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Cupid's terrible timing!
Q. I met back up with a girl from college, and went to visit her. She lives 4 hrs away, and we hit it off really well. About 3 days after I returned home, she called and told me that she just found out she was a month pregnant by some army guy that she ...
A. 19 May 2010: Yes, she could've done such a ghastly thing to you and it does speak well to her character that she did not. I'm pleased that you're interested in quality. But these men here make some valid points, I believe. In the interest of factual disclosure, ... (read in full...)
Why do some men cheat on their wives?
Q. I want 2 know why some men cheat on there wifes?...
A. 19 May 2010: Rock on, q! Bravo, well said!! You continually amaze and impress me, beautiful....downright righteous!... (read in full...)
Why do some men cheat on their wives?
Q. I want 2 know why some men cheat on there wifes?...
A. 19 May 2010: Q is outstanding in his field....again.... (read in full...)
Why do some men cheat on their wives?
Q. I want 2 know why some men cheat on there wifes?...
A. 19 May 2010: I fail to see how that is even relevant to the question.... (read in full...)
Why do some men cheat on their wives?
Q. I want 2 know why some men cheat on there wifes?...
A. 19 May 2010: Oh sure, it's always the shameless hussy who led him into temptation, the poor, mindless, insipid sop!... (read in full...)
Cupid's terrible timing!
Q. I met back up with a girl from college, and went to visit her. She lives 4 hrs away, and we hit it off really well. About 3 days after I returned home, she called and told me that she just found out she was a month pregnant by some army guy that she ...
A. 19 May 2010: I'm afraid there's really not enough information here to offer you anything meaningful as a response. Any ideas on why she called and dropped this little bomb on you?... (read in full...)
How can I become friends with her again?
Q. my ex an I haven't been close for about 2 years now...the reason for that is that she loved me physically and emotionally. but i was just attracted to her physically. we messed around and because of that i care about her now emotionally. she says i ...
A. 19 May 2010: Pardon me, I mis-read your gender as male and not female.... (read in full...)
How can I become friends with her again?
Q. my ex an I haven't been close for about 2 years now...the reason for that is that she loved me physically and emotionally. but i was just attracted to her physically. we messed around and because of that i care about her now emotionally. she says i ...
A. 19 May 2010: Problem is: you can't fix anyone, they must fix themselves.
What you've described here is some rather intense, and hurtful immaturity. Back and forth, yes I do, no I don', friends, not friends trash talk, and so on. The only way to bring this disa... (read in full...)
I'm not comfortable with my wife trying out to be a professional cheerleader
Q. Ok so my wife of 13 years decided that she wanted to try out to be a professional football cheerleader (or NHL or NBA). Although I want to be supportive of this, and have been so far, I am not 100% comfortable with this. Any thoughts, guys and ...
A. 19 May 2010: I cheered both in college and then for the Oakland Raiders, for a few years. It's not a year round gig. It requires serious dedication to cheer pro. It's a very fun experience, IMHO. If it's the potential fraternization with the players that ... (read in full...)
Why do some men cheat on their wives?
Q. I want 2 know why some men cheat on there wifes?...
A. 19 May 2010: See? q shore is one smart ol' buzzard, aintee?... (read in full...)
Why do some men cheat on their wives?
Q. I want 2 know why some men cheat on there wifes?...
A. 19 May 2010: Hence my point is established as credible.... (read in full...)
Why do some men cheat on their wives?
Q. I want 2 know why some men cheat on there wifes?...
A. 19 May 2010: Oh, certainly not you, q! Never! Yor on'a th' gud uns!... (read in full...)
If we are good friends why does he behave like this? Has he got a problem with me?
Q. Hello im really sad right now. I feel lost and confused. One of my good friends is behaving very strangly with me and i dont think theres a good reason behind it.If it was a constant pattern of behaviour i might be able to figure it out easier but ...
A. 19 May 2010: Sounds to me like a young guy who feels awkward and doesn't know how to act with you. I'd say he has a crush on you, sweetie.... (read in full...)
Why do some men cheat on their wives?
Q. I want 2 know why some men cheat on there wifes?...
A. 19 May 2010: I think this a lot like asking "How long is a battleship...true or false?" Personally, I prefer the 2 extremes of this: the first being that it's some weird genetic programming thing a la' be fruitful and multiply, as in the animal kingdom, males ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling insecure about my boyfriend's comments and emails to other women.
Q. I would like your advice on this please. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for a couple of years. Sometimes when we weren't together, i looked at his page, as he had an open profile, and i saw some comments to a couple of girls that i didnt ...
A. 19 May 2010: "Herein there be dragons..." This is the danger in some forms of fact-finding. You may not like what you find. You state that you're on again/off again with your B/f so how much of this has gone on while you were with him? If this went on whilst ... (read in full...)
My husband's best friend says he is just my secret admirer but I am worried that he might one day ask for sex
Q. when i met my husband 2 years ago, he had his best friend whom they have schooled with from high school to college. the friend is married to a a beautiful charming lady who is now my friend. the crazy thing is that this guy(my husband's friend) fell ...
A. 19 May 2010: It's my pleasure. I hope this helps. If he doesn't take you seriously, then we can easily fire a stronger shot across the bow, if warranted. Let us know how you make out.... (read in full...)
My husband has a secret life.....how do I deal with it all?
Q. Hi, I just recently found out that my husband of 18 years has kept up with an old girlfriend from college who he has always had strong feelings for the entire time we've been together. She lives 3000 miles away and they haven't seen each other for ...
A. 19 May 2010: I must admit, reading your post here nearly broke my heart. You poor woman, have a big {{Bunny hug}} I earnestly feel for you so I'll tell you what I can "see" from what you're saying: You're disillusioned and reeling from learning that you've been ... (read in full...)
Is he being a player?
Q. Okay, my ex-boyfriend dumped me and he continues to ask me who am I dating and do I have a boyfriend. I don't tel him because he dumped me. He really get upset when I do answer him. So I asked him are you dating he tells me no. He say all he is ...
A. 19 May 2010: I doubt it's guilt, honey.
The reason people don't tell the truth is because they don't want to face the consequences of their actions or words, that's why.
If Mr. Playa can't or won't respect the fact that you're a virgin, that's a clear indicato... (read in full...)
Within the last 2 weeks I have been unable to get turned on, is this because he cheated in the past?
Q. Im a girl of 18 been with my boyfriend now for just under a year. just recently, before we get ready for sex he is not able to turn me on, and during sexual intercouse i dont seem to be enjoying it. could this be due to the fact he cheated on in the ...
A. 19 May 2010: Trust, the number 1 aphrodisiac! It seems to me that you don't trust this guy and you've given me no reason to think that you should. Perhaps, there's good reason not to? I think you need to ask yourself what's changed? Better yet, ask him, what's ... (read in full...)
My husband's best friend says he is just my secret admirer but I am worried that he might one day ask for sex
Q. when i met my husband 2 years ago, he had his best friend whom they have schooled with from high school to college. the friend is married to a a beautiful charming lady who is now my friend. the crazy thing is that this guy(my husband's friend) fell ...
A. 19 May 2010: First, let me applaud your sensible approach to this as well as being mindful of others in this sitch. I think there's an easy way to deal with the matter before it snow balls into an ugly problem for everyone. I recommend you thank the man for ... (read in full...)
I fell for my buddy's gf! How do I deal with the guilt of what I did to him?
Q. A few months ago I met a couple who were friends of friends. Since then, I've spent increasingly more time with the girl and guy, while they're together and while they're apart, with others, and just on our own. I've developed what I feel is a ...
A. 18 May 2010: Ahh yes, I am SO appreciative of q's tact and sense of delicacy, it rivals my own...he's right y'know...... (read in full...)
I stained my sheet three times... is there any chance she'll still want me?
Q. Well... As my screen name states it all. I am dumb. I recently cheated on my wife of 12 years. I regret everything about it. It does get worse it was with three women. I know that this act is insulting and a slap in the face to her. I dont know the...
A. 18 May 2010: I think you need to be asking her all of these same questions. If she's willing and able to get through it. You need to know WHY you did this, if you don't root that out, I think it's all just wasted time and effort. You cheated three times and ... (read in full...)
I fell for my buddy's gf! How do I deal with the guilt of what I did to him?
Q. A few months ago I met a couple who were friends of friends. Since then, I've spent increasingly more time with the girl and guy, while they're together and while they're apart, with others, and just on our own. I've developed what I feel is a ...
A. 18 May 2010: Sounds as though the water is rather muddy right now. I'd let it settle and clear up and then reevaluate. I applaud you for having a conscience and for evaluating your behavior, though. If you know for a fact that you didn't influence the girl's d... (read in full...)
Why didn't he cum?
Q. Hi, i am 16 and recently lost my virginity to a lad that's 19 (he was not a virgin) im realy confused though, because it only lasted about 10 mintues, and when i asked him if he cumd, he sed nah he didn't, he was just giving me a 'tester' ? D...
A. 18 May 2010: Oh my gosh! Sweetie, if you need to ask questions like this, then you're WAY too young to be having sex. I apologize in advance for what may seem brutal, but unfortunately, 10 minutes is a long time for some guys, you might as well know that now. A ... (read in full...)
Physical evidence that he's been cheating?
Q. my boyfriend has 2 red big patches in between his upper theighs and i asked him what they were from one time and he said maybe it was because i was giving him oral sex and they were from my head rubbing up against him...I can see that happening, but ...
A. 18 May 2010: Unless you have some seriously overgrown facial hair, I'd be wondering what's up with that, myself. I think it's very unlikely that you could have given him said rash in the process of oral sex Like, in what position, exactly, would that occur? I ... (read in full...)
Have I got my hopes up for nothing?
Q. Hi, I have never used one of these before but then i've never been so confused. I broke up with my ex three months ago. We didn't contact each other afterwards and things seemed to be slowly getting better. However recently we have been ...
A. 18 May 2010: I'm sorta confused: you broke up, didn't contact eachother and "things seemed to be getting better"? How does that happen? If you broke up the first time because his family didn't like you, you kissed someone else after you broke up and he had a ... (read in full...)
My ex contacted me, but now what I've read on his dating profile has shocked me!
Q. Alright Sunday night a guy I dated briefly contacted me via dating site we met on two years ago and I should probably mention that it ended ugly with his last words to me being F-off or something to that effect when I told him I was pregnant. Anyway ...
A. 18 May 2010: That's using the ol' noodle...smart girl! Monkey on a cupcake, I like that, mind if I use it?... (read in full...)
My life as his second wife is taking me nowhere, what should I do?
Q. I fell in love with a married man, who is my hubby now. I'm a Muslim, my religion permits man to marry upto 4 times. I met him 8 years back and had pre-marital sex. He is my only partner, may be this guilt forced me marrying him and not other man. B...
A. 18 May 2010: I agree with the first response. I think you're better off alone than risking a "life" with this guy. As I am wholly unfamiliar with your culture and how a man could be both publicly and secretly married and why this would be acceptable on any ... (read in full...)
My wife is afraid to swallow. What can I do to help her get rid of this little fear?
Q. I have a great relationship with my wife and we love each other very much. She and I give each other oral sex. The thing is that I have asked her if she will swalow and she has said yes but she just can't bring herself to do it. What can I do ...
A. 18 May 2010: Tisha and q--you both always come through! The Great Mark who obviously has loads of experience in this matter-no pun-is off-the-hook- in his fruit obsession.
I agree with Tisha you: take the unfruit-flavored half and give her the remainde... (read in full...)
Do you think she still has feelings for me even though she claims she has none at all?
Q. Ok.... i have a very complicated question. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. I have cheated on her before and was caught. She has caught me doing the "SEXTING' (text) thing and we were able to get past it only to find myself doing it ...
A. 18 May 2010: Because you claim to be trying to clean up your act and work towards being a better man and father, I'm cutting you a whole lot of slack. I'm normally pretty tough on guys who just can't find their way clear to govern themselves properly. But ... (read in full...)
I love my enemy. Help me please...
Q. Hi everybody! I need your advice, friends. I have been chatting with this guy online for 4 months.I am 18, he is 27. We trust and respect each other very much. There is such impression that he is my soul mate. We like and dislike the same things ...
A. 18 May 2010: First, have you ever actually met this guy in real time?
I, personally, don't believe in the whole "soul mate" thing, so no, I am not inclined to agree that this is your soul mate. However, you need to decide if the battle that makes this guy'... (read in full...)
My wife is afraid to swallow. What can I do to help her get rid of this little fear?
Q. I have a great relationship with my wife and we love each other very much. She and I give each other oral sex. The thing is that I have asked her if she will swalow and she has said yes but she just can't bring herself to do it. What can I do ...
A. 18 May 2010: First, why don't you explain her to why this is so important to you? Can you cough that up? What's the big deal? swallow or spit, WHY is this even important? What difference does it make to you in the end? If she doesn't want to swallow, that's her ... (read in full...)
My ex contacted me, but now what I've read on his dating profile has shocked me!
Q. Alright Sunday night a guy I dated briefly contacted me via dating site we met on two years ago and I should probably mention that it ended ugly with his last words to me being F-off or something to that effect when I told him I was pregnant. Anyway ...
A. 18 May 2010: Go with your gut feeling. It's most likely right. If he tossed you aside so unceremoniously over something as important as being pregnant, that tells me that this guy doesn't root deeply. He was on an adult hook-up site just b/c he missed you and ... (read in full...)
How can I show him I love him when we have never spoken before?
Q. I am in love with someone but we haven't talked at all how do i show this person that i really love him, what can i do to win him over?...
A. 18 May 2010: I'm curious to know how you know you genuinely love someone you've never spoken to, ever? Perhaps you're confusing "love" with admire from afar? There's a HUGE difference.... (read in full...)
She doesn't want to date me because of our age difference, how should I act now?
Q. Hi everyone. I am interested in a colleague who is 7 years older than me. We went out few times for movies. One day I confessed but she rejected me due to age gap. However, she said she felt relaxed and comfortable with me, that's why she likes to...
A. 18 May 2010: It's difficult to offer you any sort of real observation due to the general lack of information presented. She rejected you due to age gap. "Rejection" can range from No, thanks. to F* off, buster! to I'm calling the police. So what form of ... (read in full...)
Does this prostitute have feelings for me or is she just using me for money?
Q. I have meet a prostitute and enjoy her company immensely, her being a prostitute does not bother me, i am married not happly married, and prefer her company allthough it is on occaisionally, i think she likes me. the only thing when we go out out ...
A. 17 May 2010: All morality and preachiness aside, you're paying her to like you-among other things- when she's with you, right? Sounds like you're getting what you're paying for. It's a BUSINESS transaction. Keep it that way.
I trade stocks, just because I make... (read in full...)
Why am I finding so hard to deal with his ex's?
Q. oky here goes... Me and my boyfriend are having a very hard time... I used to get upset over his ex phoning him and finding letters from them and what ever... luckily i got over that... and then... on Saturday I we went out and I had to face not ...
A. 17 May 2010: First, you must realize that the ex thing is being *tolerated* (or worse invited) by your boyfriend, if he wanted the calls, letters, etc to stop then he'd have put a stop to them. It's that simple.
Flicking a cigarette at someone is chur... (read in full...)
Does my fiance have something to hide?
Q. My fiance and I bought a house in July. Turns out, a woman he knew in high school (also friends with her family) lives 1 mile up the road. He hadn't seen her since high school, but when she found out where he lives, she stops to see him. She has ...
A. 17 May 2010: I think not, Tasteof...*WHY* should she tippy-toe around carefully orchestrating matters so as not to "fuel the fire/forbidden fruit" thing. Is this an ADULT man and future equitable partner or a child with bad habits to break?
1.) So what if you ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend, drugs and pornography
Q. I found out that my boyfriend has been lieing to me for maybe the duration of our three year relationship about porn, i foud some on his computer. since then he has been treating me diffrently and i even foud out he has been snorting legal coke from ...
A. 17 May 2010: SMART GIRL!! Best of luck in the next round! There's plenty of good guys out there, it just takes a little while to find 'em. Hang in there!... (read in full...)
Women, what is this?
Q. Well this is embarassing. I don't have any idea what this is. Earlier today I went to the bathroom after this I was about to take a shower when all of a sudden all this white discharge came pouring from me down my legs. I don't think I have an ...
A. 14 May 2010: Wow. News to me. I'll be interested to know what you find out.... (read in full...)
Girlfriends sexual past is causing trouble for me...
Q. I just found this site and decided to ask about something that is causing me trouble to see what others think. I have been with my current girlfriend for two years... She is older than me, and I was a virgin when I met her which I think is one of ...
A. 14 May 2010: Not a guy, but listen to your logic! Whatever/whoever is in the pic is NOT you, it happened before the advent of you, it is NO reflection nor evaluation of you, it's no reference or commentary on you or your abilities. So reject the notion that it ... (read in full...)
Should I cancel the date because he told me his penis size?
Q. Hi friends, I met a guy online and he is 13 years younger than me. I am 48, take great care of myself and get alot of attention from guys. We are both professionals, work out alot and he is very handsome. We have been emailing, within a week he...
A. 14 May 2010: Damn a week and it's all vomit up the baggage? I honestly don't believe any man should be judged by penis size, would you like to be judged by your breast size? Far, far too shallow! Rather, 13 years your junior? I'd be concerned about the ... (read in full...)
Why cant he just tell these other women he is married to stop them flirting with him?
Q. Hi, My husband's exes are getting in touch with him, calling and sending texts even though he doesn't answer them. I do understand that he is committed now but the problem I have right now is that this line they are texting and calling he got afte...
A. 14 May 2010: WHY can't he tell them off, EXACTLY!
If there's nothing for you to worry about then why doesn't he make good on that claim and MAKE it a reality rather than an idle excuse? If he's married to you, then he has no good reason nor excuse for exs to b... (read in full...)
Does my fiance have something to hide?
Q. My fiance and I bought a house in July. Turns out, a woman he knew in high school (also friends with her family) lives 1 mile up the road. He hadn't seen her since high school, but when she found out where he lives, she stops to see him. She has ...
A. 14 May 2010: I'd say there's not enough information here to render verdict on hiding something or not. I know everyone is different on this type of issue. So I'm offering you what I already know is highly subjective advice. Myself, I'm very hardcore on this ... (read in full...)
Wife doesn't satisfy me sexually like past loves...
Q. my former girlfriend was raw with me in bed,she made me feel that no other woman can give me hot sex,now am married and cant find such satisfaction in my wife,yet i love her,what do i do?...
A. 14 May 2010: I'm sorry really I am but DITTO to what Vintage and q165 said!... (read in full...)
Boyfriend, drugs and pornography
Q. I found out that my boyfriend has been lieing to me for maybe the duration of our three year relationship about porn, i foud some on his computer. since then he has been treating me diffrently and i even foud out he has been snorting legal coke from ...
A. 3 May 2010: The porn thing, again. I swear porn has caused many more problems than it's aggregate worth as an industry.
Sweetie, Cerberus, the three-headed dog dude here has a valid point. Guys have a visual fixation when it comes to sex and porn feeds that... (read in full...)
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