My bf wants a threesome, should I do it?
Q. my bf says he wants a threesome !! is this something i should do or not ? ...
A. 5 October 2007: I agree with Uncle Phil. Don't do it! He's playing some kind of game with you because you've had a few more sexual partners in the past, and he already feels threatened and jealous by that. So to get even with you, he wants to invite another girl ... (read in full...)
I know his fear of losing me after I caught him cheating can prevent him from being totally honest, is it important to ask him about things he may not like to acknowledge even to himself, or should I let it go?
Q. Help! Am I making things worse or is this the usual process? After being discovered cheating, my husband and I are working through, s l o w l y, all the repercussions of his betrayal but I am still concerened that this is not the first time, as h...
A. 5 October 2007: Your husband's cheating could be a symptom of him not being able to handle your disease. And not being able to cope with what's happening to you, which is very serious, and somewhat life-threatening. Also, having this disease may be affecting how ... (read in full...)
My bf wants a threesome, should I do it?
Q. my bf says he wants a threesome !! is this something i should do or not ? ...
A. 4 October 2007: No, no, a thousand times no. Not unless he's just a friend with benefits. Then go ahead. Otherwise, he'll enjoy it w-a-a-y more than you will -- of course, I'm just guessing he wants to be with two girls -- I mean rarely does a guy ever want ... (read in full...)
I know his fear of losing me after I caught him cheating can prevent him from being totally honest, is it important to ask him about things he may not like to acknowledge even to himself, or should I let it go?
Q. Help! Am I making things worse or is this the usual process? After being discovered cheating, my husband and I are working through, s l o w l y, all the repercussions of his betrayal but I am still concerened that this is not the first time, as h...
A. 4 October 2007: If you are attending counseling together, he may open up in that environment, but most likely he knows you can't handle hearing anything else and is not comfortable telling more. If there really is more. There may not be. Instead of bugging him ... (read in full...)
He said my weight wouldn't be a problem but I think he's repulsed by me because when he touches me he gets hard rock instantly. Am I being paranoid?
Q. Help, i think my boyfriend is repulsed by me. Iam 20 years old. Im a big and beautiful girl. I been seeing this guy for a few months now and i think he is turned off by me. I liked him for a long time before this but i too afraid to talk to him ...
A. 4 October 2007: You're being paranoid. Lots of guys like larger women. He's probably just really bad at showing you affection. Lots of men are. I would take his rock hardness as a good sign. ... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity recently to the girl I love but I didn't make her orgasm. Am I bad at sex? How do I prevent myself from ejaculating so quickly?
Q. I suck at sex!!! I lost my virginity a week ago to this girl I love!!! It was brilliant! But... I didn't make her orgasm. I couldn't last long enough to anyway. Is this really bad? She's NEVER had an orgasm before in her life, not even made by ...
A. 4 October 2007: Okay I am going to tell you something that will hopefully make you better in bed, and save you years of fumbling around, wondering how the hell women work. Number one, if you want to bring a gal to orgasm, forget about intercourse. She will most ... (read in full...)
I asked him not to talk to the ex or make it clear he's not interested, but he says it's not in his nature to be mean. While she contacts him (as they shared a dog) I feel we can't be a happy couple.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months now and I love him very much. We connect in a way I have never felt before. He and his ex broke up about 4 months before I met him. The problem is that she still calls him and tells him she ca...
A. 3 October 2007: Why don't you buy him a new dog, then the old one they had together will not be as important and perhaps he won't feel it's so important to get daily updates on how the old dog is doing. Everyone knows it's just an excuse for his ex to keep her ... (read in full...)
Did offering my girlfriend the world bore her, and make her want to search for a "Challenge" elsewhere???? Do Women really think this way!?!?!?!?
Q. I lost my girlfriend after 3 happy years together. I'm the type of guy who would have done anything for her. Moved the stars themselves just to be with her... And yet, I've recently heard that maybe this was why she left me! According to a ...
A. 1 October 2007: I think it's like this: No one likes to be treated like crap. On the other hand, some nice guys are too clingy, too sappy, they think life with a woman is all roses and poetry. Yuck! That can be over-done. What I think most women want is a guy ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps harassing me, even though I'm married now. He was also aggresive to my husband. What to do?
Q. My ex keeps harassing me. We broke up 2 years ago, and I am married and have 2 kids now. He treated me like absolute dirt, he hit me, mentally abused me, he wouldn't work, he lied all the time. I gave him 5 years of chances and then I had it ...
A. 27 September 2007: You should put a restraining order on him because ignorning him or expecting him to stop hasn't changed his behavior. He has nothing to lose if he goes beserk and hurts or kills someone you love. You on the other hand, have everything to lose. ... (read in full...)
I'm 40 something, can I successfully date two men?
Q. Is it possible for a forty something year old women to successfully date two different men?...
A. 27 September 2007: Because I think alot of women secretly want a bad-boy, but they settle on a good-guy thinking that he's the best choice for them. Sometimes he is. It all depends on the woman, and what she truly wants out of life. But if you're struggling this ... (read in full...)
I said all sorts of silly lies when we were first dating, should I fess up now?
Q. I love my partner and we are due to get married soon. Problem is that I lied to him during in our first year together. I told him I had gotten an audition for a film part (Naturally I didn’t get it) that I have seen all these people in concer...
A. 27 September 2007: Yeah, forget about them, just don't bring them up anymore. They seem fairly insignificant and you've already recognized that you did it because you felt insecure. As long as you don't continue to lie to him now, just let sleeping dogs lie. ... (read in full...)
My ex wants to be sex buddies
Q. My boyfriend and i broke up because he didnt want a relationship, as we will be movin away to university next year. it was so hard for me, but we have kept very close. Three Months on. He told me he misses havin me around, still loves me, and st...
A. 27 September 2007: Okay, by definition, a "sex buddy" is someone you use for sex, but have no other form of relationship with otherwise. It's just sex. You don't keep tabs on what each other is doing the rest of the time, you don't "date", go to movies, take them ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend of a year cheating?
Q. Is my boyfriend of a year cheating? Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year and I have known him for about a year and a half, when we were first dating he cheated on me. He told me right away and we have gotten over that...
A. 27 September 2007: What an odd series of events we have here. Let's just suppose he was cheating. Why in the world would he have the nerve to invite her to your place when you're there? Regardless of the fact that you were entertaining friends that night you were ... (read in full...)
I started feeling weak, I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint...
Q. Hi There! I don't know quite how to explain this! But within the last hour, for at least 10 minutes I started feeling weak; I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint! I'm stil...
A. 27 September 2007: I think you are definately somewhat hypoglycemia (low blood sugar) and because you are trying to diet, your body is fighting you. The worse thing you can do is cut your caloric intake in order to lose weight. People with this disorder simply ... (read in full...)
Cellulite: I have it, I hate it. Will it put him off?? And how can I get rid of it?
Q. Cellulite... I have it, I hate it. I know that most women have it a little bit but I still can't get over how disgusting my legs look in certain lights! It's not terrible but it's there!! Anyway, I always have sex with the lights off for this ...
A. 27 September 2007: Keep your weight down. All cellulite is, is a layer of fat that sits on top of your toned muscles and that's why you have those unsightly dimples we all hate. Loosing the extra pounds will allow your muscles to be front and center and also when ... (read in full...)
I'm 40 something, can I successfully date two men?
Q. Is it possible for a forty something year old women to successfully date two different men?...
A. 27 September 2007: Sit down and make a pro-con list on each one. Maybe the answer will hit you. My guess is, one feels safe and "comfortable" and you know he'll always treat you right....but the other one feels a little more exciting, stimulating but perhaps you're ... (read in full...)
I started feeling weak, I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint...
Q. Hi There! I don't know quite how to explain this! But within the last hour, for at least 10 minutes I started feeling weak; I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint! I'm stil...
A. 26 September 2007: No, do not eat any more sugar it's the worst thing for you. For one thing, it packs on the pounds and that's obviously what you're trying to avoid doing. Also, just because you are having symptoms of "low blood sugar" eating more sugar is not ... (read in full...)
How do I convince a man to have a baby with me?
Q. how do i convice a man to have a baby with me ?? i really want another baby only i want this one to be his .. ...
A. 26 September 2007: Please don't. If you have to 'convince' anyone to do anything with you, then they'll only end up feeling resentment later and possibly bail out after the kid is born. Why not donate your time to a Big Brothers/Big Sisters program until the time is ... (read in full...)
My head says leave, my heart says stay, what do I do?
Q. Where do I go from here after hes messed around again? I've been with my daughters father for nearly four years, in that time we have split up a few times because of his imaturity and due to me finding texts to others girls in his phone. while...
A. 26 September 2007: You need to dump this guy and find someone else to share your life with, someone who will love your kids and treat you with respect. This man has a problem with committment and fidelity! He may even be a sex addict, and that's why he's constantly ... (read in full...)
I started feeling weak, I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint...
Q. Hi There! I don't know quite how to explain this! But within the last hour, for at least 10 minutes I started feeling weak; I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint! I'm stil...
A. 26 September 2007: It could be a number of things, but it sounds like you may have low blood sugar. Think about your eating habits and do some research, or go visit your doctor and he can run a simple fasting blood test on you to determine if you could be ... (read in full...)
Can aids be passed on through my mouth?
Q. Stupid question, Can you get aids from kissing and getting blow jobs, and from someone swallowing your cum?...
A. 26 September 2007: Yes. Any exchange of bodily fluids, including saliva can transmit the disease.... (read in full...)
I'm 40 something, can I successfully date two men?
Q. Is it possible for a forty something year old women to successfully date two different men?...
A. 26 September 2007: Sure as long as neither of them think you're exclusive, you can date as many as you want. Men have been doing it since the dawn of time. But if you've been in a serious relationship with either of them, then dating someone else behind his back ... (read in full...)
How do I get her out of this relationship?
Q. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 and a half months now and we are really really happy together. The problem is that his ex won't leave him alone. They had a very short relationship last December where she only met him three times, ignored ...
A. 26 September 2007: Why don't you sit your b/f down and ask him how he plans to solve this problem? He's the only one that can do it, not you. You will only get into a cat fight with this girl which will put you on her level of scum. Ask him if he enjoys being ... (read in full...)
He said the girl beside him in the picture was his cousin, but his step sister told me it's his ex! What's going on?
Q. i have a boyfriend and we've been almost a year. I saw his pic. and a girl that makes me confused if who is the girl beside him. He tell me it's his cousin but when i talk with his step sister. She tell me it was his xgf. i confront my boyfriend if ...
A. 26 September 2007: I once knew a gal who dated her cousin. Could it be that both of them are telling you the truth? That his cousin, is his ex-girlfriend and he's ashamed for you to know the truth? Continuing to badger him about the same thing is getting you ... (read in full...)
The Turkish guy says he'd leave all behind to be with me and marry, but my family think he'd doing it for a ticket in UK. What to do?
Q. Somebody help me, i recently went to marmaris in july 2007 i met this turkish guy who worked at the hotel where i was staying, i noticed he was staring at me all the time because i am blonde and i know the turks love blondes but then we got chatting ...
A. 26 September 2007: Don't let him talk you into moving things too fast. You barely know this guy. How could he possibly "love" you already? I'd be very suspicious. You can remain in contact with him if you want but keep this relationship at arms distance for several ... (read in full...)
My ex has a new girlfriend - how he's ignoring me! I'm deeply hurt - what should I do?
Q. My ex is ignoring me! We broke up several years ago but have always remained friends, but for the past year or so, I know he's been seeing another woman. I've never met her but I hear she's beautiful and he's very much in love. The problem ...
A. 26 September 2007: If he wanted to get back with you, then he would've already approached the subject with you and he has not. You may treasure this friendship, but he has met someone else and is moving on and you clearly have not. At some point, if this new woman ... (read in full...)
I want to know how to make my boyfriend fall back in love with me with in a day!
Q. i want to know how to make my boyfriend fall back in love with me with in a day because he started being friends with this other girl and they went out about three to four times and he said its my fault because we are always fighting so please let ...
A. 26 September 2007: Maybe you should look at the reasons you were always fighting and admit that you were wrong for each other.... (read in full...)
My ex and I are friends - and it was really weird hearing him talk about his new girl!
Q. Hi There! I have a dilema, my ex and I broke up 15months ago as he had a gambling habit and we were losing intimacy. We never sought counselling. We have however remained good friends and speak at least every few weeks, just general chit cha...
A. 26 September 2007: If he wanted to get back with you, then he would've already approached the subject with you and he has not. You may treasure this friendship, but he has met someone else and is moving on and you clearly have not. At some point, if this new woman ... (read in full...)
I feel we're drifting apart and don't know how to fix things...
Q. I feel we are drifting apart... My boyfriend and I have been friends for 10 years and boyfriend/girlfriend for 7 months. We moved in together 2 months ago. Things were absolutely fine until an unfortunate series of events that began 4 weeks ag...
A. 26 September 2007: Well maybe when he's in a good mood, sit him down and tell him you want to talk about ways the two of you can "fight fair". Number one, no name calling. Number two, no saying "I hate you"....you can say, "I hate it when you..."
No spending the ... (read in full...)
I feel we're drifting apart and don't know how to fix things...
Q. I feel we are drifting apart... My boyfriend and I have been friends for 10 years and boyfriend/girlfriend for 7 months. We moved in together 2 months ago. Things were absolutely fine until an unfortunate series of events that began 4 weeks ag...
A. 25 September 2007: Your b/f is immature and hot-headed. I don't think he respects you or treats you particularly well, but it could be his age. I'm concerned that he went to that party without you and had a photo of his ex parading around on the internet. Total lack ... (read in full...)
He feels nothing during sex with me and sees it as a chore... He says I'm too loose!
Q. Hi everyone, I only had 2 sexual partners so far, one is my current boyfriend. My first boyfriend had a small penis however i had many orgasims and had sex many times a week. But my new or 2nd boyfriend who has a large penis says i am loose an...
A. 25 September 2007: If he's not attracted to you, then it's only a matter of time before this thing falls apart, I don't care how much you like him. If he's not attracted to your body, he may be losing his erection once he's inside of you, and therefore cannot feel ... (read in full...)
Went to Oktoberfest and slept with a co-worker (even though I have a girlfriend)... I'm disgusted with myself!
Q. Dear All, I am in a world of pain. Never have I felt like this before. I went to Oktoberfest on the weekend and I slept with a girlf from work even though I have a girlfriend of 4 years. I am disgusted with my actions. This is the first time I...
A. 25 September 2007: Men always think they can cheat and get away with it. Why is that? It's like your genetically defective and can never say 'no' when other offers come up. My guess is, your g/f is going to find out anyhow because you've already blabbed to too many ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me (other than being a pig for treating my wife this way)?
Q. Feels like I've fallen in Love for the first time in my life...but i've been married for over twenty years... It all started about five years ago (im 41 years old now)...my wife and I had been becoming too distant...it was more than the two of us ...
A. 25 September 2007: I'd say you're probably scaring her by moving too fast. Because you've been starved for an emotional connection with someone, you rushed too quickly on this woman when you found her. Back up and give her some space. Telling anyone you're in love ... (read in full...)
She doesn't care about me as much anymore, but wants to fix things. What can be done?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for three years, and we have been very in love with each other all this time, we used to do everything together, she even moved in with me. Two months ago she went to work in another country for 6 weeks and ...
A. 25 September 2007: Postpone the trip. Move into separate houses/apartments and see if she can get her head on straight. My guess is, she didn't love you as much as she thought she did and being away from you made her realize it. Better to discover this now, than ... (read in full...)
His communication is getting less, it is killing me, what do I do?
Q. help me please!!!!!! i am with my boyfreind and everything was going fine (he works away) and all of a sudden he just stoped texting me and ringing me so ive tried texting him and no reply so i rang him the other day and he said he was busy and he w...
A. 25 September 2007: This sudden behavior change doesn't sound good. You didn't say how long you've been together or when you see each other since he works out of town. You didn't mention if the two of you have argued lately or had other issues that could be ... (read in full...)
I got drunk and told him I'd had multiple partners and affairs... but it wasn't even true!
Q. If I can get a guys' view on this, I'd appreciate it. I have been with a man for about two years now, in secret (never married, but were both involved in long-term relationships). We have a very close relationship, but not without its hardship...
A. 25 September 2007: Call a truce. Time to back up and start over - before you blathered about a bunch of non-truths (God only knows why, maybe you thought he'd be impressed) and before he hurled vicious insults and obscenities at you over the phone. You said things ... (read in full...)
Am I not falling pregnant because I've been on the pill for a long time?
Q. Hello I am a 28 year old lady who has been in a relationship for 8 years with my fiance.For the last 6 years I've been using bith control pills known as Triphasil.Last year we decided to make a baby so I stopped using the pill.Since then we've be...
A. 25 September 2007: You Dr. needs to run more tests. He's missing something. Perhaps some fertility tests on both you and your fiance will determine why you cannot get pregnant. Also read up on Endometriosis, which can prevent you from getting pregnant and causes ... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid, worrying about the old row we had?
Q. Am I being paranoid? I asked my boyfriend if an arguement we had a while ago is affecting us, he said no, it is dealt with etc...things are really good between us but that makes me even more suspicious I mean what if he is acting nice so he can fool ...
A. 25 September 2007: It's been my experience that most men are not that vindictive and subverse. I think if he was still pissed off, you'd know it. Men don't usually play those games. I think whatever you said during the argument is eating at you because you know you ... (read in full...)
He's been sending sexy texts to other girls... and somehow I've been made to feel bad about it!
Q. Im 7 months pregnant and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I have two children from prev relationship. I have found a number of text messages and emails from my boyfriend to girls asking if they could meet up etc and he sent a message to a ...
A. 25 September 2007: Your man is acting like someone who is feeling trapped and it probably happened when you got pregnant. He may have been with you, but I don't think he was ready for a "serious" committment and has proved it by sneaking around your back contacting ... (read in full...)
How can I be happy when I'm torturing myself and the one I love?
Q. Her threesome in the past problem nr.#982512. How to cope with such a great loss?? After all that time I've spent on helping myself getting over something I never really intended to hear it's all over now. You see we were a dreamy couple. I...
A. 25 September 2007: Well the way I see it, you have two choices. 1. Walk away and just know that you may never find anyone so "perfect" again in all the other areas of your definition. 2. Remain in the relationship, knowing you are completely disgusted with this ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my fiance and left him, now I want him back! What should I do?
Q. My fiance and I just broke up last week. We have been together for five years. I cheated on him and left him because I was unhappy. Now I think I want him back. What should I do? How do you break up with someone you've been with for that long ...
A. 25 September 2007: I'm guessing your ex is not so thrilled about the idea of getting back together?....If that's the case, then look objectively at the reason you cheated on him in the first place. You were unhappy. You said so yourself. So you are probably just ... (read in full...)
We've had rows about her ex's - part of it due to my insecurities, but am I wrong to feel this way?
Q. I need help dealing with something my girlfriend did in her past. I've been seeing this girl for 6 months and when things are good - they're great. My only hang up is that she confessed to cheating on her last boyfriend with a previous Ex-boy...
A. 25 September 2007: This is a difficult question for me. I'd say she did what she did because she had not yet let go of that "ex" and for some reason he still had a hold on her heart, regardless of his worth. Given that she still loved him, this may help you put ... (read in full...)
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