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writes: dear cupidI am 16 years old and would like to know, if someone who has lost weight but still has flabs has sex with a girl, would the girl not want to have sex or will they take the piss after, because I currently lost weight but still have flabs there and am a bit paranoid of girls seeing me naked because of the flabs... so my question is would girls not want to have sex with you if they see that your a bit fat or wont they mind? (keep in mind that the girl is slim)plzz help me as I am paranoid about this when the boys take the piss Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2008): I completely disagree with Mr Vendetta. Some girls are picky but not any more so than guys. My boyfriend goes to the gym to buff up or whatever and he says he does it for me which I always think is strange, I really don't care if he has a six pack or not.
Anyway, I used to be like you, I was a bit chubby and then lost weight but am by no means model skinny. I'm a good and attractive weight in my opinion but I was always scared before my first and current boyfriend of what guys would think of me, especially as I have stretch marks from when I lost weight. My boyfriend loves my body despite of it all though and I am finally more comfortable in my skin.
I think the best thing for you is to not be paranoid, I was paranoid to the extent where it took me ages to go out with anyone and be intimate with them because of my insecurities but as soon as I let that all go I realised how much I seem to over panick about things. And like what other posters have said, if she's having sex with you she fancies you.
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reader, hello1  +, writes (3 February 2008):
 I tell you, she wouldn't have sex with you if she didn't fancy you. We all have issues with our bodies, no one is perfect.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (3 February 2008):
 well lets not sugar coat it. everyone loves a hot figure. not gonna argue with that. hell if you had a 6 pack women would be dripping off of you.
sadly women are.. picky. Very picky. and i know whine whine whine some of the aunts here will bitch at me for this but in personal experience women " Can " be Very shallow
i've heard every excuse in the book. hairs too long. hairs too short. wrong hair colors. too tall, too short, too fat, to thin. too white ( if you can beleive that )
i was a bigish kid through high school and yeah i had the piss taken out of me ( i'm laughing at the yanks cause they won't know what that means)
a little exercise wouldn't kill you and getting into shape alot alot of benifits. and getting hot chicks is one of them. I'm 25.. and i reallly want to get in shape.. but no will power to do it. try going it now at your age, it'll be second nature by the time you're my age.
though brains and beauty are a hard combo to find. not impossible just hard to find.
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reader, xdarkendhopex  +, writes (2 February 2008):
 Okay, if you having sex with this girl, then she should love you. And if she loves you she wouldn't care. And a little bit of fat and stuff isn't necessarily a bad thing. Sometimes it's good to have a little extra weight, most times it's even better. Being too boney ... hurts.
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