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writes:im a 16 year old girl, and although i've done stuff with guys i've never actually been in a relationship!it hurts because nearly all of my friends now have serious boyfriends. they all say that im pretty, funny and clever... so why can't i attract guys? what's wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 Believe me, it's better to wait for Mr. Right.
I went out with a number of guys in a very short amount of time and it really messed me up.
You're 16, you should get out there and have some fun. I assure you that your mates relationships won't be as serious as they seem. They'll probably all have split up this time next year.
Honestly sweetie, wait to meet someone kinda and considerate not just anyone, from the sounds of things, you are a very attractive young lady and I'm sure that you will find someone soon. Don't change who you are for the sake of getting a boyfriend. From what I hear, you already sound like what a guy wants. Don't change who you are for anybody. Being unique is what guys like anyway ;)
good luck!
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (7 June 2007):
 there is nothing wrong with you. in my opinion its a gd thing you are not attracting all the boys, so u can concertrate for school. dw they will come after you soon they just want someone easily to get what they want and than piss off (not sayin all boys some are nice. but you will find someone worthy of you and you will not want to let him go good luck and dw don't let it put you down boys are great as m8s as well. xxx
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reader, myp  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 There's absolutely nothing wrong with you. Often times guys are intimidated by girls with all the right qualities. Especially if you're intelligent. If you cant find a guy in your age group than go find an older guy whos a bit more mature. I completely sympathize, i had a problem having serious relationships with boys at school and in my age group because the all thought i was too smart. So i started talking too a 19 year old i met through one of my older friends and we clicked really fast.
good Luck
-Myesha
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