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I can't get the thought of her one night stand before we were together out of my head, and its killing me!
Q. I met my fiance in college at the end of my freshman year. I noticed her from the beginning. I had a crush on her the entire year but she had a boyfriend that went to a school nearby who she had been with for 2 years. They went to high school ...
A. 18 June 2010: No matter how hard you try, no matter how hard you wish, knowing certain things is like the spoken word, once you know it or once spoken you can never take it back. It just stays there, static and unmoving. Like the monster in the closet peeking at ... (read in full...)
How do I approach her to see if she's ready to take our relationship to the next level?
Q. NEED TEENAGE GIRL ADVICE Hello, first off I'd like to explain my story some and then get down to the question. Ok, so me and my girlfried have been dating since I was 13(16 now) and me and her have been talking about having sex for quite some t...
A. 18 June 2010: Hi ya Koty,
There's some darn good "uncles" on this site who are much better qualified than I to help you get where you want to go with this.Be patient, one of them will probably find you soon and offer you some good "guy" advice, man stuff. T... (read in full...)
We're in a long distance relationship and he's paying for porn, should I be concerned?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and have found ourselves in a long distance relationship where we see each other every second month. This is not a permanent arrangement but will be for 8 months. We keep in touch regularl...
A. 17 June 2010: Breaking this down: Skype is "type printed word". Porn is visual. Men are hard-wired to respond to visual stimuli. Hence the attraction to the visual rather than "reading" it. Try not to take it personal. I don't believe it is. It's not a ... (read in full...)
She's having a baby with her husband, should I continue the affair?
Q. I have a very confusing situation at the moment. Long story so here goes. I had an affair with someone for just over a year. We were both married and had young children. We both fell desperately in love. I couldn't carry on with my wife so I lef...
A. 17 June 2010: Bad, bad medicine, my friend. Bow out gracefully and move onto an available woman.... (read in full...)
We decided to separate but have recently become closer again, what should we do?
Q. Have been with my wife 13 years, married almost 10 and have 2 wonderful children. About 6 months ago I noticed her "turn off" emotionally with me. Gradually it had come out that she no longer felt the way she thinks a wife should feel about her ...
A. 17 June 2010: Perhaps just the idea of the imminent "end is nigh" is having an effect upon both of you? I'd say that neither of you genuinely deep down want to split. Were that the case, at least one of you would be trying to run out the door already.
I'd advi... (read in full...)
Did he cum on my chest because he didn't enjoy the blow job?
Q. I am a 25 year old married woman. Recently, I was giving my husband a blow as he really likes that, when he had me stop, lay on the bed on back, and began to rub his penis over my breats and then shot on my boobs. We had never done this. I had ...
A. 17 June 2010: Personally, I believe this behavior is related to territorial marking, like cats/dogs peeing on things. Doesn't mean it was a lousy blow job, though. It's one of those "guy things", just roll with it. No big deal.... (read in full...)
Does this 'friend with benefits' now want to be exclusive?
Q. Okay here goes nothing!!! For the past two years I have had a friend with benefits. I know I know I should have dodged the dang bullet two years ago when I ran into the guy at a dive bar. One thing leads to another and here I am...two years in and ...
A. 17 June 2010: This guy goes and hooks up with your room mate as a means if getting back at you? Exactly, WTF is THAT? A revenge...hit that?
This is a whole encyclopedic set of facts that speaks volumes of his character as well as raising many a question, for exam... (read in full...)
How can I help him see me as more than a 'Friend with Benefits'?
Q. Hi, I know that many of you are going to say this is wrong, i am sure it is but what is done is done. We started as a harmless flirting, talking every day and making silly jokes. We do not even live in the same town but he manged to come here ...
A. 17 June 2010: You're right: what's done is done. But once it's done, that doesn't mean you should keep repeating what's done and continue the on going cycle of do-overs for what's done.
The whole concept of learning from your mistakes is to actually learn no... (read in full...)
My husband thinks I killed his mother by standing up for myself!
Q. I have reached the limit in associating with my in-laws. After 30 years of taking abuse from them, I have decided that I have had enough and I am no longer putting myself at their disposal to allow them to continue treating me badly. I have sp...
A. 17 June 2010: As cliche' as this will sound,I earnestly mean it, Poster: I genuinely feel your pain. I was nearly convinced that you had my ex in-laws as your in-laws until I noticed the age bracket, proving that to be impossible. I dealt with about 10 years of ... (read in full...)
I'm think my ex-husband is using me, but don't know how to break the cycle!
Q. I am really confused I need some advise. I got married and all was well, we have a 3yr old daughter and I realized my husband is cheating, even so after we spoke about it I forgave him but I do not think he changed. I am the breadwinner and he is ...
A. 17 June 2010: I would "chuck him out like that, but that's me. Pardon my pontificating, but marriage is an EQUAL partnership that often requires one partner to give more than the other at times. When the scales tart to tip *consistently* in one giving more than ... (read in full...)
How can I prevent my mother from finding out I have a boyfriend?
Q. My phone bill has come and my mu has applied for the call list!I've been calling up my guy!I don want mum to know that I'm in a relationship!How do i save myself?...
A. 17 June 2010: I believe it to be a salient point to ask: may we know why you don't want your mother to know you have a relationship?... (read in full...)
What flatters guys the most?
Q. I've been quite in love with him for 3 years. We've admitted to feeling affection toward each other quite a few times in the first year we'd met. It never worked out though and ended up us agreeing to be friends--which really meant never talk...
A. 17 June 2010: Not a guy here, but I'm willing to offer up my humble opinion for what it's worth to ya.
I'd say you actually *do* love this guy. That back and forth, I love him, I can't stand him, I've just got to have him, I want to rip his head off roller c... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend I was intimate with another man after we'd broken up?
Q. I've grown intimate with a guy when i'd broken up with my ex.the guy happened to be my best friend.Now i don wanna tell this to my ex since we're back in a relationship.But he knows that i had a best friend and we were good friends.Now he's really ...
A. 17 June 2010: Whatever you did in the span of time you were split from your ex, stands alone, you weren't "with" your ex and so weren't obligated to remain exclusive to him on any level.
I see no reason why you need to confess this to anyone. I see nothing ... (read in full...)
Help! My religious beliefs prevent pre-marital sex and my boyfriend's demands are so scary!
Q. hey The guy he loves me he is not from my country,,,well i luv him and he luv me alot he said 2 me he want 2 have sex with me and i was shocked because he knowing that i cant have sex before marry its forbidden in my religion then he said ok (i wi...
A. 17 June 2010: Man using high pressure tactics like using love for leverage+ man wants you naked + hotel room + all day/night does not equal he loves or respects you or your convictions, nor does he wish to play a friendly game of Backgammon or checkers with you. ... (read in full...)
I'm so angry, I thought he was genuine but now feel he's fed me a load of bullshit!
Q. I'm still angry and cant seem to get rid of this anger. I dated this guy for 3 months. We had fun together but he had issues he needed to work through - excessive drinking, tryin to rebuild his life (get a car/job etc), family member dying a...
A. 17 June 2010: Straight up? I think you were played, sister. It looks that way to me. Just plain old played. He kept baiting you, keeping you on the line, telling you what he knew you wanted to hear while he needed the shoulder to cry on, and keep him from ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend seems to have feelings for another woman! How do I handle this?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for over 2 years now im 25 and she is 21 recently shes been acting a bit weird lately being distant from me and didnt want to get close to me or anything i came home early from work one day she was in the shower and had ...
A. 17 June 2010: I'm inclined to agree with your feeling that she's with you right now for the fallback reason. This would explain why she didn't jump at the chance to leave you when you offered it to her.
You mean you don't know for certain if she's bi or she's... (read in full...)
I told him I'd wait for him... but I'm already married!
Q. I have been with my husband for 24 years, he is very controlling with me. to make a very long story short this guy started talking to me at work, we got to really enjoy each others company. the only problem is that for one he's only 27 im 41, but he ...
A. 17 June 2010: You're married for 24 years and presumably still are.
What's there to be confused about?... (read in full...)
Tired of receiving mixed messages... How can I find out if he likes me or not, once and for all?
Q. I have been liking this one particular guy for a while, and I could tell he liked me back. We went to prom together and a lot of people began rumors that we might've been together. That's false. And he's done everything that literally every girl ...
A. 17 June 2010: You should stop chasing this guy. You should also recognize that no matter what, you may not get the answer you want. Personally, I have a deep appreciation for persistence, but there are times when you need to go heavy on the discretion and lighter ... (read in full...)
If he loves me, why is the ex still hanging around?
Q. Hi guys...I really need some advice! Its quite a tricky situation and none of my friends or family know what to do. Recently I started seeing a 25yr old guy i met in a bar, I have to be honest and say i wasn't attracted to him at first, but as th...
A. 17 June 2010: I'm sorry to have to be the one to break this you, honey but YOU are the girl on the side. You are right, though. If he really wanted her gone, she'd be long gone. If he's essentially ignoring you if she's around, takes her calls and not your's, ... (read in full...)
Is she lying about her "size" preferences?
Q. OK, I'm having a major issue with something that I know is terribly immature, but I can't help it. I am dealing with the "her ex is bigger" syndrome (his 9 to my 6), and I am OK with myself and my abilities, but I can't understand the mixed signals ...
A. 16 June 2010: Tell it like it is, Mal!... (read in full...)
The married man I am having an affair with is cheating on me!
Q. im having an affair to a married man and we are now six years, the problem is he's having a fling relationship to another woman, how can i stop him on this kind of habit i feel so hurt and jealous..what will i do for him should i leave him but i ...
A. 16 June 2010: Now who would've saw that coming? A cheater cheating on you? What's the chances of that happening? For crying in a bucket, Poster! What did you expect? Now, he should man up and walk the straight and narrow?
You are SO barking up the wrong tree... (read in full...)
If he wants to settle down with me, why is he dating other people?
Q. About 5 months ago my high school sweetheart and I re-connected on a romantic level. We have stayed in touch over the 10 years since we graduated and were friends and other than the occasional date we had not dated in over 10 years. 5 months ago we ...
A. 16 June 2010: I can't speak for you , but I know that I, personally, wouldn't think twice about a long term future with someone who gives me the "off into the sunset" forever and ever song and dance then proceeds to demonstrate otherwise. Is this his idea of ... (read in full...)
Is she lying about her "size" preferences?
Q. OK, I'm having a major issue with something that I know is terribly immature, but I can't help it. I am dealing with the "her ex is bigger" syndrome (his 9 to my 6), and I am OK with myself and my abilities, but I can't understand the mixed signals ...
A. 16 June 2010: Amen to that sistah! ... (read in full...)
Is she lying about her "size" preferences?
Q. OK, I'm having a major issue with something that I know is terribly immature, but I can't help it. I am dealing with the "her ex is bigger" syndrome (his 9 to my 6), and I am OK with myself and my abilities, but I can't understand the mixed signals ...
A. 16 June 2010: I believe that this seems to be implausible yea, impossible for men to comprehend as truth simply because the appendage means so much to men! Therefore, it must be that it's the same among women. Right? Wrong.... (read in full...)
Is she lying about her "size" preferences?
Q. OK, I'm having a major issue with something that I know is terribly immature, but I can't help it. I am dealing with the "her ex is bigger" syndrome (his 9 to my 6), and I am OK with myself and my abilities, but I can't understand the mixed signals ...
A. 16 June 2010: Perhaps, but on THIS issue, I ain't buying that line. I've known ONLY ONE woman who actually made a big deal (no pun) over this. If it works, gets the job done, and isn't ludicrously tiny, we don't have a genuine issue with it.... (read in full...)
Is she lying about her "size" preferences?
Q. OK, I'm having a major issue with something that I know is terribly immature, but I can't help it. I am dealing with the "her ex is bigger" syndrome (his 9 to my 6), and I am OK with myself and my abilities, but I can't understand the mixed signals ...
A. 16 June 2010: Honestly, Sir, I think this is a YOU thing, not a HER thing. I think the banter between girls on this subject is just that: nothing more than locker room-style "one-upwomanship" banter. This really IS a non-issue among women. The worst aspect of ... (read in full...)
How do I convince him to leave?
Q. hi i have been with my bf 11 years. 2 kids 4 and 5. i have put up with more than i should have from him but i now feel like he has been cheating with an old friend who i was very close to. i know its time to move on for not just me but my kids. i ...
A. 16 June 2010: If it's your house why can't you just remove him from the lease and kick him out?... (read in full...)
Is this love? What can I do?
Q. Can you love someone even though you don't talk to them hardly ever anymore? I feel like im inlove with my first love, i can never seem to get over him as soon as i see him i go all jellyfied and i feel like im inlove once he told me to jump off t...
A. 16 June 2010: I don't agree that "real love" is when you'll do anything for that person, I'm lean hard on using my head and thinking about things.I think it;s the best way to be.
"Love" has been defined in thousands and thousands of ways ranging from: You'd ju... (read in full...)
Advice for first time sex?
Q. So I'm going to have sex probably this week. It will be my first time. I really really really don't want to get pregnant. He and I are going to use a condom of course and I'll still have him pull out when he's using the condom, but besides not ...
A. 16 June 2010: There's one absolute sure-fire way to prevent getting pregnant: hold a nickel between your knees and don't have sex at all. If you're certain this is what you want to do, then be sure to use the condom and use it right. There is also ... (read in full...)
Wasting time?
Q. I've been engaged for almost 3 years. I'm always the one keeping the conversation, affection, etc. going. When I stop and sit back and just watch and pay attention to what he does, nothing happens. He never has anything to talk about. It's now a ...
A. 16 June 2010: Comfortable? I think lazy is more applicable. If you'll do all the work, I think he'll just sit back and allow it. Why put forth effort if he doesn't have to? I suggest having the "man-up" talk with him.... (read in full...)
My fiance wants a threesome!
Q. My fiance wants a threesome, with another female. I'm a little uneasy about it, but I said I'd agree as long as I also got a threesome with another male. This way it would be fair. Now, I am bisexual. My fiance, we'll call him Bob for the sake of ...
A. 16 June 2010: This is ill-advised. From the sounds of things, this is already a mess. Like Carrot says: what will be left for you to do in college? Tell your b/f to pound sand, this is all about him and not you.... (read in full...)
A virgin and embarrassed by it???
Q. Hi this is probably a stupid question but i was just wondering whether anyone has actually been too embarrassed to tell someone they are still a virgin, i'm 19 and probably going to be a virgin for a while as i have am battling an illness right now ...
A. 16 June 2010: I'm sure there has been cases of virgins going unnoticed throughout time immemorial. However, being a virgin is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of, sweetie. This really isn't a millstone about your neck to be rid of as soon as possible. Focus on ... (read in full...)
I want to be treated like an adult!
Q. Okay I'm about 15 and if there's any adults out there that can help me out that'd be great. Me and my boyfriend had a really rough start because my parents didn't let me see him cause hey didn't like him nd it was really hard seeing eachother cause ...
A. 16 June 2010: You've heard of a Catch-22, right? This is a Catch-22. Like credit, you need credit to get credit. But if you have no credit, then how do you go about getting some to enable you to get more? It's the same with being treated like an adult. If you ... (read in full...)
Can this make my breasts bigger?
Q. When my boyfriend sucks my nipples does it make boobs grow bigger?...
A. 16 June 2010: Um, no, it doesn't. That is genetically dictated and naturally-occurring, sweetie. If he's telling you it does-he has no idea what he's talking about.... (read in full...)
Why do men enjoy penetrating a girl's mouth so deeply?
Q. Hi! Does anyone know why when you are giving your boyfriend a blowjob they want you to get their penis as far in your mouth as you can? I don't quite understand it, and hopefully I'm not the only person that has run into this. Thanks ...
A. 15 June 2010: And what Timm said, too. That's the flip-side of this issue.... (read in full...)
Why do men enjoy penetrating a girl's mouth so deeply?
Q. Hi! Does anyone know why when you are giving your boyfriend a blowjob they want you to get their penis as far in your mouth as you can? I don't quite understand it, and hopefully I'm not the only person that has run into this. Thanks ...
A. 15 June 2010: I really don't think you're the only one who has ran into this, sweetheart. To guys, it's the difference between getting half versus getting the whole enchilada. It just feels good to them.... (read in full...)
Help! My ex broke my heart and keeps calling me!
Q. I was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years and he broke up with me because he said he needed space and time to him self.. I was sooo sad and depress I was really sad.. He said he wanted to live life and enjoy being 21 and we lived togetheir so it hurt ...
A. 15 June 2010: There's a weird compulsion guys get if they've been imbibing too much,: they suddenly become convinced that old g/f's, present g/f's and relatives *really* want to hear from them at 2:30am.
I've had a total of 5 brother-in-laws call my house, seve... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my ex-boyfriend?
Q. i want to sleep with my ex-boyfriend soooooo badly...its been 9yrs or 10yrs...he wants to also..we have been conversating for about 4 months now....should i go for it.....???? ...we were young and immature when we were together back in the ...
A. 15 June 2010: Is anyone married or otherwise committed? If so, then no.
Everyone's over the age of consent, uncommitted and reasonably sound of mind and body? If so, then yes, hit that, girl! Hit it hard!... (read in full...)
Is my husband lying about having affairs?
Q. Okay, straight forward, here it goes...Husband and I have been together for 5 years...Where he worked there was a woman who would come over to the house when we had barbeques and stuff...fine. She came over with her boyfriend at the time once, ...
A. 15 June 2010: I'd say you have more info. than a P.I. might be able to provide you.
I also say that not coming home til the next day most definitely warrants a full explanation. And a damn good one at that. You're married to him, right?
I believe where there's ... (read in full...)
He won't let himself cum because I can't cum. Please help!
Q. I have something that is bothering me. I have been seperated from my husband for about a year. I have recently had sex with someone whom I used to be partners with and we have a long history. The sex is fantastic and I enjoy it completely. I do ...
A. 15 June 2010: I've read that something like 85% of all sexually active women don't or can't achieve orgasm through penetration alone. The "cause" is most likely due to lack of extra, external stimulation. Just hopping on and doing the wild mambo usually isn't ... (read in full...)
Is this love? What can I do?
Q. Can you love someone even though you don't talk to them hardly ever anymore? I feel like im inlove with my first love, i can never seem to get over him as soon as i see him i go all jellyfied and i feel like im inlove once he told me to jump off t...
A. 15 June 2010: This sounds more like obsession to me. He tells you to jump and you're going to do so without hesitation? Where's your head, girl?
that means i would do anything for him...that means you'll do anything stupid, no matter the consequences, for him.... (read in full...)
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