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Female, often accused of being somewhat quick on the trigger, fire-from-the-hip type completely NON-PC, highly Conservative dispensation of advice where it's needed, been around the block a few times as well as some pretty dark alleys. Tough, but honest. An MBA from Texas A&M ('89) says I'm educated. High geared, high strung stock broker. Tri-Delta Alumni. Deceivingly-innocent-looking-blond-bunny without the bimbo edge. Tough on loser men and predators a specialty.

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Married to the wrong man!

Q.   i married the wrong man for the wrong reasons. we have been married over 15 years and were high school sweethearts. we have four wonderful childern, however i knew the day i was marrying him he was probably not the man i should be marrying. i cried ...

A.   8 June 2010: Ok, so you've been cheating on your husband for the past 15 years? I apologize and stand corrected-I missed that little fact the first time around. I withdraw my previous inquiries pertaining to further info. What's stated is more than enough. T... (read in full...)

My co worker has a feminine odor problem. What can I do?

Q.   Has anyone worked with someone that has a distinctive body odor and doesn't seem to get the hint that some better hygiene is needed? I share an office with a very cute, perky girl who is 22 and single. All of the young guys in our office hang ...

A.   4 June 2010: OMG! How utterly offensive. If she's not picking up the hints you're cleverly dropping, perhaps along with being Perky PollyAnna-on-Prozac she's also totally clueless? Maybe a nice little gift bag, with a few strategically chosen products... (read in full...)

What happens if he tries to kiss me on our date?

Q.   Hi there, I have met this guy who attends the same school as me, We have known each other for a couple of months, Things are going great. He wanted to meet me, so I agreed and were meeting soon, very soon. I'm scared, he told me he really ...

A.   4 June 2010: If your turn away from an intended kiss and he plants one on your cheek or elsewhere, like a voracious owl dive-bombing a field mouse for lunch, then you probably don't want this guy to kiss you, anyway. In which case he won't have. So it's ... (read in full...)

Married to the wrong man!

Q.   i married the wrong man for the wrong reasons. we have been married over 15 years and were high school sweethearts. we have four wonderful childern, however i knew the day i was marrying him he was probably not the man i should be marrying. i cried ...

A.   4 June 2010: Here's what jumped out at me first: you married him against what you believe your heart was saying versus your head. May I ash what then, do you think would have been the "right" reasons to marry your husband? (meaning: you've obviously changed your ... (read in full...)

The father of my baby has no contact and is so secretive!

Q.   I am writing to ask whether people think I have done enough for my daughter in making her dad be part of her life? I had her and another guy was thought to be her dad but in feb the dna results came back that she wasnt my ex but she was my ex befor...

A.   4 June 2010: Typically, people who "compartmentalize" their lives like you've described have done so for the long term (meaning it's nothing new or unusual for them) in so doing, there's usually a good-sized reason for the many different "compartments" Note that ... (read in full...)

What happens if he tries to kiss me on our date?

Q.   Hi there, I have met this guy who attends the same school as me, We have known each other for a couple of months, Things are going great. He wanted to meet me, so I agreed and were meeting soon, very soon. I'm scared, he told me he really ...

A.   4 June 2010: You can't go wrong with a breath mint or two..stick with classic flavors like a light mint or spearmint, a hint of cinnamon, but nothing strong, over powering or over the top fruity. Stay clear of things that turn your mouth a bright, unnatural ... (read in full...)

Please help me: After discovering his porn obsession my confidence and life has plummeted, I'm depressed, not aroused and coucilling is doing nothing

Q.   Where to start, well my boyfriend of three years looks at a lot of pictures of nude women on the internet. I discovered this almost a year ago, and before I knew about it, I was very confident about the way my body looked, not in an egotisti...

A.   4 June 2010: I've often wondered myself, what's up with this irresistible attraction between porn and guys. It seems to be some strange magnetic field that escapes those of us of the female persuasion. I have lots of male friends, get along with my husband's ... (read in full...)

Husbands having the best of both worlds without nobody knowning

Q.   "OPs Own Title" okay i have this friend that i meet from college (lets call him bob). While my question is we have been friends for about 2years now, and when i meet him he was about to get married but however would still try to get with me on the ...

A.   4 June 2010: I'd say she knows alot already from the sounds of things. I suppose you could offer her the info if she doesn't already have it. If nothing else to let her know that he told you he was single and so you, being the good girl you are had no malice in ... (read in full...)

He wants to make space for me in his cupboard. What does this mean?

Q.   hi i am 24 and my boyfriend is 27 we have been dating for 3months :) and we still so inlove. On saturday he told me that he is going to make space for me in his cupboard for when i sleep over. Can someone please tell me if there is any meaning ...

A.   3 June 2010: and just where will his pet snake, Rodney, live then?... (read in full...)

Is this relationship I have with a 31 year old man wrong?

Q.   I'm 16 and I've really only been attracted to older men (mostly teachers and other figures of relative authority, etc. I don't appreciate guys my age cause they're all terribly immature) and I love a guy who's 31 - that's 15 years older than me. I ...

A.   3 June 2010: Have you ever heard the old saying:" Err on the side of caution"? It means if you're uncertain, go ahead make the mistake, but do so so the error is due to being cautious, saving you from making the worst mistake. You're a smart girl, think about ... (read in full...)

Cousin's ex husband & I have an attraction..how do I get away from this!

Q.   Here's the situation, I have a cousin who has a child with her now exhusband, they're back together and living in the same house...Anyway, we're all about the same age and my cousin is not a very close cousin of mine. Her ex husband is definitely a ...

A.   3 June 2010: Sounds to me like you're a pretty smart girl. I'm pleased to see that, honestly. If I were you, I'd just keep playing smart and all calm, cool, collected like, as you are now. Since this could involve other family members and potentially getting ... (read in full...)

He wants to make space for me in his cupboard. What does this mean?

Q.   hi i am 24 and my boyfriend is 27 we have been dating for 3months :) and we still so inlove. On saturday he told me that he is going to make space for me in his cupboard for when i sleep over. Can someone please tell me if there is any meaning ...

A.   3 June 2010: Positively fraught with signs and wonders, q!... (read in full...)

Cheating and "forgetful" boyfriend goes away on a guys vacation. Can I trust him?

Q.   My boyfriend has just gone on holiday with his friends.. We were having a few problems but we sorted it all out before he left. I love him so much and I'd hate for us to have left it on a bad note. He's been away with his mates before and I sho...

A.   3 June 2010: Well, I can offer you what I know to be true and that is: He's going to do what he's going to do regardless of what you do or don't worry about. You can worry yourself sick over this, but it changes absolutely nothing. The best thing you can do i... (read in full...)

He wants to make space for me in his cupboard. What does this mean?

Q.   hi i am 24 and my boyfriend is 27 we have been dating for 3months :) and we still so inlove. On saturday he told me that he is going to make space for me in his cupboard for when i sleep over. Can someone please tell me if there is any meaning ...

A.   3 June 2010: I'd bet the farm that it means he's planning to make some space in a cupboard for you. Maybe it's nothing more than he's tired of your stuff being all over the place when you stay over. Could be it means that he's making a place for you in his l... (read in full...)

Older boyfriend lives next door, I'm cheating on him and want out. But will he make a scene?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. We have a 17 year age difference. I'm almost 27 and he just turned 44. I used to be turned on by him at one time. My bf has a good heart and he means well. He has good qualities and that's what I lo...

A.   3 June 2010: A 44 yro man, lives with his parents, lost his car, license and loses his temper? Plus you take care of him financially? Girl, this isn't a boyfriend, this is a leech! Just tell him, straight up, this nonsense is over, like yesterday. If you try ... (read in full...)

Is this relationship I have with a 31 year old man wrong?

Q.   I'm 16 and I've really only been attracted to older men (mostly teachers and other figures of relative authority, etc. I don't appreciate guys my age cause they're all terribly immature) and I love a guy who's 31 - that's 15 years older than me. I ...

A.   3 June 2010: Hell yeah! Cindy!... (read in full...)

Is this relationship I have with a 31 year old man wrong?

Q.   I'm 16 and I've really only been attracted to older men (mostly teachers and other figures of relative authority, etc. I don't appreciate guys my age cause they're all terribly immature) and I love a guy who's 31 - that's 15 years older than me. I ...

A.   3 June 2010: Agreed, Vintage. But it's certainly very hard to stand by and hope the too-predictable-outcome by-passes her.... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   3 June 2010: True, valid point,q. But what if John goes all fruit loop-like and takes a flyin' leap off the nearest bridge, convinced he failed to satisfy his wife and look what her drove her to do? What then? Presto: compounded evil.... (read in full...)

Is this relationship I have with a 31 year old man wrong?

Q.   I'm 16 and I've really only been attracted to older men (mostly teachers and other figures of relative authority, etc. I don't appreciate guys my age cause they're all terribly immature) and I love a guy who's 31 - that's 15 years older than me. I ...

A.   3 June 2010: Just remember, sweetie, we tried to tell you....... (read in full...)

Are women dating guys for money? To look good?

Q.   hey ! im just wondering are women all the same ? heres my story ive dated this girl for about a year . im not the richest person don't make the best wages . the ex was a big spender loved to eat out fancy places , designer clothes , bags, ...

A.   3 June 2010: No, honey, not all women are like that at all. I think women like you're describing here are the exception rather than the rule. Many of us work and support our own habits and high maintenance costs-I'm one of them. It sounds as though your ... (read in full...)

Men: How is it that young men are attracted to older women- does he want just 'benefits' with me?

Q.   Need your opinion on this one. I am a woman in my forties. I have a great family:a husband and a 23 years old daughter. I look very young, sometimes people think I am in my mid-thirties. The last few years really young guys started to lik...

A.   3 June 2010: I'd put my chips on that MILF obsession thing. Sorta freaks me, really. I'm 39 and recently had a neighborhood 17 yro hit on me...like point blank..mildly flattering in an old lady kinda way. But kinda creepy in that I am as old as his own mother, ... (read in full...)

Are his flirty actions serious or not?

Q.   There is a married man I know who has been giving me a lot of 'come hither' signals for a few months. He touches me whenever he can, my hand, arm, back, etc. He stares intently and sometimes locks eyes with me and it seems when he does, that...

A.   3 June 2010: Chigirl is absolutely right, sweetie. You can do much better than some slimy snake whose married already. Just start giving him the freeze-out treatment. So what if he's got the hots for you? He's married, which means he's trying to be a low ... (read in full...)

We were in love but he won't talk to me!

Q.   Its been an entire month till i touched his hand, kissed him mouth and looked into his eyes. I need help, its like I cant function without him. What do i do? Okay it all started; I was in maths bored as usuasl when (lets call him, Noah) moved next...

A.   3 June 2010: I heard that q, you old buzzard....... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: NO! Really? She's leaving John? I missed that altogether somehow. Oh man. now see what you've gone and done?... (read in full...)

We were in love but he won't talk to me!

Q.   Its been an entire month till i touched his hand, kissed him mouth and looked into his eyes. I need help, its like I cant function without him. What do i do? Okay it all started; I was in maths bored as usuasl when (lets call him, Noah) moved next...

A.   2 June 2010: There now, see? q's a smart old buzzard, so he knows the deal, get it in gear, girl. There's a line forming!... (read in full...)

We were in love but he won't talk to me!

Q.   Its been an entire month till i touched his hand, kissed him mouth and looked into his eyes. I need help, its like I cant function without him. What do i do? Okay it all started; I was in maths bored as usuasl when (lets call him, Noah) moved next...

A.   2 June 2010: Please do, Poster. I believe you, it's easier said than done. But really, what are your options? You can't just curl up and die of starvation or simply not breathe. These are NOT options. Whatever it takes YOU MUST pull yourself through this to ... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: excepting, of course, the righteous indignation of fem. anon., that is.... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: OP: though we've tangeted off into the weeds here abit in effort to interject a bit of levity into the grimness this has become, I want you to know, that my song remains the same: spare John this atrocity. Confess to an outside, disinterested party ... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: I'd say that description is quite accurate, q. Amarillo looks like one humungous truck stop, but it was ok.... (read in full...)

I need him, he is my Romeo... help!

Q.   i just got busted for sneaking my boyfriend over to my house today to hang. My grandma's finace called my mom and she was pissed off, so she is taking my phone so i can not text or call him and we are in love. we made out an had clothes sex behind ...

A.   2 June 2010: Unfortunately, when these things happen, you end up trading trust for supervision. You were busted. It's called the consequences of your actions, sweetie. You just hafta face it.... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: I was completely unimpressed with Brownville. Baytown was downright frightening.... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: OMG! Look! fem. anon has posted! Amazing news, sports fans: Dan is the devil himself!... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: Been there, done that and before you even think it, q, Bunny did NOT do Dallas, either! No, it was somewhere going towards Brownsville, I think.... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: OMG..chimichangas...YUM...there was a place in Texas I was at......small town, really, there were tumbleweeds rolling across the road and even a roadrunner..the whole thing was surreal..but I digress as I am wont to do, why are we talking about ... (read in full...)

We were in love but he won't talk to me!

Q.   Its been an entire month till i touched his hand, kissed him mouth and looked into his eyes. I need help, its like I cant function without him. What do i do? Okay it all started; I was in maths bored as usuasl when (lets call him, Noah) moved next...

A.   2 June 2010: Sweetie, I don't think there's anything wrong with you. You've had someone touch your life, deeply. Now he's not there and you miss him. You "connected" with someone. And it feels like it never really happened at all. It's a very tough thing to get ... (read in full...)

I'm worried she will take our future children with her and leave me!

Q.   Im from the UK and have a girlfriend from australia. we have been dating for nearly 4 years, we met in the UK then went to Australia for 2 years. now im back home and she is in OZ but coming to Uk soon. I am thinking about the long term(kids, etc) ...

A.   2 June 2010: I applaud your attempt to think long term and cause/effect. But honestly, unless you have some substantial reasons on hand before you get this ball rolling, is it really cause for immediate concern? Have you already resigned yourself to ultimate... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: I'm defending the OP-Obliterated Poster- because she's served her time in Purgatory. It is ultimately her prerogative on how to proceed. There's not much else that can be done for her. I think we've covered it all.... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: Very nice, raiders, Splendidly done. Well-executed spin, there.... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: This thread has taken on a life of it's own, I fear.... (read in full...)

I'm scared of my boyfriends father! He has a closet full of guns!

Q.   Hey internet users, I was wondering if you guys had some words of wisdom for my problem...i have a wonderful, amazing boyfriend who loves me very much. He's successful in school and has a very nice attitude towards everyone. But, his dad is ...

A.   2 June 2010: Wow. He sounds kinda creepy. Just because someone owns guns doesn't make them creepy, though. It is how they act with those guns that matters. If he's irresponsible with them, then by all means stay away from the guy. But if the guy thinks he's the ... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: 80 what? old buzzard... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: Excellent return fire, raiders, but that is not my aim here. It is only that I believe the OP to be beaten to death now. True, I am arrogant but you say that like it's a bad thing. It's not arrogance if you can back it up.... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: dig·ni·ty (dgn-t) n. pl. dig·ni·ties 1. The quality or state of being worthy of esteem or respect. 2. Inherent nobility and worth: the dignity of honest labor. 3. a. Poise and self-respect. b. Stateliness and formality in manner and appearance... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: Honestly, I was musing to myself over the possibility that I might next begin regurgitating liberal talking points on "the human condition" and other nonsense. It was a frightening moment, lemme tell ya.... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: Me? *I* say (and this is me, personally) You see this .12 guage loaded with double aught buck shot? Start running. both of you.--DISCLAIMER: this is me personally I am not recommending this course of action to anyone, I am notorious for my ... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: I'm no believer in the "biological clock" thing, personally having no use for it. However, window treatments ARE an important part of life. Neither do I believe in anyone being dragged helplessly into love with anyone against their will and good... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: Oh, q-you old buzzard, you're baiting me! I don't know if I shall manage to successfully resis, but rest assured, I'm trying...trying...argh! the temptation!... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: Oh, q-you old buzzard, you're baiting me! I don't know if I shall manage to successfully resist taking the bait, but rest assured, I'm trying...trying...argh! the temptation!... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   2 June 2010: Daaamn! Now THAT is a rant if I ever I saw one! Fem. anon: I hope that was therapeutic for you since it comes across as a quasi-therapy spew. Which is not to say that I disagree with your bullet points. Just an observation. Notwithstanding, there ... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   1 June 2010: Oh c'mon, raiders. *I'm* the one with the it's -all-black-and white one end of the spectrum or another disposition. She can have true remorse without disemboweling her husband! This is a tough one which is why I say mitigating circumstance worthy ... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   1 June 2010: Normally, yes, but I earnestly believe the poor guy doesn't deserve being saddled with such heinous news of events....usually I'm the first one in line to insist upon full disclosure at all costs, but in the OP's case, I believe there may be ... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   1 June 2010: Never one to disappoint, q has wrapped this up nicely for us: the OP did it, she knows, she sees it, and while q has no further belief that the OP will learn from her misdeeds, we may all happily move on and be assured that the rest of us with a ... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   1 June 2010: Oh certainly, Miamine, like who has any use for anything as insignificantly insipid as morals or a code of conduct? At least the OP has the decency to evaluate and recognize the fact that she has done something worthy of re evaluation..which speaks ... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   1 June 2010: Poster: I don't accuse you of premeditated, wholesale, moral slaughter, however, it does run a close second; but I do maintain that you're guilty of excessively poor judgement in committing adultery with your BIL. Alcohol or not, it is still your ... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   31 May 2010: Wow. Female anonymous has gone and field-dressed you out, Poster. I am forced to admit that anon.'s view is quite accurate. So now that you've experienced on-going castigation and just shy of a public whipping, all you're missing is the scarlet ... (read in full...)

Can I keep what happened with my brother in law from my husband?

Q.   I am in a situation that I would have never in a million years believed that I could be in. I have never been unfaithful to anyone - ever. I think that trust and honesty are two of the most important things in a successful relationship and...

A.   28 May 2010: Your post struck me as sincere, thoughtful and genuine. I could almost feel the deep remorse. I say "almost" because I was just about to make an isolated exception to my usual position that your behavior is totally unacceptable on any level. ... (read in full...)

Is this relationship I have with a 31 year old man wrong?

Q.   I'm 16 and I've really only been attracted to older men (mostly teachers and other figures of relative authority, etc. I don't appreciate guys my age cause they're all terribly immature) and I love a guy who's 31 - that's 15 years older than me. I ...

A.   14 May 2010: I must admit that I'm impressed with your obviously higher than usual level of mentality. At 16, you're remarkably thoughtful. I applaud that; with that said, I hope to soften the following from stinging too much. There are a few static and ... (read in full...)

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