Can pre cum make you pregnant?
Q. What if a male produces a lot of precum, and he only inserts half of the head of the penis into the vagina... is there any chance that she is pregnant? or what if he has precum on his fingers and inserts his fingers into the vagina...?...
A. 1 July 2009: In reply to anonymous. If thats true why do so many girls get pregnant when using the pull out method then?... (read in full...)
Can pre cum make you pregnant?
Q. What if a male produces a lot of precum, and he only inserts half of the head of the penis into the vagina... is there any chance that she is pregnant? or what if he has precum on his fingers and inserts his fingers into the vagina...?...
A. 1 July 2009: Yes precum can lead to pregnancy, entering the penis into the vagina without a condom is dangeous at any time.... (read in full...)
I'm scared my boyfriend will object to the dress I've bought.
Q. We are invited to a 4th of July party, and I bought a rather modest (in length) strapless summer frock, which shouldn't be a problem except my bf is very particular about what I wear, and I am afraid he will somehow object to this dress!! He also ...
A. 1 July 2009: Oh my dear dear god. What are you doing to yourself?? Why the hell are you alllowing yourself to be controlled like this?? No person should ever dictate to you what you wear. I say you turn up in the sluttiest tightest dress ever and bright red ... (read in full...)
He wants me to get a six pack!!!! Why would he want me to look more muscular? I'm a female for pities sake!
Q. My husband does not want it at all when I try to instigate it. He has no sex drive at all. Our sex life used to be fairly active, but now it's non-existent. I've tried everything to get him interested: I wore sexy lingerie, I've dressed up for h...
A. 1 July 2009: Do you think he could be homosexual??
Ive never met a man thats wanted his woman to look like his own gender! I'd ask him why that attracts him so much, and dont go changing for a man. You stay your lovely womanly self!... (read in full...)
Things weren't perfect, but this cat issue is pushing me over the edge...
Q. My girlfriend and I have been living together for 5 months, without getting too deep, she has some medical issues, including some stress and anxiety issues. Shame on me for not really getting to understand the extent of these issues, but I'm ...
A. 1 July 2009: Right so this is easily solved. Im guessing you have job centres over there? Take her to one, make her find a job. If she cant do it for herself then make her do it. Tell her that she either finds a job or youre outta there. Help her search online ... (read in full...)
He keeps boxes of items from his past. Am I wrong for wanting him to let go and move on?
Q. My husband (we got married last year)keeps everything he has ever touched: old typewriters, computers, manuals and boxes for things that he doesn't even own.He has 3 storage places that he has had for over 20 years. He is definitely a packrat. He ...
A. 1 July 2009: It sounds to be like he has OCD. I'd advice him to get help with this, maybe a psychiatrist would help. Its not healthy to keep all that from the past hanging around, ask him to get help. ... (read in full...)
My husband is violent with me but then HE cries and says sorry!
Q. Hey So a couple of months ago my fiance and I (we live together and have a year old baby girl) had a really bad fight and he grabbed me around the throat, quite tightly. Afterwards he started crying and said that we had to break up because he's ...
A. 1 July 2009: I dont care if you are all he has, a man should NEVER hit a woman and noone should hit a child! I'd steer clear, this wont get any better, trust me ive been in the situation myself. And the crying is what they do, its a way of controlling you so you ... (read in full...)
Wife doesn't want me to go down on her any more
Q. I really loved cunnilingus, in fact I enjoyed it more than receiving oral sex, and for many years it was an important part of our lovemaking, but my wife went off it a long time ago. She thinks she's "dirty" down there. I haven't even seen her ...
A. 1 July 2009: Time isn't flattering too our bodies, everything drops as im sure you yourself know and women get more self concious about it than men do. She obviously has a problem with the way it looks now... Talk to her about it, tell her how much you love ... (read in full...)
I want to get my belly button pierced, any advice?
Q. Hey well I know this isn't to do with love but I have asked a few questions on this website before and people give really good advice I thought I'd as this on here anyway. I want to get my belly button pierced, I'm 15 almost 16 my mum is lett...
A. 1 July 2009: I got mine pierced when i was 12, had it in for about two years before a cheap bar made it go dodgy and i had to take it out, i then got it repierced at 15 and had it ripped out at a gig, and now i have a huge scar which i hate! But thats only my ... (read in full...)
Things weren't perfect, but this cat issue is pushing me over the edge...
Q. My girlfriend and I have been living together for 5 months, without getting too deep, she has some medical issues, including some stress and anxiety issues. Shame on me for not really getting to understand the extent of these issues, but I'm ...
A. 1 July 2009: Its a cat, i cant believe youre going to let a cat ruin your relationship. It cant purely only be that thats tipping you over the edge, noone would end a relationship because a cat poops outside its litter tray. The cat just needs training, you need ... (read in full...)
Left with the tattoo, but not him!
Q. My boyfriend and I dated for like about three years, about five months ago, we got matching tattoos. I got his initals and he got mine. We both got it on the back of our neck. Now we are broken up and I am trying to get over it but everytime I ...
A. 1 July 2009: Or if like one person said you still talk to him and are friends with him then leave it as a memory of what was! Lets face it, you dont have to look at the nape of your neck every day so it shouldnt effect you that much! And if new boyfriends ask ... (read in full...)
Was it just a dream?
Q. hi all, this might sound a bit silly but i just wanna know what other people make of this. last night i dreamt of my b/fs best friend. i was fooling around with him(in the dream) and it felt so good and so real. we get along great and he's just so ...
A. 1 July 2009: Its a dream, dont let it fool you into changing things in your life, just carry on with your boyfriend!... (read in full...)
My girl always tells her friends our relationship problems before she tells me!
Q. My current girlfriend always tells her friends our relationship problems before telling me and it really bugs me. its as if she expects her friends to tell me for her. For example im going to go see a movie with my friend this weekend and she a ...
A. 1 July 2009: Girls do that, i tell my friends before i tell my boyfriend and if they advice i talk to him about it then i do. If not, ive got it off my chest and i move on from the situation! Its just what girls do. Dont dump her over this!! Im guessing she's a ... (read in full...)
My mom won't let me get a second piercing ...
Q. I am 13 and I have one ear peircing on each earlobe. But on my left ear I want a second peircining t the top ( a little silver ring) and my mom would never agree. I am not the kind of girl that would go behind her back and get one nd either way she ...
A. 1 July 2009: Well i came home at 13 years old with a lip piercing, then another, and another and another.... Til my face was like a sieve!! Its not cool... But its only an ear piercing, as long as your not stretching them id have no problem letting you get them ... (read in full...)
Why is he telling people that I'm an atheist?
Q. I am not a religious person but I do have a high focus on my spiritual health. This guy, I really like him and he likes me too, we get along great, the only thing recently we somehow got to talking about God he's a Christian, I'm not. I totally ...
A. 1 July 2009: A lot of christians i have come across have claimed that anyone who doesnt follow a controlled religion is an athiest, even if you do believe in your own things. Which is a load of shit, but its what a lot of them believe. I'd say your agnostic. ... (read in full...)
Left with the tattoo, but not him!
Q. My boyfriend and I dated for like about three years, about five months ago, we got matching tattoos. I got his initals and he got mine. We both got it on the back of our neck. Now we are broken up and I am trying to get over it but everytime I ...
A. 1 July 2009: You can get it lazered off but it leaves a scar of where it was, so its the same as whats there now just without the ink, but make up can cover that up. Or you can choose to get it covered over, pick a good tattooist though, ive seen some crap cover ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend pulling away? I'm pregnant and he said he'd get back to me.
Q. I'm pregnant and worrie, my boyfriend said he will think about my pregnancy and get back to me after a week or a month. He said i must be little pataint i told him there is nothing to think about, either he is in or out. he still insisting to think ...
A. 29 June 2009: Oh well it should be easier for you!! I know that by law even if a man chooses not to see his child he has to pay for it, but i know that alot of men get away with not doing. ... (read in full...)
What is it that turns on a woman the most about a man?
Q. This question is mainly for women. Please be as honest as you can. Does a man's penis size really matter to you? What is it that turns on a woman the most about a man and is their penis size on of those things? So basically, is bigger really better? ...
A. 29 June 2009: I prefer average size or maybe just above. Im not into huge cocks, theyre not nice to look at and they hurt like mad! I'd much rather have a guy with a smaller one and nice eyes to be honest! Its all in the eyes for me. ... (read in full...)
Stressed by school and exams - I need tips on how to calm myself down!
Q. I need help! Im really stressed with school work and its really getting me down. Im doing my GCSEs and i go to a very high profile school which makes us work really hard and im finding it really hard to cope with the stress, i leave the house at ...
A. 29 June 2009: You neeed to level out school work and social life. You cant work and have no play at all! Its gonna wind up effecting your work and make you sad and depressed. I found GCSE's too much to handle as well, its normal, you've gone from not having to ... (read in full...)
Ladies, would it put you off if you found out a guy was a virgin?
Q. hi everyone this question is mainly for the ladies but anyone can answer realy. i just wondered what you people thought about male virginity, and girls would it put you off a guy if you found out he was a virgin? im not realy to bothered about be...
A. 29 June 2009: No i couldnt care less! It might make them unexperienced in that department but i prefer to know my man hasnt been near that many women before me, i dont know why, just preference i guess. I wouldnt worry about being a virgin, waiting for the right ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me that I've never had a boyfriend?
Q. dear people, help me i am really desperate i am 15 and single and i have never had a boyfriend, i feel so ugly and not confident if i could just know the signs that someone fancies me so i could feel more confident with me my self and feel that i ...
A. 29 June 2009: Size A boobs dont stop models dating! Dont fret it, boob size isnt important to alot of men. My boyfriend prefers my legs even though ive got DD breasts! Boys are all different, some arent bothered about physical appererance too much. I wouldnt ... (read in full...)
Could the fact that he's circumsized be preventing us from having a baby?
Q. my boyfriend is 24 yrs old, he has been circumsized since he was aba 10. we have been trying to have a baby for 1 yr and a half but nothin is happing. can it be because he is circumsized coz i have had my self cheked out and my eggs are all fine. i ...
A. 29 June 2009: Circumsicion is just losing the foreskin, it has nothing to do with sperm and fertility. Do you think all Jewish and Muslim men cant have children?... (read in full...)
He bought a flavoured condom, hoping I'd have sex with him!
Q. my boyfriend wants to do sex with me but i am not ready. yesterday at school he asked me my favourite flavour and at night he came to my house and told he wanted to have sex with me.he had also brought my favourite flavour's condom.but i sent him ...
A. 29 June 2009: Thats not a very big age gap but means alot with the age youre at. Hes legal and youre not, therefore if you were to do anything he could be arrested. But putting law aside here, you are not ready at 14 and wont be ready for a few years yet, you've ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend pulling away? I'm pregnant and he said he'd get back to me.
Q. I'm pregnant and worrie, my boyfriend said he will think about my pregnancy and get back to me after a week or a month. He said i must be little pataint i told him there is nothing to think about, either he is in or out. he still insisting to think ...
A. 29 June 2009: Well its clearly come as a big shock to his system, as it does most men. They dont have to deal with it in the way we do, if they choose to be a coward and run away they can do, and can do it quite happily and never return. Its wrong, but its what ... (read in full...)
He's got another girl - I truly love him and this is really hurting me!
Q. im going through hell,i dnt know whether what im going through is love or this is something else.i have been dating a guy for five months now,he didn' have a galfrnd as he told me but i just find out their still together with one of the ladies he ...
A. 29 June 2009: Why would you want to be with a guy who is cheating on you? Guys like that are full of bullshit, he will continue to feed you the crap that hes going to leave her and not do it, trust me. Its only gonna end in tears, i'd advice you give him another ... (read in full...)
I'm shy but really turned on by them!
Q. Im a straight woman (I'm pretty sure, anyways). I have these two co-workers who openly declare themselves as bisexual. They are both into the punk/goth thing. I think they think I'm a really square Hmong girl but I've had a lot of sexual fantasies ...
A. 29 June 2009: I know a lot of punks that have what we would class as "normal" "girl next door" girlfriends/boyfriends. Just because they dress and are into different things that your into, doesnt mean that they wont be attracted to you! I think you should break ... (read in full...)
Was it cheating or just acting? And should I tell my husband, or let him think that Jim was wearing underwear?
Q. I need some advice, both to make myself feel OK, and what to tell my husband. My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years, we have 3 kids together. I have some college, but never finished (kids). My husband has an extremely good job, and...
A. 29 June 2009: I dont think there is any need to cause a fire when theres no ignition. Your acting, not cheating and what you did is something many actors and actresses have to do every day, its only normal. Your husband was supportive of it and so i dont think ... (read in full...)
How do you stay happy after a breakup?
Q. What are some ways to keep yourself happy and going, after breaking up with somebody? I'm afraid of my future with my boyfriend and I'm afraid that if we do call it quits I will become depressed again. As we broke up before about four months ago,...
A. 29 June 2009: The best way is not to dwell, not to mope around. You need to keep active. Do something you love, be it a hobby or school work, or whatever. Spend time with the people you love, do fun things. Just try not to overthink the situation, remember that ... (read in full...)
I like drinking - is this bad?
Q. Hi! I need some help. This isn't really a relationship problem. But, I really need some input on this. I'm going in to 10th grade next year and I just started drinking. Is this bad? I just feel really pressured with my friends because my four ...
A. 29 June 2009: its easy for people to place the blame on the parents but alot of the time kids do it to rebel against their parents morals and values and what they've taught them, i know thats why i did it personally. So dont place it on the parents here, these ... (read in full...)
Is sex all that really matters in a relationship?
Q. is sex everything is relationship? i knew this man, we didn't go out but we were close. until he wanted to have sex. and i refused. i don't want to do it before i got married. call me old fashion but that's my belief. so he suddenly went away. and ...
A. 29 June 2009: No sex isnt all that matters, its just a big factor for a lot of people. But as the other two said, dont lose your morals and values for some arsehole guy, you keep your values, well done girl!!:) You know a guys a dickhead when he leaves you ... (read in full...)
He says he's too big
Q. me and my boyfriend tried having sex for the first time except it didnt work. hes trying to tell me his dick is to big for my hole. i dont believe him. should i? im also afraid after haveing sex for the first time our relationship wil...
A. 29 June 2009: Talking about babies already? Get contraception and you wont have to add to the big list there already is of teen abortions.... (read in full...)
I like drinking - is this bad?
Q. Hi! I need some help. This isn't really a relationship problem. But, I really need some input on this. I'm going in to 10th grade next year and I just started drinking. Is this bad? I just feel really pressured with my friends because my four ...
A. 29 June 2009: I dont know what tenth grade is the equivalent of over here, but looking at the age stated your still so young! Ill let you in on something. I started drinking heavily at 14, i got alcohol poisoning twice and ended up in alot of situations i didnt ... (read in full...)
I'm puzzled by her "wanting to protect me from her"
Q. Ok recently I started talking to this woman. I find her very charming and funny. but some things about what she says to me have me a little confused. She tells me she likes me and we talk about dating but the other day her tone nearly did a 180. she ...
A. 29 June 2009: Well i think her warnings should be taken seriously, she's obviously done it in the past and sees you are a nice guy and doesnt wanna hurt you. But at the same time, i must admit i have used that one to steer away from guys i wasnt into all that ... (read in full...)
When is the right time to ask someone out?
Q. Girls are you more likely to say "yes" to go out on a date with a guy if you two talk a few times before he asks you, or if he just comes up to you and asks you out on a date? I wanted to ask a girl out today but we only talked once before and ...
A. 29 June 2009: I'd wait and get to know her a bit more before you do that. Wait and see if theres things about her you dont quite like before you get all serious and dating. ... (read in full...)
I think it's rational for my wife to take extra effort to brighten up the sex life
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 31 years old husband. Being married for the last 2 years and before that we were going out for 3 years. We have a good loving relationship. Hardly fight and financially also sound with less external stresses to deal. Intentio...
A. 29 June 2009: Yeah PCOS effects the hormones in the body and can lead to a major drop in the sex drive. So it could be something to do with that, but also could just be personal preference. I think you need to sit down and have a chat. Its not fair that youre not ... (read in full...)
I feel more for my younger boss than my husband!
Q. I have been obsessed with another man who happens to be my boss and 12 years younger. He is funny, good looking and sexy. He doesn't feel the same way about me. He is married with 3 children. My husband is disabled and our marriage is having ...
A. 29 June 2009: Its your emotions which are attatching you to this younger guy, you wouldnt in normal circumstances feel very much for him, its simply because your going through a tough time and arent feeling the love and passion from your husband any more. You ... (read in full...)
When is the best time to start talking about "us"?
Q. hey everyone, i broke up with my 1 year bf about 4 months ago... it was pretty dramatic and lots of shit happened... i dated someone else after that, we met up for sex with my ex a few times, i got into a deep depression and wanted to die, lots of ...
A. 29 June 2009: I think 4 months is enough time to start talking! And its definitely enough time considering you've started hanging out again AND having sex. He's had enough time to mill over whats happened and its about time the pair of you discussed whats going ... (read in full...)
I know things could be a LOT worse, but seriously?
Q. December of last year was not my best month. The first of December, my mother passed away from breast cancer. The seventh of December, I got into a car accident that left me with a broken leg (currently in the cast) and $1600 in debt. The twentieth ...
A. 29 June 2009: Oh my god, that sounds like the worst time ever! First and foremost, you really really need to get all of this out to someone, a proffesional would be the best, they then know what to say and what will help you. But if you feel more comfortable ... (read in full...)
Can women over 50 find love?
Q. Do you think a woman over fifty should just give up on being sexually yearned for by a handsome man her own age? Suicide is out for me because I love life mightily, but after giving out my heart so fully for a series of loving relationships wi...
A. 29 June 2009: Everyone on this planet deserves and needs love! Age is no factor! Let me tell you, my grandad was married for thirty five years to my grandma and she was a raving alcoholic and left him after all that time. Anyway he was 55 at this point and a ... (read in full...)
I feel embarrased that I have been used again!
Q. Im 15 years old.. And i have been sexually active since i was 12 yes i know very young well i hanged around wrong crowd and got myself in lots of trouble... Well all of my sex partners played me as in had sex with me than walked away.. well just ...
A. 29 June 2009: Been there, done that and bought the tshirt. Now i wear it proudly. Youre young and easily impressed, and naive. You need to listen when your friends and family warn you against things, you arent always right, and usually arent actually, as i found ... (read in full...)
She agreed to not hang out with guys but she still does!
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year and a half. She kept a lot of things from me about her past and what she has done with other guys, and there have been a few times where she broke promises to me. For example she went out ...
A. 29 June 2009: I dont understand why you are restricting each other so much. Why arent you allowed to simply hang out with the opposite gender? All of my friends are boys and my boyfriend has girlfriends too, we dont mind. It doesnt mean youre doing anything with ... (read in full...)
What kind of response did he want from me?
Q. So me and this guy were texting the other day, just like hi how are you type of stuff. Then he says "we should hang out sometime..." so I simply responded "yeah we should." I do really want to, but I didn't want to be the one to have to ask him out. ...
A. 29 June 2009: He asked you a straight forward question and you answered in a straight forward way. Now its up to one of you to ask when and where and get on with it! lol its simple.... (read in full...)
He says he's too big
Q. me and my boyfriend tried having sex for the first time except it didnt work. hes trying to tell me his dick is to big for my hole. i dont believe him. should i? im also afraid after haveing sex for the first time our relationship wil...
A. 25 June 2009: Well its easy for people to judge him and say hes lying about it to boost his ego, and that may well be, he might not have been able to get up or something and fobbed you off with that. But if he is quite big, particularly in width, then i can ... (read in full...)
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