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I believe ......That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
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I believe.......That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
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I believe.......That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
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I believe.......That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
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I believe.......That you can keep going long after you think you can't.
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I believe.......That we are all responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
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I believe.......That you control your attitude or it controls you.
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I believe.......That my best friend and I could do anything or nothing and have the best time.
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I believe.......That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.
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I believe.......That sometimes when I am angry, I have a right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
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I believe.......That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
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I believe.......That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but, we are responsible for who we become.
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She won't go down on me!
Q. Ok so i have a bit of a sexual problem. My girlfriend does not like giving me oral. We have been sexually active for about 2 years now out of a 3 year relationship but at the begining she liked giving me oral. At the begining she gave me head ...
A. 11 February 2011:
If I were a betting lass, I would say she has just become lazy... lie back and think of england.. well united states on this occasion. She used to do it without a problem so why not now.. laziness and lack of interest is all I can think of.
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Trouble with flatmates - how to say NO?
Q. Hi i've been at uni for a year and lived in halls which wasn't a problem. I'm now living in a flat that my parents bought for me to live in while i do my 2nd and 3rd years. I live with my boyfriend who doesn't annoy me at all and another couple (Dan ...
A. 11 February 2011:
No one likes to say no, and no one likes confrontation.. however, this is getting to you, so you have got to sort it whether you like it or not!
Why don't you suggest that you all need to have a re-look at the weekly food budget since you ha... (read in full...)
She won't go down on me!
Q. Ok so i have a bit of a sexual problem. My girlfriend does not like giving me oral. We have been sexually active for about 2 years now out of a 3 year relationship but at the begining she liked giving me oral. At the begining she gave me head ...
A. 11 February 2011:
I am with you on this one Dirtball! It can't be all take, take, take!... (read in full...)
She won't go down on me!
Q. Ok so i have a bit of a sexual problem. My girlfriend does not like giving me oral. We have been sexually active for about 2 years now out of a 3 year relationship but at the begining she liked giving me oral. At the begining she gave me head ...
A. 11 February 2011:
Sorry for such personal questions... but do you shower daily? Are you smelling nice down there? Do you force her head down on you so that she is deep throating (which some women find hard and don't enjoy)?, Do you taste nice, (pre cum)? Thes... (read in full...)
A dildo for valentines day?
Q. my boyfriend wants to get me a dildo for valentines should i be mad at that or hurt over it idk what to think of it as?please help...
A. 11 February 2011:
Ok.... well I personally would be very happy...and a nice change from flowers or chocs etc.. ... (read in full...)
A dildo for valentines day?
Q. my boyfriend wants to get me a dildo for valentines should i be mad at that or hurt over it idk what to think of it as?please help...
A. 11 February 2011: You're asking our advice on whether you should be mad or hurt for him wanting to buy you a dildo, but more importantly, how are YOU feeling about this? At the end of the day, its what you feel that is important... if you don't want one, then you ... (read in full...)
He has given me 10 days and if its not working he is breaking up with me! Help!
Q. i have a big problem with my bf now, i am chinese, he is french, i have been lived with him for 9 months, few months ago, he began to get bored with our sexual life because he thinks my body is getting ugly, so i am in a diet program, and my body is ...
A. 11 February 2011:
Please.. please... retain some dignity here and let him go! He really doesn't sound a nice guy anyway, telling you that your body is getting ugly!!!
He has already stated that he wants to be single and flirt with other girls, so why has he s... (read in full...)
How can I tell him his girlfriend doesn't treat him right?
Q. How can I tell my best guy friend that his girlfriend isn't treating him right without him getting mad? She flirts with any guy with a pulse and even leads on another guy telling him how her relationship won't last much longer and that she really ...
A. 11 February 2011:
I think the only thing you can do is be there for him to pick up the pieces when it all goes pearshaped.
He obviously knows what she is like if she yells at him for every little thing that he does that she doesn't like. Unfortunatel... (read in full...)
Too old to fall in love in 3 days? Can this happen?
Q. My situation is that I'm a 64 yr old female,on a dating site online, one of the free ones, I'm a newbie at the dating site, and on my first week I made a connection with a man. He didn't want to email because he said he only could type with one ...
A. 11 February 2011:
Please be very careful here.... You are obviously new to the online dating world, (you don't state how long you have actually been single) but I gather it has been some time??
I was on online dating sites for a couple of years, the freebie ones... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy promises to call at a certain time but he calls an hour or more after?
Q. What does it mean when a guy promises to call at a certain time but he calls an hour or more after? I am talking to this guy who already told me that he wants a future with me, but he keeps making me uncomfortable by his failure to keep his word...
A. 8 February 2011:
He is either a very poor time keeper, busy, or trying to play it cool.
As for trying to change him... my guess is you won't, but on the plus side, at least he DOES call you even if it is a few hours later..
If it is that you worry about if h... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy promises to call at a certain time but he calls an hour or more after?
Q. What does it mean when a guy promises to call at a certain time but he calls an hour or more after? I am talking to this guy who already told me that he wants a future with me, but he keeps making me uncomfortable by his failure to keep his word...
A. 8 February 2011:
He is either a very poor time keeper, busy, or trying to play it cool.
As for trying to change him... my guess is you won't, but on the plus side, at least he DOES call you even if it is a few hours later..
If it is that you worry about if h... (read in full...)
I want out. How do I end this cycle?
Q. Dear Cupid I have been in an 'implied' dating relationship with a guy for six months. Initially, we were just 'kicking it' but now we behave like people in a relationship without actually saying we're in a relationship. The problem is every...
A. 7 February 2011:
Sorry to hear you are having a tough time of it at the moment.
It doesn't actually help that he isn't over his ex yet which is obviously having a huge impact on your relationship with him.
I suggest you tell him that you think it would be a ... (read in full...)
My "curvy" penis!!!
Q. I'm not sure how to put this question but I guess I'm curious about what women actually think of my penis. I guess I've never really was subconscious until recently. I've been sleeping with this girl lately that has started calling it curvy and ...
A. 6 February 2011:
I really wouldn't worry about it... I have gone out with guys who's penis has been curvy... I think when you are above the average size & width, which you appear to be, your penis can't possibly stand to attention so therefore has a little c... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my married boss!!!
Q. I am in love with my married boss and he's been asking me for nude photos and videos of myself which i have gave him and i have just found out that his wife is pregnant and i dont know what to do. please give me advice. ...
A. 6 February 2011: Are you really in love with him.... have you been having a relationship with him, and if so how long?
I would seriously suggest you stop this... some where along the line someone is going to get hurt, and I doubt it will be him... it will either b... (read in full...)
I`m doing all the legwork and she contributes little
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship. 700kms between us, and we've been together for over a year now. In that time, I've visited my girlfriend nine times. I've always done all of the travelling. I have flown, caught buses, trains and driven long ...
A. 6 February 2011: I do feel for you in that it must be extremely frustrating as you are doing all the travelling, arranging and organising.
However, I do think she is like this for a reason... it isn't that she is not interested in you, it is purely because ... (read in full...)
I have having the lights on while having sex
Q. I wont let my Fiance keep the lights on during sex and he loves me and never complains but i am too insecure because of my body because i am fat and big is beautiful but i have like cottage cheese looking fat, oh anyways TMI sorry my Q is how can i ...
A. 6 February 2011:
None of us have perfect bodies hun.. we all have a few dipples here and there. The key however, is how to hide this and at the same time feel sexy.
Why don't you treat yourself to some nice underwear... we don't always have to be fully naked ... (read in full...)
Why did he say he fell for me, now changes his mind so quickly?
Q. Here's my story: I met a guy online. We were actually both trying to get off SpeedDate because we were fed up with online dating, it just wasn't working. We started up a conversation and it took off like a rocket. We fell in love, fell IN love and ...
A. 6 February 2011:
I really wish I could work men out... they are seriously strange creatures!
I have had similar experiences with men that I have met online, and I really am confused. They text, email, msn, skype for weeks on end and normally the ones who ins... (read in full...)
Can you truly love someone and yet have sex with someone else?
Q. I have another posting with more details and a different question, but after reading some other posts (and just being honest with myself) I feel this question needs to be answered as well. Long story short, I met an amazing girl, we had a perfect...
A. 6 February 2011:
The simple answer is NO... you can't have sex with someone else if you are truly love".
When you are in love, all you want is that person.. you don't think of anything BUT that person, and the thought of having sex with anyone other than that pe... (read in full...)
What should I do to regain her interest? Advice needed!
Q. Ok, so I've been dating this girl I met a couple of months ago. And it started off great! She was crazy about me and she had strong feelings towards me. She loved my personality, my confidence, my great sense of humor... Things were going very ...
A. 6 February 2011:
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.... I seriously suggest you give her some space. Sorry to say this, but women do find clingy men a turn off so I advise you to back off for a while.
Stop the texting and the emailing and with time, her he... (read in full...)
The guilt of us breaking up is really bothering me
Q. hi i feel i am surrounded by many problems my ex and i hav had break up 4 months ago but still he hasnt been able to move on.. he has ended up hurting himself physically, sometimes threathening me and more important losing his focus out off studies. ...
A. 6 February 2011:
As harsh as this may sound, we are all responsible for our own happiness... and your ex partner is extremely selfish for making you feel like the bad person here.
Could you perhaps approach his parents, tell them how concerned you are about hi... (read in full...)
In the beginning he was attentive. Now he ignores me. Does he still need me?
Q. My bestfriend and I have recently started dating. Before us dating he used to like me a lot and I wasn't really that much into him. He tried his best and we finally started dating. Now, he just doesn't seem to care as much as he did before. We don'...
A. 6 February 2011:
There are people in this world that will always want what they can't have, and then when they have got it, they don't want it.
It sounds like this is the case with your boyfriend... sorry!
Why don't you take control here and suggest that you... (read in full...)
My boyfriends gone travelling for 6 months?
Q. My boyfriend has just gone away travelling for 6 months and im devastated, we both decided to see where we stand when he gets back which i think is the best idea but just thought of not bein able to pick up the phone n call him whenever i want is ...
A. 6 February 2011:
It will be hard, but it will get better as time goes on. Your routine will change whilst he is away and you will adapt to him not being around for a while.
Try and keep yourself busy, meet up with friends, take up a hobby, even write a diar... (read in full...)
Bled after sex!
Q. hey everyone. i had sex last night with my bf 5 times... i woke up this morning, went to pee and blood also came out. should i be worried? my period is always around the 10th... i'm in pain, period pains... a friend said i have to go to the doctor ...
A. 6 February 2011:
For peace of mind I would go and see your GP... You know your body better than anyone else and like you say, you aren't due on until the 10th.
Ease off on the 5 a night if I were you... But seriously, I would get yourself checked out!... (read in full...)
I like good conversation. How can I encourage my GF to talk more too?
Q. My girlfriend and I are wonderful together, we get along, we have a wonderful sex life and see each other every day. Sounds perfect right? Not quite. I like talking, I like conversation, I like expressing opinions, but she doesn't. My girlfriend ...
A. 6 February 2011:
Unfortunately she may be just that type of girl who doesn't talk much and doesn't have an opinion on things.
It can be extremely difficult to strike that even balance, because there are some people who talk far too much and you just wish th... (read in full...)
We fought and haven't spoken in a week. Will he come back to me?
Q. So, My boyfriend is 23 and I am 18. We have been together for over three years now, long distance. Mostly we have a great relationship, he's a really great boyfriend. He's really attentive, loving, always tells me how perfect I am etc. We used to ...
A. 6 February 2011:
Men tend to go into their man caves for a while when they don't want to talk... this is why they don't answer our texts or emails, and the more we contact them, the longer they take to come back out of it.
I am affraid all you can do is give h... (read in full...)
How do I tell people I am gay??.... No one knows!!
Q. Im gay and iv always known that but no 1 else does how do i come out????? plz help...
A. 6 February 2011:
I have a friend who was in the exact same position as you. He confided in his older sister and she was extremely supportive. Once he had off loaded this onto her, he was able to talk to her openly for a few months, and with her support he felt... (read in full...)
A teenager and pregnant.... I am scared to tell my parents!
Q. I just turned 16 two months ago. I have been dating my boyfriend for two yaers now, and well we´ve had a past thats not so cute. He´s been real aggressive and stuff but thats not the problem now. Well im pregnant with his baby and im really n...
A. 6 February 2011:
Please do not keep this to yourself any longer... you need all the support you can get right now! I am assuming you want to keep the baby...yes/No??
If you cannot talk to your mum first, then I advise you to at least make an appointment ... (read in full...)
Do I end my troubled relationship and start anew with this friend who's helped me? Or fix the troubled one?
Q. emotional turmoil... i'm going through a bad relationship right now. One of my friends, who is a girl and i have a friendship thing, for she was trying to cheer me up. i think i'm starting to fall in love with her... she has always flirted ...
A. 5 February 2011:
If you are not happy in your current relationship then you need to end it if there is no way you can fix it, or if you feel that you don't want to be with her anymore.
As for the other female... sometimes it is not a good idea to jump from on... (read in full...)
I don't want my affection to be too obvious. But what's appropriate to do for his birthday?
Q. hey everybody. there is this guy i like. im not sure if he likes me. he is currently working in another city. it's his 27th birthday and i would like to make it special even though i'm not there any ideas? and i dont want it to be too obvious that ...
A. 5 February 2011:
I think a card would be sufficient if you don't know him that well.
It will probably be enough to make him aware that you like him... plus you could put a comment in there referring to buying him a birthday drink sometime if he was free. Make ... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to improve his hygiene?
Q. How do I get my boyfriend to improve his hygiene? We live together so I know he only showers about once a week. The thing that I really hate is that he often goes for days without brushing his teeth. I've mentioned it to him before but it just ...
A. 5 February 2011:
I couldn't possibly get intimate with someone who didn't shower daily or brush their teeth.. Yuk.. it makes my skin crawl!
Start running him a bath, put toothpaste on his toothbrush, if he wants to act like a child, treat him like one. I woul... (read in full...)
I get a nosebleed every time I'm near my ex!!!
Q. I split from my boyfriend of nearly 15 months about 2 and a half months ago, and I'm still not over him. Now whenever I'm near him, I get a nosebleed. Could the stress of seeing him be causing this?...
A. 5 February 2011:
Some people do believe that stress can be related to nosebleeds but it is more likely to be another cause. You might want to visit your GP and get your blood pressure checked out if you are really concerned about your stress levels.
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How can I tell someone I love him, when he's getting married in two months?
Q. Hi, I'm kinda at the end of my tether with something... how can I tell someone I love him, when he's getting married in two months? Or should I? But what can I do? Nothing has happened between us. I'm trying so hard to keep things platonic. I real...
A. 5 February 2011: I don't feel the need to add anything to this thread.... AuntyEm is spot on, excellent advice!... (read in full...)
What do I say to these people about my boyfriend?
Q. ok so this is really embarassing, but i have an ugly boyfreind. i mean hes not that ugly, but he had acne (which i know he cant help cuz i have it 2)but what pisses me off is that every ones making fun of me for it. now grantit, hes been suspended ...
A. 5 February 2011:
First off, I can't believe you have called your boyfriend UGLY.. I am sorry to say but you appear as shallow as your friends for coming out with such a thing!
If this is a genuine thread and you really like him then it shouldn't matter what ... (read in full...)
Lights On & Open Your Eyes during Sex means what?
Q. We know most women enjoy the lights off and men want the lights on, lol. Why is this? What does it mean when the lights are on and he looks into your eyes during sex and when he has an orgasm? What does it mean when a guy looks into your eyes o...
A. 5 February 2011:
I am a woman and I love the light left on... I like to admire my man....his body, and watching him do things to me, its extremely arousing!
As for the eyes; for me eyes are very sexy, and I believe if you are in love and turned on you want to ... (read in full...)
I'd hate to see my friend mess up her life because of this guy!
Q. I need some advice about one of my friends, she's got with this guy that is completely not good enough for her, he's a school drop out, he has a criminal record, he's rude, he's always flirting with other girls he works with...it goes on. But my ...
A. 5 February 2011:
This is a tough one.... and also depends how long you and your friend have been friends.
I have a very close friend... we have been friends since we were 7, so 35 years, and we have always been honest with each other so I do know that I could... (read in full...)
Very confused about my marriage. . . . Please give me some insight.
Q. My husand and I have been together since May 2008. We have been off and on until we got married in August 2009. I had a son previous to meeting him, but he's pretty much been a father to my son. We recently had a son in June 2010. Ok, I may not have ...
A. 4 February 2011:
If you are madly in love with him, why did you file for divorce? I seriously think there is a lack of respect for each other, plus this sounds like a very complicated marriage that I sense will never improve.
Have you tried marriage cou... (read in full...)
Should I explain why I can't be his friend anymore?
Q. Hi - I need to decide what to do but I do not know what is best ... The situation is pretty standard. Me and him started to talk every day, we liked each other and inevitably we made everything we could to get together. We have been seeing...
A. 4 February 2011: You are not being crazy at all... I could not possibly remain friends with someone whom I was madly in love with knowing that there wasn't a future together.
You need to completely cut all ties with him... It will be extremely hard, trust me, but ... (read in full...)
My husband had an affair and now she lives in his house!
Q. last month, I found out that my 68 year old husband was having an affair with a 25 year old female from a third world country. He was traveling back to his country several times a year. Little did i suspect that he had this lady living in his ...
A. 4 February 2011: He has been living two lives without you knowing until now, and I guess it will continue as you are not allowed to visit the house. Basically he is just telling you what you want to hear. He won't stop seeing this girl because it won't make him l... (read in full...)
Should I go with the original life goes on plan?
Q. So I had been seeing this guy since September, so for about four months, we go to the same college and last semester we even had some classes together. We only hung out outside of class once or twice a week because college schedules are hectic, and ...
A. 4 February 2011: A guy who is truly interested wouldn't be treating you in this manner. I take my hat off to you for being so strong and not texting him etc....I wish there were more people out there who could do the same! Move on to better things hun, he real... (read in full...)
After 5 years, my boyfriend says he loves me but isn't in love with me?
Q. Have been going out with my bf for 5 years and while he says he loves me he is not "in love with me!!!" I consider this to be an insult after all this time and praps I should just end it! I think I deserve better! Please advise as I do love him to ...
A. 4 February 2011:
I know what he means in that he loves you but isn't in love with you anymore....I have been in a similar situation. However, I did the good thing and parted with my ex husband so that I could allow someone to love him how he deserved to be love... (read in full...)
4 days till I fly to visit my boyfriend and he's disappeared?
Q. I my boyfriend during my year abroad. We spent 5 amazing months together then I had to go back home. We both agreed to continue our relationship and we fixed the dates when i will come back and visit him. After a few weeks he started to ignore ...
A. 4 February 2011:
You say you have visited him before and that you are due to visit him again... does he ever actually visit you?
I sense that this relationship is all one sided.. he really hasn't put much, if any, effort in, has he!
I would suggest you t... (read in full...)
How do I move on when he's a part of my life every day?
Q. I have asked for help on my failing relationship several times before, with the conclusion always being that I need to move on and get over my current boyfriend. If it was that easy, I would have done it months ago. How do I move on when he'...
A. 4 February 2011: He is a habit... its like any habit, it takes a while to adjust and get over it. Time is the only healer unfortunately.
Try and fill your time with hobbies, meeting up with friends... anything... and with time you will get over him.
You can... (read in full...)
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