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Before she wanted to get married, now she says "leave it to the future!"
Q. i have a affair with my gf from last 14months. we both luv eachother had enjoyed life also had sex.i trust her n she too. but from the last two months her behavior has changed.before that we talk on phone mostly for 10-15 minutes. she calls me ...
A. 4 May 2010: I suggest you wise up fast, my friend. This is classic USER. Now she wants money? According to today's exchange rates 300 rupees = 6.75 USD. To me that'd be the same as someone bumming a pack of smokes, presumptuous but no big deal. To you, I know ... (read in full...)
Problems from the pill?
Q. Hi aunts, Bit of a medical question here, and before I just get a string of comments telling me to go to the doctor, I already have, I'm just interested if anybody has had any similar experiences. Basically I had UTI (urinary tract infection), most...
A. 3 May 2010: Not a doc, here but I have daily contact with medical personnel of all specialties. I've heard that antibiotics can and do cause vaginal yeast infections, often just upsetting the PH balance of the vagina can cause this. A UTI can be fatal if left ... (read in full...)
What do her comments mean?
Q. This lady is a classmate of mine and i have known her for almost a month and a half. We came to know each other through a competition where we both were in the same team. From that day, apart from meeting everyday in college during college hours, w...
A. 3 May 2010: To my thinking: if she's interested in you in the way you want her to be, I think it'll be readily apparent. Right now, all you're working on is hopeful interpretation, so you're not "risking" her. What can you lose if you don't have it, already? I ... (read in full...)
I blame his alcohol abuse for his actions, should I leave him?
Q. Hi I met this man around 4 years ago, he told me he had had a drink problem but it was behind him now. any way it turns out not to be true he became ill once well he came to stay with me untilhe got better thats about 3 years ago. All in the gard...
A. 3 May 2010: Um, Ma'am? Don't make excuses for his behavior. I'm fairly certain no one but he is pouring alcohol down his throat. It's called A CHOICE. A disease didn't just fling itself upon him and take away the good ol' reliable, trustworthy man you know. ... (read in full...)
Is their brother-sister relationship abnormal?
Q. Brother- Sister situation My boyfriend (27 years old)and his sister (24 years) have a relation that makes me very uncomfortable because- 1. They don't mind walking in to each other when one of them is actually using the bathroom like in the tub...
A. 3 May 2010: Some boundaries are NOT meant to be "blurred" regardless of viewpoints like 'single gal's. There's a term for that so-called "blurring" It's called incest. Which is usually illegal in most civilized cultures. Something's wrong here, sweetie. ... (read in full...)
10 years of marriage and I don't feel the same way about my husband anymore
Q. Hi, I have been married for 10 years and have realized that I no longer feel the same way about my husband as I used to. He has put me through so much and I feel I cant be myself with him anymore, I am totally switched off. He has lied to me so ...
A. 3 May 2010: You're singin' my song, sister! I've been where you're at, really. Same thing, he'd buy me things I did not or would not want or even consider, completely irresponsible, lied about any and everything, financially? he was a train wreck waiting to ... (read in full...)
B/f keeps asking his ex to send him nude pictures!
Q. Ok here's my issue. I've been with my bf for almost 2 years now and we have a 7 month old daughter together and i'm still having the same issues with him. I have talked to him more than once and he knows how i feel about it. He is constantly in ...
A. 3 May 2010: First, if he "didn't want anything to do with her" then why does he still have something to do with her? And realistically, she did not just mysteriously "get" his new number he gave it to her! With you paying for it??? C'mon now, this guy ... (read in full...)
What do her comments mean?
Q. This lady is a classmate of mine and i have known her for almost a month and a half. We came to know each other through a competition where we both were in the same team. From that day, apart from meeting everyday in college during college hours, w...
A. 3 May 2010: "I'm impressed with you" could actually mean only she's impressed with you as a colleague or professional peer, or fellow student. It could be that she thinks you're smart, funny, or whatever , or that she just admires your own sense of style. I ... (read in full...)
Before she wanted to get married, now she says "leave it to the future!"
Q. i have a affair with my gf from last 14months. we both luv eachother had enjoyed life also had sex.i trust her n she too. but from the last two months her behavior has changed.before that we talk on phone mostly for 10-15 minutes. she calls me ...
A. 3 May 2010: WHAT YOU SHOULD DO IS: WAKE UP AND SMELL WHAT THE G/F IS COOKIN', dude! Decreased call volume? No plans for the future? She stopped calling you? The writing is on the wall, my friend, I encourage you to read it and believe it. It sounds pretty ... (read in full...)
He says he's scared I'm going to hurt him and he's scared to comitt
Q. Im so much in love with a guy who is 6 years older than me. He has gone thru a lot in his past with the mother of his child and everytime we fight he tells me that he is scared to commit after all that happened to him in the past and he says he is ...
A. 3 May 2010: If you already suspect it may not work BEFORE having ever begun a relationship with this 'fraidy cat guy, then it's probably a very safe bet that it won't work at all, EVER.. Go with your gut feeling, it's usually right. "I'm afraid to commit ... (read in full...)
Videotapes of wife with ex....
Q. I found a video of my wife with an ex, she says she thought they had been erased. I knew they had sex and that my wife wasn't a virgin, so I am not so disappointed by that, but rather in the video he finished by giving her a facial. I always ...
A. 30 April 2010: Seriously, why ask why? It was a different man, different time, and different place she was in...leave it alone. Don't go down the but you did it for him route. If you need this from her then be straight up honest and frank about it to her..leave ... (read in full...)
Best friend wrecked my relationship and I need help moving on.
Q. I dont know what to do. I was with this boy november 2009, i was in love with him. I couldn't stop myself, i kept falling more and more in love with him everyday. It took about a week to fall in love with him. Sounds fake, but its true! I'd tell my ...
A. 30 April 2010: Heads up, little sister.. your "best mate" ISN'T -but I'm sure you know that now. With friends like that who needs enemies? Sounds like she did you a favor and got rid of the loser BF for. Forget him. Take up kick boxing or something that requires ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'll cheat on my younger boyfriend and give my virginity to an older guy, what should I do?
Q. I know I'm very young, but please understand that these days everything varies from person to person, for example I know people barely a year older than me that have actually been together with someone for a few years, others that just sleep around ...
A. 30 April 2010: You're correct in that things vary from person to person. It is also true that things are different at present than they were back in the day. But there ARE some things that remain static and true no matter how much time passes, one of those truths ... (read in full...)
I know the guy is supposed to make the 1st move but I have no confidence!
Q. im 15-19 years old ive always had a confidence problem when it comes to girls and i dont really know why.. i have loads of good friends that are girls and its fine in terms of that but when i start to like a girl it all completely cahnges..and i d...
A. 30 April 2010: Oh you poor man....I'd bunny hug you if I could.. here's the deal: Stop putting so much pressure on yourself! Where is it written that you are obligated to make "something happen"? Take it for what it is....it's perfectly normal to just enjoy ... (read in full...)
Husband never says I love you after we have sex
Q. Hello, I am really upset with my husband, because after we have sex, I always tell him I love him, and he refuses to say it back (he does tell me he loves me at other times). I explained to him that its really important to me to hear it, and tha...
A. 30 April 2010: Personally, I don't think saying ILY just to hear it back is a good reason to say it. I've experienced both sides of this coin...1 h/b said it just so I would feel obligated to say the same to make him feel secure. Incidentally, his insecurity was ... (read in full...)
Is their brother-sister relationship abnormal?
Q. Brother- Sister situation My boyfriend (27 years old)and his sister (24 years) have a relation that makes me very uncomfortable because- 1. They don't mind walking in to each other when one of them is actually using the bathroom like in the tub...
A. 30 April 2010: They say "blood is thicker than water" but damn! This sounds close but a little too close in my book. I've heard of families wherein nudity is a familial norm..dad shows up at breakfast in the buff and 16 yro daughter does the same. A little too ... (read in full...)
Why cant he just be happy with kissing me?
Q. I seem to have a bit of a problem with a guy, everytime we get together and kiss he always asks me to give him a blow job, the thing is we have just started kissing, it's really starting to annoy me because I like him a lot and I have said to him ...
A. 30 April 2010: Oh wow, and here I thought I was the only one. Listen, Tootsie, I made the mistake of marrying one of these guys, but I came to my senses and got rid of him. It's some weird obsession, the blowjob thing. It just never goes away. I can't imagine ... (read in full...)
First he says he loves me, ...then says he never had any feelings for me!
Q. Hi guys, I mentioned 4 months ago that my boyfriend said he was laeving the country for good and he had to look afdter his parents and tahthe couldnt take me with him becaus ethat place isnt for me, conditions are not suitable to live being a ...
A. 30 April 2010: In regards to the follow up: TWO words, sweetheart: STRING ALONG, this guy's a GAME PLAYER. Forget about him. Anything else is just plain absurd.... (read in full...)
How can I stop my boyfriend from being so scared of sex toys?
Q. Hi, My bf is scared of sex toys... He says he feels intimidated by them, and that he has had a couple of women tell him hes dumped they bought a dildo and showed him the door, one of these girls (i used to know her and she wasnt terribly freindl...
A. 30 April 2010: Geez..it sounds as though your mother is the problem and not your BF..how awful of her! I suggest you politely ask her to mind her own damn business.
I'm thinking the Bf will have to work out the fear of death by dildo thing on his own. If he fe... (read in full...)
What do guys consider a friend with benefits?
Q. What do guys consider a friend with benefits. I don't see a problem kissing someone, touching and possibly maybe giving a hand job or him fingering me as friend with benefits even if it happens a lot. I do think giving blow jobs, him going down...
A. 30 April 2010: Guys define "friend with benefits" as "F**K BUDDY" All the thrill without the dreaded commitment-sort of like going bungy jumping and saying you're offing yourself..all the trill w/o the commitment You're a standby booty call, girl. If you like ... (read in full...)
My husband is infatuated with his half sister!
Q. I have a dilemma, my h is from a broken home and spent part of his life in children's homes, so he has issues from his past. His father recently passed away and that brought the estanged family back together for the one day, he met up again with his ...
A. 30 April 2010: This is a tough one, but here goes(bearing in mind I'm a gunslinger type of bunny and not the soft, fuzzy kind) This guy sounds to me to be something of a weak (read:pathetic) Narcissist with little thought given to the taboo of incest. Most o... (read in full...)
Talking my mom into leting me having a relationship?
Q. im 15 and home schooled , im a larger girl (as a little chubby) i keep thinking to my self i want someone in my life to love and hold me , but being out of school i cant really find a boyfriend , my mom dosent even want me to get a boyfriend till...
A. 30 April 2010: Um..ok. I'm fairly certain this is the absolute last thing you'll want to hear on this issue, so all I can really offer is just give it consideration. In a phrase? This too, shall pass. Back 'er down, little sister. You have lotsa time for ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her that her Fiance is a cheat?
Q. Ok, here's the problem, my boyfriends' best friend is a cheat. He's been dating this girl for 4 years and they've recently got engaged. Thing is everyone in our social group knows that this guy has cheated on his now fiance in the last 4 years. He's ...
A. 29 April 2010: Wow..ok, here goes: He says he's a changed man? Is there evidence to support this claim? Leopards don't change their spots, usually. But men who make a lifestyle of whoring around have been known to clean up their acts now and again. Also, how ... (read in full...)
First he says he loves me, ...then says he never had any feelings for me!
Q. Hi guys, I mentioned 4 months ago that my boyfriend said he was laeving the country for good and he had to look afdter his parents and tahthe couldnt take me with him becaus ethat place isnt for me, conditions are not suitable to live being a ...
A. 29 April 2010: Seems pretty straight forward to me: This guy is just playing with you and your emotions. Sounds like you're ok for a brief fling or good time and then when he's back in the real world he wants nothing to do with you. The "give aways" are: he'll ... (read in full...)
My husband won't touch me, what should I do?
Q. I would like if anybody who has some good points would give me a few min.What should I do with this totally awkward\ situation? My husband lost interest in sex, and literally ,he won't even touch me, yet, he says ,he loves me , wants to spend hi...
A. 29 April 2010: So let's say you're not the break all bad on his ass type..to be fair I'm offering the flipside: What to try: Next time he turns you down, say fine, but I need this matter addressed so I'm sure you won't mind if I masturbate right here next to ... (read in full...)
Does watching gay porn mean I am a lesbian?
Q. hi last night i had a dream i was having lesbian sex with a stunning blonde girl, and lately i have also been masturbating to lesbian porn. im a girl and have a boyfriend who i love been with him for years and im definatly sure of my sexualit...
A. 29 April 2010: I seriously doubt this makes you a lesbian. It sounds more like an exploration of curiosity than a concrete personality trait. I wouldn't freak over too much. You'll probably find it's just a phase in your own sexual maturation. I went through ... (read in full...)
I am unable to forget my flirtation with my former boss, what should I do?
Q. Hi guys I need someone there to tell me whether I am doing the correct thing or not with regard to my extra marital flirtation? I fell for the extraordinary knowledge of my boss in each and everything be it his own field or something elso and ...
A. 29 April 2010: Sounds like good old fashioned INFATUATION to me. INFATUATION is TEMPORARY. Forget about it, it'll wear off and you'll soon be wondering what on earth ever made you think this guy was so fascinating to begin with. You made a commitment, you gave ... (read in full...)
It seems like he needs more stimulation than just me
Q. Is it wrong for a man to fantasize about having sex with other women when he is having sex with his wife? My husband has started looking at porn online and sometimes wants to play it to "get in the mood". I am an attractive woman, but we have been ...
A. 29 April 2010: Not a guy here, but I've been where you're at: my h/b was once addicted to porn. I'd swear he preferred it me at one time. Turns out it's the fantasy thing men seem to become infatuated with; a curse that I believe we girls don't suffer, ... (read in full...)
My husband won't touch me, what should I do?
Q. I would like if anybody who has some good points would give me a few min.What should I do with this totally awkward\ situation? My husband lost interest in sex, and literally ,he won't even touch me, yet, he says ,he loves me , wants to spend hi...
A. 28 April 2010: ok..first off:I'm a gunslinger type in this, so you're duly warned. I might be considered brutal but it's honest brutality and you have no fuzzy bunny issue on your hands as it sounds.."he doesn't know what's wrong with him" is *pure* nonsense! I ... (read in full...)
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