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A good position for our first intimate encounter? (we are both not virgins)

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Question - (31 January 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2008)
A male United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

i've been friends with this girl for a while now but i think we are ready to get intimate now. i want this to be comfortable, she's definitly not a virgin and i'm not either but what would be a good position to start off with. ladies any help would be nice

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A female reader, Miss Stella Canada +, writes (1 February 2008):

You could start with a massage and work your way up from her feet to the top of her legs and by the time you are done she will be wet and excited with pleasure.

Then you can move on up and take your time. There is no hurry. Anticipation is very erotic.

Just take your time ....

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A male reader, leonard j. Douglas +, writes (31 January 2008):

Hey! Have you ever heard of foreplay? "No", It has nothing to do with football. It's when a man really gets to know a woman's whole,sexy body. He just doesn't jump her bones right off,only an ignoramus does that. Think of your car,don't you first warm it up before you use it? Well,A man in the know also warms up a woman's sexually before he goes for the gold. To be brief, Foreplay is all of those wonderful things that you can do to a woman's body with your hands,fingers and also your tongue,long before your penis ever enters "Happyvalley".

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2008):

hello1 agony auntYou on top and her laying on her back. Bit obvious don't you think?

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A female reader, Annalisa United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2008):

Annalisa agony auntFirst time sex is a bit about showing what you can do.

Unless she pounces on you first, you want to get her on her back! Get to know and appreciate her body, give her oral sex (which we presume you are very good at, if not, there's help available from way too many of us!) then go on top. You'll be able to show off and bond through all that eye contact! Plus, being able to see her face, you'll be able to tell whether she's actually having a good time.

Have fun!

(Oh and remember, sex is the language of love, so make sure it's caring and of course safe!)

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