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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Should I leave my alcoholic boyfriend? At times he blacked out and acted evil.
Q. My boyfriend Max and I have dated for seven months. I thought he was the "one." He was always very attentive, we have wonderful fun together and we spend lots of itme together. As the relationship progressed I noticed that each time we went out to ...
A. 26 March 2013: HUGS OP... it takes a strong person to walk away from someone you love when they are toxic. I wish I had your strength.... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned that my LDR boyfriend doesn't text or call me as much?
Q. Hi, I'm a single mother of two. I've been single for 4 years and while i have went out on dates, I never found anyone that I thought I could have a future with. Here's the thing I met a guy about a month ago, he is really sweet a respectful to me, ...
A. 25 March 2013: See there you go....
it wasn't anything you were thinking....
next time try not to blow up his phone...... (read in full...)
Bleeding after sex an she is no virgin and neither is her periods due?
Q. My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time last night. It was my first time ever, not so much hers. After maybe 10 minutes, I pulled out cuz I felt myself slipping, and I wanted to change positions. When I pulled out, the condom brushed a...
A. 25 March 2013: I agree that if she had just finished her period it could be residual blood from that....
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Is it reasonable for me to tell my wife to stop kissing other men on the lips?
Q. I really do not like it when other men kiss my wife on the lips. These are friends - just 2 or so. They do it as a greeting, when, for example, we first meet up for the night, and then again when we say good bye. I am fairly certain it has nothing ...
A. 25 March 2013: OP I get what you are saying. I myself am not comfortable kissing anyone but my spouse on the lips. not my kids not my dad (who is a lip kisser) or anyone else...
for me a split second turn of the head slightly gets them my cheek and mine the... (read in full...)
We both want to move to another country for a better life, but in order to do this she needs to work but she doesn't want to!
Q. i am working in a cruise ship. so i have to stay away from my family for every 9 months. i miss my family every time. i want my wife to work and take experience so that we both can migrate to any other country and earn better and have a better life ...
A. 25 March 2013: IF she wishes to stay where she is, and is comfortable where she is, then I'm afraid there is not much you can do.
Most women here would give anything to stay home with their children. I can understand why she wishes to be a stay at home mom... (read in full...)
Why is he calling me to ask how I am after weeks of silence?
Q. Dear all. I fell out with my bf around 5 weeks ago. I.'d had enough of the arguments and his silent treatment. I was upset,but sat it out,and did not ring him,and decided that was it for me. Anyway, he tried to ring me a couple of days back. I did ...
A. 25 March 2013: It does NOT matter why he's doing it. It's not in a person's best interest to behave in RESPONSE to someone based on why we think they did something.
You have made a healthy decision to end a bad relationship.
Just keep on going.
... (read in full...)
Is jealousy a way of showing that you care?
Q. Is jealousy a way of showing that you care? I'm just wondering if acting jealous is really someones way of showing you that they care about you, and your well being. My bf is not jealous at all, he doesn't mind who I am friends with, who I talk...
A. 25 March 2013: Gawd no Jealousy is an emotion not rooted in love or caring but rather in insecurity of the jealous partner.
A jealous man (or woman) does not love YOU... rather they love the idea of being in a relationship and the person is secondary to... (read in full...)
I fell in love with a boy who lives faraway but only communicates on facebook.
Q. SO .. I'm in love with a guy .. he's not from my school and he lives near my city ..i see him about 4-5 years and now i started to have feelings for him.. those feelings are very strong it's the first time that im in love like this ..i added him on ...
A. 25 March 2013: If he has a girlfriend he's off limits.
But the bigger issue is that you live in the same area and he makes no effort to see you in real life... that means you are not that as important to him as he is to you.... (read in full...)
He is too intense - could this be a bad sign?
Q. I have been divorced 6yrs and i'm 48yrs old. Last week I met a guy as I was window shopping in the town. He stopped me and told me I am the woman of his dreams and can we talk.(Of course I was flattered, and would like to be in a relationship after ...
A. 25 March 2013: I think you guys are just flying too fast and too intensely.
just don't overthink it...... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned that my LDR boyfriend doesn't text or call me as much?
Q. Hi, I'm a single mother of two. I've been single for 4 years and while i have went out on dates, I never found anyone that I thought I could have a future with. Here's the thing I met a guy about a month ago, he is really sweet a respectful to me, ...
A. 24 March 2013: you need to relax.... give him some space and he'll get in touch with you
I hated being LDR and eventually I talked to my now husband and told him while he could go without daily contact I could not and could he please cope with my needing ... (read in full...)
Are women put off by skinny guys?
Q. I'm a skinny lad and I was wondering is this a turn-off? I mean I know some girls like guys to be teddy bears but is there really any market for us skinny guys? I'm 5'11"/180 cm and 143 pounds/64 kg and feel as though I'm not bulky enough for women ...
A. 24 March 2013: My husband and I met and started dating when he was very skinny... and I admit I was very happy when he picked up about 15 pounds....
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Should I leave my alcoholic boyfriend? At times he blacked out and acted evil.
Q. My boyfriend Max and I have dated for seven months. I thought he was the "one." He was always very attentive, we have wonderful fun together and we spend lots of itme together. As the relationship progressed I noticed that each time we went out to ...
A. 24 March 2013: IF you stay one day he will PUNCH you (instead of PINCH) when drunk or worse KILL YOU.
everything I try to type to explain this too you is too personal.
Do not stay with an alcoholic.
... (read in full...)
Two questions: Why is my ex still messaging me? And why is my current Bf so controlling about me going to Hen's nights and clubbing with my Bfs? Should I put up with this?
Q. First: I started dating my now fiancé in 2011, I cheated first two weeks of our relationship, which I am not proud of, we have gotten through all this though, got engaged in 2012. I haven't cheated since 2011. I love him, he loves me (almost 2 ye...
A. 24 March 2013: OP you ARE STUPID when you pick up your ex's calls and texts YOU are NEVER EVER going to have trust if you can't behave in a manner that causes trust.
Being friendly with an ex when you've got a history of cheating is a death Knell to the rela... (read in full...)
I am a fem dom. Can I convince my man to be my sub?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm a very attactive and girly girl feminine woman. I appreciate the beauty of a woman but am not sexually attracted to women. I am sexually attracted to men but I will not allow a man to have intercourse with me in a traditional ...
A. 24 March 2013: I agree sex between married partners is a compromise... it sounds like he's already compromised plenty.. now it's your turn.
you don't really think that your needs come before his do you?
what does HE get out of your sex life?... (read in full...)
He suggested a threesome; I'm feeling uncared for
Q. Hey, just curious what it means of what my husband said; we have been married 15 years - last few years a bit shaky; suggests to me on a holiday when chilling out at a nude beach where we both went together that we should try a threesome and get ...
A. 24 March 2013: tell him a threesome sounds great as long as it's with another man I like that idea. Most men balk at the idea of being near an erect penis other than their own.
here's the thing if you don't want to do it NO is an appropriate answer. If ... (read in full...)
I'm a worried girl! Why is he trying this now?
Q. I'm married for over three years now. I'm having 2kids with my husband. My hubby doesn't stay with us, he travels for some months then come back but recently on his 3 consecutive visits, he started wanting to have Anal sex wit me though I hav always ...
A. 24 March 2013: ASK HIM.
it may be porn
it may be that he's having an affair and gets it away from home...
it may be that he's curious and wants to try it
ASK HIM as he's the only one who knows what's going on in his brain
as for him trying to force ... (read in full...)
Two questions: Why is my ex still messaging me? And why is my current Bf so controlling about me going to Hen's nights and clubbing with my Bfs? Should I put up with this?
Q. First: I started dating my now fiancé in 2011, I cheated first two weeks of our relationship, which I am not proud of, we have gotten through all this though, got engaged in 2012. I haven't cheated since 2011. I love him, he loves me (almost 2 ye...
A. 24 March 2013: two totally different issues here.
easy one first:
the ex... block him.. why do you even have his number in your phone any more? he's an ex and you have a partner.
NO contact with the ex solves that problem.
Why HE does it do... (read in full...)
Will you let go of your cat you love if your mate has a terrifying phobia?
Q. I am interested in pursuing a relationship with a good friend of mine. We were once in a romantic relationship that ended because of the distance but now we realize we can't do without each other. He is planning to move down here with me so we ca...
A. 24 March 2013: Keep the cat. his reason sucks and is not acceptable. it's not an allergy or a fear of being hurt but rather an infantile response to cats based on his belief system.
I will tell you however that i rehomed my dogs when my now husband move... (read in full...)
My Mom only wanted to help. Now my Dad has been diagnosed with sleep apnoea she feels she's ruined his life. What can be done to make this better?
Q. Help my dad has been diagnosed with border line sleep apnoea. My mom made him get checked out as he would stop breathing in the night. Now he has to wear a mask in bed for the rest of his life. My mom is upset and feels my dad hates her for it....
A. 24 March 2013: sleep apnea (how we spell it here in the states) is life threatening... your mom saved your dad's life and his livelihood. if you have sleep apnea you stop breathing when you are alseep. that leads to heart attacks and strokes.
it can be... (read in full...)
My body doesn't even get ready for sex anymore, I can't orgasm!
Q. Basically i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, hes wonderful and i love him very much, we live together and we plan to get engaged soon. We lost our virginity to eachother and for the first few times we had sex i orgasmed (both clitorus ...
A. 24 March 2013: so 9 out of 10 times you find sex satisfying and that ONE time out of ten you don't is the problem?
lucky you!
I'm not sure why you think your body is different than others if less than 30% of women have orgasms from penetration how are ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my fiance lying about porn?
Q. when me and my boyfriend started dated we made it very clear what we expect from each other. Together we made the commitment to be a christian couple and live that kind of life. I just had a baby with him and he asked me to marry him, i said yes, ...
A. 24 March 2013: so much I wanted to say (delete delete delete)
OP, if you find porn unacceptable you will need to find a man who finds it unacceptable as well.
Basically you told him NO PORN and he agreed.
Now he broke the rule and to keep you h... (read in full...)
I've been texting with a guy I met online for a couple months...Is he just wasting my time?
Q. I'm just getting back in to the dating game, and decided to sign up for an online dating site to meet new men. A couple months ago, this guy (I'll call him "Brad") emailed me and we started chatting. Then a week later, we exchanged numbers and ...
A. 24 March 2013: Right... thanks for the update...
remember if you meet online, and they are serious about having a relationship even if you are a couple of hours apart by car, they should want to meet fairly quickly...
those that are only having fun or w... (read in full...)
Can a single mom with 2 kids consider a military job?
Q. I apologize that this question isn't about dating. I'm not currently dating, as I'm focused more so on my future. Here's my situation: I'm 31, divorced, two kids... and contemplating joining the military. Is that crazy??? The job market is rough and ...
A. 24 March 2013: Dear OP,
I"m sorry you felt attacked and that I was questioning your parenting skills, but to be honest you would be amazed at how many people do not realize that one of the first questions asked would have been exactly what I asked which is... ... (read in full...)
I need this crush to end now before I do something stupid and I don't know how
Q. I'm in my early 20's and infatuated by this guy at work who is older than me. (late thirties) He's gorgeous for his age , rough,masculine and he's such a laugh...... I think about him day and night , dream about him. The sexual tension between ...
A. 23 March 2013: is there a rule against dating co-workers?
is he married or otherwise taken?
if no to both I see no problem with getting to know him better....
if the age doesn't bother you... ask him to go to lunch one day... see what happens outs... (read in full...)
Is this sexual tension? Or something genuine?
Q. Hi, A few weeks ago I was out with work colleagues at a bar to celebrate finishing a job. One of the guys with us , I have grown close to and we spend hours chatting (just general silly meaningless conversations) through mail , I was sat next to ...
A. 23 March 2013: So you know he's older but not sure by how much...
and you like him and want to get to know him better...
as long as there are no rules against dating co-workers and you are willing to run the risk of working there with him if it doesn't w... (read in full...)
Two months no contact. Did she ever really love me?
Q. Help please, It’s been two months now I haven’t received a call or text from my girlfriend, we were together for three months, during the first month all was fine... Two months back she started complaining about having insufficient airtime...
A. 23 March 2013: I'm sorry OP,
she never loved you
she's not worth the pain and effort you are going through now
delete her info and move on.... (read in full...)
Am I asking too much of people? I want to stay the way I am but I want to be valued as myself.
Q. This is the most craziest question to ever find on a love advice column... Right... I’ve loved Bollywood, bindis, mendhi tattoos, especially the jewellery and fashion and I love the karma sutra and their beliefs since I was a small girl. I try...
A. 23 March 2013: My Jewish-American born son is learning Japanese and is fascinated with the culture etc. I see no problem with it.
I have a friend who was raised in one of the Christian sects but converted to Buddhism years ago. Her children are christian as... (read in full...)
He keeps saying he'll come see me, but it hasn't happened. He only works 2 days a week, couldn't he find time?
Q. So, I've been talking to this guy for 3 months now via text/couple of phone calls. We met during Christmas break, in person and started talking in a friendly/flirty way, by the end of January/beginning of February, things got a little bit more ...
A. 23 March 2013: Ok well the thing is if he keeps disappearing and you are the one doing all the work to make the relationship work, then it's one sided.
A man interested will want to see you no matter what..
now he's making excuses... and you're doing all... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my science teacher and I think me might like me too?
Q. i have a huge crush on my science teacher mr m....... because, his irish, his only 23, he has nice blue eyes and brown hair, and he is really nice to me. i think that he might have a crush on me too because everyone else who he teaches has that his...
A. 23 March 2013: I WISH the kids with crushes on teachers would come back later on in life and let us know how it went and how they got over it and that they DID get over it and it was just a crush, that the teacher really didn't feel the way about them that they ... (read in full...)
Advice for dating a younger man?
Q. I have the opportunity to date a 26 year old man. The problem is that I'm 41. I've never dated anyone that young before. He is hot, sexy and we get along really well together. I'm very attracted to him. He really wants to date me, but I'm being ...
A. 23 March 2013: I'm sorry but a 26 year old man (I have one of those as a child btw and a 28 yr old) is old enough to make his choice for himself and not to please his MOMMY. If he has a concern that his parents would be disapproving then perhaps he's not mature ... (read in full...)
I'm happy with my boyfriend, but tired of being the 'man' in this relationship
Q. Hi, I'm 24 and have been with my bf for 1.5 years. Throughout the time we are together, I'm honestly very happy, so happy that I cannot explain. Whenever I see him, I cannot stop smiling. However, when I think of future or marriage, I don't se...
A. 23 March 2013: I have found that even the most capable man (like my husband) who can take care of everything tends to let that ability slide when in a relationship.
I understand what you are saying to an extent.
Men process things very differently tha... (read in full...)
Was our mutual friend hinting that my crush likes me back?
Q. So, there's this guy I like who is currently a year older than me and we both go to the same high school. In January, I started all the conversations online. We never have talked to each other that much in real life before. Starting in Fe...
A. 23 March 2013: Yeah I'm voting for he likes you back.
since I am learning I am woefully old and behind the times as to the dating rituals of 21st century teens... all I can say is what I would have done in the dark ages of the 1970s
ask the boy if he wants ... (read in full...)
I told my boyfriend I don't have money for an Ipad, then he stopped talking to me.
Q. Dear cupid My bf of 3 years is asking me to buy him new iPad for his birthday, I don't have that kind of money and I cannot afford it. He never bought me anything for my b'day and I never really made an issue out of it. I told him I cannot ...
A. 23 March 2013: I'd stop calling and trying to get him to talk to me.
He wanted an ipad, you said no. either he's sulking like a child (which means he's not mature enough for a relationship) or he was with you for the things you would buy for him and do for h... (read in full...)
Can a single mom with 2 kids consider a military job?
Q. I apologize that this question isn't about dating. I'm not currently dating, as I'm focused more so on my future. Here's my situation: I'm 31, divorced, two kids... and contemplating joining the military. Is that crazy??? The job market is rough and ...
A. 23 March 2013: who will be watching the kids when you are deployed?... (read in full...)
I thought she was my girlfriend but she didn't reply to my messages.
Q. i m a male my age is 19 year i am from mumbai and a student i met a girl on f.b who is from my home town and we were good friends on f.b then suddenly one day we exchange our no.s and then after some day later i proposed to her and she accepted it ...
A. 23 March 2013: if she was having phone problems then that's why she was not texting.
I think from reading enough submittals by folks from India that proposed means asked to go out.... if that's the case then maybe she did have network issues.
did you try t... (read in full...)
Can making a song help me get over my crush on my teacher?
Q. i have a huge crush my my science teacher mr m..... and i think i need to get over it. i have to sing in every assembly and mybe i should sing a song like "what i go to school for" or "i have a crush on my teacher" what do you think? would singing ...
A. 23 March 2013: singing about it will NOT help. It will make you mortified to even show your face.
the fact that you know it's a crush and you need to get over it is good. You will get over it.
Just give it time.... (read in full...)
I am a fem dom. Can I convince my man to be my sub?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm a very attactive and girly girl feminine woman. I appreciate the beauty of a woman but am not sexually attracted to women. I am sexually attracted to men but I will not allow a man to have intercourse with me in a traditional ...
A. 23 March 2013: I do not think your idea is viable.
have you asked him how he feels about this? (part of being a good domme is knowing when to let the sub make the rules)
... (read in full...)
How early is too early in a relationship for the following?
Q. How early is too early in a relationship for the following? 1. Love bites 2. Ear kisses 3. Being topless together 4. Boob/nipple kisses 5. Being in underwear together 6. Being in bed in underwear together 7. Having a shower together 8. Bein...
A. 23 March 2013: Depends on the person and their goals for the relationship.
there is no timetable where it's written...
if you were 13 it's too soon for all those things even after 6 months of dating
If you were a 36 yr old divorced woman out for fun a... (read in full...)
Is a 17 month relationship too early to be thinking about babies?
Q. Hey everyone, So this basically is a question to ask your view on the situation I am in right now, I am a 23 year old woman and my partner of 17 months is a 26 year old man, the past few weeks we have discussed having a child, please do not think th...
A. 23 March 2013: I'm very old school... babies should have MARRIED parents.
why aren't you considering marriage before the baby?... (read in full...)
He keeps saying he'll come see me, but it hasn't happened. He only works 2 days a week, couldn't he find time?
Q. So, I've been talking to this guy for 3 months now via text/couple of phone calls. We met during Christmas break, in person and started talking in a friendly/flirty way, by the end of January/beginning of February, things got a little bit more ...
A. 22 March 2013: LET HIM GO
he's not that into you
IF he really was interested he'd be there.
My hubby and I lived 100 miles apart while dating
we saw each other every weekend once we were serious which took about two months of weekend visits. We... (read in full...)
How do I discourage my girlfriend's personal trainer or shouldn't she be doing that?
Q. My Girlfriend has a male friend (15 years) that used to be her physical trainer. He wants to train her again for free and has offered to train her to ber in fitness contests.I am a little skeptical about his part of the "friendship". He seems to ...
A. 22 March 2013: IF you trust your gf then it's a no brainer. let her handle him...
it sounds like she has it under control.... (read in full...)
My personal trainer embarassed me in front of everyone in the gym, why did he do this?
Q. Why did he behave like that? I'm so angry and ambrassed? I was working out with my personal trainer and I'm kinda shy so I couldnt look at him straight so i was looking around the gym. and alot of changes has taken place there so I was j...
A. 22 March 2013: Wow you have blown this out of the water.
age does not matter
what you wear does not matter
his JOB is to get you to focus on your workout.. if you are focused on looking around.. you are not focused on your work out and your form and your r... (read in full...)
Should I call off my engagement? He is possesive but my family need his money....
Q. Hello all, I would really be grateful if anyone can guide me through this problem I'm facing. Iv met my current fiance 1 year ago, we've started talking and we directly clicked, he's a really really well off business man who is much older than me,...
A. 22 March 2013:
He is possessive, he’s insecure and you find him scary. YOU LIVE WITH A MAN THAT SCARES YOU??!!
HE LOCKS YOU UP?
Honey I’m not reading any more… I got to HE USED TO LOCK ME UP AT HIS VILLA and I’m DONE
GO HOME to mom and dad NOW.... (read in full...)
Advice for dating a younger man?
Q. I have the opportunity to date a 26 year old man. The problem is that I'm 41. I've never dated anyone that young before. He is hot, sexy and we get along really well together. I'm very attracted to him. He really wants to date me, but I'm being ...
A. 22 March 2013: Your not marrying him your dating him. Have fun.
AT 41 I’m going to say that your kid days are close to being over… and to be honest until you two are serious (at least 6 months to a year of “going steady”) it’s not even an issue unless h... (read in full...)
I've been texting with a guy I met online for a couple months...Is he just wasting my time?
Q. I'm just getting back in to the dating game, and decided to sign up for an online dating site to meet new men. A couple months ago, this guy (I'll call him "Brad") emailed me and we started chatting. Then a week later, we exchanged numbers and ...
A. 22 March 2013: While he may be interested once I got to “he asked me to hang out that same day, but I already had plans, so I had to decline. He was disappointed but didn't seem overly bothered by it.” I knew it was not serious for him.
Serious men ask you ... (read in full...)
My body doesn't even get ready for sex anymore, I can't orgasm!
Q. Basically i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, hes wonderful and i love him very much, we live together and we plan to get engaged soon. We lost our virginity to eachother and for the first few times we had sex i orgasmed (both clitorus ...
A. 21 March 2013: what do you mean " I can make myself come easily by clit, but I can't get myself there fully"
I only can orgasm from direct clitoral stimulation. no penetration needed or desired. You could thrust from now till doomsday and all I'm getting ... (read in full...)
My body doesn't even get ready for sex anymore, I can't orgasm!
Q. Basically i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years, hes wonderful and i love him very much, we live together and we plan to get engaged soon. We lost our virginity to eachother and for the first few times we had sex i orgasmed (both clitorus ...
A. 20 March 2013: i'm betting you are trying too hard
can you bring yourself to orgasm with your fingers or toys (or my favorite a shower massager?)
if so, relax enjoy the sex and have the orgasm afterwards...even if it means you masturbate and he holds you whi... (read in full...)
Is this sexual tension? Or something genuine?
Q. Hi, A few weeks ago I was out with work colleagues at a bar to celebrate finishing a job. One of the guys with us , I have grown close to and we spend hours chatting (just general silly meaningless conversations) through mail , I was sat next to ...
A. 18 March 2013: Is he married or otherwise involved with someone?
... (read in full...)
He is too intense - could this be a bad sign?
Q. I have been divorced 6yrs and i'm 48yrs old. Last week I met a guy as I was window shopping in the town. He stopped me and told me I am the woman of his dreams and can we talk.(Of course I was flattered, and would like to be in a relationship after ...
A. 12 March 2013: I think that he's backed off and that's good.
Offer to pay at least your half for the next date, especially if he offered to cook at home and you suggested out.... I agree that out for the first few dates is better.
Also it could be a cheape... (read in full...)
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