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writes:This question is mainly for women. Please be as honest as you can. Does a man's penis size really matter to you? What is it that turns on a woman the most about a man and is their penis size on of those things? So basically, is bigger really better?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): Umm, well, a guy's size does matter to me. I don't want an enormous one, as they hurt, but it has to be a decent size. I've never gotten over the fact I slept with someone years ago who had the World's smallest penis (might be a slight exaggeration), but a small dick is a huge turn OFF for me. It was like rattling a stick up an alleyway and I do not have a loose vagina. However, the guy has to have the whole package. Yes, intelligence rates highly with me, very highly!! In fact, that is what would first draw me to a man. I could describe my partner as having the brains of Einstein and the face and body of a Greek god. I've landed the jackpot with my partner in that he is very intelligent, practical, good looking, sexy, great in bed, but most of all, he treats me sooooo well. He holds doors open, if I'm in conversation with someone, say at his family's home, he sometimes leans across and tenderly kisses me on the arm as if he is compelled to do it. I have never felt so loved and adored - and that is a MASSIVE turn on for me.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): i like size but it all matters how he uses it idk...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): When a man treats you outside the bedroom like he adores you and then follows it up in the bedroom, it the biggest turn on for women. If the only time a man touches you is when he wants sex, a woman wont be satisfied. Conversation and wanting to spend time with you makes me happy. Nothing is sexier than when a man shows his love in public!! Its got nothing to with penis size. That is an after thought!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWOW... I was sure I'd receive some reponses about women prefering something on the larger side. Very interesting. All I can say is you women kick ass. Seems like you know how to value a guy over things other than a big penis. Sure makes me feel more confident. I am just shy of 7 inches. I just always felt like 8 or 9 inches or a bit bigger would be so much better for a woman. Anyway, thanks for your response and looking forward to hearing more from other woman. So far it's unanimous.
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (29 June 2009):
 A Man's brain and honesty would mean more to me than his penis size, after all there is only so much you can do with a penis but a smart brain could captivate you for hours on end, and for many years to come.
Gina
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reader, satindesire +, writes (29 June 2009):
 You watch too much porn sweetheart. If you know the existence, location and function of a woman's clitoris then you should know very well than a MASSIVE donkeydong is NOT what brings a woman to orgasm.
The average penis is 4-6 inches long. You know why? Because the average vagina is 4-6 inches long. If we all wanted ridiculously large penises, don't you think we'd be built to handle them better?
Just like there are some men out there that only date women with REALLY BIG breasts, there are some women out there who only date men with REALLY BIG penises. But those kinds of people are (as you should know by now) in the minority.
You need to completely shed ANY doubt that your penis is inadequate, stop basing what you think about sex from porn videos because porn is NOTHING like real sex, or good sex, and understand that the biggest sex organ is the BRAIN...not the genitals.
If you can mentally stimulate a woman, make her interested in you, turn her on, and get her off with exceptional foreplay and oral sex skills, then I can guarantee that she'll be bragging to her friends about the sex god she's dating. Penis size is practically irrelevant.
Now, I'll get off my soap box.
What turns me on most about a man? Specifically about my husband? His IQ. He's ridiculously smart and that's so sexy to me.
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reader, Triskaedeka102  +, writes (29 June 2009):
 What really turns me on is the look in my man's eyes, wanting me. Penis size should be average, it's all about how you work it :] If it's too big, it hurts. Oh, one more thing, touch. Touch is very important. On my skin, on my ears, or feet, soft and loving touches definitely a turn on.
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reader, betty_black +, writes (29 June 2009):
 I prefer average size or maybe just above. Im not into huge cocks, theyre not nice to look at and they hurt like mad! I'd much rather have a guy with a smaller one and nice eyes to be honest! Its all in the eyes for me.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (29 June 2009):
 A guys size does not matter- its how they use it. And a guy urmmm probably his eyes or touch.....
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