I need advice on places to travel in Europe!
Q. This summer I'm planning to take a trip by myself, more so for the experience and greater benefit of independance, I would like to see what it is like when you're out in the world by yourself, experiencing new places. I'm hopping to go for two maybe ...
A. 19 March 2012: I have back packed through Europe a couple of times and enjoyed it.
I love London, Copenhagen, Rome, Firenze (Florence)Pompei, Gaeta, Domus Tiberius are also lovely places to se in Italy.Southern France Is one of my favorite places in France -... (read in full...)
Virginity and being fingered
Q. Am 17, been fingered b4, and am wondring......even after being fingered, is the hymen still in place??? Can you stil say u r a virgin?...
A. 19 March 2012: You haven't had a penis penetrate you so technically you are still a virgin, however, I believe once you start being sexually active (be it oral,anal,fingers) you are no longer a "virgin", as in untouched.... (read in full...)
How can I get pregnant faster?
Q. I got my first depo shot in December, it is now march, therefor I should be coming off of the depo. I want to conceive but I have read that it takes months or even years to become pregnant. So I would like to know if I have had Only one shot and I ...
A. 19 March 2012: I will offer the same advice, talk to your GYN/Doctor.... (read in full...)
How come there are different rules for him and different rules for me?
Q. Okay, I have been dating my boyfriend for little over a year. Everything's good, I love him and he loves me. But one thing that I don't know why it bothers me is when he smokes pot, it seems to be happening more often. Here's the thing I hadn't ...
A. 18 March 2012: Yea your guy had a typical double standard. He can do stupid stuff, but you can't..
However, look at the situations and see how lucky YOU are for not drinking and smoking pot... ... (read in full...)
I'm dying to introduce myself to her, but don't know how?
Q. There is a girl who works close to my work who I see pretty much every time I pop in there on my lunch. We've never spoken, but our glances have met a couple of times and to be honest i'd love to get to know her, to see where it goes. I know he...
A. 18 March 2012: Do you have a shirt from the college you both went to? If so wear it :) Great conversation starter. Just say hi, make some small talk and see how it goes.
What is holding you back? That she MIGHT have a boyfriend? What if she doesn't? It's OK ... (read in full...)
How much time should I give her to get past a death in her family?
Q. I've been dating a woman (46) for 4 weeks when her younger brother suddenly died. She and her family are a mess. She's hardly called or written but when she wrote last, she said she wants me in her life but if I didn't want to wait for her she would ...
A. 18 March 2012: Call her and see how she is doing? At least that is what I would do for someone I was dating and claiming to care for. Call her and see if she needs a shoulder to cry on or a movie and a dinner to distract her from her sorrows.
And the death of... (read in full...)
Is he just covering up his temper?
Q. Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half. When it got to our year point stuff really started getting messed up. In the begining of our relationship he was so sweet and romantic, we basically fell head over heals really f...
A. 18 March 2012: He hasn't changed and he won't. He got you back and resumed his old behaviors, that should tell you that he doesn't WANT to change either.
He was just smart about it, did his "sweet" routine and got you hooked.
There is no magic trick or c... (read in full...)
Should I sit next to him next time?
Q. Hi everyone I hope all of the agony aunts have been doing well :) So last week, I came across my crush after lunch. He was sitting down all by himself as usual. I wanted to sit next to him and try talking to him a little but I got nervous(natu...
A. 18 March 2012: I would :)
I'm pretty sure that if he doesn't want to get to know you/hang out he will either tell you or walk away.
Go for it.... (read in full...)
I love him, but I left on a bad note with him.
Q. I moved away from my home town 3 years ago and returned at the beginning of March. I had been in love with the same guy for eight years. I never stopped thinking about him when I moved. My first day back at school last friday, I didn't see him but I ...
A. 18 March 2012: Well, what you DO think? is he worth trying to get to know again? You think he grew up a little while you were gone?
I guess if you still care it wouldn't hurt to go on some dates and see what kind of guy he is now. Maybe he learned from his past... (read in full...)
My friends say I should DEMAND he remove the old pictures!
Q. Should I have a problem with this?: Basically, my boyfriend of 7 months has a few of photos of him and his ex on his myspace page that he hasnt used in about 3 years. The photos are just normal, friendly photos like if you didnt know she was his...
A. 18 March 2012: Seriously what is wrong with your friends that they seem to want to dictate your life?
Who cares what he has on his FB that he never uses?
Unless it bothers YOU, then what is the problem?... (read in full...)
I'm constantly in a nervous state when its time for a family dinner.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year an a half. Obviously you get past that phase where you're so wrapped up in love you think eveything is wonderful and now I'm seeing some problems. We have big family dinners every 2nd month in my fa...
A. 18 March 2012: Sorry he would be un-invited from now on. The lack of respect is just so tactless.... (read in full...)
Now that I'm showing an interest this guy is backing off!
Q. I dont know what the deal is with this guy. We met a couple of months back, swapped numbers and got on really well. But then he started to really come on strong like texting all the time and stuff and sometimes I was really busy so couldnt reply ...
A. 18 March 2012: I don't think he is playing games, I think he is trying to adapt to your wishes.
Talk to him.... (read in full...)
What did I do wrong to make a problem in our relationship?
Q. Dear Cupids Here is some background: Bf and I were together 2 1/2 years, he went away to boot camp for two months, he was supposed to be away for four but got medically discharged. While there he met a girl and they started sexting each oth...
A. 18 March 2012: Honestly, I think your guy wants to be single, but have a GF (you).
It's not you. It's him. You don't SEXT someone who isn't your GF "just for fun" - I would seriously ask him how he would feel if you did all these thing.
I don't see him as... (read in full...)
My ex will not allow me to date around our children
Q. Why is my ex saying he won't allow me to introduce another man to my kids. My ex and I broke up 3 months ago, we lived together and had 2 kids. We.broke up.because he has a bad temper and the relationship had been abusive at times and I didn't.trust ...
A. 18 March 2012: So you think it's OK for him to call the shots in YOUR live?
Honestly, I'd talk/deal with him as little as possible.
Once you are ready to take I would AT LEAST take 6 months to get to know a fella before introducing him to the kids, first of a... (read in full...)
Recognizing female friends that will let you go further then friends.
Q. Ok this is a dumb question, but one ive honestly began to ponder upon lately, and i thought what better place to take this question, I hang out with a lot of girls, not by any preference, it just happens that way, i never really even noticed until ...
A. 18 March 2012: I have always had many guy friends and never dated or slept with any of them.
For me a friend is a friend. Granted I'm "pre-fwb era".
You asked how do you know? Well, first off, I think for the most part it would be obvious. They would want ... (read in full...)
Our eyes met twice, I like him so what do I do next?
Q. I like this boy who i am friends with and met him with his friends and my friend in town and went to see a movie with them we met eyes like two times but i like him and i am wanting to know what to do next and how to....
A. 18 March 2012: Next time try something simple like:" hi, how did you like that movie?" Keep it might and keep it simple.. ... (read in full...)
Jealous of not having "female" experiences due to looks
Q. I sometimes feel as if I'm less of a woman because I'm more on the side of Plain Jane/Ugly, and thus do not have a lot of the experiences that other women seem to bond over. I sit with a group of women at lunch, and lately at least one of the...
A. 18 March 2012: Honestly If THAT is what it takes to be a women I would give in my "female" card right now.
Your friends sounds catty and shallow.
I do think looks count for something, but I think it comes down to more then "just" pretty. Someone who know... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to go to a strip club and I'm not sure how to handle it
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now and he is going away with some friends in august. I know it is awhile away but lastnight we were all sitting around a fire and his buddies brought up going to a strip club while they were gone ...
A. 18 March 2012: I have to say I agree 100% with person12345
Women are humans, not scenery or objects. It's incredibly degrading.
YES to that.
I personally find them lame. (strip clubs) I mean really because you go look at desperate women stripping you are ... (read in full...)
I don't get the option of having children but my B/f still expects me to keep up a relationship
Q. I am in a relationship with a guy with 2 sons who live with him. I don't have children of my own. He doesn't want more children. He wants to move to put the children to a new school and he has a found a job in the area, which is 2 hours drive ...
A. 18 March 2012: Seems to me he is putting his kids first, which I have to say I admire. However, he left no room for your opinion or your feelings which I think is really sucky.
I have basically given up everything I knew (more or less) for my husband and it's... (read in full...)
Should a guy in a comitted relationship be texting another girl?
Q. What's going to far? My question is this.. if you have a girlfriend and a girl from high school or something texts you or sees you out and tries talking to you what is going too far? In the texting thought is even texting back a bad idea and ...
A. 18 March 2012: Um, I think you are way off base. What's next he can't talk to females if he passes them in the street?
I think having a talk about boundaries is more important. As to what you/he would see as a no-no to text about.
A good rule of thumb is... (read in full...)
I know leaving him is a good idea but the thought of being alone scares me
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a total of three years. He has cheated, I only know of about 6 girls but I don't know how many times or who else, one of which was one of my closest friends so I cannot trust him around my friends. He has ...
A. 18 March 2012: So you rather a guy treats you like crap then be alone? That makes absolutely no sense! YOU are in charge of how others treat you. IF you let people take you for granted and treat you like dirt, some will.
How can this be "love"? LOOK at his acti... (read in full...)
How could he move on so quick?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of five and a half years called it quit a month and two weeks ago. One month after we separated he post pics on Facebook of him and his new girlfriend. My heart hurt in a place I never felt before. I don't know whether to move ...
A. 18 March 2012: Could be she is a rebound girl. I have seen it SO many time when people who break up JUMP the first available person and starts "dating".
Doesn't men he didn't care for you or love you, just mean that HE had a different method for getting over it ... (read in full...)
How far do most 17-year-olds go with each other after 5 months of being in a relationship?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend and I are 17 and have been going out now for about 5 months and this is our first relationship. He says he just wants it to be comfortable for me and he will be happy which is very sweet but i'm just curious. How far do most 17 ...
A. 18 March 2012: Ask him. IF he hasn't put any pressure on your by now I think he is fine with how it is (for now) but the best way to find out what expectations he has is to ask him point blank.
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I finally broke with him and he already has somebody new.
Q. Hi just need some advice how do you get over the pain and heartbreak of splitting with someone me and my boyfriend were together over a year I really loved him but he treated me terribly he only came around once a week wanting sex he would go to ...
A. 18 March 2012:
How do you get over it? By realizing that what you had was not a relationship. It was HIM using you for sex.
Be GLAD he is out of your life and IF he pops up in your life again wanting sex, tell him to go fly a kite!
Chin up and learn from th... (read in full...)
I feel like I am just an unimportant add on to his life.
Q. Okay so I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half and I have been very happy up until the last 3 months. I love him and still love seeing him etc. But I have been worrying about his lack of seriousness towards our relationship. ...
A. 18 March 2012: Sorry honey, that doesn't sounds like a very fun nor loving relationship.... (read in full...)
He unfriended me, and I found him on another site and sent him a message
Q. I have fallen in love with a guy I met online. I have only spoken to him online. I really liked him and a few weeks ago I wrote to him on IM and he asked me would I write to him in a few days. He said if we kept writing to each other everyday...
A. 18 March 2012: HE already has a GF what in the world do you want with this guy?
Honey, there are other fish in the sea.
And stop cyperstalking him. It's creepy!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is upset that I lost my virginity to another during our break up
Q. I am in a long distance relationship because he is goes to college in washington and i live in florida. So we live on oppsite sides of the country. He is turning 20 this year and im 18. We were together for over a year when we broke up. He just sto...
A. 18 March 2012: Honestly, he sounds like an idiot. What did he expect? That you sit at home waiting on him to MAYBE get back in touch? To put your life on hold for him?
Tell him to get over it or get out.
... (read in full...)
Insecurity issues -- she cheated and said he was her best ever
Q. Hello everyone Now I have a big insecurity issue to deal with and it usually end up with me feeling unwanted by my fiancé Long story short We got into a fight we broke up I tried getting back then found out that a guy that used to ONLY give h...
A. 18 March 2012: She won't stop cheating since she knows you keep taking her back, dump her cheating ass and find someone who will love you like you love them.
She and that dude deserve each other, they are both "users".... (read in full...)
Is it fair of me to ask my B/f to keep on using condoms, to "save" ourselves for our wedding night?
Q. I'd kind of planned on waiting until marriage to have sex, but then I met my first boyfriend. We're an LDR couple and I lost my virginity to him late last year. Don't get me wrong, I don't regret it at all, it felt so right when it happened! We're ...
A. 18 March 2012: I think using condoms every time is the SMART thing to do, it is NOT just the woman's job to prevent pregnancies and STD's.... (read in full...)
She says she loves me but can't be a girlfriend right now. HUH?
Q. So my girlfriend told me that she wants a break because she can't be a girlfriend right now but she isn't breaking up with me but she tells me that i am the one. so i don't know what this means. does this mean we are broken up or just seperated or ...
A. 18 March 2012: I would have said: WTF? And asked what she meant.
Either she is your GF or she isn't, she can sit on the fence.... (read in full...)
He says he will change but he never does
Q. hey i have a serious question.im currently engaged n my man isnt taking me seriously but he say he is. he doesnt call an let me kno wen something pops up at work where i wont see him that full day. ill call him every hour on th hour and the next day ...
A. 18 March 2012: Honestly, I would not be happy either, but I do think calling someone "every hour on th hour" as you put it is ridiculous, specially if he is at work, he is supposed to be WORKING not chatting to his GF.
The thing is, it's not going to change i... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wont spend mothers day with me - am I overreacting?
Q. This time last year my grandmother died and it is mothers day weekend as everyone knows and my mum is working all day today and tomorrow. My boyfriend knows how upset i am, i was crying yesterday because I am just feeling quite lonely. At Christmas ...
A. 17 March 2012: I'm sorry I think you are overreacting. I'm sorry that your Grandma died but I do not see why he shouldn't spend this 1 day papering HIS mom.
I understand you want company because you still feel the loss, but I think you are being unfair. ... (read in full...)
Has his sex drive decreased with age? Or is he getting it elsewhere?
Q. Hi I'm in a fwb kinda arrangement, I was wondering does a mans sex drive go down with age? he is 36 I am 26. or do you think he is getting it elsewhere? this is what has been happening, when we met he would come round two three times a weeks an...
A. 15 March 2012:
Yep, he is getting it elsewhere. I'm sorry to say but it sounds like he is having sex with you when he is bored and have nothing better to do.
IF you are not getting anything out of this "fwb" then end it.
And at 36 I'm betting you his sex ... (read in full...)
Should I reconsider the trip for my reputation? Is it too early to go on vacation together?
Q. I'm 21 and I've been dating someone from my university for two months. We've planned a 3 day trip to another state for spring break. We both think it would be really fun to explore another city together. However, my mom was furious when she...
A. 15 March 2012: You are 21. You mom needs to start trusting you to be able to make the "right" decision.
If it makes it easier on YOU - get separate rooms.... (read in full...)
Ladies, is a 4.25" penis big or small?
Q. Ladies, do you consider a 4.25 inch erect penis to be big or small? Do you have experience with this size? If so how did you like it? ...
A. 15 March 2012: Amen eyeswideopen!... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend making a big deal of me posting on his Facebook wall?
Q. why is it everytime i post to my bf facebook wall. it seems hes brought it up. hes pickin on me" like why are you posting on my wall"then i said nothing i just wanna tell you someting, he said who am i bragging to? cause i post on his wall - ill see ...
A. 15 March 2012: So stop posting on his wall, apparently he was of "face-booking" is different then yours.
Send him a text instead if you have a need to communicate.
... (read in full...)
Confused about my sexuality and wondering what lesbian sex is actually like....
Q. I am confused about whether I am straight, lesbian or bisexual. I am sexually attracted to men but I also fantasise about having sex with women and having their beautiful naked body rubbing all over mine. I am still a virgin (but not text book- I ...
A. 15 March 2012: Well, first of all you are you. You might be bi-sexual (someone who likes both man and women sexually) or you may be totally straight but feel less threatened (so to speak) by the thought of sex with a woman.
You don't HAVE to figure out what sex... (read in full...)
Arrested but the charges were dropped, but my boyfriend has vanished! What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months. We have a great relationship and never had a fight. We have said the love word and we are always together. Last Sunday, while together, I was picked up by the police. They arrested me for some ...
A. 15 March 2012: He dumped you. I guess he couldn't handle the drama?
He sounds kind of douchy if he didn't even want to hear your side of the story.
He is not going to get back in touch with your or talk/see you again. Sorry.... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm a bad wife because I don't like giving him blowjobs, what can I do to stop being disgusted by them?
Q. Hi, Im 24 years old and newly married for 9 months. Our sex life has been great except that my husband really likes for me to give him blow jobs, but no matter how hard i try i feel disgusted to do so.I think the taste/smell is what puts me off.I ...
A. 15 March 2012: IF you want to try it for his sake, I would suggest 3 things:
1. take a shower together first.
2. buy some flavored edible lubricants. The lube acts two ways, it makes it easier to move your hands and it taste better.
http://www.co... (read in full...)
The lack of sex has put me in a constant state of frustration and I don't know what to do
Q. Hi there. I am 53 f engaged to 51 m. We have been living together for 2 years and are getting married later this year. I keep putting off the date as I get a knot in my stomach when I think about it. The problem is that sex is not happenin...
A. 15 March 2012: No matter what medications he is on, he sounds sexually lazy. Just because he can't get his rocks off, neither should you? Or even better - he expect you just take care of yourself?
I think you two really need to talk about it. You need to expre... (read in full...)
Rather than dealing with our problems, at the first sign of trouble she goes straight onto dating sites!
Q. I have been in a relationship for 3 years now. It appears that every time there is a problem or I am not up to scratch, that instead of telling me what I have done or not done, she goes on date sites and talks to men. For the last year I have been ...
A. 15 March 2012: If this is something she KEEPS doing, nothing will make her stop, so basically you have two choices:
Suck it up or end it.... (read in full...)
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