Recently I've become fearful that I would cheat if I were in a relationship!
Q. Hello DC, So I have something that I've been thinking about a lot recently. So at the moment I'm a single 20 year old guy. Not bothered by being single as at sometimes I'm glad of it, others not. But I recently became a little fearful at the t...
A. 13 April 2012: Then stay single, my friend.
Date girls but don't get into a relationship til you met "that" one girl who makes you forget all about cheating.
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Do I confront my wife about her cheating or just file for a divorce?
Q. i have discovered that my wife of six years is having an online affair,as if thats not bad enough the third party involved mentions in his emails about my children being as his own children and says they will all be together as a new family soon,i ...
A. 13 April 2012: Take copies of all the e-mails back and forth. And then go find the most kickass lawyer you can find. If you have any proof of prior violence from her side, bring that too.
I would NOT confront her, YOU know she is cheating, SHE knows she is cheat... (read in full...)
My boyfriend smacks other girls butts and lies about it!
Q. Okay my boyfriend is really sweet but he keeps smacking other girls butts and he lies everytime i bring it up what should i do? I have been going out with him for 5 months and i don't want to lose him. Please answer this...
A. 13 April 2012: He sounds creepy, why so insistent on "keeping" him?... (read in full...)
One too many gay children in the family?
Q. Hi, I'm a gay girl, who is absolutely petrified to come out to her family or friends. My brother is gay and my family are totally fine with it but i can't build up the courage to tell them as i'm scared they wont accept having two gay children...
A. 13 April 2012: You got it lucky in a way. Your brother was accepted and so will you. Look at it this way, he kind of paved the way for you.
We have an friend, he has 3 sons with 2 different women. They are ALL gay. And all accepted.
You got to be who you ar... (read in full...)
Am I right to feel upset with my 'cousin'?
Q. Why is she behaving this way? I'm I right to feel upset? My dads distance relative. I call her my cousin. We were really close when we were young. But now were all grown ups now and were not close anymore. We hardly ever talk. I told one of o...
A. 13 April 2012: You don't have to serve food at her wedding if you don't want to if she asks tell her to bugger off.
If she doesn't want to recognize you as family, stop calling her a cousin. She doesn't deserve a "family title".
I would also stop talking abo... (read in full...)
I arranged to go away with husband but now he is hedging about me going!
Q. Several months ago my husband invited me to attend an out of town meeting with him, in another city for a week. He has invited me lots of times because it's like a mini-vacation. I enjoy the hotel gym, the pool, and go shopping while he's in ...
A. 13 April 2012: I'd sit him and and tell him how it makes you feel.
The fact that he chose to take HER out for lunch instead of you is a big red flag.... (read in full...)
Fiance owes too much money to ex and expects me to pay. How much is too much?
Q. Problems..... My fiancee (50) has just been served with a bill of $30,000 that he owed his ex on their divorce some 9 years ago. Due to ill health and circumstances he has not paid her and now she is peruing it.Their son of 15, visits in holidays ...
A. 12 April 2012: LOL I agree Cindy! A POOL boy would be a lot cheaper, and that is including building the pool!... (read in full...)
How do I end things with my friend with benefits?
Q. Hi everyone this is a bit complicated my fwb lives 1 minute away from me its how we met by living in the same place I have met a man who knows my fwb and they cannot stand each other this man I met wants to come to mine he doesn't know that me ...
A. 12 April 2012: Just call or text your FWB and tell him I can't do the FWB any more since I have met a guy I want a REAL relationship with. You don't OWE the FWB guy anything.
Just be honest.... (read in full...)
My hair is falling out and its really getting to me
Q. I'm 23 and have been losing my hair for about a year. I'm very paranoid. I used to have the barber thin my hair out because it was so thick and now its thin to the point of seeing my scalp. I had been losing hair around my temples for a few years ...
A. 12 April 2012: I would suggest you talk to your doctor. There are many reasons for hair loss and not all of them result in baldness ( genetic aside).
There are various product that might help you, but they are by prescription only, like PROPECIA.
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Should I press charges because she uploaded a photo of us on facebook?
Q. Hi. I'm new, here. Last week, I have had a photograph of me with a female friend. I thought she would NOT post the photograph on the internet. However, just yesterday, I check her Facebook, just to see her photo album, as she mentionned a nea...
A. 12 April 2012: Tell her nicely to take the picture down. If she doesn't contact Facebook and they will do it for you.
Why so sue-happy?
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Event Etiquette Help Please! Husbands event vs. Baby shower?
Q. I'm in a slight bind here. Looking for some wisdom regarding event etiquette. Ok, which event should i attend? My fiance and I area marrying in September. Part of the premarital requirement is going through the sacrament of confirmation which ...
A. 12 April 2012: I agree that old fashioned etiquette would state you attend the baby shower, but... I think it is more important to be at your husband's confirmation.
Tell your friend your soon to be husband is a knucklehead. And drop by with a present for the ... (read in full...)
Can the depo shot stop my cycle the first month?
Q. My question is in regaurds to the depo shot. I recieved the shot march 16th shortly after my cycle. I was told to wait only a week before having sex by my doctor and the nurse practictioner that gave me the shot. I was also told it can eventually ...
A. 12 April 2012: Yes Depo shot can mess up your normal cycle, but it should go back to normal. I would suggest that you don't just wait a week but use condoms for at least 3 months til your body has accepted the hormones from Depo.... (read in full...)
She has thin hair and I'm worried that she might go bald!
Q. So I've been dating this lovely girl for 2 months now. she's so wonderful and i absolutely adore her. But there's one small,superficial issue that i hate myself for caring so much about. The girl's got some thin hair and i can see some of her ...
A. 12 April 2012: I'm guessing she has light and very fine hair. And I doubt she will go bald.
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Fiance owes too much money to ex and expects me to pay. How much is too much?
Q. Problems..... My fiancee (50) has just been served with a bill of $30,000 that he owed his ex on their divorce some 9 years ago. Due to ill health and circumstances he has not paid her and now she is peruing it.Their son of 15, visits in holidays ...
A. 12 April 2012: I will agree with Auntie BimBim again.
NO, he should pay for all his PAST DEBTS on his own. If his own little self made company isn't bringing in the money he needs, maybe getting second job is what he needs to do.
The guy is 50! for crying o... (read in full...)
How can I permanently be with my lover?
Q. Ive been married for 22 years and got 3 kids (grown up now tho), ive been having an affair for the past 7 years with a man i love very very much, he is married and has 1 grown up daughter. We want to be together but we havent a clue what to do or ...
A. 12 April 2012: I agree with Auntie BimBim YOU want out of the marriage YOU leave. Are you saying you think your husband should finance your and your new lover? Pay your rent?
Get a job, pay your own way. ... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to have sex with another man, but he doesn't want to watch, he just wants me to tell him about it. What is this called?
Q. Can someone please tell me... " my husband wants me to have sex with another man, he does not want to watch but he wants me to tell him about it" What is this called? ...
A. 10 April 2012: Well it could be:
Narratophilia: Telling dirty stories is sexually arousing.
o perhaps:
Cuckholding ?
Sorry for double post btw.. I seem to stutter today.... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to have sex with another man, but he doesn't want to watch, he just wants me to tell him about it. What is this called?
Q. Can someone please tell me... " my husband wants me to have sex with another man, he does not want to watch but he wants me to tell him about it" What is this called? ...
A. 10 April 2012: Well it could be:
Narratophilia: Telling dirty stories is sexually arousing.
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How do you end things when the other person is ignoring you?
Q. Last August my boyfriend of 5 years just uppin left me .. 3 days later I got a text message saying he was moving out and we were done. Then 3 days after that he was seen with a new girl at work. That ended about a month later. And we started talking ...
A. 10 April 2012: There you go, you set yourself FREE.
His loss, honey
Move on!... (read in full...)
Can it be harmful to have sex during a period?
Q. So..me and my girlfriend had sex while she was on her period. ( please don't judge) I was wondering if this was bad in any kind of way? Like can it harm our bodies and stuff like that. Thank You...
A. 10 April 2012: Get some sex ed. And use condoms. Pretty simple.... (read in full...)
How do I rise above this and accept my sister's boyfriend?
Q. Hi All. Okay so my problem is as follows: My sister and I are very close. I'm younger so I am or rather was given a lot of love and attention. (i'm 21) We have so much fun together; we fight, laugh, travel together etc...You get the pictu...
A. 10 April 2012: Honey, it's NORMAL when people get more serious in a relationship that they go though periods where they just absorbed in each other. It strengthens the bond between them.
She doesn't LOVE you any less, then she did before. But she is slowly t... (read in full...)
Only been together 4 days but I think he doesn't like me anymore! Help!
Q. Well I am only 13 but my boyfriend and I have only been together for 4 days and I feel like he doesn't like me any more, he doesn't reply to my text's and when he does he just put's like 'k' or 'what'. When I say to him I love him he just put's back ...
A. 10 April 2012: Maybe he liked the "idea" of a girlfriend but not really having a girlfriend.
And honey, 4 days is a little soon to declare "love" to someone, specially at your age.
You guys are 13, SLOW down, get to know him and NOT via text.
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She was a virgin when she met me but had dated a guy before me, I get so jealous because of this! Am I wrong? What should I do?
Q. I'm 5 years of marriage and i am my wife's first man, she was virgin before me i wasn't. The fact is she used to date a guy by distance and we have a lovely friend who is this guy parent! I get jealous everytime we have to go to a child party or to ...
A. 10 April 2012: I agree with your wife.
that she choose me instead of him, she loves me, she wants me, keep me asking why i don't trust her, i should trust her!
Get over it. They "dated" 3 months long distance, obviously it wasn't LOVE for either of them. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex is telling their children she won't be their mom if they talk to me
Q. Hiya, hope you can help me cos I am torn here... I have been with my fella for 9 months, very happy togeether and planning our future together. However, he has 2 wonderful children who I adore and they like me. However his ex is tearing me apart...
A. 10 April 2012: If he can't won't step up for you I would not stay. Does he think you should just stay with him and take the abuse from the ex? Over and over?
Have you sat him down and ASKED him how you are supposed to deal with her?
As for the Facebook.. W... (read in full...)
B/f doesn't know that I can get into his facebook and see him flirting with his ex
Q. hello i really need some help please. so im dating my boyfriend for ten months now. we're both eighteen. well one of his ex's added him on facebook a few months ago. well now he goes on everyday and talks to her. he lies to me saying he's talking to ...
A. 10 April 2012: You say you can't tell him because he will change his password? Well, what do you think you should do?
Should YOU be snooping and making yourself miserable EVERY DAY? Or confront him?
Why do you try to hold on to a relationship tha... (read in full...)
Can you have a 'mid-life crisis' at 19?
Q. Is my friend going though a breakdown, or some sort of life crisis judging by her behaviour. She's only 19, turning 20 in four months but she's been acting really different! We already have active social lives, but now when she's out, she's more ...
A. 10 April 2012: I don't think it's a crisis at all. I think she got hit with Spring. Could be that she is manic depressive though, they tend to go from being deep down depressed to over the top happy go lucky out there.
Or it could just be that she has figured ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with mummy's boy?
Q. Hi guys, I'm really struggling with this situation and could do with some advice. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 26. I love him dearly, but it seems he is a lot more concerned with worrying about and fussing over his mum than he is with building a ...
A. 10 April 2012: Honey, he isn't going to change. THIS is who he is. He might actually one day GROW UP and move out, but for now he and his family has this mutual loving & enabling thing going on. His first priority is his family I really don't see that changing at ... (read in full...)
Me, him, his baby and the baby momma
Q. I was in a relationship in my late teens with a man ten years older than me that i met on the internet. He was actually my first serious relationship even though it was on those circumstances. We had a pretty decent relationship no lies, no issues. ...
A. 10 April 2012: Is he still with her? Or did she leave? Because that actually makes a big difference.
If he is still with her, I would back the heck up. Because he needs to FOCUS on his baby and GF, not some former LDR GF (you)
If he is NOT with her, well, ... (read in full...)
I slept with my husband's friend. I don't know what to do now
Q. I have been married for six years to my husband and we have had problems in our marriage, i was starting to feel unsecure because everytime we fought he would threaten to leave. I started to get to know my husbands friend and felt he was attractive, ...
A. 10 April 2012: Sleeping with someone else doesn't fix your marriage. And having two guys when you are married is not going to work. So YOU will have to decide WHO you want to be with and work on that.
You will have to tell your husband. Because when you sleep wi... (read in full...)
Husband wants me to have sex with another man, but he doesn't want to watch, he just wants me to tell him about it. What is this called?
Q. Can someone please tell me... " my husband wants me to have sex with another man, he does not want to watch but he wants me to tell him about it" What is this called? ...
A. 10 April 2012: Um, setting you up so he can cheat himself?
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Is my high sex drive normal for a 47 year old male?
Q. I'm a 47 year old male and I've been seeing the same girl for about four years now. It seems as if my sex drive is only increasing in intensity, although I have always had a high sex drive. Is this normal for a man my age? We have sex about 2...
A. 9 April 2012: Does your GF complain, if not I really wouldn't worry.
2-4 per week doesn't seem extreme for someone in their 40's.... (read in full...)
How do I become a jerk to attract girls?
Q. what does it take to get a gf? im honest, nice, smart and above average looking. i am 16 but it seems that guys who are jerks usually attract girls attention. How do i do that?...
A. 9 April 2012: Don't try and be a jerk. Be who you are. The jerks might get a girl now, but down the road, they can't hold on to them for long.
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Am I being petty over my husband's friend?
Q. Hello! So my husband and I were separated for three months and have decided to work things out. While we were separated he was seeing a lady who works in his building. They would go out and hang out and what not. I don't have a problem with tha...
A. 9 April 2012: So since your husband answers her e-mail neither of then are respecting you, really. Now what she does is kind of out of your control (and I don't blame you for being mad at her or angry with her lack of respect and morals), but.... I think you ... (read in full...)
Am I being petty over my husband's friend?
Q. Hello! So my husband and I were separated for three months and have decided to work things out. While we were separated he was seeing a lady who works in his building. They would go out and hang out and what not. I don't have a problem with tha...
A. 9 April 2012: Do you know for a fact that your husband told her no contact or did he TELL you that to placate you and get some peace and quiet?
He might have told I can't SEE you anymore because I'm trying to work it out with my wife, might not have said, do... (read in full...)
Why does sex hurt when he's on top?
Q. I lost my virginity recently and i have had sex twice with me on top.It didnt hurt then but yesterday i tried to have sex with my boyfriend on top and it hurt a lot!.Why did that happen and how can we make it comfortable with him on top?...
A. 9 April 2012: Could be he is hitting your cervix when he is on top. Could be that you aren't "lubricated" or aroused enough .
If it hurt try another position. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my #1 guy about my 'stalker'?
Q. So, I'm dating a guy, it's been only two weeks and I really like him, I would love to be his girlfriend one day. But, there's this other guy who's been almost stalking me since I broke up with an exboyfriend almost two months ago. I finally accepted ...
A. 9 April 2012: I don';t understand why you even bothers with this guy, so he brought flowers and chocolate, who cares, should jsut have told him, Dude, I am not interested, have a nice life and told him to take his flowers and candy and go home.
I'm sorry bu... (read in full...)
My mom thinks my boyfriend is sponging off of me and doesn't want me to help him
Q. My mum shouted at me yesterday because i told her that i was going to take some food to my boyfriend's house. It was only a pizza, and it only cost £1. She said my boyfriend was scrounging off me ( or sponging off me ). She was supposed to give me a ...
A. 9 April 2012: How the heck is 40 or 50p or a £1, going to help him out if he has financial problems? and how many times does he as for 40 or 50p or a £1 a week? Add them up. I'm betting it comes to a much larger number then you think. Also WHAT does he need the ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and I fancy my woodshop teacher!
Q. I'm 13 and I do woodwork in school. It's very hard,and the teacher lets me away with EVERYTHING!I take out my phone in class,and he doesn't mind. I walk around the classroom all the time and I never do my work! And I didn't do my homework,and ...
A. 9 April 2012: You are 13, it's called a crush.
He is not blushing out of feelings for you, he is blushing because he got caught being CREEPY!
He sounds downright disgusting. Old PERV!... (read in full...)
Why do older men go for younger girls?
Q. Can you guys answer me my question. Why does older guys go for younger girls? I am with someone who is 7 year older than me he is 27, 28 this year. We have had so many complications with our relationship. I just sometimes think to myself no wonder ...
A. 9 April 2012: Cerberus, I didn't say younger women WERE less hassle just that some guys tend to think they are :)
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What should I do with my hands during foreplay?
Q. During foreplay, what are some things I can do with my hands? I feel like I always just run my hands through his hair lol, and not much else. What are some ways I can touch a guy that will drive him crazy?...
A. 9 April 2012: Here is a nice link with some of the male erogenous zones to give you a little inspiration :
http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/9-surprising-male-erogenous-zones-2423108.html... (read in full...)
He doesn't want me for anything other than sex. How do I end things gently?
Q. Hi everyone I really need help with this situation I have been sleeping with a man for over a year now I really like him he told me we were just taking things slowly but now I finally aksed him what was going on with us he said it is just sex so I ...
A. 9 April 2012: Just tell him it's over. No need for kid gloves , he obviously don't give a rats ass about your feelings so why should you care for his?
And there is NO need to keep in touch with him, honey. He will not magically figure out that you are the love... (read in full...)
I'm insecure because I'm not the hot blonde but a short Asian!
Q. So lately alot of people have been saying im pretty or beautiful. But i just pass it off thinking theyre just saying that because they feel bad for me, theyre my friends, or theyre my family. Whenever i look in the mirror at myself i dont see the ...
A. 9 April 2012: So_Very_Confused is totally right.
Sometimes the "hot" girls are called hot because they put out, but people do not think nicely of them.
Be who you are, be proud of who you are.
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How do you end things when the other person is ignoring you?
Q. Last August my boyfriend of 5 years just uppin left me .. 3 days later I got a text message saying he was moving out and we were done. Then 3 days after that he was seen with a new girl at work. That ended about a month later. And we started talking ...
A. 9 April 2012: So_Very_Confused is right.
Pack his stuff put it outside your door, send him a text and tell him where he can pick it up. Then you block his number ( sometimes you have to pay to block but some phones have a free app for it as well so google y... (read in full...)
Am I being petty over my husband's friend?
Q. Hello! So my husband and I were separated for three months and have decided to work things out. While we were separated he was seeing a lady who works in his building. They would go out and hang out and what not. I don't have a problem with tha...
A. 9 April 2012: I think just like Auntie So_very_confused and Uncle Cerberus said, you are misdirecting your anger.
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Why do older men go for younger girls?
Q. Can you guys answer me my question. Why does older guys go for younger girls? I am with someone who is 7 year older than me he is 27, 28 this year. We have had so many complications with our relationship. I just sometimes think to myself no wonder ...
A. 9 April 2012: I think there are a myriad of answer to that question.
It depends on the guy of course, but also some of it is pure instinct - younger woman - more fertile - less hassle - less demands and on top of that it makes the guys feel "wiser" and "smarter... (read in full...)
How can I permanently be with my lover?
Q. Ive been married for 22 years and got 3 kids (grown up now tho), ive been having an affair for the past 7 years with a man i love very very much, he is married and has 1 grown up daughter. We want to be together but we havent a clue what to do or ...
A. 8 April 2012: I can't see the hard part either. Grow a backbone, divorce the spouses, move out. Start over.
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