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writes: Can you win him over by alway being there for him unconditionally?A girl friend married her ex-boyfriend recently because he was always there for her no matter what happens in her life, if she wants to be single, he leaves her alone, if she would like to go out with someone else, he gives her enough time and support to have fun, always supports her by all means including finance support if she needs. At the beginning, she was not into him that much or she does not love him at all, but after 4 years, because he has been super persistent and dedicated to show his unconditional affection, he won her eventually.Does this rule also apply to a girl who wants to win her dream guy? Just curious!
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (26 July 2006):
 Women fall in love with their minds, and as bad as it sounds Men use their penises to fall in love.
A man that wasn't attractive to a woman can become attractive to her over time if he seduces her mind.
On the other hand if a woman wasn't attractive to a guy no matter how hard she tries it won't change the attitude of his penis.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2006): i agree with the others. odds are it's not likely. and then you just become their doormat because they know they can use you or have you at their beck and call. but then again, you never know. maybe being there unconditionally is the key to this particular guys heart. but odds are, if he doesn't see you now, he won't see you later.
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (26 July 2006):
 No unfortunetly being there for someone unconditionally isn't like the fairy tales, they don't always realise that you could be the person they live for. Mostly what'll happen is your be turnned into a doormat for this person and they may come to dependent on you but you'll just end up being used and abuse. So i don't think its a good route to take in oreder to get your man
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2006): I will have to say no. Not with everyone. Let's just say, there was a girl who was there for me for a long time - much longer than 4 years, but I told her from the beginning that I am just not interested.
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