dignity is important. You had zero respect for me. Your personal situation (my mum died and my dad has cancer) is NOT an excuse for the serious abuse you inflicted on me.YET he says to me:1) You are confused. When you see the big picture, come to me, clear headed, and then we can talk2) Sit and think long and hard. Ask yourself 'what do I want'? And once you know, you have to work at it to get it3) We cannot be friends as long as your mind is confusedHis actions:Whenever I contact him now, he is very quick to respond (except for last night where he texted late, apologising, then called me this morning).He talks with me on the phone, frequently discussing our relationsip. And gets angry too. He always says 'good to hear from you' and always replies to my calls.SO-Is he acting like a typical man who has already decided OUT , but decent?-Is he keeping the contact with me because he wants me to go to him, when I am normal?-Is he out of the 'era of fights' or out of 'me'??-What would a dumping look like ????I miss him, but don't want to have false hopes just because he is responding to my calls.I have no way of knowing !
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (11 June 2007):
 in my opinion he doesn't seem to know what he wants talk to him its the only way. tell him the only way u r goin 2 help me stop being so confussed is by tellin what u want from me tell him how u feel. i hope this kinda helps good luck
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