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I took the morning after pill 2 weeks after having sex. Could I be pregnant?

Q.   Hi, I'm 16 and think I may be pregnant. I had unprotected sex 2 weeks on Saturday and on Monday I took the morning after pill. The lady who supplied it told me I was at a very high risk of already being pregnant as I had just finished my period. She ...

A.   25 May 2009: The morning after pill is most effective 24 hours after unprotected sex has taken place but can be used up to 72 hours after. If your having symptoms go see your GP, make sure to get a urine and blood test as for alot of women (including myself) ... (read in full...)

I lied to my Mom repeatedly and now she doest trust me. How can I get her to trust me again?

Q.   Im 15 and i lied to my mum about going to a party, i isaid i was sleeping at my friends house but she found my ticket and now she has grounded me for the rest of my school holidays and she even said she hates me and that she can never trust me ...

A.   25 May 2009: Ahh we all do it. I'm sure your mum even did it once or twice herself. We all say things in the heat of the moment that we dont mean, she doesnt really hate you! My mums said that out of anger a few times and always taken it back. You have to try ... (read in full...)

I am having terrile pain from my period. Can anyone suggest something to do or take that will ease the pain?

Q.   i really need some help quick cuz im in reallyyyy bad pain. ive just come on my period and ive had them for four years so they aint new but this one is killin me. ive never bin in so much pain, ive bin curled up on my bed rockin to try and stop it n ...

A.   25 May 2009: The contraceptive pill helps alot of girls who suffer with heavy periods. Hot water bottles can help soothe it and take a couple cocodomols! Drink warm drinks like hot chocolate and tea. See your GP about the pill or maybe some other remedy! xx... (read in full...)

Moved in together after 5 weeks and now wondering if I'm pregnant?

Q.   Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 weeks now, and i know it seems quick but we've already moved in together. We met and fell for each other so quickly we didn't want to leave each other. I am happy with that situation and it was all going ...

A.   24 May 2009: ok so i calmed myself and waited to see if anything changed. Its been three weeks today since my skipped period and my body is certainly changing. I know its going on, my stomach is cramping, not too painfully just dull pains but its definitely all ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong for him to like me even with the age difference?

Q.   I like this guy who is three years older than me. IF he did fancy me and he wrote on here to ask what to do about it, or even whether to do something about it, what advice would you give him? Would you think that it's wrong for a 19 year old boy to ...

A.   24 May 2009: Its not wrong at all. Put it this way, i was dating guys muchhh older than him at your age and it was never seen as wrong!! Your legal, its fine. Let it be! People are always gonna comment on it, but let them! My 18 year old friend is with a 38 year ... (read in full...)

Friends told my teacher I liked him, not true, I told him that, should I say more to clear the air?

Q.   Hey everyboy!!! Well my problem is that my school is finishing up for the summer in four days and I was wondering what to say to my teacher. I have known this teacher for three years now and we have become sort of like friends. A whlie ago my frien...

A.   24 May 2009:  I dont think you should make him feel any more awkward by bringing it up again when its already been resolved. You have to realise that hes in a terrible position. Its completely illegal for him to do anything with you, its even frowned upon to ... (read in full...)

I am constantly catching a cold, how can I build my immune system?

Q.   Hey This has absoluetly nothing to do with relationships or anything like that but I do need advice or I might go mad. I keep getting the cold all the time like literaly I have had it twice in the last two weeks, I mean you would think I would ...

A.   24 May 2009: Just make sure you take iron and vitamins every day! Make sure your diet is healthy and cover your mouth with a scarf if someone starts to cough/sneeze or on public transport as thats one of the worst places for it. Wash your hands as much as ... (read in full...)

I love you is overrated

Q.   Well with my last few boyfriends, they have always said "I love you" in the first few days of us going out. It really bugged me, and I did kind of love them but it was more of a crush/fancying them at that stage. How can I stop guys I date from ...

A.   24 May 2009: When a man says it to you instead of replying 'i love you too' when you dont even mean it, just say to him- 'really? you really mean that?' and if he says yes just say aww thanks. haha. you cant stop someone saying something but if you dont feel the ... (read in full...)

We both like him, he flirts with both of us

Q.   So theres this guy at school. Hes hilarious, cute, sweet and fun to be around. But the problem is, my best friend and I both like him. We know we both do, and he flirts with both of us! I don't know who he likes more, and if either one of us end up ...

A.   24 May 2009: Do not get involved in a situation like this. Who would you prefer to have in your life, your best friend or this boy?? Cos tbh, friends are for life and boys come and go. Imagine if your best friend gets with him, how will you feel then? You'... (read in full...)

Can pre-ejaculation cause pregnancy??

Q.   if one has sex,but ejaculation is not done ,then does a women has chances to be pregnant without ejaculation.or is it natural that even if ejaculation is not done,then too sperms are released into a females body.plz help..!!...

A.   23 May 2009: Whenever a mans penis has entered a womans vagina there is a risk of STD's and pregnancy. Regardless of whether you use the pull out method or not because men have pre-ejaculation spurts as well as the full thing!... (read in full...)

Is 7 years an age difference I should be worried about?

Q.   Hey, I'm Ashley. I am 19. About two months ago I started dating my boyfriend, to whom is 27. He will be 28 in December. He thinks and talks about our age difference often, and I try to explain to him that its not a big deal and its 2009 that 7 or 8 ...

A.   22 May 2009: My bf has just turned 28 and i turned 19 in Feb so were on about the same level of 8/9 years. It doesn't effect our relationship at all, in fact if anything it helps it because we help each other out when the other ones being silly where as someone ... (read in full...)

What do people think about casual sex?

Q.   I'd like peoples opinions on casual sex (one night stands and friends with benefits). Do you think either are morally ok? I am trying to make my mind up on weither i think they are accetable and would like some opinions. ...

A.   20 May 2009: Have you ever had a one night stand? You feel disgusting and dirty the next day. Sex isn't about opening your legs for the nearest man and leaving the next morning. Its about getting close to someone you love and trust, as corny as that may sound, ... (read in full...)

20 year old girl in love with my same sex best friend.

Q.   i am split in 2 different directions at the moment. im in love with my bestfriend. she is the most wonderful caring loving women i have ever met. has been by my side through everything. would drop everything if i call. im constantly doing my best to ...

A.   14 May 2009: I had the same issue, just the other way around. I was in love with my best friend who was gay and whenever he mentioned someone he fancied i would boil up with envy. It ended up eating me up inside until i eventually told him how i felt. It didn't ... (read in full...)

How to climax with just intercourse

Q.   I have a problem everytime I have sex I never climax. I can only climax though oral or playing me playing with my clit. The sex be really great I can feel him inside with so much plesure but still can't climax if him or I dont with clit, is there's ...

A.   13 May 2009: I'm exactly the same! I don't understand it! lol. Anyone help?? ... (read in full...)

Frightened of my boyfriend and possibly pregnant

Q.   Hi I am 16years old and my boyfriend is 19. We have been going out for a little over a year a recently he has been getting angry towards me such as when i have been text ed by a friend he will ask me who it is and if i do not say then he will squ...

A.   12 May 2009: First of all, you can get pregnant at any time of the month, so what he said was rubbish, you should ALWAYS use protection even though i know its easy to forget, been there done that. Secondly- Take a test! If you want to be certain buy a couple. If ... (read in full...)

Moved in together after 5 weeks and now wondering if I'm pregnant?

Q.   Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 weeks now, and i know it seems quick but we've already moved in together. We met and fell for each other so quickly we didn't want to leave each other. I am happy with that situation and it was all going ...

A.   11 May 2009: i went to my local brook centre today for a test, it came back negative and i was ecstatic but the woman that worked there told me she thinks i am pregnant and i have to go back in another week if my period still hasn't happened. She thinks i may ... (read in full...)

Could it be pregnancy? Please help!

Q.   Well me and by boyfriend are trying to conceive before he goes to the air force. we used to have sex a lot but now its only a once a week thing. I have a regular period. but I vomit, tender breast, and I also have a wetness that I think may be an ...

A.   9 May 2009: There is always a chance that you could be pregnant. Home pregnancy tests are never 100% reliable. My friend took two different brands of them and they both showed up negative, she carried on as normal and wasn't until she fell ill and was in ... (read in full...)

Moved in together after 5 weeks and now wondering if I'm pregnant?

Q.   Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 weeks now, and i know it seems quick but we've already moved in together. We met and fell for each other so quickly we didn't want to leave each other. I am happy with that situation and it was all going ...

A.   9 May 2009: I couldn't bring myself to abort or give it up for adoption. Not that i don't belive in abortions in certain circumstances, but like you say its not a form of birth control and everyone deserves a chance on this planet. I got one so my baby deserves ... (read in full...)

Moved in together after 5 weeks and now wondering if I'm pregnant?

Q.   Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 weeks now, and i know it seems quick but we've already moved in together. We met and fell for each other so quickly we didn't want to leave each other. I am happy with that situation and it was all going ...

A.   9 May 2009: Thanks for all your help :) I do understand its never certain without a test i just want to know if the symptoms sound like it. I'm going to get tested tomorrow with my friend, so fingers crossed!... (read in full...)

Why does my step-dad treat me so badly?

Q.   I feel as if my stepdad hates me. He married my mum when i was about 16-17. And i had a crazy stepdad before that. But i have always got on with him, it has been my brother that has challenged him and they fought like cat and dog. Now all my stepd...

A.   8 May 2009: I would suggest thinking about moving out as well. I had a stepdad that did all that and worse. He beat me for about nine years of my life and my mum stuck up for him whenever he had an issue with what i was doing as well. I don't resent my mother ... (read in full...)

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