He says he's too big
Q. me and my boyfriend tried having sex for the first time except it didnt work. hes trying to tell me his dick is to big for my hole. i dont believe him. should i? im also afraid after haveing sex for the first time our relationship wil...
A. 29 June 2009: Talking about babies already? Get contraception and you wont have to add to the big list there already is of teen abortions.... (read in full...)
What kind of response did he want from me?
Q. So me and this guy were texting the other day, just like hi how are you type of stuff. Then he says "we should hang out sometime..." so I simply responded "yeah we should." I do really want to, but I didn't want to be the one to have to ask him out. ...
A. 29 June 2009: He asked you a straight forward question and you answered in a straight forward way. Now its up to one of you to ask when and where and get on with it! lol its simple.... (read in full...)
Is it just the attention from another male that makes me feel well?
Q. This is going to sound horrible.. and I already feel like I know the responses I will recieve.. but here I go. Long story short, my friend and I went out drinking one nite.. met sum guys, talked for about 3 hours and the one guy and I made out for a ...
A. 29 June 2009: Alot of men say the same thing, that its not working out, and thats why they want you. Dont let him use you as the ruin of his marriage and family, you dont wanna be responsible for that. Its alot easier finding someone who doesnt have so much risk ... (read in full...)
How can I cope with my partner working long hours?
Q. hi aunts and uncles im looking for a bit of advice from people with experiance of this. My fiance works A LOT he often does 12-14 hour days which means i barely see him. i usually feel him climb into the bed in the middle of the night. i k...
A. 28 June 2009: Do you have friends you could ask to come over when hes working? I have to also sit around waiting for my boyfriend to come home for ten hours five days a week and i can symptathise with you, it completely sucks. I fill my day with watching films, i ... (read in full...)
Was my b/f just venting to a friend, or should I be worried?
Q. Hi hoping for some good advice. I am a divorced mum of three and have been dating what i thought was a fab guy for nearly 12 months. I have been planning a surprise for him and wanted to ask his friend what he thought would be the best thing to ge...
A. 26 June 2009: And just so you know, ive been around my boyfriends friends, and when their girlfriends arent around its hideous how they talk about them! I dont know if my boyfriends guilty of it with me, but his friends arent too kind at all. Its just a man ... (read in full...)
Was my b/f just venting to a friend, or should I be worried?
Q. Hi hoping for some good advice. I am a divorced mum of three and have been dating what i thought was a fab guy for nearly 12 months. I have been planning a surprise for him and wanted to ask his friend what he thought would be the best thing to ge...
A. 26 June 2009: I dont know what it is about men and having a family! Theres some men that absolutely love having children, regardless of whether its their own or step-children, but then the vast majority play up to their friends about it like "ohh shes nice but ... (read in full...)
He tells me "Why do you always start talking crazy?"
Q. I've written about this guy a coupe of times. We've still been hanging out. I text him last night saying, would u wanna hang out tomorrow night? He didn't reply back,so i get mad.I text him back again saying,what's wrong,if u don't wanna hang out ...
A. 26 June 2009: Ive done this myself a few times, gone crazy because a boy hasnt replied straight off. But having a lot of men as friends ive been with them when they've been at the recieving end of girls abuse and it does seem proper mental! Its easy to see how ... (read in full...)
Parenting and etiquette advice please!
Q. My daughter is having her 5th birthday party next week, and I am taking her to see a stage play. The tickets are not that expensive, but there is some travel. what I was wondering was if I want to invite her friend, am if I responsible to buy the ...
A. 26 June 2009: I wouldnt invite her if you cant pay, its slightly rude to ask other parents to pay for their own child when its your childs birthday, but you dont have the money for it, so just take your daughter on her own, im sure she'll enjoy it just as much!... (read in full...)
How can I win over his parents?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months and just started living in an apartment together about a month ago. I know its too soon to say for sure, but I can picture myself spending the rest of my life with him. Everything has been great so ...
A. 26 June 2009: I wouldnt worry about it too much, i know it seems that you should get along with your partners parents and make the upmost effort with them, but sometimes it just doesnt happen. They dont approve or you just simply dont like each other. I dont ... (read in full...)
Troubled relationship..could my dreams mean anything?
Q. ok, so my ex boyfriend and i have been trying to work things out for about a year now. And recently, he decided that he wants to be completely done; finished. I've become exhausted by our problems that I've come to careless about it. But i keep ...
A. 26 June 2009: Its the sub concious mind coming through in dreams. So basically its what you've been thinking of without even realising and they come forward in dreams. Or you could have even had that on your mind and thats why you've dreamt about it. Dreams are ... (read in full...)
Is it really internet love and should I push my boundaries and send him a naked picture of me?
Q. well i met this boy online and we have been going out for like almost 8 months now hes 17 and im 15 and i really think i love him and says he loves me to. we talk on the phone evernight and text each other constantly he has never forced me into doi...
A. 26 June 2009: Yeah i wouldnt do it. Its only so he can show it to all his mates and brag about it. I did it a couple times when i was your age, and trust me thats the only outcome. I mean, what else do you think you're gonna get outta this?? It isnt gonna make ... (read in full...)
I'm kinda jealous, should I be concerned if he puts some other chick one spot in front of me on Facebook?
Q. if this guy ive been seeing puts some other chick one spot in front of me on facebook she doesnt have him anywhere on her top she commented him saying he was cute he didnt comment back and she commented his photos, saying he was cute and s...
A. 26 June 2009: I know its easy to get carried away with the social networking thing. I used to check the boy i was seeings profile every day and i noticed he was commenting another girls pictures! But its important to let go, its just the internet, its not real ... (read in full...)
Will it hurt if I have sex?
Q. hi im a 16 yr old male. and me and my girlfriend want to have sex. the problem is im uncircumsiced and the tip of my penis is sensitive. will it hurt if i have sex. please reply...
A. 26 June 2009: Trust me, it'll hurt your girlfriend a whole lot more sugar!... (read in full...)
Sex music?
Q. Me and my girl have got this list going of really good songs to have sex to...i was wondering if anybody can suggest anything else in the lines of rock, metal, or goth. Here's what we got (not all, but some): "Poison" by Alice Cooper "Cou...
A. 26 June 2009: Well my two favorites are by nine inch nails.
Sunspots and closer.
Theres also animals by nickelback!... (read in full...)
Why am I afraid to have sex with a normal girl but not a prostitute?
Q. Why am i afraid to have sex with a normal girl but not a prostitute?? I'm 22 and have a big problem.. i only seem to be able to have sex and not worry about performance or anything when its a prostitute that i don't know...but when the oportuni...
A. 26 June 2009: Thats because a normal girl will still be there in the morning and if you decide to make it into something more then for months afterwards and you care what they think about your performance. A prostitute will only be there for a couple of hours and ... (read in full...)
DO men like to be woken up to a blow job?
Q. My friend said she gave her boyfriend a blow job in the morning just as he was about to wake up but she didn't tell me about his reaction and I was too scared to ask because he might think I was being too nosey. Is it annoying to be woken up to a ...
A. 26 June 2009: Alot of men get their "morning glory" as my boyfriend calls it and so yeah im guessing they would love it!... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test came back negative but I'm still late, what else could be the reason behind this?
Q. hey im a week late for my period and i took a pregnancy test yesterday and it came back negative my boyfriend and i are always careful and responsible and we havnt had any problems with our contraception im starting to get worried now but sure...
A. 26 June 2009: The agony aunt is completely right. Its happened to me before, worrying that you are pregnant can stall your period. Its mind over matter! You need to get yourself tested properly at your GP and if that is negative just accept it and stop the ... (read in full...)
Does he still love me but trying to forget about me?
Q. i am 15 year old, recently i met a boy and fall in love for first time but it is not a facination. after one month he said he cant do anything and he need a breakup i agreed and he just became only my just friend and if only a friend he should talk ...
A. 26 June 2009: Yeah Samii is completely right. If the guy wants distance give it too him! dont overpower him, just give him space. He'll either miss you like crazy and come running back or he wont. And if he doesnt move on and find someone worthy of your time!... (read in full...)
When things don't fit her, what do I do?
Q. Ok well now i have a new question . My wife has taken a turn in our relationship. First of all she is a bit overweight.(AND THAT DONT BOTHER ME) So yesterday she calls me from work and tells me that she is at this department store. And im im like ...
A. 26 June 2009: Well i am not overweight, im only a size 12-14 but the sexy lingerie they sell in them sorts of stores dont fit me either! The ones that claim they are my bra size, and a size 12 or 14 knickers are waaaaay too tight and the bra sizes are always ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test came back negative but I'm still late, what else could be the reason behind this?
Q. hey im a week late for my period and i took a pregnancy test yesterday and it came back negative my boyfriend and i are always careful and responsible and we havnt had any problems with our contraception im starting to get worried now but sure...
A. 25 June 2009: Theres always a possibility, its quite common to get false negatives, particularly if you use a cheaper brand of test. Clearblue are the best and most efficiant. Its best to go get tested at your GP, they'll be able to do a blood test as well as a ... (read in full...)
He doesn't mind pleasuring me on my period!!!
Q. When I'm on my period, I feel digusting and fat and yucky even if I'm not and some of the time I totally do not feel like having sex. But my boyfriend insists he pleasures me orally and I'm suprised he doesn't find it disgusting that I'm on my ...
A. 25 June 2009: Yeah thats not very nice. But if youre comfortable with it and your boyfriend likes it then so be it. Each to their own. ... (read in full...)
Online guy now wants to meet me and I'm afraid because of my weight!
Q. I met this guy on a dating website, we exchanged pictures, emails etc its still early days but he wants to meet up for a drink the only problem is hes a personal trainer....and well im a curvy girl who doesnt exercise and doesn really watch what i ...
A. 25 June 2009: You are a normal and healthy size. If he doesnt like it then stuff him, hes a pig. ... (read in full...)
He says he's too big
Q. me and my boyfriend tried having sex for the first time except it didnt work. hes trying to tell me his dick is to big for my hole. i dont believe him. should i? im also afraid after haveing sex for the first time our relationship wil...
A. 25 June 2009: Well its easy for people to judge him and say hes lying about it to boost his ego, and that may well be, he might not have been able to get up or something and fobbed you off with that. But if he is quite big, particularly in width, then i can ... (read in full...)
Do I have a right to feel frustrated at my GFs attack?
Q. Sometimes accidents happen, and I appreciate that. however, I am not sure if I am over-reacting or perhaps not the man I thought I was which is generally just your average bloke. About 9 months ago my girlfriend attacked me as I forgot to bring ho...
A. 25 June 2009: Over a lemon? I dont believe in violence at all, but i mean if you had cheated on her or hit her yourself, then i wouldnt commend her hitting back but id expect her to. But over a lemon? Thats an easy mistake to make. I tell my boyfriend to remember ... (read in full...)
Not very talkative with others. Do I come across as boring?
Q. I have had confidence all my life. I've never really been able to build a relationship with anyone. From my point of veiw, I've always felt that people have just put me down, including teachers. I went to a religious primary school, and a lot of the ...
A. 25 June 2009: Im exactly the same as that, it takes me a while to be able to get talking to people and im always way too scared to make the effort to talk to them! But what you have to do is just take a deep breath and realise its gonna be absolutely fine, and ... (read in full...)
Is she lying when she says my premature ejaculation doesn't bother her?
Q. hi I am wondering if this problem I think I may have is normal. And why I think I may bring my relationship to an end. When having sex with my partner I feel as though I ejaculate to soon (sometimes less than a minute, some times less than fiv...
A. 25 June 2009: Theres a chinese herbal remedy that you spread on the tip of the penis that helps that, but my boyfriend uses it and it frustrates me that it takes him so bloody long to come!! Im sure your partner doesnt mind, my boyfriend apologises when he comes ... (read in full...)
I met her online and now I want to take it to the next step
Q. Hi. I met a girl online through a gaming instant messenger. At first it was just like talking to anyone else but actually spoke about stuff and our conversations were long. She gave me her MSN addy and for more than a month we've spoken almost ev...
A. 25 June 2009: Just be sure to meet in a public place and thats all ill advice you. I have met a few people from the internet before and as Lilly Rose has said, be prepared for her not being exactly as you thought. Personality wise, some people i have talked for ... (read in full...)
Foreskin is too tight! Should I get circumcised?
Q. I am a 25 year old man. I have not had sex till now. I have problem with my foreskin. Its tight and I can't pull it when I'm erect. I can pull my foreskin if I'm not erect. I have observed that my foreskin is attached to the tip of the penis and ...
A. 25 June 2009: Well it is attatched to the end anyway but sometimes can have too much attatched making it tight and painful, my boyfriend had the same problem when he was younger. Id advice you go talk your problems through with your GP, he will give you more ... (read in full...)
Is masturbating with a condom a good sign for intercourse?
Q. My g/friend says she's now ready for full sex so before we start I've decided to get used to wearing a condom by wearing one in bed when masturbating. They feel ok-plenty sensation and a decent orgasm without semen all on the bedding.Is this a g...
A. 24 June 2009: Well ive never met a boy who has preffered to use a condom! Obviously you must use a condom to protect yourselves, but i cant say any man likes to use them, that i have met anyway. They do make you lose alot of the feeling. ... (read in full...)
What are your views on premarital sex?
Q. hi there, what do you think with that I think girls and boys should have sex after getting married(for the first time)no sex before marriage what is your opinion?...
A. 24 June 2009: Well i believe that you shouldnt give yourself to just anyone, its too personal to just throw yourself at someone. But i dont believe you have to be married before you take the plunge. Its just about having that love and trust there first, not ... (read in full...)
I have morning sickness....Am I pregnant?
Q. Welli've been having a lot of back pains and my period this month was early and spotted wit brownish color.I have mornin sickness alot at nite.an i us bathroom way more than usual.Do youthink im pregnant?...
A. 24 June 2009: Its a big possibility yes. The symptoms sound conclusive. Get tested!... (read in full...)
I've found a lump. Can girls get breast cancer at 16?
Q. Hi! I found this lump inside my right breast and its realy sore. i just got a new bra the other day, so i guess you could say it's the bra, making me sore, but only one breast is sore and i can feel this lump inside my breast. when i touch it,...
A. 24 June 2009: Any one at any age can get cancer so yes that is a possibility. But also it could be a cyst or something perfectly harmless. Go see your GP.... (read in full...)
I'm too you for sex but he says no-one will know. What to do?
Q. hi guys i'm menna,14 years old i like a guy,even some times i feel that i love him ,he's about 19 year bt the problem is he wanna us to have sex he tells me that he likes me bt i feel that he says it to make me have sex with him i never felt that he ...
A. 24 June 2009: Dont do it. If you know its illegal and you know you dont wanna do it then the answer is simple. Get your head out of the clouds and dump this guy. hes not worth even thinking about!... (read in full...)
Which is more important - personality or looks?
Q. Hi, I'd like to discuses one of your considerations in life. so just to know who is thinking soul is more important than look? and do you think who considers look is the most important whether in dating,everyday communication or even to love is ...
A. 24 June 2009: Well you have to be attracted to that person phyically before it can bloom into anything else, but then personality is the most important. You cant be with someone and spend most days with them if you purely only have an attraction for them and dont ... (read in full...)
He wants sex but I don't. What should I do?
Q. Noone dont find me attractive ive ony sortaa hadd a boyfriend for a few month but he sed i was boring because i didnt want to do anything sexual with him. We kissed and hugged butt i didint want to be forced to do things.hes wierd with me and outs ...
A. 24 June 2009: Youre too young to be having sex! You wont get any pleasure out of it and the guy is clearly using you for sex! You seem like a smart girl to have not given into his pressures already, so stick to that and no matter what he says dont. If he ... (read in full...)
Why did they call me "bi "in front of everyone?
Q. sorry to all bisexuals... i am a teenager at highschool and have been having some problems and it has been upsetting me. it all started in a normal pe lesson and this girl *Chloe* came up to me and asked me if i was bisexual, i was just about t...
A. 22 June 2009: It was a harmless joke that hurt you more than they realised. Dont worry about it, it went round school i was gay more times than i can count on both hands and i always had a boyfriend! Its just one of them things. Kids are cruel, and get their ... (read in full...)
Is this girl I met online really busy, or is she ignoring me?
Q. Hi all, OK so last week I started talking to a girl who goes to my college and lives near me, on Myspace. We exchanged screenames and chatted on AIM several times. I felt like we hit it off very well, our conversations went both ways, she was gi...
A. 22 June 2009: Maybe you not wanting to seem needy has lead her to believe you were avoiding her. Ive had a relationship via the internet before and he used to not come online for like four days and id be sat at home wondering what the hell i'd done. Thats the ... (read in full...)
My internet lover has been a liar from the beginning
Q. Hiya I have a question for you I met a guy online (as so many of us do) When i finally met him the first thing was the picture was not of him. He had put another face on of a handsome guy as he himself is not at all attractive. Looks are no...
A. 22 June 2009: Look, people lie for all manner of reasons. Obviously he was insecure about who he really was and didnt think you would be attracted to him or give him the chance if you knew the truth and so he lied. A lot of people do it, its like a white lie... (read in full...)
What is the difference between a committment phobic or someone afraid to be hurt?
Q. Can someone please tell me the difference between a true commitment phobic man and one that is just a bit emotional and afraid of being hurt in a relationship since he once was. Help don't want to waste anymore time....
A. 22 June 2009: I believe in some cases, or even most cases it is the same thing. I think that most "commitment phobics" have been hurt in their past, or even seen someone close to them really hurt through love, probably their parents, and dont want the same to ... (read in full...)
Why do I always have to do everything?
Q. my bf and i have been together for almost 3 years now and we get along well and have a lot in common, but i am so frustrated because i have to do practically all the work when it comes to going out and socializing. if i dont suggest we go out or do ...
A. 22 June 2009: Everyones different! Some people do enjoy the simple relaxing life whereas others want to constantly be doing new things and enjoying what the world has to offer! You've just clashed with someone who is the opposite of you. Just talk to him and tell ... (read in full...)
Do I love this girl off tv?
Q. i like someone very much off the telly she is so beautiful and everytime i see her i get butterflies in my stomach i don't know if i love her or not because i don't know what love feels like. i added her as a friend on facebook and she added me back ...
A. 22 June 2009: She probably gets the same crap all the time from guys trying to chat her up. Just like if she was any ordinary girl, shes got a boyfriend so you have to stay away. Its just a crush, like mine for Robert Downey JR or Daniel Craig, im never gonna get ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's 7 year old daughter still sleeps in his bed
Q. I am 30 years old, living with my 38 year old boyfriend and his 7 year old daughter. She still sleeps in his bed sometimes, and for this reason I have to sleep in my own bed, in my own room, while living with my boyfriend. I feel like he is not ...
A. 22 June 2009: Well my brother still wants to sleep in my mums bed now and hes ten! If you let the child do it from a young age they latch on and decide they want to do it right up until its embarrassing and theyre growing up. I think the important thing is to sit ... (read in full...)
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