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We don't have sex anymore!!
Q. hi everyone. ive been with my husband for 13year on and off. we've been married for almost 5 of those years now. he seams to have lost interest in me. ive had 2 kids and put on 2stone. my youngest is 4months. since my last child was born we wouldnt ...
A. 9 June 2010: glad to hear it, Poster! Keep on keepin' on!... (read in full...)
I love him dearly but he hurts me in anyway he can!
Q. i'm about to be 16, he's 17. we have been talking for about six months? and well we have choose to date when he comes to my school next year, well anyways i think he's abusive and controlling. you tell me... 1.) i'm not allowed to hang with other ...
A. 28 May 2010: Over reacting? What!?!
You've completely convinced me that the several very good reasons you list here are why should drop this guy like a hot rock-like, yesterday!- are anything but over reacting!
You have a blazing bouquet of red flags here, gi... (read in full...)
I just got married, but I feel neglected! Help!
Q. Hi all, I just got married on May 10th. I know it's supposed to be a happy, joyous occasion, however with my husband working 2 jobs, and going to school full-time, I just sit here all day in our house, with nobody to talk to. So when he gets home, I ...
A. 28 May 2010: Aww, q, waxing all eloquent like..it's a beautiful thang, ain't it?... (read in full...)
I just got married, but I feel neglected! Help!
Q. Hi all, I just got married on May 10th. I know it's supposed to be a happy, joyous occasion, however with my husband working 2 jobs, and going to school full-time, I just sit here all day in our house, with nobody to talk to. So when he gets home, I ...
A. 27 May 2010: Damn...so it's all like that now........ (read in full...)
I just got married, but I feel neglected! Help!
Q. Hi all, I just got married on May 10th. I know it's supposed to be a happy, joyous occasion, however with my husband working 2 jobs, and going to school full-time, I just sit here all day in our house, with nobody to talk to. So when he gets home, I ...
A. 27 May 2010: See? Now there...we'll get you right side up!... (read in full...)
I just got married, but I feel neglected! Help!
Q. Hi all, I just got married on May 10th. I know it's supposed to be a happy, joyous occasion, however with my husband working 2 jobs, and going to school full-time, I just sit here all day in our house, with nobody to talk to. So when he gets home, I ...
A. 27 May 2010: and this is a problem, how?... (read in full...)
I just got married, but I feel neglected! Help!
Q. Hi all, I just got married on May 10th. I know it's supposed to be a happy, joyous occasion, however with my husband working 2 jobs, and going to school full-time, I just sit here all day in our house, with nobody to talk to. So when he gets home, I ...
A. 27 May 2010: True, if all he were doing is playing games on the PC, that would be a much different matter. But the sugar coating and glitter wearing off in a few weeks? Rather soon for the "re-tooling" isn't it?... (read in full...)
I just got married, but I feel neglected! Help!
Q. Hi all, I just got married on May 10th. I know it's supposed to be a happy, joyous occasion, however with my husband working 2 jobs, and going to school full-time, I just sit here all day in our house, with nobody to talk to. So when he gets home, I ...
A. 27 May 2010: Umm, Tisha? Tisha's better at this stuff than I am, Me? I'd just tell you to take the bull by the horns and tell him this is how this is gonna go: hang on, shut up, and enjoy the ride, Buster....but that's me, I'm as subtle as train wreck so..hang ... (read in full...)
Every time I see her I just love her more
Q. Right.. My Ex-Girlfriend broke up with me 5 months ago. I have been in love with her for 5 years. We were going out for 6 months and it wsa really good and working well until she broke up with me because she thought we were having problems.. Duri...
A. 27 May 2010: Spacker....? No, no no I don't even want to go there. Sounds like you've got it pretty bad. Also sounds like she's playing the field...alot. I think what you should do is chin up and focus on your studies, sports, or whatever it is that you're ... (read in full...)
Are we heading for a rocky end?
Q. me and my bf have been together for 3 years now. I love him to pieces no-one makes me laugh, feel safe and creates that sparkle in my eyes the way he does. I know he loves me very much 2. We have had the usual ups and downs that couples have but ...
A. 27 May 2010: I see absolutely nothing wrong with adversity to being "left hanging" I, myself have a strong policy in place on this same subject. It's an easy policy to understand it goes like this: " DO NOT leave me hanging, for any reason. ever" Ok, so if he's ... (read in full...)
My husband has been cheating with his sister-in-law, and won't give her up
Q. My husband has been cheating on me for years with his brothers wife. I never could understand why she was phoning him constanly. I even tried to talk to her about it. She later started spreading rumours about me. Telling people, my husband included ...
A. 27 May 2010: It's not his problem that his wife has been carrying on a long term affair with his brother?? That should just about tear it right in two, sister. Have this guy served with papers and go have a good life with a good man somewhere. Good luck going ... (read in full...)
I just got married, but I feel neglected! Help!
Q. Hi all, I just got married on May 10th. I know it's supposed to be a happy, joyous occasion, however with my husband working 2 jobs, and going to school full-time, I just sit here all day in our house, with nobody to talk to. So when he gets home, I ...
A. 27 May 2010: 2 jobs AND school full-time? Geez, did you marry superman or what? That is a helluva work load for anyone!
I have been married an aggregate total of 23 years, sweetie. 12 on the 1st attempt, and now in the 11th year of my second and what you'... (read in full...)
I need to hear those three words
Q. Hi everyone, I am 23 yrs old and I have a new bf, he's 30 yrs old. We've been going out for 4 months now and bf/gf for 2months. A month ago I told him that I love him and he just nod and agree, I told him its ok if he doesnt feel the same way...
A. 27 May 2010: Saying ILY to someone in effort to make them feel obligated to say it back bodes very ill, I believe. If it's willingly offered and freely given, then the reciprocity aspect takes care of itself. There are better methods of asking for the security ... (read in full...)
We are back together, but it's really not feeling right, what to do?
Q. OK,so it's been two weeks since my ex and I started talking again, and wanting to work things out. He was the dumper, I the dumpee. I know it will take awhile for things to get back to how they once were, and I still have this uneasy feeling deep ...
A. 27 May 2010: First: it is impossible for things to return to the way they were. That was then, this is now. The fact that you're back together, having broken up, means the dynamics are much altered. Now, where is Ask Older Sister when I need her? She's much ... (read in full...)
I'm getting the feeling she's just ignoring me, but I have no idea why
Q. I've been talking to this girl for a while now and I really like her. I thought she liked me as well, so I told her how I felt and it turned out she wasn't looking for a boyfriend and she said she was sorry if she gave me the wrong impression. ...
A. 27 May 2010: Now, for this I applaud you, Poster! You've demonstrated some admirable intestinal fortitude in your most recent follow up.
This is a character trait not often demonstrated under heavy fire, I salute you for it!... (read in full...)
My husband has been cheating with his sister-in-law, and won't give her up
Q. My husband has been cheating on me for years with his brothers wife. I never could understand why she was phoning him constanly. I even tried to talk to her about it. She later started spreading rumours about me. Telling people, my husband included ...
A. 27 May 2010: Honestly, I do know how you could go on with this! This is wrong on so many levels that it's astounding. I'm very sorry to hear that you're in the predicament you find yourself.
Let us review: You've confronted them both and yet they carry on... (read in full...)
My heart says to meet with her and discuss it, my head says run for the hills.
Q. I have been dating a lady for about nine months, and we both agreed at the outset that this would be an exclusive relationship. I am just out of a marriage that lasted 26 years, and she has been divorced for 2 years after a marriage of 30 years. ...
A. 27 May 2010: Go, Jt, Go!... (read in full...)
He's trying to break us up.. Is her reaction reasonable?
Q. A guy in my girlfriends last period class is trying to break us up so that he can date her... He gave her a kiss on the cheek and was trying to get her to kiss back, but she wouldn't. He was telling her that I don't treat her right and that he would ...
A. 27 May 2010: If the matter is as you state and your g/f was the target of unwanted and aggressive physical contact, I'd certainly say you have very valid reason to be at least miffed about it, yes. I'm inclined to suspect that it mustn't have been too terrible ... (read in full...)
I'm getting the feeling she's just ignoring me, but I have no idea why
Q. I've been talking to this girl for a while now and I really like her. I thought she liked me as well, so I told her how I felt and it turned out she wasn't looking for a boyfriend and she said she was sorry if she gave me the wrong impression. ...
A. 27 May 2010: Methinks the OP doth protest too much!... (read in full...)
My heart says to meet with her and discuss it, my head says run for the hills.
Q. I have been dating a lady for about nine months, and we both agreed at the outset that this would be an exclusive relationship. I am just out of a marriage that lasted 26 years, and she has been divorced for 2 years after a marriage of 30 years. ...
A. 27 May 2010: Yay! Hooray for Jt! Glad to hear you feel the duckies are all in a row in this. Hopefully, you'll consider checking in periodically and updating us on how things progress. I wish you the absolute best of luck going forward, yay for you!... (read in full...)
I'm getting the feeling she's just ignoring me, but I have no idea why
Q. I've been talking to this girl for a while now and I really like her. I thought she liked me as well, so I told her how I felt and it turned out she wasn't looking for a boyfriend and she said she was sorry if she gave me the wrong impression. ...
A. 27 May 2010: Poster: what, exactly, is there to help here?... (read in full...)
I'm getting the feeling she's just ignoring me, but I have no idea why
Q. I've been talking to this girl for a while now and I really like her. I thought she liked me as well, so I told her how I felt and it turned out she wasn't looking for a boyfriend and she said she was sorry if she gave me the wrong impression. ...
A. 26 May 2010: And facebook does not tell all, It's not the All-Knowing Oracle by with you may deduce all manner of mysterious truths and divine the *real* meaning of ignore. Garbage in, garbage out. It tells only what is input! Wise up.... (read in full...)
I want to work things out and have him in my life!
Q. Ok so I known this guy for over 2 years we hangout everyday hold hands sometimes makeout, he tells me he has feelings for me but he says that he's too young to have something serious and he just wants to have fun for now um but he still goes and ...
A. 26 May 2010: I think only you can be the judge of that. Stay in his life or not, that's purely your own choice. I suggest you examine all the pros and cons and make your decision based upon which is the the more weighted.... (read in full...)
Never been in a relationship -- what's wrong?
Q. i'm currently 19 years old, soon to be 20. i'm a virgin and have never been in a relationship. i've never met the "right" one, or have even tried looking. sometimes i feel like i'm a loser, like nobody likes me enough to want to be my boyfriend. i ...
A. 26 May 2010: Ok, wait, slow down here. There is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG with being a 19/20 yro virgin. Nothing at all. I think you're just being a smart girl, honestly. This is no race you're involved in, honey. You have a whole life ahead of you!
Just beca... (read in full...)
I'm getting the feeling she's just ignoring me, but I have no idea why
Q. I've been talking to this girl for a while now and I really like her. I thought she liked me as well, so I told her how I felt and it turned out she wasn't looking for a boyfriend and she said she was sorry if she gave me the wrong impression. ...
A. 26 May 2010: Poster: it's called using absurdity to illustrate an absurdity. The choice was your's to make..she's not responding? Um, she's ignoring you...go figure. An absurdity is designed to make the obvious much more obvious..what's the probability of a ... (read in full...)
How good are older men 45 and up in bed?
Q. I have read in many articles that men's performance during sex becomes worse as they get older, due to menopause and other factors. Does age really matter in how well a man performs? For ex, is a 30 year old better in bed than a 48 year old?...
A. 26 May 2010: Whoa. everybody outta the pool! Since when do men suffer menopause?
As is often said Youth and enthusiasm is no substitute for age and experience!... (read in full...)
Why do I "wet" the bed when fooling around with my boyfriend?
Q. why do i "wet the bed" everytime he fingers me and when it feels good? is it normal? is the liquid supposed to smell slightly sweet and sour? is it even normal? does weting the bed count as cum or the eletricfying sensation count?...
A. 26 May 2010: Yes, Cnith, I'm aware of that. But the poster indicates her age is 13-15. I'm taking her at her word!... (read in full...)
My heart says to meet with her and discuss it, my head says run for the hills.
Q. I have been dating a lady for about nine months, and we both agreed at the outset that this would be an exclusive relationship. I am just out of a marriage that lasted 26 years, and she has been divorced for 2 years after a marriage of 30 years. ...
A. 26 May 2010: The bail is probably less if he caught them together. Imagine if SHE had caught both guys together? Now there's a spin on this you didn't think of Q, you old codger.... (read in full...)
I want to work things out and have him in my life!
Q. Ok so I known this guy for over 2 years we hangout everyday hold hands sometimes makeout, he tells me he has feelings for me but he says that he's too young to have something serious and he just wants to have fun for now um but he still goes and ...
A. 26 May 2010: This is a classic case of: What they say versus what they mean, honey. I think you're dealing with an immature guy who is a member of the flavor-of-the-week club. I say take him at his word, he's telling you the truth with the he's not ready for ... (read in full...)
Where are the good men????
Q. I've been dating a man for over two years. We went into this relationship saying that we didn't want anything serious but over time I have fallen in love with him and care a lot about him. I expressed my feelings to him a few weeks ago only to have ...
A. 26 May 2010: Honestly, this sounds like the old "friends with benefits" thing. I'd say you definitely have an uncommitted man on your hands.
If you both agreed two yrs ago that it was nothing serious, I'd say he's upheld his end of the agreement. Problem ... (read in full...)
Two years and I still cant make her orgasm....help me someone!
Q. Hey everyone, Well here's the situation, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years and im not sure if ive ever really given her a true orgasm... The other day we were completely alone and i set out rose petals, turned on romantic music, ...
A. 26 May 2010: Yes. Women feel orgasms. It could be that your girl is a little too inexperienced, yet. But each woman is different! Some will swing from the chandelier while others may just sorta gasp.
Read: Kim Cattrall's book "The Art of the Female Orga... (read in full...)
I'm getting the feeling she's just ignoring me, but I have no idea why
Q. I've been talking to this girl for a while now and I really like her. I thought she liked me as well, so I told her how I felt and it turned out she wasn't looking for a boyfriend and she said she was sorry if she gave me the wrong impression. ...
A. 26 May 2010: Well, I'd say she's either ignoring you as you suspect- as evidenced by the lack of replies OR her new 500lb gorilla of a boyfriend is reading her texts and breathing fire from his nostrils, cracking his knuckles waiting for a shot at you. ... (read in full...)
Why is sex painful?
Q. why does it hurt when he does deep inside of me ( my leg on his shoulders) but it does not hurt when it is not hitting the end ( my legs open at th side of his arms while he is on top of me ). is thr somethng wrong? ...
A. 26 May 2010: Aren't you a little too young for this? Please tell me your b/f isn't 25 or 30 yrs old...please.... (read in full...)
Why do I "wet" the bed when fooling around with my boyfriend?
Q. why do i "wet the bed" everytime he fingers me and when it feels good? is it normal? is the liquid supposed to smell slightly sweet and sour? is it even normal? does weting the bed count as cum or the eletricfying sensation count?...
A. 26 May 2010: Honestly, there's no easy way to put this but: if you need to ask these questions, sweetie. You're FAR too young to be doing this!
... (read in full...)
We don't have sex anymore!!
Q. hi everyone. ive been with my husband for 13year on and off. we've been married for almost 5 of those years now. he seams to have lost interest in me. ive had 2 kids and put on 2stone. my youngest is 4months. since my last child was born we wouldnt ...
A. 26 May 2010: I'm afraid you're going to make it a point to talk about this to him. There is no crystal ball to tell us what's going on with this.
It'd be far too easy to jump to conclusions or make assumptions, most likely incorrect, without knowing what he h... (read in full...)
Why is it ok for them but not for me?
Q. is it a "crime" in society that when we have a prelationship with a person younger then you. why when other girls do it they are accepted but im not? is it jus because im not in their chique?...
A. 26 May 2010: Well, there ARE social taboos and the bigger the age difference (ie, the wider the age gap) the stronger those taboos become.
How much younger are we talking about here?... (read in full...)
Should I leave her if my partner's ex continues to harrass me?
Q. Hello Everybody! I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 15months, 3 months into our relationship she started talking to her ex again and regularly meeting up with him on dinner dates. i nipped that in the bud and out of courtesy for me ...
A. 26 May 2010: Ok, you're NOT helpless in this. There comes a time when one must take the proverbial bull by the horns and I think you're there, my friend!
I think the odds are stellar that Girlfriend here is keeping the bovine pile stirred up just for the sten... (read in full...)
Should I continue my friendship with her?
Q. I'm not sure whether to continue my friendship with this person or not. The thing is, she only seems to want to do what she wants lately. She usually just wants to go out drinking in my hometown ( she lives in another area ) but i sometimes get sick ...
A. 25 May 2010: This sounds like the classic "fair weather friend" to me. It's all good when it's something she wants or has the down time to fill. But if/when it comes her turn to actually *do* something not her idea or of her choosing, then she's conspicuous by ... (read in full...)
Should I start talking to the handsome stranger at the bus stop?
Q. Hey guys, a bit of a strange question. Every morning i get a bus to college, and i see the same guy there every morning at my busstop. He's unbeleivably handsome and very well dressed. Lately i see him looking at me and when i look back he smiles, ...
A. 25 May 2010: It's called flirting, honey. Good old fashioned flirting.... (read in full...)
I am ginger with glasses, how do I make myself more attractive?
Q. I am ginger with glasses and people give me a har time over it. How do I make mysel more attractive without dyeing my hair (I love my hair as it is) or getting contacts....
A. 25 May 2010: Help me out here: Ginger with glasses? Ginger who? I'm afraid I may be showing my age with having to ask this, but honestly, I'm clueless.
The only thing that matters about how you look outside is how YOU like YOU, sweetie. If you love your hai... (read in full...)
Is she just playing games with me?
Q. I've strarted talking to this girl. We have been on a few dates ad at the end of the second she seemed to kiss me( I was going to make a move, but I kinda feel like ahe beat me to it). We talked about future hangout plans, she wants to drive or pay ...
A. 25 May 2010: Dear Mr. Not-A-Kid:
I'd say there's just not enough involvement within the span of one first date to make an accurate call on this girl as player or not. Keep us posted with future details and dates and maybe one of us will have somethin... (read in full...)
Should I be content to be the mistress?
Q. I am having an affair with a married man for 5 months now. He is older than me and has 3 children. I work with him for about an hour twice a day. We knew each other for over a year before anything happened. It started out as a bit of fun but ...
A. 25 May 2010: Vintage took the words right out of my mouth, so to speak.
This whole thing you've described is an ABOMINATION. This guy is a liar and a cheat and if he's going to do this to the mother of his three children what makes you think you're exempt? ... (read in full...)
My heart says to meet with her and discuss it, my head says run for the hills.
Q. I have been dating a lady for about nine months, and we both agreed at the outset that this would be an exclusive relationship. I am just out of a marriage that lasted 26 years, and she has been divorced for 2 years after a marriage of 30 years. ...
A. 25 May 2010: Thanks for the courtesy of the update, Jt. There's no harm in hearing what she has to say, but I urge you to make a solid point, based completely in rational logic: If what's-his-name *must* be included in your future,as she's already made clear ... (read in full...)
My heart says to meet with her and discuss it, my head says run for the hills.
Q. I have been dating a lady for about nine months, and we both agreed at the outset that this would be an exclusive relationship. I am just out of a marriage that lasted 26 years, and she has been divorced for 2 years after a marriage of 30 years. ...
A. 22 May 2010: I fear I must be consistent and say the same to a man that I frequently say to women. If it's what your gut is telling you, LISTEN TO IT!
I'm sure you've heard of those couples who split and then meet up for sexual purposes due to established fami... (read in full...)
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