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writes:Help, i think my boyfriend is repulsed by me. Iam 20 years old. Im a big and beautiful girl. I been seeing this guy for a few months now and i think he is turned off by me. I liked him for a long time before this but i too afraid to talk to him because i didnt think he would like me. My friend was tired of hearing me talk about him so she talked to him and he said he would like to go out with me. i confronted him about it and told him that i liked him. I also asked him if my weight would be a problem for him. He said no, it will never be. So then we started going out, now we been dating a few months and were starting to get intimate, but i think i disgust him. Im not totally sure but that is the vibe I am getting. It is in his mannerisms and facial expressions. He never compliments me or tells me im sexy. One thing makes me think I might be wrong, that is whenever he puts his hands on my body, he gets rock hard instantly. Why would that happen if i did not turn him on? Do you think my boyfriend is replused by me or am i being paranoid? What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): It sounds like you have a bigger issue with your weight than he does honey! Im pretty sure he wouldnt be rock hard if he felt repulsed by you.
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (5 October 2007):
 Your really paranoid babe seems to me like you really turn him on! But i think you have a problem with yourslef to make you feel so paranoid your a real woamn with curves love yourself you are beautiful!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (5 October 2007):
 Paranoid definitely.Why on earth would getting rock hard when he touches you signal he's not interested?By that reasoning if he cant get a hard on then he is attracted to you.I think you need to boost your self esteem. Your guy obviously likes big girls - THATS WHY HE'S GETTING HARD WHEN HE TOUCHES YOU.
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reader, pagan +, writes (4 October 2007):
 im big too hun.
its hard but if you thought that he is repulssed by you then you wouldnt have been together for months.
theres nothing repulsive about the human body, its the greatest instrument you will ever own, show it off, you grew it, be proud!
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reader, Basschick +, writes (4 October 2007):
 You're being paranoid. Lots of guys like larger women. He's probably just really bad at showing you affection. Lots of men are. I would take his rock hardness as a good sign.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): Definitely paranoid!
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