What's the best way to deal with this pressure from my sister?
Q. I'm so confused and frankly I feel bad. A couple days back I went out to dinner with my boss(19 I'm 17) as friends and strictly that. I then posted about it on Facebook Well my sister read this and when she came over she kept pestering me about...
A. 30 March 2012: Accept that whatever you post on FB is "public knowledge" and therefore anyone who can view you page might feel obliged to throw their 2 cents in whether you want it or not.
So if you don't want to debate your life with other, think before y... (read in full...)
Is it normal for guys to view porn together?
Q. Hey, I need some perspectives (esp. from guys) on whether guys viewing porn with their guy buddies is a normal thing or not! My bf is open about the fact he occasionally looks at porn sites, and I know he has downloaded videos in the past. He once ...
A. 30 March 2012: From what I have seen then YES, men are pretty comfortable watching porn or even watching another couple have sex.
Just like girls/women can go to the bathroom in "flocks".
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Can you be in labor if your water doesn't break?
Q. MOD NOTE: We are not doctors, please go to the hospital, yes you can be in labor! can you be in labor even if your water doesnt break?? having serious contractions and not sure whether or not to go to the hospital....
A. 30 March 2012: Yes, in my first pregnancy the water broke, in #2 and #3 it didn't.
Of you go!... (read in full...)
Why did my married collegue keep taking off his wedding ring at lunch?
Q. Hi ! I just had a business lunch with a male colleague. During the entire time, he kept taking his wedding band on and off and twisting it too. It was not very subtle and a little distracting. What does this mean?...
A. 30 March 2012: Bad habit. Some crack their knuckles a lot, some toy with their hair. We all have annoying little habits that we aren't even aware that we are doing. His, I would guess is playing with his wedding ring.
I would just one day ask him straight... (read in full...)
He texts his ex while we are kissing and cuddling! Should I be worried?
Q. my boyfriend has been texting his ex-girlfriend lately while we're kissing, or cuddling and it's starting to bug me. we had a fight about it and he said that i could read thier conversations, but i didn't because i thought i was over reacting. h...
A. 30 March 2012: If I were you I'd tell him straight out that it isn't cool to do that. Also, if he is still busy texing her, do you really think he is "over" her?
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Is this a game to keep me and three kids on a string, instead of us both moving on?
Q. Is this part of his emotional games? My ex and i have been broke up for 4 mts now. When we were in a retionship our sexlife was non exsistent, we would go months without any intimacy and when we did it was never intimate. We had a good xmas and new ...
A. 30 March 2012: I don't think it's a game per say, I think he is incapable of caring for others, even his kids. He does whatever he wants whenever he wants and YOU allow it, because you hope he will change and BE the man you think he can be. Sorry. he never will ... (read in full...)
I feel trapped in a faux relationship! She broke up with me but still expects me to fund her!
Q. Hello people I wonder if you can help me I am in a big big dilemna in my life at the moment, 8 months ago while I was travelling around in north america, I hooked up with my 'girlfriend' who i stayed with for 3 1/2 months to cut a long story ...
A. 30 March 2012:
Why are you still with her then, seems like you get nothing out of this deal?
Canada is big, you can go and live/work anywhere you please, correct? Doesn't HAVE to be near her?
Cut your loses, dump her unless you want to be her bitch.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps sexy pictures of his ex girlfriends!
Q. Should I be worried if my boyfriend keeps "sexy" pictures of his past ex girlfriends? When I say sexy, I mean breast and all... Here's a little background info. I'm not so blessed with boobs but he reassured me that he likes me just the way I a...
A. 30 March 2012: No, you can't access and "accidentally" delete any pictures he has, unless they are of you.
You need to talk to the guy.... (read in full...)
What is the meaning behind my ex sending me a text "good luck with your life"?
Q. My ex just sent me a message saying "good luck with your life".We broke up two months ago, why is he contacting me?.When we broke up another time before that, he got intouch after a couple of months then too and he sent a message saying he hoped my ...
A. 29 March 2012: He wanted to see if you would take the bait. He wants to know that he is/was "unforgettable". It's a ego soother.
Ignore him and keep ignoring him.... (read in full...)
Can men and women really be just friends?
Q. I have got my girlfriend over 4 times with guys on a compromising positions, when I ask her about these guys she says they are her friends only and nothing else. Okay my problem is I told her severals times that I personally don't believe on such ...
A. 29 March 2012: Yes they can. I have always had more guy friend then female friends, they are just easier to get along with. I have never had anything remotely romantic with any of my guy friends.
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Should I find my wife a younger man to have sex with?
Q. i have trouble having sex for sometime and now my wife is not interested in sex she says its the mediciene she is taking should i find her a younger man to have sex with to satisfy her needs she has been patient but im afraid she will want sex ...
A. 29 March 2012: There are other ways to please a women them penile penetration....
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Is wearing a sheer or see thru bathing suit OK?
Q. My boyfriend (of many years) asked me to remove the lining from a couple of my bikini's, so that when we go to the beach they will be see through. I did this to one of my darker suits, the results being not too dramatic. More noticible on top, but ...
A. 29 March 2012: Here in the US it would be considered tacky. Americans have such an odd relationship with the nude body.
Where I'm from we have nudist beaches, topless people in the park in summer and no one lifts an eyebrow. But that is EUROPE... In the US I can... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to him but can't imagine having sex with him
Q. Long question alert..... So basically I've always thought I was straight until I started getting close with one of my friends; I need to lay out the whole story so bear with me... -I'm from and attend university in Brighton, the most liberal ci...
A. 29 March 2012: I think you need to let poor Theo know that you aren't into guys (even if you may be a little... bi-curious) he has a humongous crush on you, unless I am mistaken.
Stop with the kissing and cuddling unless you mean something by it.
You, my... (read in full...)
Do I tell my best friend I'm pregnant by him?
Q. i ressonly lost my vaginaty to my best and oldest male freind (we have always been close and tell each other everything) i just found out that im pregnant do i tell him. we was waching dvds at mine drinking a bottle of wine with a takeaway we noram...
A. 29 March 2012: You should tell him.... (read in full...)
Do you think I should lie and tell my family that I have a job, or should I just tell them the truth?
Q. I'm nervous about going to a family party this weekend. I'm unemployed, and my family members have really good jobs, and they seem posh ( i'm not saying that in a bad way ). They live in different parts of the country .I am from a very small town ...
A. 29 March 2012: Be honest, they are your family. Besides maybe someone can help you out finding a job?
Maybe you don't have a job right now but you can go to the party looking great!
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Husband wants to have sex with other women and I'm about ready to end the marriage!
Q. lets make this short and simple......... my husband wants to be intimate with other women. but he wants to be with me. (or so he says) i dont want him to sleep with any one but me. im 39 wks pregnant and it hurts to be intimate. we used to b...
A. 29 March 2012: Fist off I will call the Bullshit card on the OCD/Sex thing as well. Even though OCD doesn't manifest in the same way for everyone who has it, sex is rarely a component.
This explains OCD very simply:
http://oc... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps sexy pictures of his ex girlfriends!
Q. Should I be worried if my boyfriend keeps "sexy" pictures of his past ex girlfriends? When I say sexy, I mean breast and all... Here's a little background info. I'm not so blessed with boobs but he reassured me that he likes me just the way I a...
A. 29 March 2012: You didn't ask him why he kept them?
Having "sexy pics" of other women on his phone is just sleazy. I have no other word for it.
You have the "right" to ask him to delete them but I seriously doubt you can "make" him delete them, in fact th... (read in full...)
At what age can your child play alone at the park?
Q. How old do u think ur kid should be to play at the park alone with other kids if u live 6 house dwon from the park?...
A. 29 March 2012: I would say around 7+, but I would watch unobserved the first few times to see how he/she does.
If he/she is a single child I would not be comfortable with him/her going out by her/himself til around 8+
I would also have a long talk about ... (read in full...)
Help a normally smooth guy with his awkward/unexpected approach to kissing girls
Q. So I'm the kind of guy who can walk up to the hottest girl at the party, talk her up no problem and get somewhere, but when it comes to girls I actually like, I over think, and become silly and a bit awkward at times. I just went on a walk with a...
A. 29 March 2012: No, there isn't a formula that I know of :)
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I just used her for sex so how do I end it and still look good?
Q. I started screwing, nothing serious, around with this chick from my job when I'm home from college. She was a rebound girl from my last relationship and i wasn't being to pick when i choose her. I'm not saying I'm a great catch but I'm way out of ...
A. 29 March 2012: Ewww why would you even DIP into that one?
*shudder* ... (read in full...)
Problem when using new vibrator
Q. Hey guys first time here.I cant find any info so im hoping you guys can help. I just got a rabbit vibe, every time it touches my clit i get an intence feeling then i go pee its really embarcing but it just happens i cant control it. I even tryed ...
A. 27 March 2012: Maybe start of with just a clitoral orgasm on slow speed.. that way when you have insertion it's less overwhelming for #2.... (read in full...)
Is it unreasonable to ask your girlfriend to dress a certain way for sex?
Q. Hi everyone, I've been going out with my new girlfriend for a few months now and we've had sex a few times. While it's been great, I find it incredibly arousing when a woman 'dresses for sex' (i.e. lingerie, especially thigh-high stockings). She'...
A. 27 March 2012: You can buy her some snazszy lingerie (please find some classy stuff not the $2 whore outfit), but in the end it's up to her if she wants to wear it or not. Don't forget she is not your personal porn star.
I never saw why lingerie was needed, ... (read in full...)
Friends with benefits for 8 years, then I find out he is married! How do I get over this?
Q. hi everyone, could do with some advice please, how do you get over a man who you see for 8 years as friends with benefits? im totaly heartbroken and there isnt a day goes by i dont think of him. he got married 2 years ago and never told me and yet ...
A. 27 March 2012: Cut him out of your life and work on forgiving yourself, not your fault that you didn't know.
But be glad to have him out of your life, what a loser!... (read in full...)
He got nasty when I got ill and couldnt have sex!
Q. Hi,I had terrible problems with my stomach including constant pain for a whole year and spent that time in and out of the medical centre. Then my condition worsened. For a while it looked like I was going to have an operation and I was absolutely ...
A. 27 March 2012: What an asshat! Dump his ridiculous behind asap! Talk about lack of respect, common decency and empathy...... (read in full...)
Awkward situation at work, what should I do?
Q. Hey aunts and uncles, I'm looking for some advice about an awkward situation at work. There's a new guy, X who recently (approx 3 months) started working at the same place as me. He's 22 and acts very loud and confident but seems to be insecure and ...
A. 27 March 2012: I would tell him off one time more and make sure you tell him if he doesn't quit it, you will go talk to the supervisor.
I'm sure he is trying to impress you and show you just WHAT you are missing out on.. Like a 5 year old.... (read in full...)
Can my ex get partial custody of my son? I don't want him around my child
Q. Im not with my babys dad and hes not on the birth certificate. I actually dont know if its my ex boyfriend of 3 years or the guy I lost my virginity to but we are getting DNA tests done. I swore it was my boyfriends of 3 years. But now hes starting ...
A. 27 March 2012: Unfortunately, YOU had sex with him and from that created life. I know you see the child as YOURS but... half of those genes came from him.
Only way to find out how to go about getting this man out of the child's life is to get a lawyer. ... (read in full...)
Help a normally smooth guy with his awkward/unexpected approach to kissing girls
Q. So I'm the kind of guy who can walk up to the hottest girl at the party, talk her up no problem and get somewhere, but when it comes to girls I actually like, I over think, and become silly and a bit awkward at times. I just went on a walk with a...
A. 26 March 2012: Stop over thinking it or it will be awkward. Just let it happen, you know when the timing is right.
And even if you don't the first kiss is allowed to be a little awkward as long as you know what you are doing with your lips!... (read in full...)
I trust my boyfriend with my heart, but I can't trust his "friend" whatsoever. Should I be worried that something will happen between them?
Q. Here's my situation: I've been officially dating this guy for a little less than a month, though we've been together for about a month and a half... When we first met we instantly clicked! I couldn't take my eyes off of him, and from what everyone...
A. 26 March 2012: Sorry honey, you are being naive, he is NOT just trying to be nice. You do go off with another girl to the beach for the week-end while you GF sits at home...
I think you rationalizing black into white, making HIM look good and her looking ... (read in full...)
How much time does a man need to commit?
Q. "Please babe just give me some time" I don't even know where to begin. I met his guy a year and a half ago and we hit it off right away even though its long distance. All my friends and families and his know that we are serious about each other and ...
A. 26 March 2012: Well, then I would suggest sitting down and have a grown up discussion about the future with him. Also, I think living together (6-12 months) before marriage is a great thing, because living together is where you see all the little quirks that may ... (read in full...)
I love him to bits but he is hurting me all the time! Should I stay or should I go?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years, but lately we are having a lot of arguments. He has started to become friends with these other guys, at first I kept telling him to go out with them because I didn't want him to feel lef...
A. 26 March 2012: Sorry,IMHO the PS3 was a gift, from you to him. Unless you also return every present he has gotten you I don't think you can expect the game back - sorry.
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Met an aspiring actress, got on so well with her but found out she plans to sleep her way to the top!
Q. Right so last week met this girl a stunner at a local pub. we got on right away and i started seeing her. everything was going just fine until we started off talking about careers and she revealed that her plan is to sleep her way into roles! I was ...
A. 26 March 2012: I think it clearly shows not only her ambitions, and what she is willing to do to achieve her goals but also her lack of morals and empathy.
Sorry, I could never date/ be with someone who thinks like that.
I have to say I give her points for b... (read in full...)
Met on a sugar daddy website but it hasn't turned out to be that kind of arrangement, do you think anything serious can come of this?
Q. To Whom it may concern: About two months ago I met someone online on a sugar daddy website. It was the first time either of us has ever met up with anyone from the website. Lets call him Jack. Jack is 39 and very wealthy. His work causes him to tr...
A. 26 March 2012: What are you expecting from Jack?
To be your "client AKA Sugar Daddy or lover?
And honestly, I think he is using you for sex. He is 39 and gets of on having some 19 year old he can call for booty calls.
Stop SELLING yourself short and have ... (read in full...)
How much time does a man need to commit?
Q. "Please babe just give me some time" I don't even know where to begin. I met his guy a year and a half ago and we hit it off right away even though its long distance. All my friends and families and his know that we are serious about each other and ...
A. 26 March 2012: I don't think an ultimatum works with a guy like this. But I DO think he owes you an explanation.
If he isn't ready are you willing to stay BF/GF?
Are you two living together? Or are you still in a LDR?
And secondly, stop letting your mom pr... (read in full...)
Is there anything that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis?
Q. If you are a woman who can have vaginal orgasms during penetrative sex (not g-spot orgasms), can you please tell me whether there is anything at all about a man that can make up for a sub-optimal sized penis during penetrative sex? E.g. for an av...
A. 26 March 2012: Sorry, I have never pulled out a ruler and measured the guy's penis I was with, but I'm pretty sure out of the 4 guys I have had sex with none were over 7 inches - Thank goodness! Three of the four, however, had major skills.
I think it (sexual ... (read in full...)
Why was she so friendly that night and the next day so withdrawn?
Q. Thanks for taking the time to read and respond to my post... I recently started talking to a girl through facebook, she's 17 and I'm 20 it's always been innocent conversation as she's a good laugh and what not. On Friday night, she ended up ...
A. 26 March 2012: Well, I think she might have thought you used her for a one night stand, so if you are serious about her, call her ask her out on a date without all the mates around. Maybe a movie & dinner ?... (read in full...)
Can my ex get partial custody of my son? I don't want him around my child
Q. Im not with my babys dad and hes not on the birth certificate. I actually dont know if its my ex boyfriend of 3 years or the guy I lost my virginity to but we are getting DNA tests done. I swore it was my boyfriends of 3 years. But now hes starting ...
A. 26 March 2012: If he sings over his parental rights he will have no "rights" to the child and you will have no "rights" to child support.
I suggest you contact a lawyer after the DNA test is done and you know 100% who is the father.
If you can not afford o... (read in full...)
He has a new girlfriend only 3 weeks after we broke up, will he really be ok when I meet someone else? I cant believe this after he used to say I was the love of his life!
Q. My ex and my baby's daddy has a new girlfriend, he keeps telling me that it will not bother him when i meet someone else, is this true? we were together four years have two children together. he says i was the love of his life his world but only ...
A. 26 March 2012: well time to make it legal then? Make a custody agreement? Then he will HAVE to make time, won't he?... (read in full...)
Do I have to tell someone the stupid stuff I did as a kid if we're in a relationship?
Q. Hey everyone. When I was kid, and a younger teen I did some stupid stuff, that I regret, it's nothing serious, just stupid stuff. My question is to have a serious, long term, intimate relationship, do I ever have to mention the stupid thing...
A. 26 March 2012: Define stupid stuff?... (read in full...)
I love him to bits but he is hurting me all the time! Should I stay or should I go?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 years, but lately we are having a lot of arguments. He has started to become friends with these other guys, at first I kept telling him to go out with them because I didn't want him to feel lef...
A. 26 March 2012: Why are you still with him again? He sounds like an immature brat.... (read in full...)
I've got a crush on an actor! Please help?
Q. Firstly, please take this question seriously, because it is really bothering me. I just don't want people to think I'm some whiney child or something. Basically, I have really strong feelings for this nineteen year old actor. He is fairly famous a...
A. 26 March 2012: I think it's normal at any age. However "how" we crush on people may change with age.
The reason you "LUV" this guy is because in your imagination he is perfect. He looks perfect, he ACTS perfect. You imagination fill in all the blanks for anyt... (read in full...)
I trust my boyfriend with my heart, but I can't trust his "friend" whatsoever. Should I be worried that something will happen between them?
Q. Here's my situation: I've been officially dating this guy for a little less than a month, though we've been together for about a month and a half... When we first met we instantly clicked! I couldn't take my eyes off of him, and from what everyone...
A. 26 March 2012: You can't trust your BF or her.
I know he makes he out to be the bad person, but really look at his actions. He was WITH you for your birthday but still spend a long time calming her down because an ABBA song freaked her out, really? And then he ... (read in full...)
He has a new girlfriend only 3 weeks after we broke up, will he really be ok when I meet someone else? I cant believe this after he used to say I was the love of his life!
Q. My ex and my baby's daddy has a new girlfriend, he keeps telling me that it will not bother him when i meet someone else, is this true? we were together four years have two children together. he says i was the love of his life his world but only ...
A. 26 March 2012: Sit your baby's daddy down and make some ground rules. It's just common sense.... (read in full...)
He has a new girlfriend only 3 weeks after we broke up, will he really be ok when I meet someone else? I cant believe this after he used to say I was the love of his life!
Q. My ex and my baby's daddy has a new girlfriend, he keeps telling me that it will not bother him when i meet someone else, is this true? we were together four years have two children together. he says i was the love of his life his world but only ...
A. 26 March 2012: People go through a break up do different things to "get over" it. Some go out and have sex with the first person they meet, some date the first person who pays attention and some look to their past for ex's to "date" and then you have people who ... (read in full...)
I just used her for sex so how do I end it and still look good?
Q. I started screwing, nothing serious, around with this chick from my job when I'm home from college. She was a rebound girl from my last relationship and i wasn't being to pick when i choose her. I'm not saying I'm a great catch but I'm way out of ...
A. 25 March 2012: Soory dude, a dick will always look like a dick, no matter how many "pretty words" you put out there.
I would stick with the :
Sorry, I'm not looking for anything serious right now.
And MAN, let that HUGE boulder on your should drop.... (read in full...)
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