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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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30 September 2011: Today as I was leaving work and walking to my car, I passed, going in the opposite direction a co-worker who I *barely* know who was walking with another man. He is a tall, attractive man with an engaging smile and bright eyes. He's 10-15-maybe 20 ...
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Is he just not into me or could there be a real reason for not contacting me for a few days?
Q. I've been dating this guy for about a month now, he's a few years older than me so I don't know if this is normal behaviour as I'm not used to dating! On all our dates we've had a lot of fun, enjoy each others' company, he's always such a ge...
A. 28 March 2013: ah I posted before your follow up!
can I dance around and say I told you so? (I'm kidding)
ENJOY... and please try to relax...
my husband has always said ONE of the most attractive things that CAUGHT him was that I didn't CARE if... (read in full...)
Is he just not into me or could there be a real reason for not contacting me for a few days?
Q. I've been dating this guy for about a month now, he's a few years older than me so I don't know if this is normal behaviour as I'm not used to dating! On all our dates we've had a lot of fun, enjoy each others' company, he's always such a ge...
A. 28 March 2013: So did you call him?... (read in full...)
How can I ask my customers politely to leave tip?
Q. I've been waitressing at a restaurant for a few months. I've noticed that certain regulars don't leave tip regardless of service. And of course there are occasional customers that don't tip at all. How can I ask my customers politely to leave tip? ...
A. 28 March 2013: this-is-me writes of a person paying for a 5 dollar meal with a 20 dollar bill and not being given change. THAT DOES NOT HAPPEN around here. A good server would have brought change that gave lots of singles so as to hint about getting a tip... ... (read in full...)
Some like it rough.....
Q. I have been seeing this girl for awhile (6 months) and we have some great times in and out of the sack. The other night, we were partying and she made the comment,"I like it rough too as long as their is no pain". I have never been rough, to women. ...
A. 28 March 2013: My interpretation of "i like it rough but no pain" is
"take me I'm yours"
I'm sensing she wants a forceful man who's in control and "has his way" with her but no BDSM....
but you need to ask her to elaborate on what she means.... (read in full...)
How can I make him realize the amount of distance his lying is putting between us?
Q. I have been with my husband for 19yrs. We have had our plights and problems. I left him about 5 yrs ago, for about 2 years, over a problem he covered up with a mountain of lies and betrayals. I continue to work with forgive and forget issues. He ...
A. 28 March 2013: Does he want the marriage to work?
Have you asked him WHY he lies?
If he does, then counseling and being held accountable for his lies may work.
IF he's always lied and you always accepted it, then he's been taught he can do it and ... (read in full...)
Is he just not into me or could there be a real reason for not contacting me for a few days?
Q. I've been dating this guy for about a month now, he's a few years older than me so I don't know if this is normal behaviour as I'm not used to dating! On all our dates we've had a lot of fun, enjoy each others' company, he's always such a ge...
A. 27 March 2013: HE TOLD YOU.. his friend is coming to visit. IF this is a female friend I'd be nervous...
stop playing games and over thinking this and pick up the phone and call him.. you can start with "just touching base I know your friend is coming t... (read in full...)
Mother, Baby, BF and financial Woes
Q. Been seeing a guy from work for past 3 months, everything's going lovely, he is 54 and I'm 22! Yeah big age gap I know, I have a one year old but he's completely fine with that my issue is my mum, I currently live with her as she looks after my baby ...
A. 27 March 2013: why does she hate him again... remind me... .was it because he drinks on the job?? I may be wrong.. currently my ADHD is unmedicated.
The key is as a grown woman you have a choice to make.
mom or the man.
it's going to be that simple.... (read in full...)
Is My Ex worth taking back
Q. Hi is this man worth giving another chance? I miscarried beginning of february i was gutted the next day my boyfriend started arguing with me then 4 days later he split up with me i really loved him but he hurt me so much what should i do any ...
A. 27 March 2013: other than he split up with you after your miscarriage I'm not getting enough information to determine why you are asking the question.
has he asked to come back?
what's his explanation for his bad behavior when you lost the baby?... (read in full...)
Am I satisfying my Man
Q. I don't know if my boyfriend cummed while we were having sex. Usually I know when he cums by his reaction but last time I wasn't sure as we were having sex for a while. There was stuff in the condom, so was that cum? Or can that be pre-ejaculati...
A. 27 March 2013: you feel weird asking him about sex but not about having sex with him?
if there was stuff in the condom he probably ejaculated.
trust me if he was not happy you would know it.... (read in full...)
Am I in a genuine relationship or what is this?
Q. Does my boyfriend really love me? My relationship with my bf is already 4 years.We met in internet dating and been dating 1 year before we met personally.His been living with me for 3 years.I have a son from my first relationship.My problem is,from ...
A. 27 March 2013: sounds like he's a user honey.
I would strongly consider making him leave.... (read in full...)
Is it really her reputation that she cares about or there's really something she is hiding from me?
Q. now, we have been in a long distance relationship for over one years. i think she loves me but that too she likes to flirt with other guys who are good looking. Plus, she never discloses in front of any guy that i am her boyfriend and give me the ...
A. 27 March 2013: NEVER take abuse from anyone. This young lady is being emotionally abusive towards you.
I would consider breaking up with her if she can't stop putting you down in public.
If a person can't be committed in public as well as in private then t... (read in full...)
How can I convince her parents to like me?
Q. so, the story goes like this. I and my girlfriend had a relationship when we together with each other. Then suddenly, she had to leave me cause a bloody transfer of dad. now the thing is that her parents are so damn conservative, that whenever I ask ...
A. 27 March 2013:
how far did they move? if it's over an hour and you are so young it' probably will not work out well.
secondly do you SWEAR like you did in your post in real life, that's rather off putting to adults. I find it the mark of an immature, in... (read in full...)
Is him "opening up" to me a good sign or am I reading too much into it?
Q. This guy I'm talking to, we are semi LDR (100-ish miles). We've met once, in person, when we first swapped numbers, have been talking ever since end of 2012, we are planning to meet in a few weeks, this has been confirmed. We have built quite...
A. 27 March 2013: FWIW I live NINE MILES from my place of employment. most folks don't live much further as traffic around here at rush hour is insane. It can take me an hour to go 9 miles in the morning.... maybe that's why we don't think much of a 2 hour drive ... (read in full...)
Is 23 years later too late to return to a relationship?
Q. Is it ever okay to return to a relationship -in my case that happened 23 years ago- and try again? "John" and I were going steady (in our relationship) till his band went on the road. Well, true to most musicians...he cheated. I found out and left ...
A. 27 March 2013: are either of you committed to other partners?
are you now in a location where you can be together full time?
if you are both free and clear to be in a relationship and you can be together in person most of the time, GO FOR IT.... (read in full...)
Should I keep dating a man who moved to the same state as his ex to be with his son?
Q. should I wait for or leave a man that is in another state with his son and his son's mother even though he tells me nothing is going on? but he moved from one state with a job to the state that she's from he says to be closer to his son? ...
A. 27 March 2013: how old is the child?
how far apart are you from him?
is he living with the ex and the child or did he get his own place?
how long will he be gone?
how serious are you with him?
what has he told you?
... (read in full...)
What does the term "significant other" means in the homosexual relationship
Q. I would like to know what the term "significant other" means in the homosexual relationship. I used the term in an essay regarding interpersonal relationships. I stated that relationship of all kind can become complicated. whether it is with ...
A. 27 March 2013: it means the same as in heterosexual relationships. why would it be different for gays and lesbians?
a person who you consider your partner that you are not married to.
My father is not married to his partner. She is his SO and I refer t... (read in full...)
Is him "opening up" to me a good sign or am I reading too much into it?
Q. This guy I'm talking to, we are semi LDR (100-ish miles). We've met once, in person, when we first swapped numbers, have been talking ever since end of 2012, we are planning to meet in a few weeks, this has been confirmed. We have built quite...
A. 27 March 2013: OP my situation was a bit different in that at the time I met my husband I was married to another man so my now husband was my boytoy on the side (NOT CHEATING but with permission)
The key was we met in August, we met again in November
we were... (read in full...)
Is him "opening up" to me a good sign or am I reading too much into it?
Q. This guy I'm talking to, we are semi LDR (100-ish miles). We've met once, in person, when we first swapped numbers, have been talking ever since end of 2012, we are planning to meet in a few weeks, this has been confirmed. We have built quite...
A. 27 March 2013: Let me start with the fact that 100 miles apart is sometimes a daily commute around here. My husband and I met in person and we were 100 miles apart. That didn’t last long.
As for him opening up to you, stop trying to see things that may or m... (read in full...)
Is him "opening up" to me a good sign or am I reading too much into it?
Q. This guy I'm talking to, we are semi LDR (100-ish miles). We've met once, in person, when we first swapped numbers, have been talking ever since end of 2012, we are planning to meet in a few weeks, this has been confirmed. We have built quite...
A. 27 March 2013: Let me start with the fact that 100 miles apart is sometimes a daily commute around here. My husband and I met in person and we were 100 miles apart. That didn’t last long.
As for him opening up to you, stop trying to see things that may or m... (read in full...)
How can you tell if your 16 year old daughter is having sex?
Q. How do you know if your 16 old is having sex she say she not but how can you tall? ...
A. 27 March 2013: if she says she's not there is not much you can do till she shows up pregnant.
IF you are even the least little bit concerned I would advise you to suck up your beliefs about teens not having sex (if you have them) and get her to a GYN and on B... (read in full...)
Does she truly love me?
Q. I'm victor, 22yrs old and i have a gal friend 20. I love dis gal so very much and i guess she loves me too. but ma problem is dat she does'nt come close to me...since i knew her i have never hugged her or kissed her, we don't even hold hands and she ...
A. 27 March 2013: no victor she does not love you based on what you said.
... (read in full...)
He should be more concerned with whether I'm pregnant than with getting drunk
Q. Should i leave my boyfriend?. My boyfriend told me last night that he come over today while i did a pregnancy test. He text me earlier today, asking if i was going to have the baby, and i said yes. He also said that he would come over at 1.00pm, but ...
A. 27 March 2013: so your boyfriend is a binge drinker... that's alcoholism.
the fact that he wasn't with you to watch you POAS (which btw don't you have to do it on the first morning pee?) is rather inconsequential to the fact that you may be having a bab... (read in full...)
How can I ask my customers politely to leave tip?
Q. I've been waitressing at a restaurant for a few months. I've noticed that certain regulars don't leave tip regardless of service. And of course there are occasional customers that don't tip at all. How can I ask my customers politely to leave tip? ...
A. 27 March 2013: when we get good service we tip 20% no matter what the bill is. ON GREAT service we tip 25% On Xmas we tipped nearly 50%.
bad service we tip 15%
Oh and part of our issue is I am a very small eater so we tend to tip on what I WOULD hav... (read in full...)
Is there any way my girlfriend can make herself tighter?
Q. I have a girlfriend who i have been dating for 2 years now. We are sexually active whenever we see eachother. Heres the problem, when my girlfriend gets really wet the friction lessens a lot and the sensation is completely different. She doesnt feel ...
A. 27 March 2013: how much are you masturbating young man? your hand grip is probably much tighter than ANY vagina you will ever encounter.
stop masturbating if you are and see if it' improves.... (read in full...)
He had a private lap dance at his stag and now I'm having serious doubts about marrying him!
Q. I am getting married next week and I am having serious doubts. We have been to together 8 years (since we were 18) engaged for 5 and we have 2 children. We had a pretty much perfect relationship until his stag. About a week after he returned...
A. 27 March 2013: are you sure she was naked. Here women in clubs cannot dance naked
did he touch her? here men have to sit on their hands
was he clothed? here men have to wear all their clothing
Personally OP, I don't even know what to say to y... (read in full...)
My wife suddenly announced that she doesn't love me and wants a divorce! How can I get over the heartbreak?
Q. I have been with my wife for 11 years and married for 6. We have 3 children together! A week ago she said that she has no feelings for me in fact she hates me, and she has not loved me for the last 5 years! She wants a divorce! I have always stayed ...
A. 27 March 2013: stop letting her do her laundry or use your shower.
change your locks.... (read in full...)
Any tips for dating single fathers?
Q. Hi. I've started dating an older single dad; I'm 25 and he's 35. He's got 3 kids and they seem to like me so far, and they're great kids. Just really want to know if anyone has any tips for dating single dads. I really do like him and do want thi...
A. 27 March 2013: I was married to a single dad. When I met his daughter she was 9 and had limited contact with her mom. I became "lovey" to her because she wanted a mommy but calling me mommy was not an option. So she picked "LOVEY". I married her dad and had ... (read in full...)
Fiance not into me any more?
Q. Hi, I have been with my fiance for two and a half years, we have had our up a and downs but mostly, we have had a great time - but lately, I am worried that he is just not that into me any more. We live together and I gave a great relationship ...
A. 27 March 2013: So far I’ve read that you have forgiven him cheating on you with his ex
Then forgiving him for cheating on you with a few girls on facebook.
So you forgave him and yet you don’t (wisely) trust him. And you are engaged to him.
You gave up... (read in full...)
Why do girls say this and then they end up liking me?
Q. I'm an 18 year old guy, senior in high school. I don't think I'm a bad looking dude, but def not a pretty boy. When girls see me at first, there are some girls that think I'm cute, some girls that think I'm ok, and some girls that think I'm ugly ...
A. 27 March 2013: Ever wonder why average looking guys end up with stunning girlfriends or wives? Because they had the confidence to talk to her and let her get to know them.
Men who only will approach women they think they have a chance with or who they dee... (read in full...)
I want to give him chance but my mind keep worry about my future with him.
Q. Hi, I'm confused now and no one can I ask for help. No one understand me. I'm sad and depressed that I'm going oto get through this problem alone. Me and my bf were in love for the past 2 years. But now things changed, and we also changed to ...
A. 27 March 2013: First thing you must do is make sure your parents know the truth about him, that he cheated and lied.
if you think negatively of him and think he's not doing all he can, then you do him and yourself a disservice if you marry.
marrying ... (read in full...)
Are my boobs normal they change with the temperature
Q. Ever since I've had boobs (about five years now and I'm a B cup), my nipples have always been very soft except for when they're cold. Most times during the day when its a normal temperature I can barely feel my nipples at all, and my left is always ...
A. 27 March 2013: of course your nipples are hard when it's cold... where do you think the expression it's NIPPY out came from? (I don't know if that's true or not but it makes great sense to me)
we call it raisins on our cookies and it's NORMAL for your nipples ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my ex? He says he still loves me but didn't want a serious relationship?
Q. I had been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Nothing seemed wrong to me, and then completely out of the blue, he called me and said he thought that we should just be friends. He explained to me that he wasn't ready for a serious relationshio ...
A. 27 March 2013: friendly soothing advice... it will pass when you let it.
You do not have to be anthhing more than civil and friendly to him if you insist on being around him.
do not call him
do not facebook him
do not text him or email him.
just sm... (read in full...)
Is it too much to expect that he at least acknowledge the gift?
Q. Dear Cupid I bought a really expensive gift for my bf and sent it to him. He received his gift today and i called him to check whether he liked it or not, even sent him a message. No response for anything. I called again and he yelled at me...
A. 27 March 2013: YOU live together and you have a child together and he says if you contact him he’ll kill you?
And you call this behavior ODD? It's beyond ODD.
Listen, either he has a brain tumor that’s causing the erratic behavior or he’s hiding something.
... (read in full...)
I just want a man I can get to know, go on a lot of dates and someone who is not just after sleeping with me.
Q. Hi Everyone Im a 21 year old woman, i have a three year old little boy, i have been single for a while due to breaking up with my son's father, it was a pretty messed up relationship with him being very jelouse and controlling, also him bedding ...
A. 27 March 2013: I think that I may recommend for you that you look into board gaming (if you PM me your location I can find what’s close to you as we have chapters all over the world although the bulk of gamers are here in the USA) Gaming folks are very accepting ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my ex? He says he still loves me but didn't want a serious relationship?
Q. I had been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Nothing seemed wrong to me, and then completely out of the blue, he called me and said he thought that we should just be friends. He explained to me that he wasn't ready for a serious relationshio ...
A. 27 March 2013: Hopeless13,
I totally remember being 13 or 16 or 17 as if it was yesterday. 13 was FORTY years ago. DO not think I don’t feel your pain. I can assure you that as you age you will look back on these years with amusement.
I know you think th... (read in full...)
I think he might have been the one. He's dating someone else now. Should I tell him how I feel?
Q. Help!! Should I tell him how I feel? 9 months ago I finished dating a guy I had been seeing for 14 months. I hadn't slept with him because I have always wanted to wait for the 'right one' also I was going away travelling for two months so didn't...
A. 27 March 2013: the first thing to do to move on is delete him from your life... no facebook (block him and his gf)
congrats on the weight loss.... keep being healthy happy and whole and this too shall pass.... (read in full...)
I asked about our relationship status and it comes out that he thinks we should just call ourselves 'friends'! I'm totally heartbroken, should I just say good riddance?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a little over a year now and everything seemed to be going well and the relationship was definitely progressing. Because we're long distance however we don't see each other as much as we'd like (but up until this point ...
A. 27 March 2013: OP thank you for the detailed follow up
yeah I can say based on what you listed in the follow up I'd be confused and felt led on too.
I still think that "walking away a winner" is the way to go with him.
He may have had very deep feelings ... (read in full...)
My wife suddenly announced that she doesn't love me and wants a divorce! How can I get over the heartbreak?
Q. I have been with my wife for 11 years and married for 6. We have 3 children together! A week ago she said that she has no feelings for me in fact she hates me, and she has not loved me for the last 5 years! She wants a divorce! I have always stayed ...
A. 26 March 2013: Hang in there... when I told my first husband out of the blue I wanted a divorce he was floored but not as floored as I was when he said "good now I don't have to ask you"
neither of us had lied or cheated or had someone waiting in the wings...... (read in full...)
How can I get over my ex? He says he still loves me but didn't want a serious relationship?
Q. I had been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Nothing seemed wrong to me, and then completely out of the blue, he called me and said he thought that we should just be friends. He explained to me that he wasn't ready for a serious relationshio ...
A. 26 March 2013: someone else's feelings never make sense to us unless we are having the same feelings (then it's called love)
stop trying to be good friends with him... there is no need and it's painful for you.
once you stop trying to be friends your pain... (read in full...)
Dating 2 guys at the same time and I don't want to hurt either of them! Help!
Q. Well am 19 stil with my 1st boyfriend (from 16 and he was 19) we had our ups and down..he was cheating on me while i was loyal to him...we broke up after a year then i met another guy we fell in love ......then my ex came back to me and we dated ...
A. 26 March 2013: Ok I had to look up Lobola:
Lobolo or Lobola in Zulu, Xhosa and Ndebele (Mahadi in Sesotho, Roora in Shona, and Magadi in Northern Sotho), sometimes translated as bride price, is a traditional Southern African custom whereby the man pays the fami... (read in full...)
Crush on a Friend. What Do I Do?
Q. Recently I've randomly developed a crush on my good friend. Now I want to see if she likes me too, but I don't know how to tell her I like her that way without making a fool of myself and ending our friendship altogether. What do I do?...
A. 26 March 2013: Sadly, you will have to learn that sometimes we have to put ourselves out there and take a leap of faith and run the risk of feeling foolish.
You can let her know how you feel... but to be honest, at your age what would change?... (read in full...)
My friend has a boyfriend but also likes a guy that I'm interested in!
Q. Firstly, I want to explain that my best friend is in a relationship, but a complicated one. One minute she really likes him, the next she wants to end it, she even admitted to liking this guy who I had went with/kissed. The thing is I am sort of ...
A. 26 March 2013: Never believe what a drunk says or does... try to avoid drunken encounters.
if you like both guys, then be honest with them and date both...
who cares what your friends say...
stop trying to read things into behavior...
... (read in full...)
My ex left me with no explanation now she's back and I have someone else in my life. I'm confused!
Q. my girlfriend and i had a strong relationship. There way she loved me i could tell that she is the perfect bride for the perfect groom. a year back she was raped,and sadly she got pregnant. From that day of the incident i never heard from her,...
A. 26 March 2013: you say to her you are sorry she's ready now but because she disappeared after her rape you had no choice but to move on.
If she truly loves you she will want you happy and will let you go....
if she can't accept it, then change your numb... (read in full...)
I just want a man I can get to know, go on a lot of dates and someone who is not just after sleeping with me.
Q. Hi Everyone Im a 21 year old woman, i have a three year old little boy, i have been single for a while due to breaking up with my son's father, it was a pretty messed up relationship with him being very jelouse and controlling, also him bedding ...
A. 26 March 2013: if you want to go on a dating site I would recommend a high quality one where you have to pay. OK Cupid and Plenty of fish are free but you get what you pay for.
what hobbies do you have? when does your son see his dad?... (read in full...)
I asked about our relationship status and it comes out that he thinks we should just call ourselves 'friends'! I'm totally heartbroken, should I just say good riddance?
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a little over a year now and everything seemed to be going well and the relationship was definitely progressing. Because we're long distance however we don't see each other as much as we'd like (but up until this point ...
A. 26 March 2013: I think that good riddance is the safest move for you two.
LDRs are hard.. 3000 miles apart. How did you two even afford it? I would be living in the freaking airport...
You were never exclusive
you were never sexual
I know you are... (read in full...)
Is it too much to expect that he at least acknowledge the gift?
Q. Dear Cupid I bought a really expensive gift for my bf and sent it to him. He received his gift today and i called him to check whether he liked it or not, even sent him a message. No response for anything. I called again and he yelled at me...
A. 26 March 2013: Hugs OP, the end if not already here is close.
You bought him an expensive gift and sent it to him. Was there a reason or were you just being nice? The problem is I’m sensing that even if you would be willing to still be with a man who ... (read in full...)
I think he might have been the one. He's dating someone else now. Should I tell him how I feel?
Q. Help!! Should I tell him how I feel? 9 months ago I finished dating a guy I had been seeing for 14 months. I hadn't slept with him because I have always wanted to wait for the 'right one' also I was going away travelling for two months so didn't...
A. 26 March 2013: He’s over and done with you. DO not tell him how you feel, it’s useless, he’s with someone else now.
YOU did not mess up. I think you need to unfriend him and block him on facebook so you can’t see what he’s up to. Block his email to... (read in full...)
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