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*harlie l
writes:hi there I'm 25 my bf is 29 and wants me to dominate him in the bedroom please help me. he doesn't want to be spanked but I'm unsure what to do please ideas? I want to shock him. Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2009): Forget everything you've heard and read about BDSM! True domination comes from the mind, and is enforced suggestively and teasingly.
Ask him nicely to do something. If he objects, turn assertive suddenly - don't be too tempted to play with words like "bitch" and "slave" - just an angry look and the words "do it" are enough.
If he misbehaves, torture him as follows one day: kiss him and touch him up before he leaves for work, send erotic texts to him throughout the day, keep him aroused, tease and tantalise him when he gets home, and then simply go out to a friend's house or something and leave him frustrated. You could even tie him up and leave him for a few hours. This will certainly make him think twice about disobeying you again, and is much more effective than a whip!
Then dominate him in subtle ways. Be a little controlling on what he wears some days. Forbid him from wearing underwear, then go out for dinner with him and fondle him a little under the table - see how he squirms then! Does he have any weird sexual fetishes or fantasies? Suggest that some of your friends (or even his) might find them amusing and watch him squirm thinking you're going to tell them.
Handcuffs (with no safety) are excellent for physical domination, as they are inescapable. He'll be totally helpless and reliant on you to free him. Tease him with erotic contact and several hours of torturous denial before you finally please him. While he's cuffed, make suggestive remarks about doing things he might be nervous about, wild things - even if you wouldn't do them, the suggestion will be enough to make him wonder and keep him in line because he'll know he'll be powerless to stop you.
Have fun!
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reader, guillaume +, writes (22 April 2009):
 Hi,
As well as all the other posts, you could make him lick your shoes. Just sit down in a comfortable chair and demand that he kneels at your feet and licks both shoes that you are wearing. Just a thought!!! G.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (22 April 2009):
 Send him naughty texts throughout the day. Make sure he gets in on time which he should and finds you in lingerie/dressing gown whatever takes your fancy, nice dinner tease a lot and then go upstairs and take control, blinfold im maybe tie him up give him lots of ideas and ask him which one takes his fancy and do the complete opposite basically get him begging for what he "wants"
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reader, satindesire  +, writes (22 April 2009):
 Make him dress up in his nicest clothes and clean the house, give you a foot rub, draw you a bath, and wash your hair. Then have him paint your toenails and give you oral sex. You could have him cook dinner for you, you could make him stand in the corner and masturbate for you while you call him names.
The internet is your friend. Google is a great search engine to look for ideas like this.
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reader, Emilysanswers + ♥, writes (22 April 2009):
Tie him up, blind fold him and tell him he's been a bad boy.
Then tell him to do anything you fancy or do anything you want to him.
Good Luck!! xx
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