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Is this love? What can I do?
Q. Can you love someone even though you don't talk to them hardly ever anymore? I feel like im inlove with my first love, i can never seem to get over him as soon as i see him i go all jellyfied and i feel like im inlove once he told me to jump off t...
A. 16 June 2010: I don't agree that "real love" is when you'll do anything for that person, I'm lean hard on using my head and thinking about things.I think it;s the best way to be.
"Love" has been defined in thousands and thousands of ways ranging from: You'd ju... (read in full...)
Is this love? What can I do?
Q. Can you love someone even though you don't talk to them hardly ever anymore? I feel like im inlove with my first love, i can never seem to get over him as soon as i see him i go all jellyfied and i feel like im inlove once he told me to jump off t...
A. 15 June 2010: This sounds more like obsession to me. He tells you to jump and you're going to do so without hesitation? Where's your head, girl?
that means i would do anything for him...that means you'll do anything stupid, no matter the consequences, for him.... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to be sad about the way my husband is acting?
Q. I have this problem me and my husband is getting along well,he recently started a new job. But he and the lady that works together is getting along but too much if you ask me,we went to a bbq the other day she where there he looked at her the whole ...
A. 15 June 2010: Now, exactly why are you still with this guy? This isn't a husband, it's a monster from the pit of hell!... (read in full...)
Getting too close to a married friend helping me through my divorce - how do I stop these feelings?
Q. I have been married for almost 15 years. My marriage has never been great and I've FINALLY built up the strength to leave my husband. While parts of me love him, I have never, nor will I ever be IN LOVE with him. I have great friends who are ...
A. 15 June 2010: I think that no matter how much you were never "in love" with your husband, this doesn't make divorce any less painful, wounding, or traumatic. You have raw open wounds right now. Anything or one willing to help soothe or make less painful your ... (read in full...)
How can I make my not so innocent husband see I'm completely honest with him?
Q. My husband had an affair for 12 months with a woman from work. I knew what was going on but hadnt had it confirmed by him. He wasnt nice to me at all, putting me down and pushing me away, however I remained the supportive wife allowing him to do his ...
A. 15 June 2010: You've heard: "Oh what a tangled web we weave, when we practice to deceive", right? Well, here you go, a real life embodiment.
And sister, you've got one big tangled mess, here.
Physical abuse is a deal breaker.
Usually, so is having an affair... (read in full...)
My vagina has this smell which is making me uncomfortable..
Q. i have this ugly bad smell at my vagina, dont know why but i have it. I shower atleast 2 times a day when i have my period sometimes more, even if i take a bath. After intercourse i shower before intercourse i shower after intercourse the smell is ...
A. 15 June 2010: I read a startling article on this subject in a magazine not too long ago. I have developed my own theory on this subject. I believe it's due to unexfoliated, dead skin. Literally, a build up of dead tissue. I suspect that a bath pouf, a loofah ... (read in full...)
He wants to give me his virginity, but is having problems getting it up..
Q. Am 29 and he is 27 and a virgin. we have been going out for two years now and we had never slept together. recently he said he said now he is ready to take it up and have sex with me but everytime we try he cant have an erection. we tried everything ...
A. 15 June 2010: I'm guessing he's gay, WAY back in the closet, still.... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 15 June 2010: 13 and 45? Hello! Pedophile alert!... (read in full...)
Should I get his parents involved?
Q. So I dated this guy for two years and we broke up about a year and a half ago. I guess you can say I led him on recently but after a little while, I realized I didn't want him back. I've tried severing ties with him several times but he's resorted ...
A. 15 June 2010: The fact that he's 19 means he's an allegedly of age, legally responsible for himself adult. Which means there's little, if anything, his parents can do to intervene.
If you are being harassed, you have every right to call the police and have the... (read in full...)
Can our relationship be saved?
Q. Well, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 years and a lot has happened between us. He started straying, I’d catch him staring at other girls and flirting with other girls via text and facebook…My trust in him has gone but we do love each other a whole ...
A. 15 June 2010: Ok, sweetheart, you need to learn this now. This line: "Also, maybe if I don’t give him what he wants, he’ll work harder for it…"
Contrary to popular belief, men are not dogs to be trained. This is just plain old manipulation. And that's WRON... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps reading my journal
Q. "OPs Own Title" My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months, and we've grown extremely close to each other. He's a wonderful guy, and we've talked seriously about marraige. However I have a small problem: he's read my journal twice now. The ...
A. 15 June 2010: Keep your journal in a bear trap. I had an ex who would do the same thing. Threatened with loss of life and/or limb they usually figure it out.... (read in full...)
Revenge or move on, what's best?
Q. Well after hearing my boyfriend of two years needed time away and then being ignored by him without a break up I did the honors because he was not the best boyfriend to begin with. I know its for the best but I don't understand why he couldn't do ...
A. 15 June 2010: It is said:"The best revenge is to live well" That means go on with your life, and live it well. Wasting your time and effort plotting to exact revenge from a weak, pathetic excuse of a man is not living well. Go live, have fun, make your life a ... (read in full...)
Ladies, I have questions about penis size.
Q. Ladies, for those of you who've been with a well hung (8-9") man, enjoyed it, but went to a more average (5-6") partner and enjoyed that too, which do you generally prefer and why? Is bigger=more masculine, or powerful or what? Do you long for the ...
A. 15 June 2010: Honestly, I believe this to be a fixation among men. Only men are concerned about this size thing. To date, I have known only ONE woman who would judge men by this standard. ONLY ONE.
True, it is nice for a guy to have something to work wit... (read in full...)
How do you put your penis in your briefs?
Q. Okay this might be an awkward question, but here goes. How do you put your penis in your briefs? I'm asking this because I put my penis in one of the sides of the brief because it's easier if you get an erection, am I the only one or are there ot...
A. 15 June 2010: And with that, the moral of our long, sordid story here is that Q's gone and caught a cold now b/c he didn't put his undies on properly!... (read in full...)
Should I just go have fun without getting in a relationship??
Q. Ok well I have just came out of my first proper relation ship it was nearly a year long. She ended it because she doesn't think we are compatible but we both loved each other and she would talk about marriage and kids a fair bit. I still want to be ...
A. 14 June 2010: Yes. If it's over and the fat lady has sang. Move along. Go have a blast, it's what guys your age do in the aftermath. So what're you waiting for?... (read in full...)
Do other girls rub there smell on the lips for there b/f?
Q. I been dating my g/f for 5 months and we been intimate. She said she is bi and I knew that when we met. She had a long time g/f then but just broke up. On Satuday my friend text me and said he saw my g/f with her ex going in her house. I met my ...
A. 14 June 2010: I, I, I..OMG...um buddy? I think you've been lied to.I have never heard of such a practice, that's downright.... unhygienic and plain rude.... (read in full...)
How do you put your penis in your briefs?
Q. Okay this might be an awkward question, but here goes. How do you put your penis in your briefs? I'm asking this because I put my penis in one of the sides of the brief because it's easier if you get an erection, am I the only one or are there ot...
A. 14 June 2010: Q:recondite and abstruse!... (read in full...)
How do you put your penis in your briefs?
Q. Okay this might be an awkward question, but here goes. How do you put your penis in your briefs? I'm asking this because I put my penis in one of the sides of the brief because it's easier if you get an erection, am I the only one or are there ot...
A. 14 June 2010: Count me there, oh great Q! I look forward to your profundity!... (read in full...)
How do you put your penis in your briefs?
Q. Okay this might be an awkward question, but here goes. How do you put your penis in your briefs? I'm asking this because I put my penis in one of the sides of the brief because it's easier if you get an erection, am I the only one or are there ot...
A. 14 June 2010: oh, ok, now Q's pulling the gender thing on us, now.... (read in full...)
How do you put your penis in your briefs?
Q. Okay this might be an awkward question, but here goes. How do you put your penis in your briefs? I'm asking this because I put my penis in one of the sides of the brief because it's easier if you get an erection, am I the only one or are there ot...
A. 14 June 2010: Ok, let's just settle for: take undie-roos out, put one foot through each leg opening, pull up. There, problem solved!... (read in full...)
When does sex feel good after losing your virginity??
Q. When Does Sex Get Good? I Have Had Sex Several Times So Far But Still It Just Feels Weird Not Nasty Not Nice Just Boring... Is This Normal...
A. 14 June 2010: Inexperienced or careless man = boring sex. In that regard, it's all too normal.... (read in full...)
I'm a single mother of two, who has money problems - any advice?
Q. This a question for the aftermath of love gone wrong. I have two children with my ex. He beat me very badly and left us. My parents said to finish school and that things would be taken care of until my class has finished, as I have to travel for ...
A. 14 June 2010: Two kids with your ex? What about child support? I know for a fact that child support enforcement exists in every state in the Union. If you're one of those women who won't pursue child support for fear of pissing off your ex, then you're creating ... (read in full...)
Although I like him, I don't know if he deserves my time if he comes back.
Q. I recently started hanging out with this guy I've known a few years. We've always been acquaintances but really hadn't seen each other in a long time. We started talking via Facebook and he asked me to hang out with me one night, and I obliged. We ...
A. 14 June 2010: In a phrase? HIT AND RUN.
That's exactly what I think happened here. He wanted a quick hit, you'd told him no-some men think that really means yes- he told you what you wanted to hear to enable you to acquiesce and that was that. Hit and run.... (read in full...)
How do you put your penis in your briefs?
Q. Okay this might be an awkward question, but here goes. How do you put your penis in your briefs? I'm asking this because I put my penis in one of the sides of the brief because it's easier if you get an erection, am I the only one or are there ot...
A. 14 June 2010: Eloquent, Vintage! I bet you know the diff. between a full Windsor knot and a Four in Hand, too!... (read in full...)
Stay at home mom living with a cussing, indecisive drinker..
Q. me and dh decided that i would stay home with our son and take care of him and the house i keep the house clean have supper on the table when he walks threw the door and i do everything for my son when dh gets home he sits in front of the tv ...
A. 14 June 2010: You don't happen to live in the Pennsylvania coal regions, do you? Purely sardonic, rhetorical question, really. I don't need to know that, your sitch is just *so* the norm for that area.
I'd say you have a garden variety alcohol-abuser on your ... (read in full...)
"Trying for a chance at love"
Q. "OPs Own Title" Hi Everybody...I'm new here so go easy on me...Where's my situation...I hope it makes sense to you all!!! I've been "seeing" this guy for 3 yrs next month...I'll call him "Hank"...We both have been through a lot of the same things ...
A. 14 June 2010: I'm sure you've heard:"You can lead a horse to water but you cannot make him drink", right?
If you're certain you'll never see each other again if he moves farther away, I just have to ask: why are you so concerned over this guy? Your rela... (read in full...)
Should I get back together with my husband?
Q. So, my husband and I are separated, due to me finding out he cheated on me. I asked him to move out, and he rented an apartment, and let the OW move in with him (along with her 3 girls she will be getting custody of in a couple months). After a few ...
A. 14 June 2010: First: I am not trying to be gratuitously brutal, I'm a realistic.
TheOW can't afford the apt., her kids, your husband's illegitimate kid, etc, etc: and this is your problem how?
Your husband is trying to keep one foot in your house and the o... (read in full...)
Almost had sex with my brother in law and my sister caught us!!
Q. What do I do, me and brother in law almost had sex and my sister walked in and saw us, now my family hates hates us!...
A. 14 June 2010: Kindly define: "almost had sex"?... (read in full...)
Could I have gotten an STD?
Q. Last Saturday night I met a cute guy at a club. We danced and drank until closing and I got pretty buzzed. He offered me a ride home and when we got in his car, I went down on him. I never did that to a strange guy before and when he finished I ...
A. 14 June 2010: The only STD's that I am aware of that can be transmitted via oral sex is Herpes, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, and Chlamydia, and in some cases HIV. This is according to the CDC. It's quite a laundry list, since all of the above are among the heavy-hitters ... (read in full...)
What does this text mean?
Q. Im slightly confused by a text ive just recieved. Theres a group of 4 of us that usually go out. 3 of us said yeah lets go out this weekend so i text my guy mate who also comes out with us and said "we might be going out this saturday night, you ...
A. 14 June 2010: Vapid, yes! That was term I was looking for, Cindy, thank you. Though I figured it was self-explaining ergo what's it all mean? Um, duhh. Gee, Tennessee....
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What does this text mean?
Q. Im slightly confused by a text ive just recieved. Theres a group of 4 of us that usually go out. 3 of us said yeah lets go out this weekend so i text my guy mate who also comes out with us and said "we might be going out this saturday night, you ...
A. 14 June 2010: iTTY-BEENIE-CHILI-BEANIE the text means..!... (read in full...)
What does this text mean?
Q. Im slightly confused by a text ive just recieved. Theres a group of 4 of us that usually go out. 3 of us said yeah lets go out this weekend so i text my guy mate who also comes out with us and said "we might be going out this saturday night, you ...
A. 14 June 2010: OR it could really be secret code for: the fleas of a thousand camels are about to infest your armpits! Oh the mystery of it all!... (read in full...)
What does this text mean?
Q. Im slightly confused by a text ive just recieved. Theres a group of 4 of us that usually go out. 3 of us said yeah lets go out this weekend so i text my guy mate who also comes out with us and said "we might be going out this saturday night, you ...
A. 14 June 2010: Here's a bizarre idea: why not just ask him what he meant? While I normally steer clear of divining deeper meanings from texts, Facebook, and other related nonsense, I'll make a rare exception and predict that it probably means: If you're going, ... (read in full...)
If I move on, she will too! Help!
Q. Ok well kind of a long story, Me and My girlfriend got together at 16 and stayed together for 5 years. In that time we did grow up and become diffrent as I prefer going out on nights out however she is a more reserved and quiet person. We split up ...
A. 14 June 2010: There's an old saying that says:"You can't have your cake and eat it, too" That means you can't move on sans your g/f and keep her from seeing other guys, too.
The choice is strictly up to she and you. Do it or don't. Pick a direction and comm... (read in full...)
I danced with a random guy at a club...now my boyfriend doesn't trust me!
Q. my boyfriend doesn't trust a word i say. he can finish with me whenever he feels like it and knows that i will have him back. he finished with me two months ago because all we do is argue. he promised that there was no chance of us getting back ...
A. 14 June 2010: Well, one thing is crystal clear: your behavior demonstrates and makes you look MUCH more than "desperate", honey. It's downright stalker-ish! Geez, have some dignity!
You dance with some unknown guy and now you're untrustworthy? I think co... (read in full...)
Is it wrong trying to court someone else's wife?
Q. Through the searching and hunting i have finally found a good chemistry and connection with someone. One problem, she has a husband. I have also met him and he's such a cool guy! I met her through a friend that both her and i are close to, met her ...
A. 14 June 2010: Good advice: STAY OUT OF IT. PERIOD. ... (read in full...)
How do you put your penis in your briefs?
Q. Okay this might be an awkward question, but here goes. How do you put your penis in your briefs? I'm asking this because I put my penis in one of the sides of the brief because it's easier if you get an erection, am I the only one or are there ot...
A. 14 June 2010: I'm still not understanding why this is even an issue.
Q, lunch is a date, provided it's not enchiladas.
Leave it to the British to develop a tactful way to say: "how's it hanging" ergo, "dress to the left"... (read in full...)
How do you put your penis in your briefs?
Q. Okay this might be an awkward question, but here goes. How do you put your penis in your briefs? I'm asking this because I put my penis in one of the sides of the brief because it's easier if you get an erection, am I the only one or are there ot...
A. 13 June 2010: OMG! Are we talking about an independent entity with a mind of it's own or just a human body appendage? "It"? it? As though "it" has a name and and will of "it's" own? Frankly, this is disturbing...as long as "it" remains clothed in public, what's ... (read in full...)
What do I do about my friend's husband who crosses boundaries?
Q. My old roommate and I still talk and have fun when we hang out together. She's married and right now her hubby is away on business, so I get to see her a little more. When her husband comes back in September she wants to have a "welcome back" party ...
A. 12 June 2010: Dsmn, that was going t/b my first suggestion, take a date. Take your cousin, any guy you can use as arm candy for the night. Otherwise, I'd tell Mr. Friendly, if he tries the same thing again that he's going to draw back a stump! Smile sweetly at ... (read in full...)
Help! How can I get my parents to accept him?
Q. Just as the topic applies, could you? I'm 23, I have a bachelors in Marketing, going back to get my Masters next year. I make decent money--have my own car, my own place, my own bills, plus splurging money. I come from a wealthy background of ed...
A. 12 June 2010: VERY WELL SAID, Poster. I applaud you, resoundingly. I have a better grasp on your dilemma now, so thank you for investing the time and effort.
I understand what you're saying much better. I think it all comes down to: what can you handle, ... (read in full...)
Is there a device I can use to protect my upper lip when I give him oral?
Q. I love to give my boyfriend oral and receive tremendous satisfaction from pleasing him. I like to swallow his cum, however, it takes about 15 minuets of working him hard and fast to get my (and his) reward. I wrap my top lip over my teeth so I don’t ...
A. 12 June 2010: Geez, this thread is going to end up with an XXX rating soon, methinks.
Poster: I'm with Mia's recommendations on this one. More technique less lip. B/f doesn't like it? Get him a plunger...or something. You don't want to develop TMJ over thi... (read in full...)
Is there a device I can use to protect my upper lip when I give him oral?
Q. I love to give my boyfriend oral and receive tremendous satisfaction from pleasing him. I like to swallow his cum, however, it takes about 15 minuets of working him hard and fast to get my (and his) reward. I wrap my top lip over my teeth so I don’t ...
A. 11 June 2010: Umm, WTF?? I'm sorry. Kinda caught me off guard, there. A device to protect you from wearing through tissue in dealing out a blow job? Sweetie, I see no reason for this whatsoever. I think perhaps your b/f needs to be doing something beyond just ... (read in full...)
Is there a device I can use to protect my upper lip when I give him oral?
Q. I love to give my boyfriend oral and receive tremendous satisfaction from pleasing him. I like to swallow his cum, however, it takes about 15 minuets of working him hard and fast to get my (and his) reward. I wrap my top lip over my teeth so I don’t ...
A. 11 June 2010: Umm, WTF?? I'm sorry. Kinda caught me off guard, there. A device to protect you from wearing through tissue in dealing out a blow job? Sweetie, I see no reason for this whatsoever. I think perhaps your b/f needs to be doing something beyond just ... (read in full...)
Help! How can I get my parents to accept him?
Q. Just as the topic applies, could you? I'm 23, I have a bachelors in Marketing, going back to get my Masters next year. I make decent money--have my own car, my own place, my own bills, plus splurging money. I come from a wealthy background of ed...
A. 11 June 2010: THAT is NOT the American way. That's the definition of "entitlement-minded". Debase, devalue, discard dignity.... (read in full...)
Help! How can I get my parents to accept him?
Q. Just as the topic applies, could you? I'm 23, I have a bachelors in Marketing, going back to get my Masters next year. I make decent money--have my own car, my own place, my own bills, plus splurging money. I come from a wealthy background of ed...
A. 11 June 2010: You had me believing in you right up to your very last response paragraph. So who told you here were "classes"? The social caste system isn't an American institution, sweetheart.
Though it may be alive and well in other countries, at present: the ... (read in full...)
Help! How can I get my parents to accept him?
Q. Just as the topic applies, could you? I'm 23, I have a bachelors in Marketing, going back to get my Masters next year. I make decent money--have my own car, my own place, my own bills, plus splurging money. I come from a wealthy background of ed...
A. 11 June 2010: I can tell you you're probably going to catch some flak just from disclosing your background without apology. That won't be from me because my own background is very similar to your own. Problem was: I married the first time, a guy who made less ... (read in full...)
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