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writes:I want all the females to reply to this one please. What can a guy do that sweeps you off your feet or what makes you really happy and wins your heart? What do girls look for and want in a guy?Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2009): honesty, respect, smart, confidence, a bit arrogant is ok for me since when it comes to love, every bad things can be good i think... and one that can take his girl as the most precious thing, most beautiful no matter how ugly she is and one who can alwyas feel her sadness and happiness... know what's best for the girl
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reader, BeYourselfx3 +, writes (21 April 2009):
Sweet, Cute, Trustworthy, down to earth but still creative, understanding, Funny, committment, can make me laugh, doesn't get offended easily, and is flexible. [mentally not physically
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): Mkay I'm only like 13 but my bf who's 15 is absolutely amazing. Hes hot, sweet, protective, and aaah :). I also like the fact that he is very very mmm... Well he says stuff like we are not doing anything till your ready, I would wait till we are 40 for our first snog (lol). Like really seems he cares and wants what's best for me! And he accepts me for me omg I love him :O
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (19 April 2009):
 confidence, loyalty...the big c word COMMITTEMENT, a guy thats not going to cheat, not go back to his ex or talk about her to much, a guy that will say you look beautiful even if mascara is running and ur wearing something really old and you think awful. a guy that will be there through everythign and won't judge you for the decisions that you make. one that you can spend everyday with if you want but that will leave u alone when u need ur own time. one that you can laugh until u cry and ur ribs hurt with....
why do you ask?
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reader, errr  +, writes (19 April 2009):
CONFIDENCE (but not conceited)
funny without trying
originality
coming off tough but really being a big softie
honest
basically thats it i guess
and at least ok looks
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): oh, she made a good point... Heigene! good lord, just brush your teeth and shower you know? My man qtips his ears more than anyone i've ever seen.. it's adorable. And a guy who won't let a guy same something perverted about you or touch you and then just get away with it. He has to fight for you and for your honor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): I think girls want a guy that is sincere and isn't always looking at other girls and talking about other girls. A girl wants to know that she is special. We already compete in the world anyways so why make everything a competition. We want you to hold the door open for us and most of all just care about us.
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reader, xXteach_luvaXx  +, writes (19 April 2009):
 Even though I am 13, i know what girls tend to look for in a guy. Girls look for how the man treats them, what he wants to do with them, how fast he paces the relationship, if he's actually interested in what the girl has to say, stuff like that. And it wouldn't hurt if you worked out, activeness is a strong factor too. The big thing is interests. Say you like sports, now i know about ten of my girl-friends that love football and basketball, so if you like sports there's bound to be a girl out there that likes whatever you like. Apperance, just make sure your showered, have on clean clothes, and smell nice (you don't necessarily have to put cologne on). Hope this helps!!!
~Olive
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): what i want in a guy is honesty, love, compassion, trustworthy, a good lisener, not selfish, and caring. so i really don't know if that person exist. notice i didn't say looks. looks really don't matter its whats on the inside that counts. I know you are all of these things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): You will probably get different answers from people, but personally, I love it when he can make me laugh. Someone who is good at conversation so that you're not sitting awkwardly. I Love a guy who is straight forward.. if he has something to say, he says it. A guy who can talk to adults without looking like a shy little nervouse wreck.. a guy who has an answer when you ask a question (not just "i dunno" or "uhh..."), a guy who is confident but who cares about how others are feeling. A guy who doesn't always have to find a way to bring the conversation to talk about himself, a guy who shows interest in the girl he's with and isn't checking out other girls as they walk by. A guy who doesn't drool over a lowcut top ( i don't wear them by the way) but makes eye contact when you're talking to him and vice versa..
A guy who knows how to have fun and isn't scared to try things.
A guy who doesn't wallow in self pity if he's had some bad things in his life.
A guy who is the same with everyone. He acts with a girl the way he acts with his friends because he has nothing to hide.
Honesty, loyalty and when he gets to the point of sexuality, who isn't afraid to make a move and is once again, straight forward, while at the same time, making sure the girl is okay with what he's doing.
Wow.. i must sound really picky but i jsut described maybe a 10nth of the things i love about my husband.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): I could write down the normal Cosmo listings,
loyalty, honesty, trustworthy, nice ......good looking
but it always sounds like your either describing a new appliance or a imaginary friend named fred. The truth is if its someone who is real, your personalities click. We don't look for this and that although we do tend to prefer men who bathe.( I hope and pray that goes without saying)
I look for communication since women and men speak the same language but hear differently... example----
woman says--why didn't you ever hook up with her?
man says--I would never hook up with her cause she slept with so and so...and thats gross
woman hears-- I havent slept with her yet cause she is still dating him...
True story swear to god. I know it was me. Now a mature man will pick up on my hearing impared issue and try to help me hear the correct words..lol
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