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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Am I Co-Dependent?
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Is my Long Distance Relationship worth it?
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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How to discourage use of addictive pills my boyfriend is taking to give himself a high?
Q. My boyfriend (just started dating but have known him for many many years) recently revealed that he takes pills for the high occasionally. I don't know what occasionally means and I didn't ask specifics since I was so shocked and disappointed. I to...
A. 14 May 2012: An addict is an addict. Either they are in recovery or they are not.
You can't help him or discourage him from using. You can tell him how you feel about it and make the choice to not be with him when he's actively using.
Until he can ... (read in full...)
How can I know is my husband cheating on me?
Q. How can I know is my husband cheating on me? Some advices, hints? I don't have money for a private investigator, though that would be the only thing that could pacify me. I feel something is going on, but he is too clever to leave the 'proofs'. What ...
A. 14 May 2012: what makes you think something is going on?
he must be doing things that make you suspect he's cheating...
have you just come out and asked him? told him you don't care about the answer you just want the truth?... (read in full...)
I'm over men. How can I stop wanting a man in my life ever again?
Q. Hello I wrote a few days back about wanting to give up on having a man in my life and just want to say that no one seemed to understand what I was asking for help on. I don't want to date any man anymore for the rest of my life. I want to know...
A. 14 May 2012: If you want to delete your drive for sex I would recommend Paxil (an anti-depressant) as that has a serious side effect of destroying libido.
but the issue is that you are asking to go against nature...
the mod is correct you are asking to ge... (read in full...)
Did I make the right decision by asking the question I was afraid to have an answer to?
Q. I just cornered my boyfriend of a year and a half and asked of he saw a future with me. He said he can't make me any promises and that his future is shady - but that he loves me My gut has been fearing this for awhile. He told me to get Some sle...
A. 13 May 2012: My first husband's proposal was "if i don't commit to you I will lose you".... I stupidly married him.
I loved him and wanted him to want me... I just went on my way and lived my life I did not give him "the talk" or ask about our future..... (read in full...)
My boyfriend still sends his ex-wife a Mother's Day card and gift card!
Q. Good day all I need objective opinions please! BF still sends his ex wife a mothers day card and gift card despite divorcing him for a new man, who she resides with. She dumps their daughter on day care and her parents do its not like she is mom of ...
A. 11 May 2012: I also think it shows maturity and class. It doesn't mean he has feelings for her... it's about doing the right thing which is helping your child recognize the mom on Mother's Day.
she is the mother Of his child...
I once sent my dad a c... (read in full...)
'Til Dubai do we part...
Q. I gave birth to my Son a month ago, after a very difficult pregnancy. It was an emergency c-section and our son has been all over the Province in hospitals ever since. Just after he was born, my husband declared that he had been offered a ...
A. 10 May 2012: I’m confused!
First You say: “I have no interest in taking my newborn to Dubai away from my family,”
Then you say “have no family of my own here without him”
Is there a reason you can’t go with him?
... (read in full...)
Met an amazing girl but she thinks I'm younger!
Q. Ok, i have been dating a lovely girl for a few weeks. We met through a friend and hit it off right away. She's 21 and i am 29. We have been on loads of dates and the other night, we were talking about birthday plans and she said to me " oh, your 24, ...
A. 10 May 2012: I can see her dumping you for the lie that was compounded by your trying to be helpful roommate who totally blew it.
You need to take her out and spoil her and tell her you have told a fib... and then clear it up. DO IT ASAP.
It will sadly... (read in full...)
I'm seeing my boyfriend tomorrow for a make or break talk, what can I do or say to him to try and make this work?
Q. Ive been seeing an amazing guy for 10 months, hes everything ive ever wanted and more but theres one problem; distance. He lives 150 miles away and couldnt move because of his work and the fact he is carer for his disabled brother. I currently see ...
A. 10 May 2012: If you are willing to move and have offered to move and he has said no... that's his way of saying he's not as sure about this as you are.
what about splitting the difference and each moving 75 miles in towards the middle.
it takes me 2 hours... (read in full...)
I have bad teeth and I'm not wealthy... is there a way to improve my smile?
Q. I'm in my early twenties and I've spent my entire life with bad teeth. I have a small mouth and had 8 adult teeth (along with my wisdom teeth) pulled to give me some room, but my bottom teeth are still crowded to the point of one tooth jutting in ...
A. 10 May 2012: they won't pull teeth and give you dentures (which good ones will run around 3-5 grand...
and implants... my dad had some.. it took 2 days and $17,000
Flexible medical spending accounts can be used for dental if you have that option at work.... (read in full...)
Scared of settling for the wrong guy....
Q. Hey all, I've always had flings/relationships with people who I don't think are good enough for me. I feel like I'm the one who settles all the time. Except for this one guy, with whom my chemistry was just incredible...we were SO attracte...
A. 10 May 2012: No one is perfect. NO ONE… and when you put someone on a pedestal and they can’t topple off because you have no contact with them any longer, then you are stuck with that image of them. I agree you need to get past Mr. Perfect and Wonderful ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with queefing during sex?
Q. my vagina keeps a farting sound during sex,but its only when i'm giving a backshot position.another thing when i'm giving my boyfriend top stick my vagina keeps an embarassing noise.please offer me a word of advice please....
A. 10 May 2012: Best advice: learn to laugh about it.
Queefing is just the sound of air that has been pushed in being released... yeah it's embarrassing but I just smile at my guy and say "you must be doing it right to get all that air in there baby"
and we ... (read in full...)
Young and broke, but wanting to get married!
Q. My fiance and I are very happily in love. We are in our early 20s. We have been together for a couple years and have been living together for 6 months. We decided that we want to take our commitment to the next level and get married next summer. ...
A. 10 May 2012: I married while in college. I was 21. I was so in love. That was my first husband. What you want at 21 is NOT what you want at 29 or 30… NO ONE is wrong… it’s just that they want you to wait a bit longer and I can understand that. I also ... (read in full...)
I've given him three chances, now he's saying he'll stop! What should I do?
Q. i was dating a guy from the last 4 years. Around 6 months back i got to know that he was cheating on me and when i confronted him he said sorry and asked me to give one chance and i gave him another chance. And,after 2 months again i got to know ...
A. 10 May 2012: three strikes and your out... DUMP HIM.
He knows you will keep forgiving him.. so he will keep cheating and begging for one more last chance.
... (read in full...)
Anyone out there in a FWB relationship that works?
Q. Dear aunts, I have started a fbw relationship with my ex. We meet up every three weeks or so and spend two days together. We have gone on two hotel mini breaks and are planning another. Things have been really good. The pressure of being in a rel...
A. 10 May 2012: I had an ex boyfriend that when we stopped dating we kept seeing each other every week for a tryst. It was fun.. I spent the night and went to work from his place the next morning... this went on for a few months till I started dating someone ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to send flirty messages when one is married and the other involved?
Q. Question I trust my guy of over 16 months but angers me that he send flirty suggestive taggs to one particular woman and she sends them back, she is married. I feel this is sends out the wrong message and when I sat down and talked with him about ...
A. 10 May 2012: yeah well my ex husband did that... note he's my ex....
how would your bf feel if you did the same with another man?
I personally would not be happy if my committed partner was flirting with others via text...
and when he tells you it'... (read in full...)
Fiance blames me and calls me dumb
Q. Dear Cupid, My partner and I have been together for 6 years and recently, we are engaged and going to get married soon. However, things been up and down and I've been feeling really confused and depressed and started to doubt. I'm afraid, worried ...
A. 10 May 2012: If you are confused and depressed I think you should postpone the wedding at the bare minimum. Personally I think you are being abused by this man and you should end the relationship totally.
Let’s say your little sister or your best girl fri... (read in full...)
How do I know when a boy likes me?
Q. How to get a boy to love me and how to know when a boy loves me ...
A. 10 May 2012: You can't get a boy to love you...
human chemistry is something you can't manipulate.
The truth is you will KNOW when a boy loves you..
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-you-can-tell-someone-loves-you.html
When you see a boy yo... (read in full...)
My moms health is getting worse and she refuses to see a doctor?
Q. Hi, I could really use some advice. My mom is not well. She has some kind of mood disorder which causes her to cry, lash out in extreme anger, and then be perfectly fine. Sometimes all of these moods happen in the same day. I have asked a doctor, ...
A. 10 May 2012: And FWIW I agree it sounds like Peri-menopause.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont let me speak to any guys, not even to help out my friends!
Q. Hiii dear cupid..my question is why boyfriends are so possessive..im in a relationship..my bf is kind such a lovely guy..we met online on facebook..he doesnt allow me to talk with any boy..i accept this but there was a friend of mine who want my ...
A. 10 May 2012: "he doesn't allow me"
no you let him make the rules.
HE does NOT own you... he does not have the right to "allow" you to have friends or not.
either you tell him to suck it up and deal or you accept that he is going to keep you in a box and... (read in full...)
My moms health is getting worse and she refuses to see a doctor?
Q. Hi, I could really use some advice. My mom is not well. She has some kind of mood disorder which causes her to cry, lash out in extreme anger, and then be perfectly fine. Sometimes all of these moods happen in the same day. I have asked a doctor, ...
A. 10 May 2012: has your mom had a medical work up? would she be ok with that... many folks don't want to do psych work ups but will have a medical work up as there is less shame in that.
... (read in full...)
She won't go out with me because her friend likes me. I'm fed up of considering other people's thoughts!
Q. I have finally met another girl I really like after I had a bad experience 6 months ago. We get on really well but when I asked her on a date recently she replied. "I would love to however, one of my friends really likes you. I knew this before...
A. 10 May 2012: Honey she's friend Zoned you. It's exactly what Cindy Cares said.
Friends are much harder to come by than lovers and girls will rarely risk losing a friend over a man... so if she said that either she has a very very strict moral and ethical ... (read in full...)
How should I go about this (asking her out) or should I just forget about her and move on?
Q. Hi. I am 15, a freshman in a private high school. I like this one girl, a junior, who's 16, and she doesn't like me, for one reason or another. I have never had a girlfriend, and that's because I've never had the guts to ask a girl out. How should I ...
A. 10 May 2012: if you know she does not like you, then you should not ask her out...
and also she's your friend's sister... it could be awkward when you see her brother if you ask her out and she says no.
I think it's best with this particular young lad... (read in full...)
Should I leave him alone to stop being desperate, or be always after him?
Q. Dear Cupid, My x said that he loves me I do too., but he keeps on flirting. Whenever I talk to him, he doesnt wanna talk, he seems like a bad mood, but whenver he's in a good mood he wanna talk and that gets annoying, so should I leave him alone to...
A. 10 May 2012: leave him alone.
he's an ex for a reason.... (read in full...)
How Do I Prove To Women That I've Finally Matured?
Q. I let a really good opportunity slip years ago when I might have had the chance to have a girlfriend, and now I'm determined not to make the same mistake again. My question is how do I show women that I've matured and am not the rotten person I once ...
A. 10 May 2012: Are you trying to show a woman that you previously screwed up with that you are different… I’m not sure that would work… as for NEW women, just being the new improved you should work…
Why would you have to PROVE to women you have changed?... (read in full...)
Best friend hitting on my g/f. Now that she's told me she doesn't want me to confront him
Q. Hi Guys,i am 24 years old and my girlfriend she is 22. My girlfriend of 3 years told me that my best friend lets call him J(who is also a very close friend to my girlfriend,the 3 of us have been friends since we were kids) has been hitting on her,b...
A. 10 May 2012: She told you about it
She handled it.
He apologized and backed down
what good would confronting him about something that's been dealt with do?
I agree that unless he does it again, saying nothing is wise.... (read in full...)
I love this guy, but I can't be dragged along by him
Q. Okay, so me and my ex-boyfriend just recently started talking again. He wanted me to come over to his house after class. I knew what may happen if I went, but I went anyways. He not only picked me up from my class, but he made dinner. We ate, ...
A. 10 May 2012: I agree with aunt honesty… he may not know what he wants. I would be concerned that he’s looking for more of a FWB thing than a real relationship…
I don’t believe that being friends with an ex is a good idea…. The waters are always muddy.
... (read in full...)
Doggy style and the problems that go along with it
Q. I'm worried about me and my partner's sex life and I need help. Our favourite position is doggy style it's one of the only ones that work for him and i constantly have trapped air as in fanny farts. I constantly feel like I need to expell it. After ...
A. 10 May 2012: queffing is normal (the trapped air being released as the sound of farting)
sounds like you need more lube....... (read in full...)
Mother's snoring fiance is driving me crazy! I'm scared I'm going to snap!
Q. I'm a 21 year old fresh out of college female living with her mother. My moms fiancee lives with us. There's big issues going on in the house and frankly, I could care less for the guy (I don't really know him, we don't talk, we never have. I've ...
A. 10 May 2012: One word: EARPLUGS... and a white noise machine.
Snoring that loudly however may indicate sleep apnea and he should be checked for that as it can be deadly and as much as I am sure you would love him to disappear I doubt you wish him dead... ... (read in full...)
Should I take a step further with this guy?
Q. I've been dating a guy for over a month and I really like him, I believe he reciprocates and feel very with him. The other day I was talking over the phone with him and something funny happend. We're Spanish, and there is a smaller level of saying I ...
A. 10 May 2012: I don't think it's bad or good... I hate talking on the phone it's always hard to hear for me (especially with cell phones) and things get mis-interpreted.
IF YOU FEEL it then tell him... but do it in person face to face... better to see his reac... (read in full...)
Do men bond more during sex?
Q. So me and this guy have been seeing each other for over a month now and we've been having sex consistently.So far its all going very well and he tells me how much he likes me and cares about me. Each sex session has been really intense and I can't ...
A. 10 May 2012: He likes having sex with you and cares about the sex….
Men do not bond more during sex… that’s what women do… the old saying goes:
“women need a REASON to have sex, men just need a place” and it’s true.
Women, in general, start feel... (read in full...)
Cute guy at work has me questioning my 6 years with my boyfriend
Q. Hi. I've been dating my bf for 6yrs.I'm confused don't know How to deal with this temptation. There's this new guy at work and he's very handsome and when I looked at him I get butterflies on my stomach. Even when we share conversation he always ...
A. 10 May 2012: You have a crush...
and all you see is his handsome good looks...
and that means that no matter what he says right now you will think it grand...
he's the NEW guy... do NOTHING give it a few months to work it's way out of your system...
... (read in full...)
How to word a wedding invite so it doesn't sound tacky?
Q. I am the MOH for my friends wedding. This will be her second wedding and his first wedding. They both live in separate apartments. He has the typical bachelor pad with barely nothing. She is a little better off, but could really use some new things, ...
A. 10 May 2012: It's rude to list where they are registered.
I would pass the word VERBALLY to your friends if you want to... and then let them know that gifts are not required or requested but IN CASE they want to shower their friends this is where they can get ... (read in full...)
Could friends with benefits work better than a long-distance relationship?
Q. so for nearly a year i've know this guy. we have similar interests, and we message each other and talk constantly. we try and meet up every week (if not more often) to just chat, and he has become one of my closest friends. to this point our ...
A. 10 May 2012: Stay just friends. that's my advice.
let him know how you feel but if you are going away for school in September and will be gone a few years it's probably better to keep it casual.
I would not sleep with him as that will muddy the waters... (read in full...)
What kind of porn do straight girls watch?
Q. What kind of porn do straight girls watch? And how often do they do it?...
A. 10 May 2012: Straight GIRLS MAY illegally watch porn if they want and what they watch will depend on the individual girl’s taste. My (then) teen step daughter told me that she liked GAY porn Man on Man. Straight WOMEN may watch porn LEGALLY and then it will ... (read in full...)
Did I make the right decision by asking the question I was afraid to have an answer to?
Q. I just cornered my boyfriend of a year and a half and asked of he saw a future with me. He said he can't make me any promises and that his future is shady - but that he loves me My gut has been fearing this for awhile. He told me to get Some sle...
A. 10 May 2012: well that means he is 24-29 and to be honest at low end of the range (24) he may not not for sure... (to give him the benefit of the doubt) but I have found that even when young men when they KNOW, they know and they act...
does not mean it won't... (read in full...)
Is it true, what my doctor says, that erectile dysfunction is just a part of ageing, and is not a result of any medical problem?
Q. Do you think is this true, what my doctor says, the erectile dysfunction is just a part of aging, and its not a result of any medical problem? I have very sever erectile dysfunction, and a total lack of desire. He checked everything , did go to ...
A. 10 May 2012: Ah so it is psychological... you are able to get erect...
that does make a difference...
you still need to talk to her and tell her exactly what you told us that you are not happy about it and that you still want her... "the spirit is willin... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont let me speak to any guys, not even to help out my friends!
Q. Hiii dear cupid..my question is why boyfriends are so possessive..im in a relationship..my bf is kind such a lovely guy..we met online on facebook..he doesnt allow me to talk with any boy..i accept this but there was a friend of mine who want my ...
A. 10 May 2012: I agree with Tisha he does NOT trust you. His behavior is NOT healthy.
And why is it ok for him to be angry with others? He takes his anger with YOU out on them? This is NOT right.
This is NOT a healthy relationship... you are not a po... (read in full...)
Is it true, what my doctor says, that erectile dysfunction is just a part of ageing, and is not a result of any medical problem?
Q. Do you think is this true, what my doctor says, the erectile dysfunction is just a part of aging, and its not a result of any medical problem? I have very sever erectile dysfunction, and a total lack of desire. He checked everything , did go to ...
A. 9 May 2012: oh and you should know that my grandfather and grandmother had an active sex life well into their 80s so ED is not necessarily part and parcel of aging..
I agree a second opinion and workout are called for.... (read in full...)
Is it true, what my doctor says, that erectile dysfunction is just a part of ageing, and is not a result of any medical problem?
Q. Do you think is this true, what my doctor says, the erectile dysfunction is just a part of aging, and its not a result of any medical problem? I have very sever erectile dysfunction, and a total lack of desire. He checked everything , did go to ...
A. 9 May 2012: Again OP do you ever get an erection in the middle of the night or in the morning????
if the function to get the erection is there (as evidenced by the morning glory) that says one thing..
IF YOU DO NOT EVER get any erections then would you d... (read in full...)
What can I do to save my relationship?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have three beautiful children together. Over the years we've had ups and downs like most couples but recently its been getting worse. I have gained wait since the birth of our last child who is about ...
A. 9 May 2012: Ok… I’m much more comfortable with you wanting to lose a bit for you. At 5’3” 130 may be too low for you… it depends on your musculature, your bone density and how you carry the weight. At 5’2” I am skeletal at 135 pounds.. but my bones and ... (read in full...)
What makes a man want a FWB and not a relationship?
Q. Hi everyone just a quick question all the guys I meet only want a fwb, what makes a man want a fwb with you but not actually a proper relationship? thank you ...
A. 9 May 2012: ah so he led you on...
that's sad.
I'd like to advise you to end it with him (easier said than done I know).... it's only going to cause you pain if you have feelings for him.... (read in full...)
What makes a man want a FWB and not a relationship?
Q. Hi everyone just a quick question all the guys I meet only want a fwb, what makes a man want a fwb with you but not actually a proper relationship? thank you ...
A. 9 May 2012: oh and if ALL the guys you meet are like this, sit back and take a look at what you are contributing to this?
are you being physical with them too soon?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont let me speak to any guys, not even to help out my friends!
Q. Hiii dear cupid..my question is why boyfriends are so possessive..im in a relationship..my bf is kind such a lovely guy..we met online on facebook..he doesnt allow me to talk with any boy..i accept this but there was a friend of mine who want my ...
A. 9 May 2012: Not all boyfriends are possessive. Those with self-esteem and trust are not possessive.
How is not allowing you to talk to your other friends lovely?
Why do you accept this controlling possessiveness?
Why does he have your facebook pas... (read in full...)
What makes a man want a FWB and not a relationship?
Q. Hi everyone just a quick question all the guys I meet only want a fwb, what makes a man want a fwb with you but not actually a proper relationship? thank you ...
A. 9 May 2012: it's easy to have sex with someone and not have to lay out money or spend time or make an effort...
in other words you are good enough to fuck but not good enough for mom, or friends...
... (read in full...)
Is it true, what my doctor says, that erectile dysfunction is just a part of ageing, and is not a result of any medical problem?
Q. Do you think is this true, what my doctor says, the erectile dysfunction is just a part of aging, and its not a result of any medical problem? I have very sever erectile dysfunction, and a total lack of desire. He checked everything , did go to ...
A. 9 May 2012: Dorothy Dix is correct. Smoking, drinking and excess weight can affect erections. IF you smoke you need to quit… same with drinking. Several things I can think of:
Have you tried Viagra and Cialis?
Do you wake up with an erection? ... (read in full...)
Did I make the right decision by asking the question I was afraid to have an answer to?
Q. I just cornered my boyfriend of a year and a half and asked of he saw a future with me. He said he can't make me any promises and that his future is shady - but that he loves me My gut has been fearing this for awhile. He told me to get Some sle...
A. 9 May 2012: If you want marriage and family and he is still not sure after 18 months of being together then I think you were right to ask. There really is no right and wrong. It's what works for you. Clearly you needed to know so for YOU it was the right ... (read in full...)
What can I do to save my relationship?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have three beautiful children together. Over the years we've had ups and downs like most couples but recently its been getting worse. I have gained wait since the birth of our last child who is about ...
A. 9 May 2012: yep you should weigh and measure food
and cheese is high in calories so it adds up fast...
low fat string cheese is good but only once maybe twice a day
focus on lean protein (fish and poultry) fruits and veggies.
make sure your g... (read in full...)
What can I do to save my relationship?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have three beautiful children together. Over the years we've had ups and downs like most couples but recently its been getting worse. I have gained wait since the birth of our last child who is about ...
A. 8 May 2012: Eating more frequently would help you. How overweight are you? Is he being unreasonable? Personally I would not tolerate a man who was that picky about my weight…
If you don’t’ eat frequently enough your body thinks you are in a famine a... (read in full...)
What can I do to save my relationship?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have three beautiful children together. Over the years we've had ups and downs like most couples but recently its been getting worse. I have gained wait since the birth of our last child who is about ...
A. 5 May 2012: You can't really do anything to save it.
The fact that you are doing everything you can to reclaim a body that produced three children in 6 years should be more than enough.
the fact that you gave him three children and he's complaining abou... (read in full...)
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