She's a bit bigger than I thought she would be, and I only half like her. Should I have sex with her and marry her?
Q. i am unmarried and one girl loves me alot. we become friends through a dating site. but the first day i met her i felt very bad due to the reason she is not so good looking. Actually she is a fat girl and that to, too much. As, such i ignored all ...
A. 8 January 2008: Your chapter has been closed in your own mind. You don't even realize it! The shame is that you also don't realize that real beauty comes from deep within. If you don't see the beauty in her you will never be happy and she most certainly will not ... (read in full...)
I really like him but he is 5 yrs older than me and going out with my sister!
Q. hey. i like this guy but he is 14-15 and i am 10. he is soooooo cute but hes is sooo much older than me. i have not told him but he comes over all the time. he thinks i am funny and smart!!!! does that mean he likes me? but if he does that would be ...
A. 23 December 2007: It seems you have a crush. Just remember that you are a bit too young to persue a serious relationship other than friendship with a guy of this age. Keep in mind that he is also your sister's bf so that is a definate HANDS OFF!! It will only affect ... (read in full...)
I lied (and lied) to a man I met online...
Q. i lied to a man i met online. i lied about almost everything except my views on certain subjects, my feelings for him, some things about my past,my clumsiness and "dorkiness", things like that. i didn't want to lie to him, but something inside me ...
A. 14 December 2007: Almost always nothing good comes from anything based on a lie. Once you have been untruthful it is often hard to convience anyone that you can otherwise. However with internet relationships you must be careful. Who's to say this person has been ... (read in full...)
My ex has half my heart, but my current boyfriend has the other half
Q. Ok lets start out with this i'm 17 so is my boyfriend and he's so sweet but has ADHD and he gets on my nerves alot but ya o well I love him alot but he really not my first love if you know what I mean my ex ( first love ) came to my window crying ...
A. 13 December 2007: You have to be strong enough to choose. Ultimately you are going to break someone's heart. If your ex is crying then he is very emotional. You must weight your love for him against you new love. You must think about what is best for you in the ... (read in full...)
Should I get back together with my wife or move on?
Q. Hello, about a month ago I decided to move out of the apt. that I shared with my wife of eight years. I decided to break up with her because I felt I could no longer trust her; but now I'm having second thoughts about what I did and I'm ...
A. 13 December 2007: Sorry this thing posted twice. It didn't show up so I had to repost. Now it is there twice. Even Angels make mistakes. *Smiles The best of things are yet to come. Thank God he isn't thru with me yet!
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
Should I get back together with my wife or move on?
Q. Hello, about a month ago I decided to move out of the apt. that I shared with my wife of eight years. I decided to break up with her because I felt I could no longer trust her; but now I'm having second thoughts about what I did and I'm ...
A. 13 December 2007: I am reading here that you must have heard something in the voicemails that made you think she might be having or contemplating an affair. Since I don't know what the voicemails said I will assume that you could have possibly had the right to feel ... (read in full...)
Should I get back together with my wife or move on?
Q. Hello, about a month ago I decided to move out of the apt. that I shared with my wife of eight years. I decided to break up with her because I felt I could no longer trust her; but now I'm having second thoughts about what I did and I'm ...
A. 13 December 2007: I am reading here that you must have heard something in the voicemails that made you think she might be having or contemplating an affair. Since I don't know what the voicemails said I will assume that you could have possibly had the right to feel ... (read in full...)
I look after my parents and can't move to my bf..what can I do?
Q. Hello I am 38 years old and still live with my parents as i cant afford anything else, and as i am an only child and with no family close by i am my parents carer. The problem is that i have met somebody who lives a round trip of 100 miles away, ...
A. 12 December 2007: Being a caregiver is a hard thing. The choices one has to make do not always seem fair to the caregiver. In your case if your b/f knew that you had this obliation in the beginning it would be unfair of him to expect you to just move in with him ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I like as my friends advised me? I'm 13, he's 27. Worried about ruining our relationship.
Q. Well for the last 3 months I've been talking to this guy. He's turning 27 soon and I"m only 13. We talk all the time and about last month I started to have feeelings for him. My friends say it's not wrong, but the age differance conserns me. They ...
A. 12 December 2007: You are too young to have a b/f who is 27 period. On most accounts someone of his age who seems interested in you is after one thing. They are pedophiles or sexual predators. Please let your parents in on your conversations. You need to be very ... (read in full...)
I have moved out of our house, but I really want to break up completely. How can I do this?
Q. Hi. I'm 40. I have been in a relationship for about 8 years. There has been allot of water under the bridge. About 5 years ago, we got engaged and bought a house together. She suffers from chronic depression(even before I met her) and it was very...
A. 11 December 2007: I am assuming that you knew she had trouble with depression because you stated she had it before you met her. You continued on into a relationship for 3 years. If you did know but stayed and tried to make things work then you must have loved her and ... (read in full...)
My brother is having surgery today and I need some prayers and word of support
Q. My brother is undergoing surgery to remove a brain tumor today. He has been fighting brain cancer for 5 years. We lost our Dad at the end of September. He is only 11 months older than me, so when we were growing up, we were very close. If you ...
A. 11 December 2007: You are so welcome hon. I hope that all your dreams come true.
Blue_Angel... (read in full...)
I met a great girl but she has just discovered she's pregnant by her ex. Should I support her or break up?
Q. I just recently met a great girl and I connect with her like I never have with any other girl and we really really like each other.. but she just recently found out she is pregnant from her ex. it happened about a month ago before she met me. should ...
A. 11 December 2007: If the two of you are in a dating process of the relationship I don't see why you should break it off. You didn't mention anything about long term committment here. There was no mention of either of you being in love. You simply stated that she ... (read in full...)
How can I win my ex back?
Q. i want to get back with my ex!we were together for a month but now that i saw him again,i miss him!we broke up after my decision and i don't even remember why i told him to break up!he is my dream man,and we had so much fun together!i really want ...
A. 11 December 2007: If he really cared for you then chances are he still does. If the breakup was your decision then you have to be the one to set things right.
I think that letting him know you are still his friend is ok. You could possibly suggest going out so... (read in full...)
My brother is having surgery today and I need some prayers and word of support
Q. My brother is undergoing surgery to remove a brain tumor today. He has been fighting brain cancer for 5 years. We lost our Dad at the end of September. He is only 11 months older than me, so when we were growing up, we were very close. If you ...
A. 11 December 2007: I can certainly feel your pain. In 1980 my Father was diagnosed with a cancerous tumor. He was given 6 months to live. He died just short of 6 weeks. I was the only person he knew before he passed away. It was his time as was your Father's. My ... (read in full...)
Should I have let my older boyfriend fondle me? It made me unconfortable, but was I just being childish?
Q. I'm a female. I have a boyfriend called Ricky (not real name)he is 24 and i am 16 (i know big age gap but he and i get along really good). We ain't made out yet but he wants to. I went to rick's house when his parents were out somewhere and we did...
A. 11 December 2007: If you feel uncomfortable then you aren't ready for this kind of relationship. He is older and if he can't respect your feelings then you should move on and find someone who will.
Seek God's plan for you and soon enough you will find yo... (read in full...)
A guy told me he loved me online and I said I loved him, too. But I dont! We barely even know each other!
Q. i need help. there is this guy at school that likes me. he came on msn and hes like i love you.... stuff like that.then hes like you dont like me, dont talk to me. bye i did a stupid thing and told him i loved him then hes like you wanna go out a...
A. 29 November 2007: First of all hon even if he does really like you he used the oldest trick in the book. It's called MANIPULATION!! You didn't have a chance to decide if you like him well enough to ever date him much less love him. He pushed your buttons and made ... (read in full...)
We've been together since we were 5, now we are 13 and want to start having sex, what to do??
Q. hi im 13 and im going out with a boy the same age and we have known eachother since we were 5 and have always been close. We sneak around because we dont want everyone to know about us. not even our parents know because they will tell people. ...
A. 20 November 2007: I read your post over twice. I am wondering why if you two are so close and have already waited for 7 years what is another 3-5 years. You can still be close and hang out. Date if you will but let your parents know. Let them be involved in your ... (read in full...)
There is no way to get in touch with him
Q. I went too Canada during the holidays. As we are waiting in the waiting zone i notice this really gorgeous guy. He was looking after his 2 little brothers while his mum and dad went too get food. Although he was gorgeous he looked shy. Which was ...
A. 19 November 2007: You have seen him at least twice already. You know that he is in close vacinity of your locations. Give it time and you will probably have contact with him again.
Don't rush things as you are so young but if you two do meet up and you get ... (read in full...)
I drank and had stomach problems.
Q. Help please yesterday i was drinking too much and i was sick 3 times. 2 of the times was normal sick but the last time i was sick it didnt look normal it looked like just liquid stuff but strong like acid it didnt have the normal sick stuff in it. ...
A. 19 November 2007: If you drink often you are wearing away the lining of you esophgus and the stomach. It can wear holes in either and cause very serious conditions. The condition called Gastro Esophogial Reflux Desease (GERDS).When a person who drinks is ... (read in full...)
We like each other, he still hangs around with his ex, and I don't have much free time, should I ask him out?
Q. Well hello everyone...I recently told my crush how I felt about him and he told me that he feels the same way towards me...Were not going out because I believe that he still has feelings for his ex..I think this because they still talk like ...
A. 19 November 2007: I am sure that if he talks to you every day and he has asked you out before then he obviously is interested. If he talks normal to his ex..What is normal? If he and his ex have left the relationship on good terms it could be that they are only ... (read in full...)
I'm scared about this guy on the internet.
Q. I met this guy on the internet and we have started dating I love him soooo much but the thing is He cuts himself and doesnt go to school me and his best friend got into a fight and he cut himself what can I do to help him? He says im the most ...
A. 19 November 2007: Your b/f is doing what is called Self Mutilation. He cannot control his pain or hurt about what he feels. He turns his anger inward against himself. He indeed needs to get professional help. You can't stop him from doing this because it is his way ... (read in full...)
Does she still love me or want to be with him??
Q. Me and this girl was friends, and she had a boyfriend, she would always tell me about how horrible of a boyfriend he was and how he doesnt listen to her, he was never there for her, etc. etc. So she broke up with him, and she started being with me, ...
A. 14 November 2007: Well it does sound like she is a confused young lady. She obviously loved him or she wouldn't be with him. However loving someone doesn't make it the right thing to be with that person. There are many reasons that she is still talking to you and ... (read in full...)
The crush for my married teacher is affecting my study and work. How do I concentrate?
Q. hi im 17 and im at college, i have a little problem. Ive started to have strange feelings for one of my teachers at college. He's 26 and he has a partner and child. I feel really stupid and sometimes i fool myself and think he likes me back. I'm ...
A. 14 November 2007: You are playing with fire! At your age you should realize that trying to even think about being with someone who has a partner and child is wrong. There are several people who can be hurt. The man who could loose a job and family over this. The ... (read in full...)
I go to him but he makes less effort to come to me! Do I accept this because I love him or seek elsewhere the attention I need?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months. We live about 5 miles apart, and in the beginning he would come over to my house to see me, call me regularly, and tell me how much he missed me if we didn't see each other during the week. As ...
A. 14 November 2007: It sounds like he is placing such value on that independent status he can't let enough of himself go to give you what you want and deserve. I would suggest backing way off. Take a trip out of town and don't call him til you are gone. Let him go ... (read in full...)
I'm concerned about my ex's welfare, is this so wrong?
Q. Help! I have not seen my ex for 6 months. The other day, a buddy told me he had seen her at a store we used to work together at, talking to a former colleague(female)..my buddy told me she looked pregnant, or she had put alot of weight on..he said ...
A. 13 November 2007: If you care about her and you two are still friends there is no harm in getting in touch. Call her and see how she is doing. That is what a friend would do. It sounds like you still might have alot of deeper feelings for her because it seems to ... (read in full...)
I want to be more than friends but he is hung up on a girl thats not interested, how can I make him see?
Q. ok ... well the thing is i am starting to like this new guy i met, we are really good friends by now, but the problem is he is really into this girl who doesnt like him. Believe me, she already told him. I want him to forget her and see that he ...
A. 13 November 2007: It sounds like he might like you. He is at least kind and appreciates your beauty. Remember that you must be his friend first. That is how he probably sees you anyway for now. If he cares for someone else he has to be the one to decide. If his ... (read in full...)
We've decided to abort. We were close to engagement. Is her dumping me now likely to be a self defense/preservation reaction due to hormone changes and being scared?
Q. Help!! I recently found out my girlfriend was pregnant. It was a great shock to us both. We both have children from previous relationships. We talked about the options and both agreed a termination was the best option, although we both considered ...
A. 13 November 2007: It sounds like she wanted you to know and the reaction she got pushed her to make a decision she really doesn't want. It could be she wanted you to be happy as it could be that she is. However if she feels that you really don't want this child ... (read in full...)
I can't retract my foreskin. Is this a problem?
Q. hi im 15 years old and i've only realised about a year ago that my foreskin doesnt roll over the head of my penis this is scaring me ....i dont want to go to the doctors about it because it would scare me and i would get really worried incase i had ...
A. 13 November 2007: Circumsision is a minor operation. Don't be afraid to have it done. If the problem you have is annoying to you or embarrassing then talk to a doctor about having it taken care of. If you keep yourself clean otherwise and you don't feel it's a ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant? I wasn't worried initially because I had known him for a long time and he was a virgin. Help!
Q. i'm 15 years old. and last night while i was at a friends house her brothers friend and i were fooling around. all he was doing though was fingering me. but later when we went up stairs, me and him were laying on my friends futon, and then we fooled ...
A. 13 November 2007: Hon if you have a period you can get pregnant. If you had a period just before all of this happened you are extremely fertile during this time.
Get a home pregnancy test done and if you are seek medical help immediately. Hopefully yo... (read in full...)
Husband having midlife crisis?? I want affection from him but I've read men don't offer it during this time. What can I do?
Q. I am a 31 yr old female with a 37 yr old husband of 10 yrs, been together 15, have 2 boys, 4 and 7. Husband I think is going through midlife crisis. Last yr he decided to have an affair for 2 months in which i caught him in, he then moved out, ...
A. 13 November 2007: You love him that's a fact. He must have love for you because he keeps comming back. Something in your relationship is more important than keeping his mistress. You need to talk it out with him and see if you can find out just what he is ... (read in full...)
He blames me because I won't move back in.
Q. I don't know if I should continue on. I left my husband a year ago- I don't want a divorce; but I don't want to be unhappy either. We both have children, creating a blended family. We have one child together. He won't work, cook, clean, ...
A. 12 November 2007: I would never say you are wrong hon. You have a right to feel what you do. It becomes hard to deal with life on it's own without the added stress of your husband's condition. He probably is in denial. That is a sad fact for alot of people with ... (read in full...)
He blames me because I won't move back in.
Q. I don't know if I should continue on. I left my husband a year ago- I don't want a divorce; but I don't want to be unhappy either. We both have children, creating a blended family. We have one child together. He won't work, cook, clean, ...
A. 9 November 2007: You have to be he one to practice tough love. Let him know that you love him but that he has to seek help for his condition. From what you said I am gathering he is bi-polar and must be recieving SSI disability income.
First of all... (read in full...)
How can I get to meet him?
Q. ive been talking to this guy on AIM for over 3 months now. we seem to click realy well and usualy end up chatting for about half an hour too an hour most days. its usualy him that starts the conversation. the thing is he hasnt never asked to see ...
A. 8 November 2007: If you are getting vibes that he might be interested in meeting you in person then just ask him. Use a phrase like we have been talking a good while and it seems like we already have so much in common. Would you perhaps like to meet? Don't agree ... (read in full...)
Is this cheating
Q. i kissed a lad on the cheek to say thankyou and he kissed me on the cheek back is this cheating on my boyfriend?...
A. 7 November 2007: If it was only a simple thank you kiss on the cheek and a return of one I don't think it would be considered anything other than a friendly thank you.
If your b/f knows about it and thinks differently it could be misunderstood. If he kn... (read in full...)
His ex cheated on him and now I wish he'd get over it!
Q. Hi. I work in the same place as this really cool guy. We've been spending quite some time together and I really really like him and for the first time I'm falling in love.I know he likes me too but there's a major problem I've had to deal with.He ...
A. 7 November 2007: If you two made love it could have triggered his subconcious mind to remember. When he was sleeping the sub concious brought her out possibly to be dealth with. If he is still in love with her that might have a bearing on his dream. If not then ... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant and don't have a ride or money for the test.
Q. im very young and i think im pregnany by my ex bf. but my current bf will hate me and my ex bf that i think im pregnant by is mad at me and pretty much hates me. i havnt felt like eating my stomach is getting hard and i have no appetite. my...
A. 7 November 2007: See if you can find a Teen Pregnancy Center ir a /teen Pregnancy Hotline listing in your local phonebook.
Here is a site you might be able to get some help here also.
Birthright International
A www.birthright.com
Tollfree Number 888-2... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant and don't have a ride or money for the test.
Q. im very young and i think im pregnany by my ex bf. but my current bf will hate me and my ex bf that i think im pregnant by is mad at me and pretty much hates me. i havnt felt like eating my stomach is getting hard and i have no appetite. my...
A. 7 November 2007: Whether you are or aren't pregnant it is unhealthy not to eat. If your stomach is hardened it could be that your bowels aren't working properly if you aren't eating right.
If you are sexually active it is also a big possiblity that you are ... (read in full...)
My wife needs to pee every time we try to have sex
Q. Hi not sure if anyone can help me. After foreplay and sex, my wife spends most of the night going to the bath room for a pee. She says she pees each time but only a trickle. on saturday she counted 10 trips, we used a condom to see if that was...
A. 7 November 2007: Sexual intercourse can put pressure upon the walls of the bladder causing an urgency to urinate. Another problem could be an over active bladder. Having an orgasm can also trigger the bladder thus causing the flow of urnation in some women. ... (read in full...)
How to get my ex back?
Q. My ex and I had something really special and we really cared for each other but we have now been done for 2 months. I still really love him and I know he still likes me. Ive reserched some on how to get an ex back sadly did some of the bad signs. N...
A. 7 November 2007: First of all you should consider that you might love him but it's possible he doesn't reciprocate so he has chosen to move on. Don't get between the new relationship it will only cause you more heartache.
Back off and let him do what ... (read in full...)
What to do to make him feel loved and cared for?
Q. Both me and my fiance are currently deployed overseas. What can I do to let him know that he feels loved and cared for?...
A. 7 November 2007: When loved ones are far away it is important to bring a little piece of home to them as often as possible. You can try sending lots of letters, cards and pics of you and family members.Don't forget to use your favorite pefume on the letter and ... (read in full...)
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