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He doesn't mind pleasuring me on my period!!!

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Question - (25 June 2009) 12 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

When I'm on my period, I feel digusting and fat and yucky even if I'm not and some of the time I totally do not feel like having sex. But my boyfriend insists he pleasures me orally and I'm suprised he doesn't find it disgusting that I'm on my period at that time.

I know he's just doing it for me but how do I know if he hates it? I mean what guy would do that for a girl who's on their period?

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A male reader, galant Mauritius +, writes (2 July 2009):

galant agony auntI can't believe what I am reading, there are some men who are really disgusting to practice oral sex while their girlfriend is having her menses. I don't believe that a girl has more pleasure during her menses because her hormones levels are low during her period days. Really, nothing shock me anymore, by the way why don't you ask your girlfriend to pee while you are giving her oral sex? Maybe this will give her a rare kind of excitement. Truly disgusting

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A female reader, Olivia(Y). United Kingdom +, writes (28 June 2009):

Olivia(Y). agony auntSome boys like giving oral and having sex with a girl on her period. My boyfriend loves it...personaly i have no idea why.

He says its the feeling of knowing he shouldn't be doing it and he says it feels amazing :S

But thats boys for you..

He wouldn't do it if he didn't like it. If your unconfotable with it tell him not to do it but if you enjoy it then go for it!

Livia

xoxox

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanx for the advice everyone!

And *Uncle Phil* he is most certainly NOT vampire, he does go out in the sun, and has perfce human teeth, and doesn't go out at night without me so he is not a vampire. lol. Your comment made me laugh.

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A male reader, Skellington United States +, writes (26 June 2009):

Skellington agony auntHell, if I was a chick, I wouldn't complain. I've heard from my girl that things are faaaar more sensitive down there while she's on her period. I do it for her, I rather enjoy it. But, I also happen to be a goth/kink...so, I guess it's all down to preferences. ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009):

He wouldn't do it if he didn't like it, but if he likes the taste of menstruation if I were you I'd check if sunlight bothers him, that he hasn't got two extra-long canine teeth or hangs around graveyards in a black cape at night. That is absolutely GROSS!

That said, I've been known to have sex with a woman whilst on her period, but putting my mouth down there at that time of the month is not something I would do from choice.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009):

like the others said he wouldnt do it if it bothered him just enjoy it! x

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A female reader, betty_black United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2009):

betty_black agony auntYeah thats not very nice. But if youre comfortable with it and your boyfriend likes it then so be it. Each to their own.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009):

Urghh!

I think you should talk to him about it, ask him if it's alright instead of letting him do it if it's nasty and he hates it!

I have never pleasured a woman oraly whilst she was on her period and I don't intend on doing it either!

Not all men are the same, your boyfriend just wants to see you happy when you feel "disgusting" "fat" or "yucky". I think he wants to make you feel good about yourself.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009):

I did that for both my wife and an earlier girlfriend many years ago. My wife hasn't had a period in over 20 years, so no more of that. They both always used a tampon, so it was no different for me than any other time, except no intercourse, just oral both ways. I think that their orgasms might have even been a little better at that time of the month and that is what I liked. It really isn't gross at all.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2009):

I'm a man, and menstrual blood never phased me. It's not like it's poisonous or anything. However, most of the girls I've known aren't interested in sex during their period, although one did have an increased sex drive, but even she thought the idea of me going down on her during her period was yucky.

And believe me, your boyfriend doesn't hate it. In some ways, we men are very simple to understand: if he hated it, he wouldn't do it.

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A female reader, Honeygirl South Africa +, writes (25 June 2009):

Honeygirl agony auntSweetie, I am sure he wouldnt do oral on you if he didnt like it. So lay back and relax and enjoy!!

Honeygirl

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A male reader, koenig United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2009):

It's really not as bad as you think. It's pretty much the same as normally really... Sex is a bit messy, but it's not gross - it all washes off.

As satindesire says, if your boyfriend is doing it, then he doesn't hate it.

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