I am tired of living with a dog I don't want and a wife I don't trust.
Q. I live in a small 2 bedroom condo with my handicapped wife and our two girls, 8 and 5. We run a business out of our home as well. Needless to say, the place is crowded and life for me is restrictive. For years my wife has asked if she could get...
A. 9 April 2012: My husband IS handicapped, he's got the "sticker" and the rating from the US Army. If he got a dog, that would be on him, but if by any chance he wasn't able to walk it and so forth, OF COURSE I would do it. He did 3 tours in war zones for me and ... (read in full...)
I am tired of living with a dog I don't want and a wife I don't trust.
Q. I live in a small 2 bedroom condo with my handicapped wife and our two girls, 8 and 5. We run a business out of our home as well. Needless to say, the place is crowded and life for me is restrictive. For years my wife has asked if she could get...
A. 8 April 2012: Wow I can't believe I almost felt sorry for you with the first "tall tale " you told. I don't even know what to say, I'm disgusted actually.... (read in full...)
Rather than dealing with our problems, at the first sign of trouble she goes straight onto dating sites!
Q. I have been in a relationship for 3 years now. It appears that every time there is a problem or I am not up to scratch, that instead of telling me what I have done or not done, she goes on date sites and talks to men. For the last year I have been ...
A. 15 March 2012: If this is something she KEEPS doing, nothing will make her stop, so basically you have two choices:
Suck it up or end it.... (read in full...)
I think my best friend went through my phone and sent out naked photos of my boyfriend to others! Should I confront her?
Q. Im 26 and am currently in a LDR with a lovely guy. He works away for 2 months at a time so we keep the relationship going by sending sexy photos to each other. Anyway, i saved the photos onto my phone and thought no more about it but then i just ...
A. 15 March 2012:
I would definitely confront her, that is NOT OK to do! She would be FIRED as a BBF!
And yes, your BF might be upset, but be honest and upfront with him.... (read in full...)
Pregnant after just three months, how do I tell him?
Q. I have only been with my boyfriend for three months and a routeen hospital test that i had yesterday also revealed that im pregnant!! I want to keep the baby and i know that my boyfriend will stand by me but im just lost At how to tell him as its so ...
A. 15 March 2012: Show him the test. Talk to him. The sooner the better.... (read in full...)
Do natural contraception monitors work?
Q. Hi This isnt a relationship question as such... more of a sex and practical question. I do not get on well with hormonal contraceptives. They do horrid things to me, and I stopped taking them. My boyfriend uses condoms, but it would be nice to...
A. 15 March 2012: Have you thought about a non-hormonal IUD?
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I am tired of living with a dog I don't want and a wife I don't trust.
Q. I live in a small 2 bedroom condo with my handicapped wife and our two girls, 8 and 5. We run a business out of our home as well. Needless to say, the place is crowded and life for me is restrictive. For years my wife has asked if she could get...
A. 15 March 2012: Is a dog really worth leaving someone over?
In my book no. BUT I would tell your wife that on week-end SHE is responsible for getting the kids up and walk the dog. SHE made the choice to GET the darn yapper, she need to take the responsi... (read in full...)
Why is my ex acting this way?
Q. My boyfriend of two and a half years broke up with me almost three months ago. Sometimes I miss him other times I don't really care. In either case I don't want to lose him and I do want him back. We had a great relationship up until the last little ...
A. 14 March 2012: You should try and talk to him.
And honestly, stop sleeping with him it muddles the waters so much. You seem like you want a relationship with him, but you "allow" sex. Which makes it all so skewered.
I think he is seeing her to get over you.... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm cheating on my b/f because I'm attracted to another guy
Q. Hi, I've been with my boyfriend that I lost my virginity to for nearly 2 years. We've been rowing a lot lately but we always have rows. Lately I've been put into a paired group project with university and have been really getting along with this ...
A. 14 March 2012: Honestly, just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean you are only allowed to like one person.
However, I think you need to check your actions around this guy. Think of it this way, if your BF was in the room with you and your study pa... (read in full...)
Men won't stop treating my sister badly!
Q. Hello, I'm really worried about my sister. Shes been messed around by a couple of guys in the past and the guys that do have a relationship with her end up being not worth keeping on certain levels. The last two guys she really liked have been ...
A. 14 March 2012: She is attracted to a type of guys I think and since she keep sticking to that pattern she is going to keep getting the same kind of guy.
How is your/her relationship with your dad? I'm asking because little girls tend to look for guys who are ... (read in full...)
How can I show this girl that everything would work if she would bring our dating out into the open?
Q. Until recently I was dating a girl in secret for 5 years. She didnt want anyone to know because there was a 12 year age gap, and she was convinced everyone would make her end it. She is 27 now. After 5 years I wanted it to be out in the open as w...
A. 14 March 2012: Sounds to me like she used you for her benefit. How can you date anyone for THAT long and not want to share it with family and friends?
Next time try a real woman, not some selfish little brat.... (read in full...)
Pictures of my boyfriend with girls on his lap, trips to strip clubs and hanging out with wild girls.....I'm not happy about this, but he says I'm taking away his freedom!
Q. Hello everyone, i am facing an issue and i cant figure exactly whats the underlying cause. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years.And right now we are doing longdistance due to college.I love him a lot and he loves me too;however we are having s...
A. 14 March 2012: Try and ask him how he would feel if the shoe was on the other foot. What if... YOU posted pictures of great parties and hot dudes with hard bodies and you draped on their laps? How would he feel?
I don't think it just comes down to trust, t... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 14 March 2012: Why be with a man if you feel like he doesn't respect you? All I'm saying is you DON'T have to stay with him. You have choices.
... (read in full...)
Can 13 year-olds find a lasting relationship, or is this just puppy love?
Q. Ok... know a lot of you will disagree with my view on this but oh well...I'm 13, and I have a boyfriend of 8 months, we really get along and we have almost everything in common, he told me he loved me and I told him I loved him too but then i felt ...
A. 14 March 2012: Beat the odds? I would stop worrying about the future and enjoy the here and now. If it lasts forever, good for you two, if not, I'm sure you both will carry away a lot of fond memories and experiences.
Live life and enjoy life!... (read in full...)
Is it weird for a 16 year old to go out with a 20 year old?
Q. Hey im just wondering peoples opinions on this. Is it weird for a 20 year old to go out with a 16 year old?...
A. 14 March 2012: I don't really find it weird. Maturity wise you are about the same level. BUT..... experience wise you are not, so I do think you need to take it very very very slow if you DO want to date her and honestly, make sure her parents are OK with it.
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My boss is married. He rubs and pats me at work. What are your thoughts? He's older but attractive to me.
Q. I've been working at a local restaurant in my town for almost two months now. It's the first real job I've ever had. I've been recently getting vibes from my boss. Last week, we had a moment. The area behind the counter is very narrow. My co-wo...
A. 14 March 2012: You are having a crush on your boss, it's not uncommon specially if the guy is a total looker!
Just remember 2 things, he is married & your boss. Both things that spell disaster if you let it go further.
And you might want to nip the touchy s... (read in full...)
Gay but heartbroken over a girl?
Q. Hello there, I am a 23 years old gay male, well that's how i though myself to be since 10 y.o. (I am a straight looking gay though, so noone could ever guess without me telling it). But the problem is that from my 15 years I met this girl, who...
A. 14 March 2012: You have known her for 8 years and nothing happened between you, even with her having a crush, so obviously she knew you are gay and respect that.
She is a good friend, it's hard not to have feelings for people you care for, even if you don't wa... (read in full...)
How do I get over my younger FWB?
Q. I have left my 19 year old FWB and now I miss him more then ever. I have gone in a depression mode. At first it was just all for sex and then i started having feelings for him. I want a relationship with him but he doesnt. I really dont think he ...
A. 14 March 2012: You should take a good ling hard look at him and the way he treats women. Both you and his GF.
He sounds like a douchy fella.
Go out and find a real man, who knows how to treat a woman as more then a hole in the mattress...... (read in full...)
Is vasectomy really reversible?
Q. hey guys...i hope everyone is doing fine..i want to ask if a vasectomy can really be reversed? Like my bf had one and he doesnt have any kids..im just qurious if we will ever have our own one day if he says he is ready? I googled but im not ...
A. 14 March 2012: It really depends on several things, 1. how it was done and how long ago.
It seems a rather drastic surgery to have done, if you think you might change your mind in the future. Do you know why he chose to have it done?
I think you two need to ... (read in full...)
Pictures of my boyfriend with girls on his lap, trips to strip clubs and hanging out with wild girls.....I'm not happy about this, but he says I'm taking away his freedom!
Q. Hello everyone, i am facing an issue and i cant figure exactly whats the underlying cause. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years.And right now we are doing longdistance due to college.I love him a lot and he loves me too;however we are having s...
A. 14 March 2012: Sounds like he wants to do EVERYTHING a single guy can do, but have you as his GF and you.. of course should just swallow the whole "singles act".
Seems to me your BF is having a bit of "out of sight out of mind" attitude towards you. And that, is... (read in full...)
I told him I think he is cute, will he be happy about this? Or have I creeped him out like my friends said?
Q. So, I'm in highschool and have just started to grow a rather flirtatious streak(I never used to be really flirty but now I am) I met this one dude who I always thought was really cute but I never got the chance to talk to him before. But I w...
A. 14 March 2012: You told how what you thought, so don't feel bad. He might have been a little embarrassed, you know cute is for kitten, rainbows.... But I truly think if he was creeped out he would avoid you like the plague, and he isn't.
So just keep talking ... (read in full...)
I kissed a female friend jokingly, did I cheat?
Q. hi guys, Just a quick one really. I kissed my female friend when out as a joke. Does this consitute as cheating? I've never thought about it before until the topic popped up on TV. I have zero interest in girls and have never been sexual with o...
A. 14 March 2012: Nah, it was a joke. However, next time think first. Consider your actions. If you can do it in front of your BF (kiss a girl, how very Katy Perry of you lol) and he is OK with it, I wouldn't consider it cheating.
Was the other girl joking too? If ... (read in full...)
Right after he said he wanted a baby, his ex calls and says she's pregnant!
Q. I've been seeing this guy for exactly 5 weeks today. I like him, but I'm still feeling this one out. The other day, he tells me that he wants to have a baby. He's 10 years older than me, so I can understand that he wants to start a new chapter in...
A. 14 March 2012: First off, I don't care how much older he is, but I would not EVEN consider having kids with him yet. You have ONLY known him 5 weeks. It takes a lot longer to get to know someone good enough to decide having kids is the right thing.
Also,... (read in full...)
He had sex with his ex....we were seperated but neither of us had filed for divorce, so did he cheat on me?
Q. My husband and I were separated for a year. After the first 6 months we started to talk and go out to dinner and such. We do have a daughter together and we were only married a little over a year when we separated. We worked on things and he had ...
A. 14 March 2012: I would say yes, technically. However, from what I have seem many many people start to date/see other people during the time of separation, because they have a need to prove that "they still got it" or because they really don't want to be alone.
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My son's father walked out on us and my son has gone from being a sweet, innocent, clever child to an angry, resentful boy
Q. I have a serious problem thats ruining my life no end. Ive been a single mother(technically) for a couple of years now since my sons father decided todo a dissapearing act. I always managed to cover this up with a story about my sons father work...
A. 14 March 2012: My suggestions would be that you stop making up stories and excuses for his dad. The man abandoned him. Don't talk smack about his Dad either, but be honest with your son. If he asks where he dad is or why he left, be honest and tell him you don't ... (read in full...)
He asked to be my FWB, I turned him down because I want a relationship, then he claims to have feelings for his ex wife but got upset when he saw me kiss another man! What is going on?
Q. Hi everyone this is the situation, I met a man a year ago today, he had split from him wife nearly two year before we met. we agreed to take things slow then he asked me if we could be fwbs to which I told him no I want a proper relationship with ...
A. 14 March 2012: Sounds to me that he wants to be with you sexually and with anyone else he chooses (ex wife or whatnot) and that you are supposed to sit at the phone waiting for him....
He is a user.
I would forget his number and never text him again and mo... (read in full...)
How did the pill make her breasts bigger?
Q. My friend is 19 and has been taking the pill to make her breasts bigger. I thought this was a stupid idea since the pill doesn't do that and she isn't sexually active, so why bother? However, she has been taking it and they have gotten bigger be...
A. 13 March 2012: 1. she gained a little weight and/or the swelling from the progesterone. (some women also seem to retain more water when on the pill).
2. And no, the pill will work JUST fine if she takes them as directed, whether she has had sex or not.
... (read in full...)
What's the Best Way to Deal With my Wife's Conflict With Other Women in her "Social Group"??
Q. My wife moved to the U.S. from the Philippines about 10 years ago, and we've been married a couple years. She's in her mid 30s. She recently had a falling out with one of her Filipina "friends", and both of them seem to be escalating the s...
A. 13 March 2012: As I see it, there is only two things to do really.
1. tell her to GROW up.
2. tell her to go buy some boxing glove and meet her "fr-enemy" and duke it out.
It's absolutely ridiculous! I have seen it with Army wives and I have always backed... (read in full...)
His mum is upset because I gave him a hickey
Q. dear cupid my crush who i have known for a month now kissed me today we got really into it and i bit his neck and gave him a hickey by mistake. he went home called me and said his mom flipped out and shes very upset at him and he said he doesnt t...
A. 13 March 2012:
Did she know her son was gay? If not maybe it was bigger shock then the hickey.
Honestly though, hickeys are gross. ... (read in full...)
I would like my wife to share my sexual views
Q. I am a 45yr old male and think my my wife is not into sex. When we have sex its like a scheduled event and if I can not preform right, she says its ok maby next time.I am very sexual and like alot of stimulation in all my private parts but she will ...
A. 13 March 2012: Se should be about the both of you, not just you or just her.
Have a decent chat with her. Find ways to spice it up. I have to say if the sex have always been quite vanilla and clockwork like it's not surprisingly that she isn't too keen on stick... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to ignore his ex's pregnancy and marry me
Q. My boyfriend and I had a brief break up in January an during our break up he had a brief sexual encounter with a young woman (she is about 25) he is 49. He also has Bipolar 2. She is now pregnant. He says he does not want anyhting to do with her ...
A. 13 March 2012: I would be worried because what happens if YOU got pregnant? And the fact that gives doesn't give a darn about knocking some girl up.
A BABY - a little human being was created whether he likes it or not, it's part of him.
Honestly, I'd... (read in full...)
Hair extensions, whatever next?!
Q. I met this beautiful girl, she is laid back, funny, interesting, smart just a great girl! She has a great figure and is a natural beauty, unlike some the girls I see she doesn't look like she even has to try to look good. Well one thing about her ...
A. 13 March 2012: You are being a Goober!
Did you date her/like her for her hair or her? So if she wore a push up bra, but didn't have perky breasts that would be fake?
Now, she had told you OVER and OVER how she had this fantastic natural hair and THEN it turn... (read in full...)
Why did he delete me as a friend on Facebook when I got engaged? I want my friend back!
Q. Hi. I have been great friends (with a guy) for 13 year. We almost got together once when I was eighteen, but I decided against it because I didnt want to lose a friend if anything went wrong. He's in the navy but whenever he's back we would get ...
A. 13 March 2012: Eh, it's Facebook. Let it go. Maybe he'll come around, if not, then how good of a friend was he really to begin with?... (read in full...)
He will not marry me until I am submissive. What should I do?
Q. After a long four hours discussion with my man yesterday, I found out the reason he is having fear in proposing to me is because he feels I am somewhat of a dictator in a relationship. He feels like I like to be the man in the relationship. And he ...
A. 13 March 2012: Sounds totally dysfunctional, on both sides.... (read in full...)
I regret the awful texts I sent to this guy I like, while I was drunk. Do I have any chance of working things out with him?
Q. I did an awful thing last night. I got drunk, I'm sorry HAMMERED and decided to text mean things to a boy that I really like. We met last weekend and we've been communicating via text message and were planning on seeing each other soon. ...
A. 12 March 2012: I think you blew it too. Being drunk is just not a good enough excuse to go off on a guy thru texting.
Sorry.. and no more drunk texting.. not nicely, naughty or mean, OK?... (read in full...)
Is it bad if he doesn't get jealous?
Q. My boyfriend of 10 months never gets jealous, and I don't understand why. I ask him this everynow and then but I try not to get into it because i would rather him be un-jealous like then super crazy jealous. We have a very close relationship so I ...
A. 12 March 2012: No there is nothing wrong with him (or you) that is just not a major part of his personality. Doesn't mean he loves you less.... (read in full...)
How do you deal with a partner's thick pre-ejaculate?
Q. Hello all and thanks for reading :) I've given my new partner oral sex in the shower and in bed, but it was after having made love already earlier that evening. However, most recently, we were getting into the mood, lots of foreplay, so I too...
A. 12 March 2012: Feed him load of pineapple and mango and he will taste better.
If the pre-cum is too thick and (well let's be honest) icky, don't swallow it just wipe it off, drink some water and continue.
... (read in full...)
My current boyfriend wants me to delete FB pictures of my ex and I! Should I do this or not?
Q. My boyfriend feels uncomfortable seeing videos and just a handful of pics on my Facebook page of my ex boyfriend, it's vids and pictures of him and a few if my friends hanging out and normal pictures of me and him.. He's asked me previous times to ...
A. 12 March 2012: I don't think Facebook is the place to display your past relationships to be totally honest.
I agree with saving them to a flash drive or upload to photobucket/flickr and removing them from FB.
I don't think he is being controlling, tho... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to be upset about the fact that my girlfriend still keeps photos of her boyfriend who died 12 years ago?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for three years. She kept photos up of her and her deceased boyfriend (posed together) who died 12 years ago. We had none of us. After we had been togehter 2 years, I mentioned that I felt that she was living in ...
A. 12 March 2012: Honestly, I'm ALL for having memories and mementos from the past but, if it is YOUR home (as in both of yours) then her pictures of her dead ex needs to go. If it is HER house then I would be miffed, but since it's her house I'm not going to tell ... (read in full...)
What is too much when it comes to checking up on your man?
Q. Ladies: do you check up on your man? If so, how much and to what extent? I'm asking because I'm wondering what is "normal" when you are in an exclusive boyfriend/girlfriend relationship like I am. Do you check his cell phone every once in awhile? ...
A. 12 March 2012: I don't check up on my husband. He is a grown ass man! And I'm not his momma!
If I felt a need to snoop there would have to be a pretty good reason for me to do so, as in, he had broken trust.
I seriously think that if you feel a need to "... (read in full...)
I pushed him for comittment and he made his excuses, now I find pictures of nude girls on his phone!
Q. I have been seeing a guy for a few months, at first everything seemed great until he started acting strange disappearing not calling as much, texting ppl late etc... When I started pushing commitment he started saying I have too many make friends ...
A. 12 March 2012: Dirty dog, drop him. ... (read in full...)
Why do people think my relationship will end? She is my first and last love!
Q. Hi everyone, I wanted to know about love. Why does everyone say its my first love so I am very passionate about her(by the way her name is may). I love her very deeply from my heart and will do anything for her. I would give my life if I have to ...
A. 12 March 2012: Don't worry what other think and say. Live and be happy.
Maybe it will last, maybe it won't - all you can do it give it your all and enjoy the ride.
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Should I write him? Would he really call me a drama queen if I told my real feelings?
Q. my ex(x) and I broke up nearly 3 years ago we were only 16 and I was always jealous and he got drunk one night and kissed another chick and broke up. I wanted him back but the following months he just used me to make out but he wanted another chic...
A. 12 March 2012: Honestly, I would write him a letter on paper, write it all down and then... BURN it. That way you got it all out but without involving him in how you feel. He is an ex, a thing of the past. You have both grown (hopefully) and it' time to let the ... (read in full...)
If your partner watches porn is it natural to get turned off and start looking elsewhere?
Q. My partner watches porn and masturbates. I have found that this has turned me off of him both sexually and emotionally. My question is this: If it is just natural for men to look at other women and have urges towards them, is it just as...
A. 29 February 2012: For you him looking at porn is an act of betrayal? (just trying to clarify)
I don't think it's uncommon that women dislike porn as much as many men like porn. I don't give a flying spatula that "men are visual creatures blah blah blah) because ... (read in full...)
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