I just used her for sex so how do I end it and still look good?
Q. I started screwing, nothing serious, around with this chick from my job when I'm home from college. She was a rebound girl from my last relationship and i wasn't being to pick when i choose her. I'm not saying I'm a great catch but I'm way out of ...
A. 29 March 2012: Ewww why would you even DIP into that one?
*shudder* ... (read in full...)
I trust my boyfriend with my heart, but I can't trust his "friend" whatsoever. Should I be worried that something will happen between them?
Q. Here's my situation: I've been officially dating this guy for a little less than a month, though we've been together for about a month and a half... When we first met we instantly clicked! I couldn't take my eyes off of him, and from what everyone...
A. 26 March 2012: Sorry honey, you are being naive, he is NOT just trying to be nice. You do go off with another girl to the beach for the week-end while you GF sits at home...
I think you rationalizing black into white, making HIM look good and her looking ... (read in full...)
He has a new girlfriend only 3 weeks after we broke up, will he really be ok when I meet someone else? I cant believe this after he used to say I was the love of his life!
Q. My ex and my baby's daddy has a new girlfriend, he keeps telling me that it will not bother him when i meet someone else, is this true? we were together four years have two children together. he says i was the love of his life his world but only ...
A. 26 March 2012: well time to make it legal then? Make a custody agreement? Then he will HAVE to make time, won't he?... (read in full...)
I trust my boyfriend with my heart, but I can't trust his "friend" whatsoever. Should I be worried that something will happen between them?
Q. Here's my situation: I've been officially dating this guy for a little less than a month, though we've been together for about a month and a half... When we first met we instantly clicked! I couldn't take my eyes off of him, and from what everyone...
A. 26 March 2012: You can't trust your BF or her.
I know he makes he out to be the bad person, but really look at his actions. He was WITH you for your birthday but still spend a long time calming her down because an ABBA song freaked her out, really? And then he ... (read in full...)
He wants me to put me on ice while he plays the field! Should I hang around or walk away?
Q. There is this guy I really like and we are good friends. I like him more than a friend. He got out of a long term relationship last summer. His girlfriend left him for another guy. He has been dating but isn't involved seriously with anyone. He is ...
A. 26 March 2012: Seems like you two aren't on the same page or in the same book. I would not stay friends with him, and you need to move on from the idea that he suddenly will realize that YOU are the one. Being friends with someone you have a crush on when all they ... (read in full...)
He has a new girlfriend only 3 weeks after we broke up, will he really be ok when I meet someone else? I cant believe this after he used to say I was the love of his life!
Q. My ex and my baby's daddy has a new girlfriend, he keeps telling me that it will not bother him when i meet someone else, is this true? we were together four years have two children together. he says i was the love of his life his world but only ...
A. 26 March 2012: Sit your baby's daddy down and make some ground rules. It's just common sense.... (read in full...)
She says I suck in bed because my penis is too small and I'm not very good at having sex with her! What can I do to give her the best sex she's ever had?
Q. Hi I have a really big issue with my girl Basically she says I suck in bed that there is only one position that she likes that gives her pleasure but not nearly enough to satisfy her. She thinks it's because my penis is too small and since I lo...
A. 26 March 2012: Sounds to me that she is saying all these hurtful things so YOU will dump her and she can walk away not being the "bad guy".
... (read in full...)
He has a new girlfriend only 3 weeks after we broke up, will he really be ok when I meet someone else? I cant believe this after he used to say I was the love of his life!
Q. My ex and my baby's daddy has a new girlfriend, he keeps telling me that it will not bother him when i meet someone else, is this true? we were together four years have two children together. he says i was the love of his life his world but only ...
A. 26 March 2012: People go through a break up do different things to "get over" it. Some go out and have sex with the first person they meet, some date the first person who pays attention and some look to their past for ex's to "date" and then you have people who ... (read in full...)
I messed up and my girlfriend broke up with me, how can I turn this around? I need her back!
Q. I lost someone dear to me. My girlfriend. I messed up and she saw where I had flirted with other girls on facebook. I lied and said it wasn't me. The truth came out. We broke up, and exchanged violent words. Man have I messed up! I want her, so bad ...
A. 26 March 2012: Get off your bum and talk to her face to face.
And I agree with Yos, maybe if you try his idea of doing something amazing she will reconsider, but don't bet on it.
Also delete your FB and learn from this. If you do something like flirting wi... (read in full...)
Should I abandon it now so he can find someone that loves him just as much as he loves me and I can concentrate on my dreams?
Q. Hello, I have signed up for this website for the purpose of my issue. This may be lengthy but I appreciate anyone willing to hear what I have to say. I've had my fair share of relationships but I met a guy from England online in late November of ...
A. 26 March 2012: I think if you start to cut down on the contact he will stop talking to you and I don't think you can go from being "in a relationship" to being friends unless you BOTH want that.
Learn from this experience.
Do you really think he wants t... (read in full...)
Should I abandon it now so he can find someone that loves him just as much as he loves me and I can concentrate on my dreams?
Q. Hello, I have signed up for this website for the purpose of my issue. This may be lengthy but I appreciate anyone willing to hear what I have to say. I've had my fair share of relationships but I met a guy from England online in late November of ...
A. 25 March 2012: Honey, you feel in love with the IDEA of him, but not the actual guy.
Been there, done that.
Go for your dreams. End the fantasy with this guy, because even it if feels real, it's not.
Next time you want to find a guy, try one in your own... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and he cheated on me. Should I give him another chance?
Q. im 19 years old and my boyfriend is 21 years old. Last week my boyfriend went clubbing with his friends and brother while i stayed home alone. I am 6 months pregnant with our first---twins. While he went clubbing he started dancing with this girl ...
A. 25 March 2012: 1. she wouldn't know 100% that she is pregnant 1 week after sex.
2. If she is having sex in front of THAT many people, who is to say she wasn't pregnant already?
3. block her number,stop talking to her, you don't need the drama or the str... (read in full...)
I'd like to kiss him just to see what its like. Does that make me gay?
Q. Im a 14 year old male. Ive had 4 girlfriends and im not looking right now. One of my bestfriends got a girlfriend and i feel kinda left put but i dont know why. The my other friend is from the middle east and doesnt know as much english as i do. He ...
A. 25 March 2012: I think it makes you curious. But one thing is to fantasize about kissing a guy another thing is actually doing it.
I would suggest you don't act on an impulse though, that is a fast way to alienate people.... (read in full...)
Post abortion guilt is now setting in
Q. I had an abortion last November. I had been going out with this guy for a few months, the relationship had all happened very quickly as the boy I was in love with, who I had been seeing but never was officially with for three years got a girlfriend ...
A. 25 March 2012: You are not a bad person. You did what you felt was right for you.
I suggest you find a support group ( google it) and talk to others in the same position or find a counselor through your doctor.
... (read in full...)
I just used her for sex so how do I end it and still look good?
Q. I started screwing, nothing serious, around with this chick from my job when I'm home from college. She was a rebound girl from my last relationship and i wasn't being to pick when i choose her. I'm not saying I'm a great catch but I'm way out of ...
A. 25 March 2012: Soory dude, a dick will always look like a dick, no matter how many "pretty words" you put out there.
I would stick with the :
Sorry, I'm not looking for anything serious right now.
And MAN, let that HUGE boulder on your should drop.... (read in full...)
I get so tired of having to feel like a sneak like I just want people to know I have found someone else but its impossible
Q. am having an affair and need advice basically i am married 14 years to my wife I am 40 she is 39, we never had kids because she never wanted them at the time i thought it didn't matter because i was in love with her, i don't need children but about ...
A. 25 March 2012: Talk to a lawyer first. With you two having no kids I can't see why she would get the house 100%.
If you aren't happy do you really think SHE is?... (read in full...)
He says he isn't going to change for anyone. Should we just break up?
Q. my boyfriend and I have been together a year now. he relies on me for a lot of things, money, lifts, etc but as he is depending on me more frequently we are beginning to argue more.he does work full time but is absolutely useless with money,hence me ...
A. 25 March 2012: Get your money back and then break up with him. He is being honest when he said he isn't going to change for anyone. Why? Because HE doesn't see why he should, after all you keep bailing him out. You need to stop enabling him.
However, I say get ... (read in full...)
I don't have a great sense of humor. Is this why I have trouble with women?
Q. Ok, here's the problem. As I'm writing this, I apologize if it sounds a bit ranty. I'm fresh out of the situation that made me. . .jealous. Right after work, me and my buddies stood around and talked/laughed for a while. We were having a good time, ...
A. 25 March 2012: For some, humor is vital. I am one of those females who "need" a guy with a sense of humor. Preferably one who gets MY sense of humor. And my husband does 100%.
But I don't think that is your problem. I think you have a problem with taking h... (read in full...)
How does a woman stay happy regardless of whether she's in a relationship or not?
Q. People always say as a woman, you should not need a man to make you happy. I agree with that, and I think its important to learn to stand on your own two feet and be happy with your own company. But sooner or later, you will meet a guy. And if th...
A. 24 March 2012: I enjoyed being single and I enjoy being married. I guess I just enjoy life.
I have many good friend, I am able to do things on my own (always have been) like going to the movies. Many people thing that you can't go to the movies by yourself... (read in full...)
Is looseness a sign of cheating?
Q. Okay I'm a young male around 18-21. My girlfriend lately has been very distance and when.we do have sex she feels loser. Is this a sign she is cheating?...
A. 24 March 2012: Yea it doesn't work like that, unless she had a baby and gave vaginal birth the vagina itself wouldn't "just" become loose. Just like a guys junk doesn't get bigger if he is with a woman who have "bigger" inside measurements.
It might feel mor... (read in full...)
Would you marry your cheating partner?
Q. Would you marry your partner that you have been cheating with. Do these relationships work? What are the pros and cons. My partner left me after 18,years together for another guy who she has now married...
A. 24 March 2012: I don't honestly know. I would never cheat so therefore I wouldn't marry someone I have cheated with.
But to be frank, I think two people who put their own libido before their partner/husband/wife deserve each other, whether it will work or not i... (read in full...)
Sexting with a co worker and all of a sudden it just went cold. Why?
Q. I recently got reunited with an old co worker. There has always been some kind of sexual tension between us. He is white and I am black. We live in the South and even though it is seen here, if you want to get up in the community you better not show ...
A. 24 March 2012: His wife or GF caught onto it and gave him an ultimatum.
You should take a good hard look at your own actions and maybe even your own marriage.
There is no such thing as "innocent sexting" when people are in relationships. Someone will get... (read in full...)
35 years late he insinuates himself into facebook conversations with emotional references to the past!
Q. my first boyfriend went away to college said we should date and sleep with others while he was away said we should start doing this before he left he did not take me to his prom I found out later that he even slept with my best friend he came back ...
A. 24 March 2012: Un-friend him and block him. He sounds like he is unhappy and is trying to grab some of your happiness.
He sounds a little pathetic honestly and not capable of being a "real" or "facebook" friend to you.... (read in full...)
Was I wrong in suggesting that my girlfriend should use botox? She just flipped when I said it
Q. I know this will make me sound like not a nice person (to some), when in reality I like to think I am decent, and am pretty diplomatic. Thing is, my gf of 3 years is aging badly. I love her to distraction, and that love is more about her lovely...
A. 23 March 2012: Oh dear, that was big "insert foot in mouth" moment you had there and you don't even see that? Seriously?
If you are so keen on botox who don't YOU try it? And show her the results of having a partially paralyzed face...
/facepalm ... (read in full...)
Is it weird to send him sexy pics of me after not having spoken in a long time?
Q. I was dating a great guy but he moved away and he was really disappointed about the distance as it interferes with us continuing things. And we haven't spoken in 2 months. Last time I spoke to him, when he was already moved and settled, he sent me a ...
A. 23 March 2012: I agree 100% with Auntie So_Very_Confused - it REEKS of desperation and it's borderline creepy.
... (read in full...)
It creeps me out that my boyfriend masturbates in bed, next to me!
Q. I'm not prude to someone's need to self please, I'm not even jealous or against it... but my boyfriend has been masterbating while I'm sleeping. I wouldn't even know about it if I hadn't caught him at least a half a dozen times. (and by caught I ...
A. 23 March 2012: Sorry, I would not be happy either. I think you need to sit him down and talk to him. Specially if the sex have been going down hill.
I know that if my partner did that I would feel less desirable and less attracted to him. If he rather make out... (read in full...)
My wife's brother's ex wife wants to "date" me if possible
Q. My wifes brother recently got divorced a few months back and I am in the process of a divorce as I speak. The thing now is my wifes brothers now ex-wife is starting to talk to me more and more. We had been friends in the past but never anything ...
A. 23 March 2012: Personally, I can just see heaps of drama coming from this. I mean she has to realize that there are other fish in the sea ?
Ethically there is nothing wrong with it, morally I find it a little weird. ... (read in full...)
Guys: would you date a girl if you knew she had done nude modelling?
Q. I have been modeling for an online lingerie site. I was approached by a porn site for nude modeling... The money they offered was amazing! I told them I would NEVER do photos with a man or another woman... Guys: Would you date a girl if you knew...
A. 23 March 2012: I think it should matter what men might think, but about your own limits. I think posing nude on porn websites is a bad idea, no matter how good the money are. Slippery slope there.... (read in full...)
Genital warts! Deal breaker or not?
Q. I met this girl a little while ago and she told me she had genital warts!!!!! weve been going out for like 2 months mainly getting to know each other and she told me. We havnt done anything sexual yet. Cause we just got out of relationships and ...
A. 20 March 2012: I would talk to my doctor about the HVP vaccination honestly, but yes, genital warts would be a Eh, I don't know... for me. Huge turn off for sure.
Even with condoms and this and that it spreads easily. You can get it and it can lay dormant ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for being curious about what she is doing when she is on this game for up to 8 hours a day?
Q. My girlfriend plays World of Warcraft from anywhere from 3 to 8 hours a day.When I walk by her I sometimes stop to look at her "whisper" box to see who she's talking to. She has become increasingly upset at this,telling me I'm annoying and rude ...
A. 20 March 2012: I have played online games for quite a number of years (12 to be exact), but never 8 hours a day, I have kids and a life...
If she is hiding her IM it does sound a little iffy, but she must have brass "balls" if she is flirting with you around. ... (read in full...)
How could he not know my name?!
Q. So a few weeks ago I decided to go on criagslist personals. I came across an ad for a guy and decided to reply. We exchanged pictures, and hit it off instantly. We began emailing eachother back and forth every day for about a week and then he asked ...
A. 20 March 2012: Yeah that is just WAY off. After weeks of texting and emails and he "forgot"? Now if he had been smart he would have asked you if you had a nick name and called you that.
The fact that he deleted all e-mails sounds fishy too........ (read in full...)
At what age do you think should people think of getting married and having children?
Q. What age do you think is people should start having a family? I have a 25 year old daughter, who is very accomplished, smart, beatifull, full of life....and doesn't want even to think of getting married and have children just yet. She is still s...
A. 20 March 2012: I thing the "right" age is when you are ready to do it and when you think you have the partner you want for life.
As for a # *shrug* I think the actual age means nothing. I was 28 when I was "ready" but, in honesty..... I would have been fine not... (read in full...)
I can't believe my wife might may be harboring one of the strains of HPV virus just because she gave a few guys blowjobs before she met me!
Q. My wife is always getting cold sores in her mouth. We've always just used over the counter medicine to control/heal it. Finally, after dealing with this for a few years, I took her to see our doctor. He did a checkup, checked out her cold sores, ...
A. 20 March 2012: HPV is very common but it has nothing to do with cold sores, that is Herpes.
And yes, you should BOTH be tested - Herpes and HVP can be hidden/dormant. So get the testing done and figure out what it IS she does have instead of freaking out over... (read in full...)
Is he dating this new girl to make me jealous? Is she a rebound? Or could he have found love?
Q. My boyfriend and I of six years broke up three months ago. Our break up was mutual. We were having a lot of problems. Most of our problem was because of his behavior. We have been dating since we were twenty and five of those years we lived ...
A. 20 March 2012: He is dating her in order to get over you. She can be "true love" she can be a rebound who knows?
I'm pretty sure either he or you both disengaged from the relationship a long time ago so yes, it is possible that he has moved on.
I would stop ... (read in full...)
I stopped anything from happening because I was worried about being too wet, is he going to be pissed off?
Q. hello everyone, im with a long distance relationship with my boyfriend now hes back in my country to spend holiday with me. i love him and he loves me too. he said that he likes me so much. lie evrytime i touch him. theres a connection. the spark ...
A. 20 March 2012: Honey the fact that you get realllllllly wet is because you fancy him and your body fancy his body. Your body produces it as a "natural" lubricant which should make sex much much easier.
When you are ready, you are ready. Seems to me he is ready... (read in full...)
Dumping a guy over pornography use?
Q. Has anyone here ever dumped anyone over pornography use? How bad was it? I want to find a man who doesn't use it so I can feel special for once....
A. 20 March 2012: I think it would come down to few things. What kind of porn he watches and how often. I'm not a fan of porn, my husband is. He doesn't watch it that often and what he likes is pretty "tame". I can live with that and I don't feel any less ... (read in full...)
I think he's married but he denied and now has little contact with me!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months now! i have asked him from the start if he was married he has repeatedly denied that he was! the other day another woman sent me a pic of him and his so called wife. When i asked he said it was his ex. ...
A. 19 March 2012:
If you feel a need to confront him over some pictures, you don't trust him.
And I will agree, the gut instinct is usually right.
Who was the woman who sent those picture btw?... (read in full...)
Can you feel when something has happened to your soulmate, even if you don`t know them yet?
Q. This morning/night I woke up at like 3:30 am for no reason whatsoever and just instinctively knew that something had happened to, dare I say, my soulmate. I know this sounds crazy and everything, and no, I wasn`t drunk or high (I know there will be ...
A. 19 March 2012: No one call tell you it is 100% possible or 100% impossible. There just aren't a correct answer for that one.
Dreams are truly odd and honestly who knows how our mind works when it comes to dreams. I really wouldn't fret about it.
I would howev... (read in full...)
My wife wants the woman I cheated with to tell her about things before she can let it go!
Q. hi there i had an affair 11 years ago and my wife found out 14 months ago .The affair lasted 2 a half years and my wife was devastated i have tried every thing possible to win her back.we have been on holidays i buy her flowers all the time and ...
A. 19 March 2012: Well, first of all you are lying in your post and to yourself if you "claim" to not know why you did it. You know exactly why you did it.
If the OW doesn't want to talk to your wife (and I don't blame her I'm sure that woman doesn't give a flying... (read in full...)
I think he's married but he denied and now has little contact with me!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months now! i have asked him from the start if he was married he has repeatedly denied that he was! the other day another woman sent me a pic of him and his so called wife. When i asked he said it was his ex. ...
A. 19 March 2012: Honestly, if you know his age and his full name/State it would be easier to do one of those $6.99 or $9.99 background checks.
I think it's bad if you are so distrustful of this guy yet still dating him.... (read in full...)
She cried when I said I just wanted to be friends!
Q. Hi, I recently met a woman who is a few years older than me. We got on really well, talked on the phone for hours and were texting eachother constantly. I saw a couple pics of her and decided to meet her in person. She was even better looking in the ...
A. 19 March 2012: You know friends might hug and kiss, but NOT in the same way a dating/courting couple does, so yea I don't blame her for not wanting to text/talk to you after you basically dumped her. And then you suggest you two be friends with "hugs and kisses" ... (read in full...)
My four year old's 73 nyear old Daddy ignores her existance.
Q. I have a four year old child by a 73 year old man!we live in the home with him! He refuses to claim her as his child when his family ask him. I have asked him on several occasions to prepare her for the future in case he dies ber=fore e pass away so ...
A. 19 March 2012: Yep have the DNA testing done now, file for CS.
Though I have to say it's a little morbid to constantly remind him to take care of papers for WHEN he dies. Yes, he will most likely die before you, but you both should do living wills since there is... (read in full...)
Dreams of things that haven't happened
Q. I keep having dreams that I had a son or daughter in high school (but most of the time it's a boy) and gave him/her up for adoption. And then I forget I even had him/her. For example, last night in my dream, I was with friends and we were all ...
A. 19 March 2012: That you have a big fear of getting pregnant right now? Because you wouldn't be able to keep the baby financially?Perhaps? Or did you watch an episode of Teen-Mom or something?
Or it could have nothing to do really with babies/children but prob... (read in full...)
I need advice on places to travel in Europe!
Q. This summer I'm planning to take a trip by myself, more so for the experience and greater benefit of independance, I would like to see what it is like when you're out in the world by yourself, experiencing new places. I'm hopping to go for two maybe ...
A. 19 March 2012: I have back packed through Europe a couple of times and enjoyed it.
I love London, Copenhagen, Rome, Firenze (Florence)Pompei, Gaeta, Domus Tiberius are also lovely places to se in Italy.Southern France Is one of my favorite places in France -... (read in full...)
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