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writes:Hello, I'm 15 years old and I've met this guy in my Italian class, I really love him, I've never felt this way for anyone. So when I finally decided to talk to him, to my surprise he talked to me first. The next day he talked to me again, something that I thought was way sweet is that he said he was not going to the class becuase I wasn't going. I called my friend and asked him if he went to the class and she said no. But there's this problem, he's 34, also do you think he feels something for me? My friend told me that he stares at me a lot during class.I don't really care about his age, but mostly about my mom she will not like this.Thankyou Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): Hello its me again...I'm the youngest one in the class, then there's a 19 year old(my friend) and older people that are close to his age. He's very quiet, and he's nice also, he doesnt talk to anyone on the class just to me. I didn't said i want a sexual relationship with him, though i know that i have to watch out and be careful, here in Andorra its legal if we go out but it will be illegal if we had sex becuase the age of consent is 16, so i'm not worries about the police issues. Yeah young love is tough seriously. =(
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): If u started something, the law could get involved. I advise against it till your 16. Talk to him find out what he feels. Good luck, keep us posted xx
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 At your age it would be very foolish of you to start a relationship with a 35 year old man,he must be some kind of weirdo, wanting to go out with some one your age, i know that you must feel special because he showing you his affection, but it is wrong of him to be leading you on, he should know better because he is an adult and you are still a minor, it would be in your own interest not to get involved with this creep, he may be out to do you harm, for your own sake give this person up, and find some one in your own age group.
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reader, nicole5178  +, writes (9 February 2008):
 He might think you're attractive, but he probably thinks of you as more of a friend. How many people in the class are his age? If most of them are closer to your age, you probably are just his friend in the class. I think you may be misinterpreting his actions...But if he did ever make a move, tell someone, because he is too old for you. If you two want to be friends, that's fine. Innocent flirting is harmless also. Just don't put yourself in situations where you're alone with him. That'd be a mistake....Good luck!
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reader, chocolatetpots +, writes (9 February 2008):
Hi, oooooo dear, difficult one for you...........You have every right to think your mum wont be happy, as a mum myself i would be CURIOUS rather than furious. I have to say from past experience that there is definately no future for you in this relationship, for one thing you are far to young and inexperienced, this man is double your age and has the experience and knowledge of far advanced relationships that you have yet to experience as a growing young woman. Should this relationship develop you are risking the involvement of the police and social services as you are to young for a sexual relationship with this man, is that what you want? No, i am sure its not, take a moment to yourself and think about what is happening, young love is tough, hormones are all over the show, dancing round your body like they own it, causing confusion and unhappiness, leaving you in turmoil and total confusion with a life that looks nothing but grim! am i wrong?It changes, believe me, and it does get better and you start to understand and see things in a different light. When I was 15 I had a huge crush on a bus driver, he took me to work each morning, brought me home each evening, and i was determined no matter how long it took, that i would not get any other bus unless he was on it! One day, talking to a friend at the bus stop, she told me she had been seeing a bus driver for a few weeks, it turned out to be the same one i had a crush on, i cried for weeks on end listening to "Hopelessley devoted to you" by Olivia Newton John until one day I woke up and thought what the hell are you doing!It happens, its just a shame it takes so long, but like all things in life, it takes patience,think of it as being like an antibiotic, it has to take its course before it has any effect. Good luck and let me know how you get on.
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reader, hello1 +, writes (9 February 2008):
 He's too old for you, why do you want to date a 35yr old? He's a freak for even wanting to date you, what would you two have in common?
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